Thanks for sound advice from all,

it's very much appreciated.

"I think you are setting yourself up for a world of hurt. But if you do get hurt,

find a way to channel that pain into...

"And to

think many in britain want out of Europe. Bad call, I think."

Amen! That kind of "We're British,

we're too good for the rest of the world" attitude it one of the reasons I've...

Good points all, and well

made.

Two people made points that well illustrate what I'm thinking:

"On the other hand, if you can

survive this, you can survive (almost) anything..."

I'm paying some money out to help

her in NZ because under UK law, she could quite easily sting me for half of everything I own, even though we never

married. That would cost me to the tune of...

I'm interested in knowing a little more of your

thinking here. As a more laid back person, I wass worried about the effects of -none on other men around, and my

ability to deal with that....

Sorry, should have mentioned age -

I'm 23, but probably low on hormones/pheramones as I've always been non-aggressive and somewhat feminine. (Jesus

that sounds bad.)

Cheers for the...

Trouble is that if she's forced to

make that desicion, she will choose to stay with him. That means I won't be able to go either, and I'll be stuck

in a mundane job in a dead end town full of...

Hi,

I'm a newbie

to the 'mones thing, and I'm seeking a little advice on an interesting situation. I suspect I'm going to get

flamed for the apparent stupidity of this situation, but here...