What works best for someone you're already with??? [Archive]

apple

01-26-2004, 09:03 AM

Hi Im new! Ordered the newbie kit to start myself off

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif What i really want is to spice up my sex life. My boyfriend and I

click great intellectually, but he always has so much stress from his busy work life that its almost impossible to

get him turned on anymore! I ALWAYS have to initiate things, and for once i just want him to be the

agressor.

What mones work best for something like that, something that will make him really horny so he doesnt

worry about work or care if hes tired! thanks for the help!

CJ01

01-26-2004, 09:40 AM

Hi, Sounds like copulins is one of the mones you want! Try PCC and/or mix it with something like AE or

AE/w. Perhaps even PCC and PI/w will do although I would go with a bit of none in it for such a case.
welcome to

the forum btw

CJ /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

apple

01-26-2004, 10:13 AM

essence of a woman... thats copulins too right? is that not as good as PCC?

CJ01

01-26-2004, 12:09 PM

Yes EW is a copulin product and yes it´s good,however I´d not try it out as a `beginner´so to speak.

It requires a lot of mixing/diluting. It reaks like hell!!! If you do choose EW make sure you do NOT spill

anything!!!! It also takes ages to get of your fingers if it´s pure. I´m not kidding, honestly it´s so potent and

strong it´s actually lethal /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif
Some of us have got the other EW

which is not for sale, it was a test version and the one on offer now is a little bit diluted but still...

PCC is

a good one to start off with, and doesn´t stink, in fact it smells really nice but fades quickly (if you don´t like

the scent). It´s also easy to apply as it´s in a roll-on bottle.

apple

01-26-2004, 12:55 PM

ahhhh ok! yeah I thought EW might be better because it had no scent added. I\'ll probably

wait to try that one then /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif thanks!

bjf

01-26-2004, 01:02 PM

How about Pheromax Women? Nobody talks much about it (I didn\'t even see it on the site when I

clicked \"Pheromax\") but that seems to have the most amount of cops to go along with the NOL of any of the

products. It is a good source of both.

CJ01

01-26-2004, 01:24 PM

That one sounds like our old classic fave PI/w +PCC but I prefer mixing myself with 2 separate

products. YOu´re right Pherosmax isn´t much talked about anymore and it never seemed that big as far as `womens

prods´ go, dunno why eithr. I´ve never tried myself.

ahhhh ok! yeah I thought EW might be better because it had

no scent added. I\'ll probably wait to try that one then thanks!
yeah I usually prefer unsented products but

this is one that certainly requires lots of covering up on top of diluting

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bjf

01-26-2004, 01:36 PM

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That one sounds like our old classic

fave PI/w +PCC but I prefer mixing myself with 2 separate products. YOu´re right Pherosmax isn´t much talked about

anymore and it never seemed that big as far as `womens prods´ go, dunno why eithr. I´ve never tried myself.

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/></blockquote>

Just thought there is not much of a point in paying for two seperate

products. COurse if money isn\'t an issue, you can control ratios, but men are not that particular

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CJ01

01-26-2004, 02:25 PM

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but men are not that particular

<hr /></blockquote> hehe we´ll we all know that

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif but when it comes to pheros it´s not always so easy, I´ve even

mamaged to OD´d on PF and I´ve noticed that some men can react in a very sensitive way to mones.

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bundyburger

01-26-2004, 02:51 PM

I don\'t know if pheromones are all you need here. If he\'s not getting turned on and

isn\'t interested in sex, especially if he\'s stressed out, then you\'d be better off looking into some kind

of supplement or nutritional approach to improve his sex drive and health. IMHO

...and pheromones to focus that

improved horniness on yourself! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

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apple

01-26-2004, 03:16 PM

oh i have no problem in being horny myself :P

yeah the diet might be a factor, im sure

too often take-out doesnt help at all! exercise isnt an issue tho, he plays lots of sports. I mostly think his mind

is too often elsewhere, his job is high stress lately /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif im hoping

mones will at least jump start his brain to go to the right direction: jumping ME! :P

CptKipling

01-26-2004, 03:20 PM

Stress if often the biggest inhibitor of sex drive.

Maybe consider a steamy holiday; log

cabin, candle lit dinner, open fire, sheepskin rug, you - wearing nothing but a smile.

If that doesnt perk him up

then we have some issues /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

EXIT63

01-26-2004, 03:30 PM

Wear realllly tight pants!

Do you own a pair of FrankieB jeans? Get some.

Pancho1188

01-26-2004, 04:28 PM

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Stress if often the biggest

inhibitor of sex drive.

Maybe consider a steamy holiday; log cabin, candle lit dinner, open fire, sheepskin rug,

you - wearing nothing but a smile.

If that doesnt perk him up then we have some issues

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And if the sound

of it doesn\'t pique his interest, then he\'s either gay or cheating on you. If that\'s the case, I hear

Canada\'s nice this time of year. I\'d make the trip. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

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apple

01-26-2004, 04:49 PM

lol theres 20cm of snow expected overnight, biggest storm this season so its not that nice

here

hes very not gay!! he doesnt have time to cheat on me,on top of the fact i trust him completely and know hed

never do that /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

just caught that Amouage discussion and sent and

email for samples... gotta do something to get his interest up till he can go on vacation, he doesnt get time off

till april and i NEED satisfaction before then!

bjf

01-26-2004, 04:54 PM

Apple - Nol will relax him, make him sillier, put him in a good mood.

Cops will raise his T levels,

which will probably make him want to fck.

So, it should not be all that complicated.

Pancho1188

01-26-2004, 05:03 PM

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lol theres 20cm of snow

expected overnight, biggest storm this season so its not that nice here

hes very not gay!! he doesnt have time to

cheat on me,on top of the fact i trust him completely and know hed never do that

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just caught that Amouage discussion and sent and email for

samples... gotta do something to get his interest up till he can go on vacation, he doesnt get time off till april

and i NEED satisfaction before then!

<hr /></blockquote>

Well, then what are you

waiting for?!?!? Plan that getaway and get him looking forward to it...

On the other hand, have you ever talked

to him about your sexual frustration? Communication is #1 in any relationship. You may think you\'re being nice

to him by not bugging him when he\'s tired, but what you\'ll really be doing is not getting what you need and

it\'ll eventually build frustration and resentment. There\'s some food for thought. If he cares, he\'ll find

a way to make it happen... Oh, yeah...

apple

01-26-2004, 05:11 PM

yeah ive talked to him before, and he wants to do things, just hes so drained and stressed he

doesnt \"get in the mood\" easily. Ive told him im frustrated, we\'re great with communicating in my opinion. I

let him know loud and clear when i want him. its not that he doesnt want to do things with me, its like his sex

drive just disapeared, hes just as frustrated with it as i am. Its possible he has some other issues and im gonna

mention going to a doctor, but if the mones and vacation can work then im gonna do that!!!

oh and dont think its

cause im just ugly and boring that he doesnt want me either, im 20, 5\'10 and an aries :P so i rule, ok normally

im more modest i just dont want to come across icky since im new :P teehee

Ash

01-26-2004, 09:02 PM

Did he start on any new medication over the past 6 months to a year?

apple

01-26-2004, 09:09 PM

nope, hes not on any kinds of meds

Ash

01-26-2004, 10:07 PM

pot?

apple

01-26-2004, 10:08 PM

nope no drugs in any form

Ash

01-26-2004, 11:27 PM

No meds, no drugs and probably no alcohol either. Well, unless you find a good mone to help you out,

your screwed Apple. Or not as the case may be. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif

Sagacious1420

01-27-2004, 12:13 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
I mostly think his mind is

too often elsewhere, his job is high stress lately /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif

<hr

/></blockquote>Been there, apple. Once had an SO and I both experience this kinda thing due

to our jobs. Working long hours w/ lots of physical/mental stress and a tendency to \"bring our work home\"

caused a problem for both of us there for a while. We normally had a very active sex life, w/ the exception of this

particular phase in our professional lives. Communication is good, but don\'t put too much pressure on him.

Chances are that he\'s well aware of the issue, since you\'ve discussed it before. This will only compound his

mental stress and that isn\'t gonna help either. Do your best to be understanding and supportive. That\'s the

best advice I can give you.

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im hoping mones will

at least jump start his brain to go to the right direction: jumping ME! :P

<hr /></blockquote>Cops and nol certainly can\'t hurt, something like SOE/w . Perhaps consider some NPA/w, that

stuff gives me a nice rush also.

Ash

01-27-2004, 01:09 AM

Sage advice Sag!

CJ01

01-27-2004, 02:31 AM

Make sure he takes his vits including a reasonable amount of vit C Couple that with the mones and

you´ll get there.
I don´t recommend NPA just yet. It also requires lots of mixing and is not easy to cover up -

it´s stinky too. He knows you too well and also how you smell so he´s more likely to be wondering what the hell

that smell is.
AE doesn´t smell as bad and neither does AFA. AFA helps raise the spirits a good party mone

actually.

EXIT63

01-27-2004, 02:42 AM

Well, as much as I\'d rather jump off a cliff than agree with Pancho. He\'s either

cheating or he\'s a closet homersexual. I mean, you are 5\'10\" right? and an Aries? I can\'t imagine what

the problem is. But seriously. What he really needs is a vacation. Or possibly some viagra. How are your oral

skills?

Pancho1188

01-27-2004, 06:27 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
Well, as much as I\'d

rather jump off a cliff than agree with Pancho.

<hr /></blockquote>

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gifAhh, my popularity on this forum is revealed...

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apple

01-27-2004, 07:54 AM

I am somewhat wondering if it is something where he does need viagra. I am gonna test other

things, but if they dont help alot im gonna sujest he visits the doctor to see if its more than just the

stresses.

oral skills heehee theres no problems there /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif usually

thats what i end up doing if he cant get in the mood

Elana

01-27-2004, 09:57 AM

Girlfriend, I have the answer for you. Two words...fishnet lingerie. Go get yourself some

sexy, sleazy, drop dead, can\'t resist you pieces of lingerie, and seduce the hell out of your man. No guy should

be able to use an excuse that he is too tired or stressed out from work when you are giving him a lap dance wearing

a see thru top and crotchless panties.

CJ01

01-27-2004, 10:23 AM

Never mind viagra, doesn´t sound like he needs it. Maybe you can share some of his stress though and

all the other things plus mones and he´ll be okay soon /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

Holmes

01-27-2004, 10:30 AM

Or drop a bowling ball on his head.

Holmes

Elana

01-27-2004, 10:33 AM

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Or drop a bowling ball on his

head.

Holmes

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while wearing a lace body stocking.

Ash

01-27-2004, 11:31 AM

I think what Elana wrote makes lots of sense. Give it your sexiest shot. Buy some really nice new sexy

things that make you feel like the hottest women in the world and see if they can get something going with him. If

they don\'t, maybe it\'s time to rethink your relationship with him. If he can\'t take care of things now,

what\'s it going to be like for you when you\'re 35 and peaking? Assuming you\'re younger than 35 now. As for

the Viagra idea. Viagra works on the body, not the Libido. If he\'s not excited by you now he won\'t be anymore

excited by you when he takes V.
I like Sag\'s advice too. Try some mones and some new sexy things and some

pampering and if that doesn\'t work maybe it\'s time to move on. I\'ll be in TO sometime in May.

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apple

01-27-2004, 11:34 AM

wow havent even got the mones yet and already im getting offers of sex? :P

yeah im only

20, if this relationship were that dependant on sex id have left a long time ago. it just seems to be the only down

in what we have >.< wish i could go shopping now for something sexy to wear, but im snowed in lol

Ash

01-27-2004, 11:38 AM

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it just seems to be the only down in

what we have

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That sucks! How old is he and how long have you been

together?

Elana

01-27-2004, 11:44 AM

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wish i could go shopping

now for something sexy to wear, but im snowed in lol

<hr /></blockquote>

That\'s

why we have the internet and credit cards. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

Elana

01-27-2004, 11:48 AM

Get something like

this....

http://cg

i.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=2885430174&category=48 44 (\"http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=2885430174&category=48 44\")

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&it

em=2885497165&category=46798 (\"http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/e

BayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=2885497165&category=467 98\")

apple

01-27-2004, 11:52 AM

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That\'s why we have the

internet and credit cards. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

I dont trust clothes online, never ends up fitting!!! Id rather drag him with me and put on a

little show trying it all on and let him buy what he wants :P

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That sucks! How old is he and how long have you been together?

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/></blockquote>
hes 25, we havent been together for a year yet so it is newish. i know more

about him than my ex i was with for 3 years tho

Ash

01-27-2004, 11:53 AM

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wish i could go shopping now for something sexy to wear, but im snowed in

lol

<hr /></blockquote>

That\'s why we have the internet and credit cards.

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Elana is so

practical! Send her a couple links to the sexy things E. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif

Elana

01-27-2004, 11:54 AM

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Elana is so practical! Send

her a couple links to the sexy things E.

<hr /></blockquote>

I am way ahead of you,

Ash. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

apple

01-27-2004, 11:57 AM

ok now those are hot! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif and the one size fits

all thing, it probably would fit, and cheap too heehee... hmm wonder if i can get that first one before valentines?

Thank you! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

BigBear

01-27-2004, 12:00 PM

Always go with Leather, hun!

------BigBadBear

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BigBear

01-27-2004, 12:03 PM

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Ahh, my popularity on this

forum is revealed...

<hr /></blockquote>

Dont sweat it, hun! Been reading the bord

for q while now, and your 1 of the funniest guys up here.

Keep me smilin\'!!

------BigBadBear

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Elana

01-27-2004, 12:10 PM

Welcome to the forum BB. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

CJ01

01-27-2004, 12:13 PM

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wow havent even got the mones yet

and already im getting offers of sex? :P

<hr /></blockquote> get used to it if you´re

planning to stick around

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pot?

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/></blockquote> could work but no indica

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hes 25, we havent been together for a year yet so it is newish.

<hr

/></blockquote> do you actually live together too?

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Always go with Leather, hun!

<hr /></blockquote> definately!!! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif

BigBear

01-27-2004, 12:14 PM

Hey hun...

Your somthing of a legend here it would seem!

Thanks!

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and its BBB!!!

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------BigBadBear

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apple

01-27-2004, 12:17 PM

nope we dont live together. its been mentioned, but wouldnt happen till at least sept cause

of school/work/leases, and also i dont think either of us is ready for that comitment jump just yet. Hes the kind of

guy i can see me living with, even marrying, but i think FAR in the future, YEARS ahead :P and its a \"could

happen\"

Pancho1188

01-27-2004, 12:21 PM

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Hey hun...

Your somthing

of a legend here it would seem!

Thanks! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

and its

BBB!!! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

------BigBadBear

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Oh, no!!!!!!

Not Triple-B!!!!!!!!! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif I knew this guy from my high school who

called himself BBB, Big Bicep Bob, after HHH from the WWF (at the time, now WWE of course) because he bowled his

whole life and developed a bicep that was way too big for his body and he\'d challenge everyone to arm wrestling

contests because high school sucks and he was a dork and he needed some way to get an ego in the stupid, cruel world

of adolescence and I\'m writing run-on sentences because it makes me sound hyper and paranoid because I have

nightmares thinking about my high school and a person name BBB and------AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!

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/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif

On the other hand, maybe this will disassociate me from the

insanity. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

Welcome, BBB!!!

CJ01

01-27-2004, 12:21 PM

Well I wondered because that sort of thing often happens more when a couple has already been living

together for a while. One year can be long actually.....
Well it´s difficult to say much more because we don´t

know much detail and your bfs situation.

BigBear

01-27-2004, 12:28 PM

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<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
Hey hun...

Your somthing of a legend here it would seem!

Thanks!

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

and its BBB!!!

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

------BigBadBear

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

Oh, no!!!!!!

Not Triple-B!!!!!!!!! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif I knew this guy from my high school who

called himself BBB, Big Bicep Bob, after HHH from the WWF (at the time, now WWE of course) because he bowled his

whole life and developed a bicep that was way too big for his body and he\'d challenge everyone to arm wrestling

contests because high school sucks and he was a dork and he needed some way to get an ego in the stupid, cruel world

of adolescence and I\'m writing run-on sentences because it makes me sound hyper and paranoid because I have

nightmares thinking about my high school and a person name BBB and------AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif

On the other hand, maybe this will disassociate me from the

insanity. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

Welcome, BBB!!!

<hr /></blockquote>

LOL /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif

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Thanks hun!

-----BigBadBear

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Pancho1188

01-27-2004, 12:28 PM

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nope we dont live together.

its been mentioned, but wouldnt happen till at least sept cause of school/work/leases, and also i dont think either

of us is ready for that comitment jump just yet. Hes the kind of guy i can see me living with, even marrying, but i

think FAR in the future, YEARS ahead :P and its a \"could happen\"

<hr /></blockquote>

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif Anything could happen...

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif He could come home tonight and make sweet love to you...which is

what I\'ll be hoping for your sake. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

Seriously, though, there

comes a time in a person\'s life when they have to determine what\'s more important: their career or their life.

If work is killing his social/romantic life, that\'s his choice to make. You seem like a nice person, so I hope

he makes the right life choices. However, don\'t be surprised if he\'s disillusioned and thinks he needs to

keep pushing it with his career. I honestly think the ultimate road in his life to hot, passionate sex lies

in his hands, not yours...but that\'s just my opinion on little facts, I could be wrong.

Pancho

burgerama1960

01-27-2004, 01:31 PM

I would try the seduction thing. Use some candles aromatherapy eo\'s, sexy clothes, sexy

background music,some well placed adult toys, lotions and edibles. If that does\'nt get the piston pumping or put

him in that mindset then he does have a problem.

CJ01

01-27-2004, 01:33 PM

Think she´s done that before checking out mones /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Ash

01-27-2004, 03:00 PM

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Elana is so practical! Send her a couple links to the sexy things E.

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/></blockquote>

I am way ahead of you, Ash.

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Always E!

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bjf

01-27-2004, 03:16 PM

Apple, you don\'t want to be the one who is doing all the seducing, right?

Just try the cops and

see if they work. Put some around your house to wear he may be. Just put it on places that it won\'t absorb and

you can wash off.

Hopefully, that is what will get his libido kicking. Have you seen him very horney ever

without you iniating, and did he become aggressive?

Ash

01-27-2004, 03:28 PM

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ok now those are hot!

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif and the one size fits all thing, it probably would fit, and cheap

too heehee... hmm wonder if i can get that first one before valentines? Thank you!

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

I figured Elana

would be able to fix you up. She knows where to get the good stuff! I haven\'t got the nerve to take a look at

the links she posted for you. I mean you\'re 20, horny and snowed in. That\'s more than enough to

contemplate.

apple

01-27-2004, 03:45 PM

yes there have been times when hes been the one to initiate (they were really fun lol) and

yes that is what i want, not to always be the one seducing him! Im going to try that

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif gonna have to look through more posts for combinations for those

copulins also, if mixing perfumes is anything like cooking ill be great at it, i follow recipies perfectly :P

apple

01-27-2004, 04:10 PM

http://cgi.ebay.com/

ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=2885430174&category=48 44 (\"http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=2885430174&category=48 44\")
wow stuck in home and i got a nice outfit

while i sit here giving myself a manicure lol thanks huge Elana /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif

bjf

01-27-2004, 04:19 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr

/>
http://cgi.ebay.c

om/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=2885430174&category=48 44 (\"http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=2885430174&category=48 44\")
wow stuck in home and i got a nice outfit

while i sit here giving myself a manicure lol thanks huge Elana /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif

<hr /></blockquote>
/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif
Yea, thanks

Elana!!!!!!!! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Ash

01-27-2004, 05:03 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr

/>
http://cgi.ebay.c

om/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=2885430174&category=48 44 (\"http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=2885430174&category=48 44\")
wow stuck in home and i got a nice outfit

while i sit here giving myself a manicure lol thanks huge Elana /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

This one is nice too. I wonder if you can get it in your size.

web page (\"http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=2885442778\")

apple

01-27-2004, 05:18 PM

that is nice, but its a plus so id not fit in it, plus the auction is done

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

Elana

01-28-2004, 09:53 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
wow stuck in home and i got a

nice outfit while i sit here giving myself a manicure lol thanks huge Elana

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif

<hr /></blockquote>
My pleasure,

apple. If that thing doesn\'t work....trade your man in for a new and improved model.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

CJ01

01-28-2004, 09:57 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
If that thing doesn\'t

work....trade your man in for a new and improved model.

<hr /></blockquote> ya man,

he´s only 25 what´s he gonna be like at 52? /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

BigBear

01-28-2004, 10:04 AM

hes 25 and he doesnt want to go?

thats silly!

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif

maybe you should send him my way

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

j/k

-----BigBadBear

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif

CJ01

01-28-2004, 10:19 AM

pics pics, videos thank you /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Skyy

01-28-2004, 10:25 AM

Yeah I wouldnt mind seeing apple in that =)

Elana

01-28-2004, 10:26 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
Yeah I wouldnt mind seeing apple in

that =)

<hr /></blockquote>

what am I, chopped liver?

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Elana

01-28-2004, 10:27 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
Yeah I wouldnt mind seeing apple in that =)

<hr /></blockquote>

what am I, chopped liver? /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

<hr

/></blockquote>

That\'s FTR\'s line and I always wanted to use it.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif

CJ01

01-28-2004, 10:30 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
Yeah I wouldnt mind seeing apple in

that =)

<hr /></blockquote> You won´t, it´s BBB and apples bf

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif still interested

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Skyy

01-28-2004, 10:49 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
Yeah I wouldnt mind seeing apple in that =)

<hr /></blockquote>

what am I, chopped liver? /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

<hr

/></blockquote>

AliasXor@hotmail.com (\"AliasXor@hotmail.com\")

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

Elana

01-28-2004, 10:53 AM

You\'ve got mail /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

Icarus

01-28-2004, 10:55 AM

That\'s not fair.

Imona cry now.

Steve

Elana

01-28-2004, 10:56 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
That\'s not fair.

Imona cry

now.

Steve

<hr /></blockquote>

You are too pure.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

EXIT63

01-28-2004, 10:58 AM

I know! I haven\'t gotten a pic in months. I\'m tired of whacking umm I mean uh enjoying those

old ones. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

Icarus

01-28-2004, 10:58 AM

Chance\'d be a fine thing.

There\'s no justice in the world... first, I\'m the only one who

could see BigBears pic (no offence BBB!) and now I\'m being left out in the snow with a cuddly toy while the

grown-ups play.

Steve

Elana

01-28-2004, 10:59 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
I know! I haven\'t gotten a pic in

months. I\'m tired of whacking umm I mean uh enjoying those old ones.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

Months? Try

days. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

Elana

01-28-2004, 11:00 AM

I want to see BigBear!!!

BPB...post them again.

EXIT63

01-28-2004, 11:01 AM

Are you sure you\'re not confusing me with someone else?

Skyy

01-28-2004, 11:03 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
You\'ve got mail

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

Suddenly my day

just got 100x better /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

Elana

01-28-2004, 11:03 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
Are you sure you\'re not confusing me

with someone else?

<hr /></blockquote>

Oh yeah...for a second I thought I was talking

to that tree hugging, Mr. Roger loving, cuddly sweetheart little chipmunk. Nope...It\'s Exit.

Icarus

01-28-2004, 11:06 AM

I want to see Elana without the clown makeup.

Elana

01-28-2004, 11:07 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
I want to see Elana without the clown

makeup.

<hr /></blockquote>

OK, but I still have on the Spock ears

Icarus

01-28-2004, 11:08 AM

Take the spock-ears and you\'ve got nothing!

Steve

EXIT63

01-28-2004, 11:16 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
Are you sure you\'re not confusing me with someone else?

<hr

/></blockquote>

Oh yeah...for a second I thought I was talking to that tree hugging, Mr.

Roger loving, cuddly sweetheart little chipmunk. Nope...It\'s Exit.

<hr /></blockquote>

Just admit once and for all that you love me.

Elana

01-28-2004, 11:18 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
Are you sure

you\'re not confusing me with someone else?

<hr /></blockquote>

Oh yeah...for a

second I thought I was talking to that tree hugging, Mr. Roger loving, cuddly sweetheart little chipmunk.

Nope...It\'s Exit.

<hr /></blockquote>

Just admit once and for all that you love

me.

<hr /></blockquote>

I TOTALLY love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I may be the only person

in this world that does, but I frikken adore you! My little ray of sunshine.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

EXIT63

01-28-2004, 11:20 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr

/>
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
Are you sure you\'re not confusing me with

someone else?

<hr /></blockquote>

Oh yeah...for a second I thought I was talking to

that tree hugging, Mr. Roger loving, cuddly sweetheart little chipmunk. Nope...It\'s Exit.

<hr

/></blockquote>

Just admit once and for all that you love me.

<hr

/></blockquote>

I TOTALLY love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I may be the only person in this world

that does, but I frikken adore you! My little ray of sunshine. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

Saved for posterity!

Pancho1188

01-28-2004, 11:36 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr

/>
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
Are you sure you\'re not confusing me with

someone else?

<hr /></blockquote>

Oh yeah...for a second I thought I was talking to

that tree hugging, Mr. Roger loving, cuddly sweetheart little chipmunk. Nope...It\'s Exit.

<hr

/></blockquote>

Just admit once and for all that you love me.

<hr

/></blockquote>

I TOTALLY love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I may be the only person in this world

that does, but I frikken adore you! My little ray of sunshine. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

Ah, the \"shot heard around the forum\", as hundreds of men\'s

hearts are broken everywhere...

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

Pancho

apple

01-28-2004, 12:04 PM

I wanna see everyones pics! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

i might send normal

pics to people, but sorry everyone im not gonna take pics of me in that outfit

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif well i might but only me and my BF can see them

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

bjf

01-28-2004, 12:12 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
but sorry everyone im not gonna take

pics of me in that outfit

<hr /></blockquote>

I think that is what the guys want

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

OCP

01-28-2004, 01:27 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
I wanna see everyones pics!

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

i might send normal pics to people, but sorry everyone im not

gonna take pics of me in that outfit /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif well i might but only me

and my BF can see them /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

The second you put it on there will be pictures taken.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif

OCP

01-28-2004, 01:30 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr

/>
http://cgi.ebay.c

om/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=2885430174&category=48 44 (\"http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=2885430174&category=48 44\")
wow stuck in home and i got a nice outfit

while i sit here giving myself a manicure lol thanks huge Elana /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

This one is nice too. I wonder if you can get it in your size.

web page (\"http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=2885442778\")

<hr

/></blockquote>

I would pay my wife to wear this stuff. All I get is sweatpants and a

sweatshirt. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif

OCP

01-28-2004, 01:32 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
My pleasure, apple. If that thing

doesn\'t work....trade your man in for a new and improved model.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

He is 25 and

already not interested......something is wrong and it is not Apple!

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif

Elana

01-28-2004, 01:32 PM

OCP

01-28-2004, 01:33 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
Yeah I wouldnt mind seeing apple in that =)

<hr /></blockquote>

what am I, chopped liver? /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

<hr

/></blockquote>

I am not picky, I want to see both of you in it.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif

OCP

01-28-2004, 01:34 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
I would pay my wife to wear this stuff. All I get is sweatpants and a

sweatshirt.

<hr /></blockquote>

That sucks for you.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

She does

too.......that is why I put up with the sweats.... /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif

CJ01

01-28-2004, 02:24 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
I would pay my wife to wear this

stuff. All I get is sweatpants and a sweatshirt.

<hr /></blockquote> OCP, have you

tried dressing up for her? She might do the same in return /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
He is 25 and already not interested......something

is wrong and it is not Apple!

<hr /></blockquote> precisely!

OCP

01-28-2004, 02:38 PM

<hr /></blockquote> OCP, have you tried dressing up for her? She might do

the same in return /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

Hmmm! Never even crossed my simple little mind. Maybe some crotchless panties?

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Elana

01-28-2004, 02:43 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />

<hr

/></blockquote> OCP, have you tried dressing up for her? She might do the same in return

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

Hmmm! Never

even crossed my simple little mind. Maybe some crotchless panties? /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

Or some chaps and a cowboy hat

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif

CJ01

01-28-2004, 02:43 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
Maybe some crotchless panties?

<hr /></blockquote>ouch!! No, get something MANLY no tanga g-strings sh*te!

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif Those are just gross man UGH PUKE !!

apple

01-28-2004, 02:45 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
He is 25 and already not interested......something is wrong and it is not

Apple!

<hr /></blockquote> precisely!

<hr /></blockquote>

yeppers stress stress and more stress can be something wrong! until i find that eliminated, or

physical issues, im not gonna be negative and think its something really wrong

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif this valentines day should be really good tho

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif ill have EW or PCC (still debating) and my newbie kit and all the

sexy stuff i got from ebay /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Elana

01-28-2004, 02:48 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
He is 25

and already not interested......something is wrong and it is not Apple!

<hr /></blockquote> precisely!

<hr /></blockquote>

yeppers stress stress and more

stress can be something wrong! until i find that eliminated, or physical issues, im not gonna be negative and think

its something really wrong /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif this valentines day should be really

good tho /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif ill have EW or PCC (still debating) and my newbie kit and

all the sexy stuff i got from ebay /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

Apple...how often do you two see each other?

CJ01

01-28-2004, 02:50 PM

what does he actually do all day that makes him so stressed out? I mean sex can be a great way of

relieving stress. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

Elana

01-28-2004, 02:52 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
what does he actually do all

day that makes him so stressed out? I mean sex can be a great way of relieving stress.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

I was just

about to ask that. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Sexyredhead

01-28-2004, 05:13 PM

Maybe he\'s a porn star.

apple

01-28-2004, 09:20 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
Apple...how often do you two

see each other?

<hr /></blockquote> i see him once or twice a week only, hes been

forced to work weekends alot lately. (and dont go assuming hes off cheating like alot of people might, im chatting

with him on msn when hes at work) /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
what does he actually do all day that makes him so stressed out? I mean sex

can be a great way of relieving stress. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

<hr

/></blockquote> lots of stuff with computers and cars and programming and a whole lot of

other crap that ive heard a million times but never understand /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif

the basics are he does the job of three of him all the time, safety is an issue with the cars in what he does and

its all complicated lol and the way he goes on about it and how easily i get lost with what hes saying i understand

why he gets stressed over it. Im not a dull bulb and my brain wants to pop with what he does at work.

and in

responce to a way earlier post, when hes 50 hopefully he\'ll own his own business and itll be settled by then so

he will be relaxed and have time for vacations to nice hot exotic places with fruity drinks and tops optional

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Elana

01-29-2004, 05:17 AM

This doesn\'t sound good. You guys are still in the stages when you should be ripping each

others clothes off as soon as you walk in the door. Especially if you only see each other once or twice a week.

There is no excuse for a 25 year old man not to want to have sex with the woman he loves. You are making great

efforts to turn him on and get him in the mood. That\'s very cool of you. There is only so much you can do. If

this doesn\'t work, then you really need to think about other options. It\'s just not fair to you.

bjf

01-29-2004, 06:40 AM

I think she actually likes the guy

Elana

01-29-2004, 06:42 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
I think she actually likes

the guy

<hr /></blockquote>Ya think? /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

That\'s certainly stating the obvious.

I am questioning how he feels about her.

Elana

01-29-2004, 07:28 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
Maybe he\'s a porn star.

<hr /></blockquote>

Ah hah! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif
That

would explain things. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

bjf

01-29-2004, 07:46 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
I think she actually likes the guy

<hr /></blockquote>Ya think? /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

That\'s certainly stating

the obvious.

I am questioning how he feels about her.

<hr /></blockquote>

So if you knew that he cared about her and the lack of sex didn\'t have to do with her,

but rather was more of a libido problem on his part (ie wouldn\'t get in the mood for pam anderson), would you

still say she pursue other options?

EXIT63

01-29-2004, 08:01 AM

yes

apple

01-29-2004, 08:06 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
So if you knew that he cared

about her and the lack of sex didn\'t have to do with her, but rather was more of a libido problem on his part (ie

wouldn\'t get in the mood for pam anderson), would you still say she pursue other options?<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
yes

<hr /></blockquote>

<hr

/></blockquote>

its very possibly that it is a libido problem. and i totally disagree on

the pursue other options if that means leaving him due to that.. ill just have to love my shower more

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif or get him to go to a doctor. I know how he feels about me and

yeah i really care about him! if the mones work then WOOHOO ill give lots of fun details lol still waiting on them

tho, in another country and didnt dish out the extra $ on fast delivery so it might be a wee bit

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif

Gossamer_2701

01-29-2004, 09:33 AM

Well we can all see just how faithful Apple is to their relationship

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif, but how long do you think he would remain in the relationship or

at least remain faithful if their roles were reversed and it was Apple who was too \'stressed\' or \'tired\'

to keep him sexually happy /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif

Just food for thought

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif

Goss

Pancho1188

01-29-2004, 09:43 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
Well we can all see just how

faithful Apple is to their relationship /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif, but how long do you think

he would remain in the relationship or at least remain faithful if their roles were reversed and it was Apple who

was too \'stressed\' or \'tired\' to keep him sexually happy

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif

Just food for thought

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif

Goss

<hr /></blockquote>

A lot

of men wait it out for years. It\'s called marriage.

Ouch.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Pancho

Elana

01-29-2004, 11:13 AM

Skyy

01-29-2004, 12:00 PM

I crave apples from time to time

apple

01-29-2004, 12:08 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
She is 20 years old. There are plenty

of men that can \"care\" about her. She deserves a man that CRAVES her.

<hr /></blockquote>

thats true for sure, but im very picky with my men when it comes to smarts and attitudes, and

trust me VERY few fit my requirments, but ive only met one lol and im with him. Im sure there are others, but never

met any. I am young, so if it doesnt work out i can accept it and move on, but it does work right now so im not

gonna throw away a great package when only one thing doesnt work the best. Im still gonna try and fix that one

thing, so for now ill be patient /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Icarus

01-29-2004, 12:42 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
ive only met one lol

<hr

/></blockquote>

I\'ve never met a Lol. Are they like gnomes? Are they edible? How

far can I push this already threadbare \'joke\'?

He\'s not into Mambo, yet he\'s only

25?

Without sounding harsh, you may want to consider locating another Lol. There are few men at 25 that dont

wanna make mambo, but they\'re called Sofas.

Sofa so good. ahah.

Steve

Elana

01-29-2004, 12:43 PM

You go girl. I hope it works out. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

apple

01-29-2004, 12:48 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
You go girl. I hope it works out.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

positivity

toward my situation! THANK YOU! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif some other people (you know who

you are) are being so negative, i havent got the mones yet and when i do im sure youll all be jealous of all the hot

wild SEX i get /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif

just takes some patience, and support and getting him relaxed and horny

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif

Icarus

01-29-2004, 12:50 PM

I wish you nothing but good!

Make \'im regret all those wasted days! (and nights

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif)

Steve

bjf

01-29-2004, 03:33 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
You go girl. I hope it works out.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

positivity

toward my situation! THANK YOU!

<hr /></blockquote>

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif What am I, chopped liver?

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

OCP

01-29-2004, 05:01 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
So if you knew that he cared about her and the lack of sex didn\'t have to

do with her, but rather was more of a libido problem on his part (ie wouldn\'t get in the mood for pam anderson),

would you still say she pursue other options?<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
yes

<hr /></blockquote>

<hr /></blockquote>

its very possibly

that it is a libido problem. and i totally disagree on the pursue other options if that means leaving him due to

that.. ill just have to love my shower more /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif or get him to go to a

doctor. I know how he feels about me and yeah i really care about him! if the mones work then WOOHOO ill give lots

of fun details lol still waiting on them tho, in another country and didnt dish out the extra $ on fast delivery so

it might be a wee bit /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

I agree, sex is not a relationship. However, you have to ask yourself how important sex is to

you!!!!!!! It sounds like it is really important (for most people it is). Realize this, it will not get better, it

is only going to get worse. As Elana said, you are at the point where you should be half naked while walking into

the house. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

bjf

01-29-2004, 05:40 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
However, you have to ask yourself how

important sex is to you!!!!!!!

<hr /></blockquote>

I think she made that decision

before she ever came to these boards. She obviously cares more about her connection with this guy than sex, or she

would have left already. I bet she has had her sex-time with her bf for three years, but as she said, she knows

more about this guy despite only being with him one year, and she seems far more fullfilled with him despite the

lack of action in the bedroom.

True sex matters a hell of a lot, but love is tantamount to some because it is

harder to find and something that feels good not just when you are horny.

The guy may be hard to understand, but

I trust that she can sense if he might not have interest in her, might be gay, or might be getting some on the side,

and given that she has no concerns about any of those things, you have to believe he just has a low libido. And, as

she said, she is prepared to stick with him, even if that is the case.

His job does sound energy-draining. It

would be nice if he made more of an effort, but I think you can\'t underestimate the testesterone boast from

copulins, so maybe she won\'t have to be doing all the seducing from now on, and if not, she can run the water

inbetween her legs or take a lot of cold showers.

apple

01-29-2004, 07:01 PM

bjf you hit the nail right on the head /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif and

if cops work as well as that then WHEE for me /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

EXIT63

01-30-2004, 03:35 AM

Wow Apple, 126 posts in your first ever Love-Scent thread. That\'s gotta be some kind of

record. You\'re a hit!

Now how bout showin us some leg?!?! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

CptKipling

01-30-2004, 04:10 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
ive only met one lol

<hr /></blockquote>

How far can I push this already threadbare \'joke\'?

Steve

<hr /></blockquote>

I\'d say a little further. This will probably be the only time that anyone makes this joke

ever, so it\'s best to make the most of it.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

apple

01-30-2004, 10:29 PM

wow im a genius!!! I decided i needed to ask flat out if it was low libido my bf has, but to just ask

and be pushy isnt a good idea, so i wanted a nice relaxing night. I cooked him a huge meal, used the good china and

fancy gold plated knives and forks, cooked up some honey mustard chicken with rice and asparagus. for desert

strawberries and chocolate /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif

i put on a cute skirt, knee length,

thigh highs (couldnt tell yet tho) nice black top nothing fancy or anything, and underneith a sexy new pair of red

lace panties /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif

i had the fireplace going, candles lit, nice slow

sexy music in the background, nummy wine. we talked and talked and ate mmmm good food and then after he was all

relaxed (and me a little less clothed) i just mentioned in passing how i could \"help\" him get turned on better,

he admitted hes never had much of a libido his whole life, doesnt seem he wants to go to the docs about it tho, but

this is good news anyways, cause mones should work GREAT for me /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif

hey do mones help in maybe getting a guy horny again for a couple rounds? or is it sorta a one round helper?

lala /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

yeah i just

needed to spill my happyness somewhere and here is so much more open to sex talk than my other *coughprudescough*

friends /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

overall tonight was goooood

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

Elana

01-31-2004, 06:09 AM

Apple...That\'s sounds like a great night with your man.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif
I am not sure why you think it is good news that he has a

libido problem and is not going to see a doctor about it. Mones won\'t do anything to help him. Mones are not as

powerful as you seem to think. They are a terrific stepping stool, but they won\'t fix a medical problem. He needs

professional help. A 25 year old should not be having trouble with his sex drive. It happens to all men one time or

another, but if this is a permanent condition, it is not going to get better by you dabbing on a few drops of this

or that.

Keep working on him to see a professional. There may be something even bigger that needs to be

looked at.

Sagacious1420

01-31-2004, 06:31 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
There may be something even

bigger that needs to be looked at.

<hr /></blockquote>

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif Lucky girl! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif Oh,

wait...you weren\'t talking about that , were you. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Elana

01-31-2004, 06:32 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
There may be something even bigger that needs to be looked at.

<hr

/></blockquote> /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif Lucky girl!

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif Oh, wait...you weren\'t talking about that , were you.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

<hr

/></blockquote>

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Of course it

came to my mind too when I wrote it, but I figured I was the only pig that would be thinking that.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

Elana

01-31-2004, 06:36 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
yeah i just needed to spill my

happyness somewhere and here is so much more open to sex talk than my other *coughprudescough* friends

<hr

/></blockquote>

It\'s also a good idea not to mention this to any of your friends that

know him. It\'s best to keep it here. We don\'t have big mouths. With the exception of SRH....that girl just

can\'t keep a secret. Sag...I am sorry she ruined your surprise party.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif

Sagacious1420

01-31-2004, 06:41 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
There may be

something even bigger that needs to be looked at.

<hr /></blockquote>

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif Lucky girl! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif Oh,

wait...you weren\'t talking about that , were you. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Of course it came to my mind too when I wrote it, but I figured

I was the only pig that would be thinking that. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

<hr

/></blockquote>Yeah, right. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

Sagacious1420

01-31-2004, 06:57 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
With the exception of

SRH....that girl just can\'t keep a secret. Sag...I am sorry she ruined your surprise party.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif

<hr /></blockquote>Party? What party?

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif Now that is a surprise.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif Will there be nekkid women?

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif I hope they don\'t use me like a piece of meat.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif

Elana

01-31-2004, 07:07 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
With the exception of SRH....that girl just can\'t keep a secret. Sag...I

am sorry she ruined your surprise party. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif

<hr

/></blockquote>Party? What party? /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif

Now that is a surprise. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif Will there be nekkid women?

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif I hope they don\'t use me like a piece of meat.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

No....they are

vegetarians. They will beat you like a scrambled egg and then make a tofu casserole out of you.

franki

01-31-2004, 07:17 AM

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Sagacious1420

01-31-2004, 07:24 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
With the

exception of SRH....that girl just can\'t keep a secret. Sag...I am sorry she ruined your surprise party.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif

<hr /></blockquote>Party? What party?

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif Now that is a surprise.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif Will there be nekkid women?

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif I hope they don\'t use me like a piece of meat.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

No....they are

vegetarians. They will beat you like a scrambled egg and then make a tofu casserole out of you.

<hr

/></blockquote>I\'m not sure whether I\'m exited, frightened or merely dumbfounded.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif Did you just call me tofu?

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif

Sagacious1420

01-31-2004, 07:27 AM

The beating part sounds enticing, but the mention of scrambling things is just frightening.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif

Elana

01-31-2004, 08:34 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
The beating part sounds enticing, but

the mention of scrambling things is just frightening. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif

<hr

/></blockquote>

You have no zest for experimentation.

Icarus

01-31-2004, 09:46 AM

I have ham

Elana

01-31-2004, 09:47 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
I have ham

<hr

/></blockquote>

a ham, beard and a space suit? You are too much man to handle.

BigBear

01-31-2004, 10:32 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
I have ham

<hr

/></blockquote>

Huh /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif

what

does your signature mean anyway? are you getting a divroce?

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif

------BigBadBear

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif

Icarus

01-31-2004, 10:37 AM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
a ham, beard and a space suit? You

are too much man to handle.

<hr /></blockquote>

Bring the family.

Sagacious1420

01-31-2004, 05:11 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
The beating part sounds enticing, but the mention of scrambling things is

just frightening. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif

<hr /></blockquote>

You have no zest for experimentation.

<hr /></blockquote>I like

experimentation, but I don\'t use Zest. It\'s just not my preferred brand.

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

Sagacious1420

01-31-2004, 05:12 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
I have ham

<hr

/></blockquote>Don\'t go making ham and cheese sandwiches or we\'re all doomed...doomed I

say. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif

Icarus

01-31-2004, 05:34 PM

A portent of mustard. What have we traded for this false sense of security?

Relish each

day.

I wish I could groan, but then I\'d die.

Sagacious1420

01-31-2004, 05:48 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
A portent of mustard. What have

we traded for this false sense of security?

Relish each day.

I wish I could groan, but then I\'d

die.

<hr /></blockquote> /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

CptKipling

02-02-2004, 02:46 PM

<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
<blockquote>Quote:<hr />
I have ham

<hr /></blockquote>

Huh

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif

what does your signature mean anyway? are you getting a

divroce?

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif

------BigBadBear

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif

<hr

/></blockquote>

It\'s a quote from a famous film...does that help?

/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif