Another Newbie and beginning with pheromones.
Hey everyone, I've visited these boards for a few months now and have read various success stories,
product reviews, etc.
I'm 18 years old, about 6ft 1" tall,
average body weight, straight, etc. As far as my
confidence level with women, I am generally flirtatious and talkative once I get to know the girl, but the problem
is initiating that first contact, and this is where I thought pheromones might give me that boost.
I ordered
the Beginner Special pack a few months ago, and never really devoted to testing it out, being it was summer, didn't
have a job, or school, thus no real opportunities to try it on a consistent basis.
Needless to say, I now have
a job at the library. All my coworkers that work in my department are either high school or college students, thus
ages around 16-20, and we get numerous amount of attractive women in that age group as well coming to the library.
Also I started classes as my local junior college which has women from ages 18 to about 22-23.
Now that I feel
there are more opportunities to try this out, I'm going to give it a shot.
Yesterday, I mixed some of the musk
oil and TE in the atomizer in equal amounts and put some on my wrists and neck. I didn't notice any hits, or at
least really obvious ones.
In regarding TE, I have a question regarding the smell. Back when I tried it the first
time a few months ago, I sprayed a bit on my wrists and noticed the extremely strong smell. Now to apply it, I
actually fold up a tissue, give it a squirt or two and then I use that to lightly swab my wrists and neck.
The
question comes in at is how far am I supposed to be able to smell it from. Prior to covering it with my own cologne,
I can smell it on my wrists but only if my nose is about 1-2" away. If I'm just standing or sitting, I cannot tell
its even on as far as the smell. Am I not suppose to be able to smell it at all even at close distances, or would
you say what I'm experiencing is average.
Anywho, tonight I have work and I plan on using the Perception gel
pack that came in my Beginners kit, and tomorrow I'll give the SOE packet a go for school.
Also, any advice on
recommended products for my age group would be great. I read in another post that SOE is great for my age. I have a
feeling, but no real reason, that TE might be a little strong or not that effective for my age.
Well I'll give
Perception a chance tonight and post back with any results, or lack there of tonight.
Thanks everyone.
Just a few more advise and tips
I'd say the reply above me is almost full - so I recomend you learn from it and use his advice :POKE:
:angel:
Furthermore, being a 23 year old myself (started using `mones at about the age of 20), and having about
the same age range of wanted targets to attrack (ages 18-25... I'm guess you want the 16-23)... I can advise from
experience that SOE IS probably gonna do you good hehe.
I would recommend you try it alone at first, and
after a while of getting use to recognizing the reactions and results it gives you - try adding just a tad of TE to
the mix.
You should be aware that when people here say they mix `mones, they may mean one of two things:
1) Some people mix just as you said you do - in an atomizer or a similar bottle-type-thing. [though I would advise
you not to put that oil 50%-50% with TE, but rather put less TE in the mix]
2) Some people (I myself usually
choose this way), mix `mone products by distributing a certain amount of one product on specific parts of their
body, then smearing it around, rubbing it in, or using any other methd to distribut the product in as even a way as
possible through the selected part of their body (wrists, neck, jaw, jaw-line, hip-sides, etc. etc.), and then
putting a different `mone-product on a different (or sometimes over the same) parts of their body... and then
covering it all up with their favorite cologne.
Those are the two methods of mixing I know :)
I don't think
putting the `mone-product on a tissue is such a good idea. I might be wrong on this one but it seems to me like a
waste of good TE. Just spray it on one wrist and spread it over the other wrist as well using the method of rubbing
both wrists on each other. Or... just do what I do and take the sprayer top off and dub the TE. Although with SOE
you're not going to have that problem as it has a roller top on it and you just measure it in inches and that's it
:p
In addition to all that advise, I want to give you my own personal advise. I have a favorite mix. Now
one persons' favorite mix doesn't necessarily have to be anothers' favorite too. But as we are at the same age
range and when I started here I didn't see many at this age around the forums, I figure this mix might be of use
for you.
Don't use it at first - just start with SOE as a standalone (with maybe a cover cologne if you
want).
When you feel you're ready - try it on. It may be good for you to use a little bit less TE than I do on my
mix... just a little bit less :angel:
It's a mix similar to "DD Lite" (which you will later on get to
know... just keep reading ;)). You can see my favorite mix in the green text
in this post (click here).
Now I've
mentioned "DD Lite", and you probably asked yourself what it means, right?
Well it's a name of a known mix around
these forums. And where do you see all the names? Where do you learn all you need to know about mixing?
Right here in THE Cookbook I
strongly advise you read it all from begining to end before you start mixing :POKE: ... it is an awsome help,
and I still thank the people involved in writing it :thumbsup: :cheers:
But... before you read
anything... there's a post I think you specifically will find very helpfull; as you mentioned having trouble
understanding how much of a product to put on you - and where should you smell it from. Well Shane, go read
The Minimalist
Manifesto!
And by all means Shane... :welcome: :wave:
Mental notes = good start
Sounds to me like you're starting to get the hang of it. You stay calm, you notice your surroundings, you don't
expect too much right at the beginning, and you try out things and decide for yourself what fits for you and what
doesn't (like with the clogne for example) :thumbsup:
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ShaneS89
I wouldn't call either two of
these incidents "hits" as they may just be coincidences or they may be happening before but now I'm just making
mental note of them.
That right there is the most important thing about it all - the mental notes. After
a while it'll come so naturally and the `mones'll bring it so often that you might not even have to especially
make a mental note to remember the important stuff; but making these mental notes is definitely the way to go
:cheers:
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ShaneS89
Well tomorrow's test will be using SoE by itself for school, as obviously
there is about 1000% increase in the amount of women in my age group. And I will also try using body spray instead
of cologne as cologne just seems to heavy for me and doesn't usually work well for me too often.
I'm sure I'm
just imagining the strength of the cologne, but why wear it if it just makes me that much more
uncomfortable?
Very well done. You notice the increase of potential "targets", and therefor see fit to try
a probably more suited product. I'd say you probably got at least one hit coming for you there. Question is now -
will you notice it? ;)
If cologne isn't your right way to cover - maybe bodyspray is a good idea :think:
You
should at least check it out. It doesn't matter if you're imagining the all ordeal - if it doesn't feel right,
there's no reason why you won't try a different cover :)
Just be sure to cover. It ain't always needed,
but it usually is a good idea.
Keep us posted.