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is the best product for getting noticed by women?
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What
is the best product for getting noticed by women?
There is no single best product for getting noticed byQuote:
Originally Posted by jumprunner
women. In your post in another thread you talk about your personality scaring women. That's going to be your big
issue to overcome. Mones can help but I think there may be more than mones to address. What exactly is it about your
personality that turns them away? The things you say or how you say them? Are you too intense or are you talking
about things they aren't interested in talking about?
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Originally Posted by jumprunner
A Ferrarri will do the trick nicely. :lol:
Just
kidding.
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Originally Posted by jumprunner
The best product is you. Are you in a decent career
or working on your education to make something of yourself? Are you keeping physically fit? Do you dress reasonably
well? In other words, neatly, no backwards ballcaps and jeans hanging off your ass when you are out.
Are you
reasonably well versed in a number of subjects, so as to be a good and interesting conversationalist?
Get these
important aspects of your life in order first, then you will develop confidence and I am sure I will be able to
recommend a phero product to enhance your personality.
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Originally Posted by belgareth
It might help if I stop talking about shooting people, it was normal to talk about
that in the military so I still take it for granted. I generally talk about violent things because its been my
life.
Yea, Im pretty intense, can get radical when talking about politics or businesss ventures. They probably
dont like that either.
I was just thinking today, when I meet girls....maybe I should just shut up, then Ill be
okay. Let them do all the talking, none of them really want to hear about shooting people, politics, or business
ventures.
Surfing doesnt seem to scare them away too much, even though its about the most violent thing Ive ever
done. Scary!!!
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Originally Posted by Gorgar
Well, in OC people here might agree with
that, but I feel a little shady about it, even with gold diggers you have to make an effort.
Ever seen that show
"Real Housewives of Orange County", 1st or second season? There is this dude, "Slade", I always thought this guy was
a real loser, he had big money but I didnt think his girlfriend was good looking at all, when she left, he couldnt
seem to find a girlfriend, then ends up following her around LA.
Point is, does money really do the trick? Dont
have the answer for that one, but I do know my dad, who was fat, bald, and not even the slightest bit good looking,
used to get all the chicks! He had money and a personality that made people think he was rich, even when he was
poor, people used to think he was rich because of the way he came across.
My theory is, you have to 'look'
like you have money, just having money doesnt always do it. I look poor, so in my case dont think a Ferrarri would
help much, probably just end up confusing them.
Slade had money but no
confidence, your Pops had confidence but no money. perhaps chicks dig confidence over cash, well most chicks
maybe.:think:
Yeah, for someQuote:
Originally Posted by jumprunner
reason most females seem to get a bit turned off by blood, guts and gore. Not very romantic to them, at all.
I
think your mistake may be talking too much, or at least being to open. I've been in marshal arts most of my life
but rarely talk about the various ways I can damage a human body. I also rarely talk about my business to women and
unless the topic comes up I rarely discuss the sciences that are my fascination. As a matter of fact, in most public
venues I rarely say anything serious. Instead, I joke, laugh and play, refusing to take much of anything seriously.
When I talk, it's mostly questions about the other person, gentle but intended to get them to talk to me. Then
I listen to the person and only make comments that encourage them to talk or a joke to get them to laugh.
Gorgor
is right about confidence. If you are sure of yourself and shwo it, you don't need to tell people about it.
Instead, you stroke their ego by being willing to, and interested in, hearing about them. A lot of guys driving hot
little sports cars are compensating for feelings of inferiority. A lot of rich guys are jerks who think money is the
answer to everything. Girls know this and most are uninterested in them except as gold diggers. In my book, gold
diggers are a little lower than hookers. At least hookers are honest about it.
A man who is sure of himself and
sets his own rules is sexy and appealing.
I like these comments, and they go directly to the conversation on the AlphaQuote:
Originally Posted by belgareth
Male thread.
To the extent that a man wears, drives, buys, adopts or puts on anything outside of himself - for
the sole purpose of attraction - he reduces himself proportionally.
I think a man who is sure of himself has a
quiet confidence that doesn't need to shoult about it. That is attractive. All the other stuff is swagger,
sometimes arrogantly so.
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Originally Posted by belgareth
Very well
put, you are right on target with that! Yea confidence is the big game with women, they really look for it and blow
you off right away if they detect a lack of it.
You know on this note, I remember about a year ago this women in
OC, was at Laguna Beach she owned a business and drove a Mercedes, she was actually telling me the same thing, that
those people around here who have to drive expensive cars do so because they have an inferiority complex and low
self esteem. When you end up working for someone like that your job doesnt last long, he eventually needs your
paycheck to finance his nice car and big house because thats what he thinks he needs to be a man and for women to
like him.
There are a lot of cool people in OC but you know there are jerks everywhere, and that show is really
stupid.
I like watching it anyway just to scoff at it. See, I live in RSM just outside the gates of Coto de
Caza, in the exact area where most of the housewives and people on the show live. Like, a few weeks ago I was
walking across the parking lot to the Starbucks across the street from where I live, and unwittingly walked right in
front of Vicki's car, waved to her and she waved back then she parks and goes into CVS Pharmacy.
Now the funny
thing is, they touch it up to make this place look something like the French Riviera, like you have to be super rich
to be living here. Well, right now Im on unemployment and still living here, ha! You believe anything you see on TV
and you've been played for a fool! Yea its a nice area, but you dont have to be rich to be living here, not even!
Im a software engineer, working class type, usually out of work, but I can tell you Im a member of the Coto
Golf and Racquet Club, have a full gate pass to Coto de Caza, do I wear diamonds, gold watches, drive a BMW? Shit
NO!!! Im a surfer dude, like skateboarding, drive a Pontiac, and cant afford a gold watch or a BMW for that matter.
Wouldnt drive one anyway cause I need a car I can get by boards in.
Hype hype hype, bullshit media hype, its fun
to live in OC and watch all that shit, cant beleive some of the things I see on that show! Scott Dunlop, the
producer of that show, is also a member of the Golf and Racquet club, I saw his locker in the locker room at the
Sports and Spa part of it with his name on it. This is the guy, the producer of all the stupid ass hype you're
seeing on TV.
Coto is actually pretty laid back place, boring if you will, unless you are really into golf and
Im not. Just a lot of families, old people and young kids....boring!!! Noone outside the gates really thinks Cotos
are hot shit and noone cares. It is a pretty nice place with great scenery, but it aint Beverly Hills by a long
shot. And the club, been on TV on that show about 20 times now and some of the members like to brag about it, but
its just another place to hang out and nothing more than that, and its really quite boring. You have to go outside
the gates for anything cause the place is a graveyard.
Hey BTW, Im in Choi Li Fut Kung Fu, ever heard of it?
Hard as hell, but great training if you want to improve your balance and cardio output.
I found the best cure for media
bullshit is to not watch TV. It cured the problem completely. And you'd be amazed how much more time I have for
more important things when I stay away from the idiot box. To make it brief, I have no idea what you are talking
about, the area you live in or the people.
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Originally Posted by belgareth
LOL...you've been saved by the
bell! Dont worry you're not missing anything. Yea! More important things...like chasing girls for instance.
Yea
I used to be the same way, never watched TV because I didnt have time, go to work, after work work out, eat, then
times up, time to go to sleep. Its the way I should be now, been slackin' since I moved away from SD
Ok, so I'm about as atypical as you can get. HAven'tQuote:
Originally Posted by jumprunner
watched TV in more than 20 years and am not chasing girls any longer because a few years ago I caught my pretty
little redhead.
In your case, watching TV is no way to meet ladies or get to know the neighbors.
I meet
people because I am out doing all day long, most days. And I attract women because of my attitude. You sound like
you have all the tools but need to get out more and enjoy the game. At your age, bars and such are really not that
great. Try other venues like taking classes or participating in numerous events of one sort or another, depending on
what you enjoy doing. You'd be surprised how many very nice and physically fit women I've met at tournaments or at
some work related function.
An important thing to remember is that women are out there looking too. They want
the same things you want, just as badly.
All the guys I know who dress like this have women. LOL.Quote:
Originally Posted by tounge
-The Bat
Yea , but the women who play in the
big leagues aren't interested.:LOL:
Yea, that's true.
-The
Bat