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alienhed
02-02-2004, 02:38 PM
Hey Guys,

its me again (this time on a more frequent basis). For those who remember I was the \"confused dude\" who had

some \"problems\" with a girl named Vanessa. For those still interested in how things worked out I am glad to say

that V and I sat down and worked things out. I was with her up 2 when she left last week.

Anyway back to the

matter at hand - Recently I went to this small social gathering (very low profile event). Anyway was wearing some

AE/APC/PPA - don\'t worry in small dosages 4 all the ODphobics out there

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif. Anyway when I got there the host had a little sister (not sure

of age but she was young - maybe 2?) Anyway I walk past her and go to the living room and a few seconds later I see

her following me. I look at her and she just kept staring at me - kinda freaky. So I go outside with a friend and

once again the kid followed me - no matter where I went she just kept following with a DIHL look - not my type of

hit /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif so was it the pheros coz if it was can it be said that we

de-sensitise to mones as we age?

Why can’t I get hits like this with chick in my age group (17+)

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Elana
02-02-2004, 02:43 PM
Sorry

but that was just too cute. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

Gossamer_2701
02-02-2004, 02:48 PM
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she was young - maybe 2

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I highly doubt it was the mones, man.... kids that young could find

anything and everything interesting. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif

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Goss

alienhed
02-02-2004, 03:12 PM
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Sorry but that was just too cute.

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Cute maybe,

but there is a fine line between cute and disturbing. The thing that\'s weird is that I was there for a couple of

hours and she just kept on staring and since it was such a small setting I could really notice it. I donno... maybe

I was just being paranoid. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif

BTW any replies 2 other question -

do we de-sensitise? It might be intresting to know coz it could mean at 50 I\'ll need a whole bottle!

Elana
02-02-2004, 03:37 PM
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Cute maybe, but there is a fine line between cute

and disturbing.

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I wasn\'t recommending you ask her out.

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OCP
02-02-2004, 03:42 PM
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Cute maybe, but there is a fine line between cute and disturbing.

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I wasn\'t recommending you ask her out.

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anything

under 13 is just out of the question! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif

Kari
02-02-2004, 06:27 PM
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she was young - maybe 2

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I

highly doubt it was the mones, man.... kids that young could find anything and everything interesting.

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Goss



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No.. it might be the mones. One site suggests that the mone be

tested by seeing whether children like the person wearing them.

bjf
02-02-2004, 06:43 PM
It is the

mones. Children and animals are not shy about showing their reactions like most in society are.

Members have

posted in the past about experiences like you have had.

markus
02-02-2004, 11:10 PM
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It is the mones. Children and animals are not shy

about showing their reactions like most in society are.


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thats true.
it already happened to me three times that i ODed and the adults showed

only very subtle reactions while a child just came up to me and said: man, you stink.

bjf
02-03-2004, 06:11 AM
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It is the mones. Children and animals are not shy about showing their

reactions like most in society are.


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thats true.
it already

happened to me three times that i ODed and the adults showed only very subtle reactions while a child just came up

to me and said: man, you stink.

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The other day,

a dog said to me \"arf, arf, arf!\"

markus
02-03-2004, 10:30 AM
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It is the

mones. Children and animals are not shy about showing their reactions like most in society are.


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thats true.
it already happened to me three times that i ODed and the

adults showed only very subtle reactions while a child just came up to me and said: man, you stink.

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The other day, a dog said to me \"arf, arf, arf!\"

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yeah, i know these dogs who don\'t submit to any social codes and just

tell you right in the face what they think /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

CJ01
02-03-2004, 11:13 AM
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anything under 13 is just out of the question!



<hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\"> /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif For a seventeen

year old guy I´d say 15+ at least and for a girl - 18+ /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif
and a 2

year old - that one doesn´t even require any discussion I think that´s pretty clear!!

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CJ01
02-03-2004, 11:17 AM
BTW I´d

take it as a compliment y´know because small kids can be fussy with strangers but this one felt comfortable with

you. You could have taken advantage of this positive attention but it doesn´t sound like you did.

OCP
02-03-2004, 11:37 AM
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anything under 13 is just out of the question!

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guy I´d say 15+ at least and for a girl - 18+ /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif
and a 2 year old

- that one doesn´t even require any discussion I think that´s pretty clear!!

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I think even 15 is too young, but I am a little conservative on this

matter. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

alienhed
02-03-2004, 02:23 PM
hey

thanx to everyone that input - I was just real curious about the matter. Now that I think about, I got quite a bit

of attention from their dog as well.

And Elana /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif u crack me up

TopDawg2050
02-03-2004, 02:37 PM
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anything

under 13 is just out of the question!

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/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif For a seventeen year old guy I´d say 15+ at least and for a girl -

18+ /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif
and a 2 year old - that one doesn´t even require any

discussion I think that´s pretty
clear!! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif

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I think

even 15 is too young, but I am a little conservative on this matter.

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I know

people my age (14) that are goin out with 18 and 19 year olds, very uncool. Someone knock some sense into these

girls and kick the **** out of the guys dating them.

CJ01
02-04-2004, 04:22 AM
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I know people my age (14) that are goin out with 18

and 19 year olds, very uncool. Someone knock some sense into these girls and kick the **** out of the guys dating

them.



<hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\"> dating older guys is often cooler than same aged ones

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif I wouldn´t go out with someone that much younger but older Oh

YES!! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

apple
02-04-2004, 09:17 AM
when i

was 13 my bf was 19 o_O i couldnt date guys my age, i hated them cause they were so immature. And no my bf wasnt in

it for the sex, we didnt do that

bjf
02-04-2004, 10:48 AM
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when i was 13 my bf was 19 o_O i couldnt date guys

my age, i hated them cause they were so immature. And no my bf wasnt in it for the sex, we didnt do that

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That is truly disgusting. It is just wrong on his part and he should have

known better. He must have been pretty immature himself if he could relate to a 13 year old, even a mature one.

BassMan
02-04-2004, 10:57 AM
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when i was 13 my bf was 19 o_O i couldnt date guys my age, i hated them cause

they were so immature. And no my bf wasnt in it for the sex, we didnt do that

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That is truly disgusting. It is just wrong on his part and he should have known better. He

must have been pretty immature himself if he could relate to a 13 year old, even a mature one.

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We wonder why we can\'t keep females on this forum...

CptKipling
02-04-2004, 11:02 AM
I

don\'t.

CJ01
02-04-2004, 11:08 AM
/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif 19 year olds can be pretty immature

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif I dated 21+

old guys at 17-18.

apple
02-04-2004, 11:12 AM
mentally

we were at the same lvl. my bf now is 25 and im 20, only a couple months of difference in years from when i was 13

and my ex was 19. just more acceptable now cause 20yr olds date 40yr olds o_O (not me... ill stick with under 30

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CJ01
02-04-2004, 11:21 AM
I prefer

older ones but I´ve been checking out the 20-30 ones too lately /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

At 19 I went out with a 32 -34 guy. Guys my age never did much for me somehow until recently but they´re starting

to get more interesting now so it´s okay /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

bjf
02-04-2004, 11:54 AM
Its

different when everyone\'s grown up, but 13 is a whole different story. That\'s less than a year away from

12.

12!!

CJ01
02-04-2004, 12:00 PM
hehe yeah I

think it´s a bit too young. But you look at things differently when you´re an adult. As a teen with raging

hormones for the first time you don´t care I guess /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif Well age

gaps at that age aren´t that common /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

TopDawg2050
02-04-2004, 02:03 PM
Girls just dont know whats good for them when they get to high school...... I know someone in my school that got an

abortion at the age of 12

Elana
02-04-2004, 02:19 PM
Can you

guys please stay on topic? /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif
Back to the original posters

dilemma.

Where are you going to take the two year old? Maybe a pizza and milk at Chuckie Cheese?

TopDawg2050
02-04-2004, 02:21 PM
Dont get any ideas now...... /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

Rakesh
02-04-2004, 02:50 PM
Erm

girls dating older guys=old as mankind.
Two reasons. 1)the girls ARE somewhat more mature than the guys their age,

and them dating older guys of course makes the guys of their age jealous (angry) about the unfairness of a girl

deciding for a guy with money, a car and a beard rather than a teenage masturbator who doesnt know how to treat a

girl. Pretty normal. 2) the guys who are 20ish and date 15s are, in 99% of the cases, the ones who are afraid/can

not get a girl of their age and its fine to date a much younger girl because she has lower standards. Girls in early

20s already have their lives planned out whereas the guys of that age are mentally still teenagers (lets face it

guys, we remain teenagers for all our lives /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif we have the girls for

the worrying business /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif)

TopDawg2050
02-04-2004, 02:52 PM
I

know how to treat girls my age, no one will let me treat them /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif.... wait til i

get that PI /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

apple
02-04-2004, 02:52 PM
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Erm girls dating older guys=old as mankind.
Two

reasons. 1)the girls ARE somewhat more mature than the guys their age, and them dating older guys of course makes

the guys of their age jealous (angry) about the unfairness of a girl deciding for a guy with money, a car and a

beard rather than a teenage masturbator who doesnt know how to treat a girl. Pretty normal. 2) the guys who are

20ish and date 15s are, in 99% of the cases, the ones who are afraid/can not get a girl of their age and its fine to

date a much younger girl because she has lower standards. Girls in early 20s already have their lives planned out

whereas the guys of that age are mentally still teenagers (lets face it guys, we remain teenagers for all our lives

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif we have the girls for the worrying business

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i agree 150%

with this. i did have lower standards back then :P and he probably couldnt get someone his own age o_O hahahaha and

yeah, im 20 and have way too much of my life planned now, and my 18-22yr old male friends are all goofy little boys

still /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif but they\'re fun to hang out with, just not date!

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OCP
02-04-2004, 02:52 PM
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Its different when everyone\'s grown up, but 13

is a whole different story. That\'s less than a year away from 12.

12!!


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I have a 13 year old daughter and if a 19 year old came around the house I would drop kick him

into the next century. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif

OCP
02-04-2004, 02:53 PM
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Girls just dont know whats good for them when they

get to high school...... I know someone in my school that got an abortion at the age of 12

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that is a tragedy. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif

Rakesh
02-04-2004, 02:55 PM
\"I

know how to treat em but they wont let me\"
well that is pure bovine excrementum. I thought the same back then,

and looking back, MAN I WAS SUUUUUUCH A PRICK! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

TopDawg2050
02-04-2004, 02:55 PM
THANK YOU OCP!!!!!!!!!, maybe you can come visit oneida, ny sometime

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif, kick some [censored] into everyone here. Well deja vu man, i

have almost everything planned out in my future life, now if i could just find a girl

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif..................

OCP
02-04-2004, 03:00 PM
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THANK YOU OCP!!!!!!!!!, maybe you can come visit

oneida, ny sometime /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif, kick some [censored] into everyone here.

Well deja vu man, i have almost everything planned out in my future life, now if i could just find a girl

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif..................

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Little dude! You are young. Do not find a girl, find many and have fun. You have plenty of

time for a \"girl friend\" later. Practice you relational skills, learn how to start a conversation and keep it

going. Learn to ask questions that mean something and can not be answered with a simple yes or no. Also, go get

her phone number and ask her out!!! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif

Rakesh
02-04-2004, 03:00 PM
Erm

theres planned out and \"planned out\".
People basically make two mistakes. One sort is the \"daddy type\" who

just wants a family and a place to settle down. Those guys usually end up with one of the nazi-sort girls who

control the families.
Then there is the Planner whose plans are limited to \"marrying J Lo, buying the buckingham

palace and having a 50 yard yacht\". Those guys usually end up WITHOUT a girl.

I prefer being in the middle. I

dont want to settle for an ordinary life, but I know what is possible and what isnt.

burgerama1960
02-04-2004, 04:04 PM
All i know is when i wear mones my dog looks at me like i\'m some kind of stud puppy or something. Follows me

everywhere. I hope the secret ingredients in these products did not originate from our furry friends.

TopDawg2050
02-04-2004, 04:23 PM
Only bruce knows /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

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alienhed
02-06-2004, 03:40 PM
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Can you guys please stay on topic?

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Back to the original posters dilemma.

Where are you going to

take the two year old? Maybe a pizza and milk at Chuckie Cheese?

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OK Elana I watever I did 2 offend u I take it back now. I want the whole forum 2 know- I offer

you 1000 humble apologies, may u have long life and everlasting fertility

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Apart from that I am 18 and I think its okay to date someone 2

years younger than u.. (<font color=\"red\"> NOT </font> 2 YEARS OLD IN CASE U MISSED THAT ELANA)

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif But who am I 2 know, in all my past relationships the girl has

always been older.