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Hi! The thing is : I haven\'t been called a \"bad kisser\" yet , however I haven\'t been called a good or very good one either.
So what exactly is this magic technique that makes women tell their girlfriends : \"oooooh he kissed me so passionately\"
If this has been discussed already. Exuse me + just point me 2 the thread. If not your comments are VeRy appriciated.
Afterall , I\'m trying 2 improve just for u [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/blush.gif[/img]
<<I haven\'t been called a \"bad kisser\" yet , however I haven\'t been called a good or very good one either.>>
(Sorry from a guy! lol ...)...yeah it\'s frustrating isn\'t it. lol [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/laugh.gif[/img] ....got told a while ago I was a \"yummy\" kisser. That\'s the first time in my life I ever got any kind of hint. [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/smile.gif[/img] IMHO there is definitely a literal chemistry thing too that makes for a top notch excellent kiss. (besides technique as well) ...it\'s really weird that.
Heh , You\'re welcome to join the club of \"ModerateKissers\"
I\'m sure the ladys have a few ideas , technique wise...
+ What absolutely NOT to do !
In my opinion , kissing is always a bit of a challange. IF you kiss for a long time (mouth on mouth , tongue in tongue)
1. You run out of air - + U have to \"carefully\" start breathing through your nose without making nasty sounds that would ruin the moment...(..still you run out of air)
2.Drooling all over the place is terribly embarassing too [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/smile.gif[/img]
The question\'s too hard. There are too many different opinions about what makes a good kisser.
I had a woman friend who used to say \"cocks should be hard; tongues should be soft.\" Generally, that\'s good advice, I think.
The breathing thing - breath in when you break the kiss for a second, and exhale through your nose. You can come up from a deep kiss and go to smooch and nuzzle mode long enough to get your breath, at least.
Drooling I\'ve never experienced so I don\'t know.
\"cocks should be hard; tongues should be soft.\"
My ears turn dark-red each time I read your or Elanas posts [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/smile.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/smile.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/blush.gif[/img]
And that comes from someone , who (some years ago) could differentiate between 30 female Pornstars , by just taking a glimpse at \"only\" their bits [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/blush.gif[/img]
Anyway thx for the breathing info ....I will try it next friday ! I wonder why I couldn\'t come up with a simple solution like that myself... If you breathe in, you should be able to hold it for astleast 50 seconds...thats enough to smoochie smoochie !
Exhale through your nose.
Good question, TBird! I have been told I\'m a great kisser by almost every girl I\'ve ever been with. I love to kiss softly, with my lips barely touching hers, sometimes kissing only her upper lip & gently grasping it between my lips, and then kissing her lower lip. I tend to use the advice for kissing, that so many of you have been giving on playing a little hard-to-get when trying to attract someone. When I was much younger, I had gals tell me they loved wet kisses, but hated it when a guy would just shove his tongue down their throats. (They have to be ready for it) So I make them almost beg for my tongue. I can tell they want it, when their lips start to part a bit, and then I will only encircle or touch the tip of their tongue with mine a few times before giving them any more. That just drives them crazy. They keep wanting more & more before I will allow them to have it. I will also move around their head kissing everything all over, when they want me to keep kissing their lips. Hold them in suspense & take them to another world, making sure to exhale deeply on their skin as you kiss very softly behind their ears & up and down the back of their neck. Makes them wet every time!! Which takes us to another area which needs lots of kisses and... Good luck!
Funlover
Yes, exhale through your nose... They LOVE the tingling sensation on their skin...
Funlover
Nice stuff Funlover!
That was a great post. I wanted to say something like \"offer her your mouth,\" i.e., let her kiss you and pace the kiss, but couldn\'t figure out how to break that down.
You\'ve been getting a lot of good advice, so I haven\'t jumped in, but a couple of details sprang to mind just now...
Kissing is an art, not a science, and it should be intensely personal. Think of painting a picture or writing a poem to express how you feel about her. Now think of doing the same thing with your lips and tongue.
This of course means that you need to focus on her and the kiss, and let everything else in the world fade completely out of your mind. Most women kiss with their eyes closed, I think it\'s because they almost instinctively know the above. Definitely something that guys can, and should learn, though.
The above are key, this third point is more like a historical footnote...
Once upon a time, I was kissing a bisexual girlfriend for the first time, and noticed that she had a really unique style. After a tiny bit of the classical slow, soft, meandering kissing, she became very energetic and switched into doing things with rapid flicks of the tip of her tongue and stuff, which immediately made me think about how she\'d been almost exclusively with a woman for the past few years. I was getting a demonstration of her obviously expert-level skill at performing oral sex on a woman! Like with any art, one needs to develop one\'s own style, and my style was already very established, so I didn\'t really incorporate this myself. Just the same, if you get compliments about how you kiss other places, it might be worth a try (once the woman concerned is comfortable enough with you). You can be sure that she will understand exactly what that style of kissing means, and, if she\'s ready to go to the next level with you, will probably drag you off without delay.
That\'s the reason kissing is so intensely erotic. You can message a million things about what you\'re like in bed with it. Another historical footnote: a guy said to me once, \"Make a little tongue\" and showed me, put just the tip of my tongue out - and he proceeded to do to my lips and the tip of my tongue what he would do if he tip of my tongue were my clit ... which proceeded to my opening my mouth to suck his tongue, which went to each of us licking the tips of each other\'s tongues ... you get the idea.
Definitely close your eyes and just let go. It\'s like doing music or dancing. Relax and let it come through you.