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manchorito
01-24-2004, 08:05 PM
So what do all of you

know about eye contact? I read in an old Esquire once, that women like it when you look at them for a split second

then look away. What does it mean if you make eye contact with someone many times, etc.

Friendly1
01-24-2004, 09:11 PM
Make eye contact too

many times and it means you\'ve missed your opportunity.

Eye contact is a woman\'s way of letting you

know that she is possibly interested and of testing to see how much of a man or a creep you are. After you\'ve

let her look away first, you should look away and then a little later on (give it a few minutes) look back. If she

is looking at you again you should hold her gaze and smile. It\'s best if you show your teeth but even a weak

smile is better than nothing. If she smiles back, just say, \"Hi\".

What happens after that is up to you.

But you don\'t have to conquer her heart in the next five minutes. You can go for days and just keep saying

\"Hi\". If you pique her interest, she\'ll find an excuse to talk to you.

What happens after that is up

to you.

Be confident and secure in the knowledge that if she is not interested it\'s no big deal to you.

She\'s still a human being and you should treat her with the courtesy and respect you would want everyone you are

not interested in to treat you with.

Johnny_Phero
01-25-2004, 10:55 AM
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After you\'ve let her look away first

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This is key.....always make them be the first to break eye contact

(usually takes less than 2 seconds, though noting how long this takes and where they avert their attention to can

provide much insight....ie. whether they look down or to the side). Follow it up with a sincere smile and you\'re

golden for an approach.

tallmacky
01-25-2004, 11:35 AM
Usually long eye

contact is pretty much requesting a Finger Bang. Ask after awhile of noticing staring from another. \"Do you want a

Manchorito Fingerbang?\"

Friendly1
01-25-2004, 01:31 PM
And don\'t ask about

finger bangs.

Elana
01-25-2004, 02:28 PM
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And don\'t ask about finger bangs.

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No, you never ask. You just do it.

Kari
01-25-2004, 03:44 PM
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So what do all of you know about eye contact? I read in an old Esquire once,

that women like it when you look at them for a split second then look away. What does it mean if you make eye

contact with someone many times, etc.

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I prefer repeated, brief

eye contact, wherin he smiles, then looks away first. I find it intriguing.

Friendly1
01-25-2004, 06:05 PM
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... noting how long this takes and where they avert

their attention to can provide much insight....ie. whether they look down or to the side

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Down is good. It\'s a safe act of submission for her that says, \"You\'re the

man...THIS TIME\".

Kari
01-25-2004, 06:59 PM
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... noting

how long this takes and where they avert their attention to can provide much insight....ie. whether they look down

or to the side

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Down is good. It\'s a safe act of submission for

her that says, \"You\'re the man...THIS TIME\".



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Down in

a man can be charming, too-- especially in big guys. A big, guy, who communicates a little shyness, in the presence

of her attractiveness, can be a serious turn-on.

franki
01-25-2004, 07:01 PM
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Down in a man can be charming, too-- especially in big guys. A big, guy,

who communicates a little shyness, in the presence of her attractiveness, can be a serious turn-on.

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We big/tall guys have to look down all the time to look at other

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Friendly1
01-25-2004, 07:12 PM
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Down in a man can be charming, too-- especially in

big guys. A big, guy, who communicates a little shyness, in the presence of her attractiveness, can be a serious

turn-on.

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Most guys aren\'t that big, though. Manchorito, you

have to remember that nothing is going to work with every girl that comes along. Just get in the habit of trying

different things.

Be a fun guy to hang with. Don\'t try to be cool. Just have fun without knocking other

people. People like to hang around fun guys.

Icarus
01-26-2004, 01:08 AM
Get drunk and puke on her

back.

Take notes. This stuff is golden.

franki
01-26-2004, 01:22 AM
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Get drunk and puke on her back.

Take notes. This stuff is golden.



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Are you sure that works outside of Scotland as well?

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EXIT63
01-26-2004, 02:04 AM
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Get drunk and puke on her back.

Take notes. This stuff is golden.





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Icarus
01-26-2004, 06:00 AM
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Are you sure that works outside of Scotland as well?

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I aitn\'t allaways lived on this \'eer rock.

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Anyways, in Scotland you have to headbutt them as well. It\'s

a physical contact thing.

Dressing up like Mr T is also good.

Steve

Pancho1188
01-26-2004, 09:51 AM
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Get drunk and puke on her back.

Take notes.

This stuff is golden.

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I like it when you puke in my

hurrrrrrrrr
It makes all of the ladies stop and sturrr....
I like it when you puke in my hurrrr
The rest of the

night becomes a blurrr...

Johnny_Phero
01-26-2004, 12:14 PM
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I like it when you puke in my hurrrrrrrrr
It

makes all of the ladies stop and sturrr....
I like it when you puke in my hurrrr
The rest of the night becomes a

blurrr...

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BigBear
01-27-2004, 11:59 AM
LOL!!!

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