That's all I expect from an intelligent person. I'll make sure you get the book. TheQuote:
Originally Posted by Rbt
videos are really where he kicks ass though. Anyway I'm looking forward to hear your unbiased opinion.
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That's all I expect from an intelligent person. I'll make sure you get the book. TheQuote:
Originally Posted by Rbt
videos are really where he kicks ass though. Anyway I'm looking forward to hear your unbiased opinion.
EISU....I gotta ask you and I
mean no disrespect but am honestly curious....do you realy feel that listening to someone who has their own set of
circumstances and experiences in life and emulating them is going to get you more success with woman?? Has it even
really helped you with getting what you want or is it just giving you a stronger reason to socialize and take risks
with woman....think about that and get back to me....I would guess that any success you are getting above and beyond
what you got before is because your putting yourself out there more and maybe learned a couple things *NOT* to do
that were big NONO's....but regardless of whatever the case may be...just try to stay true to who you are as much
as you can.
Very good questions. I understand
where you're coming from on this as if you were wearing alpha -nol.
For those who are openminded enough to
check out his material before forming an opinion, David D has put together a theory about attraction, just like any
other scientist does. He quotes directly from books about biology, psychology, evolution, mating rituals for various
species, etc..
This isn't about a person's experiences. He isn't telling people to do specific things like
grab their crotch within 5 minutes of meeting a woman or other absurdities.
If you're really curious to know,
check out his videos, or at least his book.
I've never took the
plunge and ordered that kind of stuff, but I've sampled it from time to time.
Kind of strikes me that it
really applies to a percentage of the population, but not across the board.
Lots of the basic stuff though is
important to grasp. Have confidence, be willing to fail, play hard to get, don't be a wuss, etc. etc. Some people
may need to be hit over the head with it. Most of it I've learned at this point through trial and error with women
(mostly error :-) )
My problem always with this goes back to an old episode of Blind Date. There was this
redheaded pure goober on the show, and he was going out with a hot woman. He told her he was a dating and sexuality
expert on the internet and wrote his own column and I watched him try a lot of the techniques I've read from site
to site and was getting shot down left and right. It was quite comical how poor he was doing. Kind of one of those
days when you look in the mirror and think, damn I was taking love advice from that dude?
I think everyone
needs to find their own way through this stuff. I'm somewhat turning to it now, because a target has turned up the
"games" in my direction and I'm looking for advice on my next move (the past two years my only response to a girl
turning up the games has been to disappear, that hasn't really gotten me anywhere, lots of first couple of dates
but seeing as I bolt anytime drama may be involved I seem to never actually get into a relationship, but enough
about me...)
JDM
Just a suggestion but I've always believed that when somebody startsQuote:
Originally Posted by jamesdeanmartin
playing games the best thing to do is stop cold. Never respond to games of any sort and be ready to walk away at any
time. It really is the best way to handle drama in a relationship.