jamesdeanmartin
02-23-2004, 03:48 PM
I was sitting at lunch today per usual and the discussion turned to sex and the word penis came up a
time or two. I generally sit with 4 or 5 attractive women and guys do join us as well but they aren\'t the
majority. In a playful way, the ladies brought up the fact that whenever I\'m around, the discussion always turns
to sex. It wasn\'t like they were offended, but they said I always end up turning the discussion around to sex. I
found this kind of odd, I mean with that particular group, sex is discussed often but I never really thought of
myself as the primogenitor of such discussions. I have a feeling the pheremones I wear (I wear non-None products
every day to class, usually soe and A1) have some effect both on myself and on the women. The women feel more
comfortable talking about sex around me, and me, I\'m a single guy and these are attractive women, none of us are
jonesing for a dung beetle conversation. I didn\'t apologize for discussing sex, I just said, \"are you
uncomfortable with frank discussions about sex?\" and they all laughed. It was all in good fun and they were giddy
at the ribbing they thought they were giving me.
Nevertheless, the question remains, have others found that
wearing pheros increases the amount of sex talk and innuendo that goes around in your office or school setting?
Strangely enough when I sit at the \"guys\" lunch table we don\'t discuss sex whatsoever, it\'s usually
sports or making fun of some kid from class. We do occassionally, so and so is hot, I\'d f-her, but that\'s
about it.
On a side note, one of these girls at the table is a target (the others are cute, but just not targets,
they are engaged or dating someone but still quite flirtatious towards me). I\'m frank but very playful when the
subject of sex comes up, I don\'t want to appear as if some horny beast. My gut feeling is that it is better to
be open, comfortable and forthcoming with sex with women however I wonder if I should try to avoid the issue
altogether in front of her. I understand this is an impossible question to answer outside of context, but I was just
looking for general opinions on discussions of sex between the sexes.
take care,
JDM
time or two. I generally sit with 4 or 5 attractive women and guys do join us as well but they aren\'t the
majority. In a playful way, the ladies brought up the fact that whenever I\'m around, the discussion always turns
to sex. It wasn\'t like they were offended, but they said I always end up turning the discussion around to sex. I
found this kind of odd, I mean with that particular group, sex is discussed often but I never really thought of
myself as the primogenitor of such discussions. I have a feeling the pheremones I wear (I wear non-None products
every day to class, usually soe and A1) have some effect both on myself and on the women. The women feel more
comfortable talking about sex around me, and me, I\'m a single guy and these are attractive women, none of us are
jonesing for a dung beetle conversation. I didn\'t apologize for discussing sex, I just said, \"are you
uncomfortable with frank discussions about sex?\" and they all laughed. It was all in good fun and they were giddy
at the ribbing they thought they were giving me.
Nevertheless, the question remains, have others found that
wearing pheros increases the amount of sex talk and innuendo that goes around in your office or school setting?
Strangely enough when I sit at the \"guys\" lunch table we don\'t discuss sex whatsoever, it\'s usually
sports or making fun of some kid from class. We do occassionally, so and so is hot, I\'d f-her, but that\'s
about it.
On a side note, one of these girls at the table is a target (the others are cute, but just not targets,
they are engaged or dating someone but still quite flirtatious towards me). I\'m frank but very playful when the
subject of sex comes up, I don\'t want to appear as if some horny beast. My gut feeling is that it is better to
be open, comfortable and forthcoming with sex with women however I wonder if I should try to avoid the issue
altogether in front of her. I understand this is an impossible question to answer outside of context, but I was just
looking for general opinions on discussions of sex between the sexes.
take care,
JDM