nice guys vs jerks, there's more to life than this

As generalizations go, I think that\'s a good one re women and men/goal directedness, which is kind of my point. Stop and smell the flowers, relax. Maybe some women don\'t want to have sex with you but still enjoy your company or admire you as a male and want approving interaction with you (flirting) - why would you withhold that? I don\'t understand why it wouldn\'t give you pleasure even if it didn\'t lead to sex.

I do understand if you\'re talking about a girl who teases while using you for dinners, or to help her move, or for whatever services you can provide, and then gets coy when you want to take it to the next level. But someone who just wants to flirt -- it\'s fun, Watcher -- it\'s an art form, something that can just make you happy. No?

also: flirting to flirt

it\'s like sex. sometimes the goal isn\'t orgasm. sometimes it\'s just for good sensations!

\"Even when sex is bad, it\'s still good.\"

That can be applied to flirting, although to a lesser degree. [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/smile.gif[/img]

Do you ever sleep?