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Last night I
brought a girl home. On the way to the bedroom I realized my nightstand was covered w/ bottles, droppers gel packs,
ect. I distracted her w/ the dog and flew upstairs to hide the evidence. I'm sure there would have been questions
had she seen them. I was just wondering if anyone has ever been busted using mones. :smite:
Can't say I have, but
what's the big deal? I compare pheromones to make up for women: It doesn't do magic, but it improves your
appearance and helps bring out a better you.
In a way you are correct, but be assured mostQuote:
Originally Posted by Iaskalotof?'s
of the women I know keep the anti-wrinkle creams, heavy concealers, etc well hidden.
It's assumed one uses
makeup, colognes, other grooming products etc. (including hair dye, wigs, tooth veneers), to "improve" one's looks,
but it's not something one "admits" to except in private conversations.
Much is a game to make oneself look as
good as possible while also "looking natural." The best makeup is the makeup no one knows you are wearing.
Pheromones are indeed similar. Enhancements. But not "admitted" to. It seems to be part of human nature to want to
be "fooled." "Do whatever you want to make things look good, just don't tell me..." We are willing to be fooled by
the illusion, just as long as no one tell us how the trick works.
Rbt, your comparison to make-up
is logical, but I don't think most ppl will put make-up and mones in the same category.
While make-up is so common
that you can see it in any house with a girl living in it, mones aren't so.
And since its not common, i think ppl
will tend to see it as a bit of magic. If I were to date a girl which i was extremely attracted to her, and after
some time (say a month) I found out she were mones, and that's why I'm (possibly) attracted to her - that will get
a much higher reaction from me then if I found out she wore makeup all this time.
Wouldn't you feel the same?
I've mentioned mone use to women
many times and most reactions were strongly negative: loser, cheater, perv to invitation for a lawsuit. Trying to
explain how they work and that freewill is still intact is largely a waste of time and will only reveal you as a
hardened mone user. So, yeah, I'd advise caution until you know they can be trusted.
The main point I'm making is here is that (most) "everybody"Quote:
Originally Posted by mc2006
uses enhancers when it comes to relationships, whether it be makeup or pheromones. The thing is admitting it.
Supposedly everyone is just a "natural" beauty (makeup) or chemically "well balanced" (pheromones), at least that's
the illusion. We all pretty much "know" that in reality most women (and some men) "cheat" a little with grooming
products, but we all sorta ignore it.
Now pheromones are a little more highly "charged" than makeup, partially
due to the Hollywood portrayals (as in Ocean's 11) so they are a little more "touchy." Maybe something that's
willfully totally ignored and or best left as a deep dark secret (what you don't know about/what they don't know
about never becomes an "issue").
It may not be a big deal to have a table with "common" makeup on it in a
girl's room, but in terms of pheormones, having a table full of pheromones sitting on a table in view of all
especially on an early encounter may be a bit more unexpected and cause more uneasyness. So maybe it's something
that remains "unsaid" and unrevealed. At least until a relationship gets on more permanent ground, and you can feel
confident that your pheromone use won't be a deal breaker.
Plus, let's say you go to visit a girl and one her
nightstand is a pile of cosmetics that look like they are out of a Hollywood special effects shop. It might get you
to wondering just what she's trying to hide. Maybe that cute sweet face you are seeing is just latex and makeup and
underneath... well...
:rofl:
I dated her...ONCE!!! Under theQuote:
Originally Posted by Rbt
latex was :eek:
Hey buster, I hope you're not talking about that one date withQuote:
Originally Posted by belgareth
my sister. :smite:
Seriously, the only two women I've told about my -Mone use were completely fascinated and
wanted to know more. They did not mind at all what was going on, and were curious about when they were being
"Moned".
IDesign, can you tell a bit
about your relationship with those women? I'm guessing Gegogi revealed the mones thing to girls he was hitting on,
on the first time they saw him, while you knew those 2 girls quite some time. Am I right?
Actually I talked to all sorts of women about it, including women I had been dating a coupleQuote:
Originally Posted by mc2006
months, but never someone I just met or was hitting on. Sure a few were intrigued, some mildly interested but most
were negative about covert use--felt it somehow violated them.
Correct. I'd be very unlikely to reveal such personal things to anyone who I did not know prettyQuote:
Originally Posted by mc2006
well. Or at least well enough to know they'd be cool about it. Who needs the hassle?
I don't think I'd conceal the
mones if I were you. While I do not advertise that I use them, they are out in the open in the bathroom if anybody
wants to look. If somebody has a problem with it I view it as their problem and don't especially care. They can
accept me as I come or not at all. You'd be surprised how often that attitude keeps people from saying much about
things. I keep my friends and relationships but by setting rules I rarely have to be concerned about gossip type
nonsense like that.
I actually had a situation where I
had a girl I really fancy back at my place and we got pretty drunk. She eventually passed out in my bed so I did the
gentlemanly thing and took the couch. In the morning after she'd left I realised all my products were sitting on my
chest of drawers at the foot of my bed, and they'd been moved around slightly. So I'm guessing she had a little
rifle through them at some point. Never said anything to me about it tho.
People snoop, that's all there
is to it. But most often they'll never admit it. If you are shy about your mone use you should keep them put
away.
Some years ago, I had just purchased a new house and had a party to show it off. My sisters are all
horrible busy bodies and snoop endlessly. To teach them about snooping in my house, I filled the medicine cabinet in
the downstairs bathroom with marbles rigged so they would all come tumbling out when the cabinet was opened. My
older sister was thoroughly embarrassed and everybody else had a good laugh.
The moral is, snooping is bad, have
fun making it embarrassing and people will do it less often.
Nah I'm not shy about it. I don't
exactly talk about it but if someone were to ask me I wouldn't lie. Just thought it was quite funny that all the
little bottles were subtly rearranged :)
Hahaaa, made me laugh:D:DQuote:
I filled the medicine
cabinet in the downstairs bathroom with marbles rigged so they would all come tumbling out when the cabinet was
opened
The use of mones just seems a
bit taboo. I agree w/ Bel in that if the have a problem w/ it so what? The girl I'm seeing now wouldn't care about
the mones so it's not a big deal. If I was going for a quick romp in the hay I wouldn't mention it but if it seems
like an LTR is in the works you might as well get it out in the open. :blink: I'll have to remember the marbles in
the medicene cabinet....too funny:rofl::rofl:
My two best female friends
know I've dabbled in them but they don't seems to really care. LOL.
-The Bat