View Full Version : No results with SOE or PI/m
jimhoff
12-11-2003, 08:48 PM
Ok. I now
have been using PI/m for about a month and SOE for about 2 weeks. I am afraid to use PI/m most of the time because
there is such a fine line of it working really well, or not at all. I don\'t want to waste my SOE by mixing it
with PI/m.
Now, I have gone to the gym several times, wearing only SOE with no results. Typically I will put 2\"
swipes on each hand, and 2 3\" swipes on the neck. Then I will go work out. No hits.
I have gone out to the mall
a few times, tried to get close to women and talk to them. I wear the same amount of SOE as above and nothing
happens.
I have gone to clubs/bars a few times as well, usually wearing 3 dabs of PI/m and SOE 2 3\" swipes on the
neck, 4\" swipes on the wrists/arms. No results.
I am friendly and enjoy talking to women. I can\'t seem to
see any DIHL, turning of heads, excessive talking, smiling, touching, etc...
I am a believer in mones and am very
interested in finding a concoction that works for me. I am thinking of investing in AE/m, TE or even NPA. I
don\'t want to waste my money. I am thinking about putting on like 10 drops of PI/m and seeing what happens. Of
course I can\'t smell the stuff so I won\'t know if when people are avoiding me is b/c of the bad smell or the
mones themselves.
Am I wearing too much SOE? If I just put a little on (2 2\" swipes on neck), will that be
enough to last all day? Can I smear it around on the skin or should I let it absorb in its applied strip?
I really
want this stuff to work. HELP!!!!
Josh
cuddlebear
12-12-2003, 12:48 PM
10
drops of PI/m? I wouldn\'t recommend that. A definite OD, not to mention a waste of product. Besides,
I\'ve already done it so don\'t repeat my mistake /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif
Why
not mix PI/m with SOE? That\'s where KR#1 came from.
There almost HAS to be a good mix with those 2
products. Between the two, you have all 3 of the most commonly used mones.
Apologies to the forum for my
being almost completely nonexistent, but my laptop is on the fritz for the second time this month and I can\'t
make it on that often.
Cuddles
p.s. Just noticed, you\'re from Baltimore, as am I.
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jimhoff
12-12-2003, 01:46 PM
I
don\'t know. Why haven\'t I seen anything? I don\'t want to become obvious and go out of my way searching
for hits.
I am so frustrated.
Biohazard
12-12-2003, 05:03 PM
I
think your expectations are too high... possibly because you\'ve read too many hit stories on here that are likely
big exaggerations. Pheros won\'t make you into an instant stud. The harsh reality is that if a guy who\'s more
attractive than you walks into the gym, I don\'t care if you\'ve got on the most potent mix of pheros known to
man, you essentially become irrelevent in the ladies\' eyes. If an average Jane is working the scene at a bar and
has on her PPA or copulins or whatever... if a blonde bombshell walks in, the same will happen (the effect is more
dramatic with men since they\'re more dependent on visual stimulation than women).
You have to get
yourself into the mindset that pheros aren\'t hypnotic agents. My perspective is that, given the choice between
two comparably looking people, this is where pheros can make a difference. It\'s like spraying pheros onto one of
two comparably tasty-looking soup containers. But let\'s say one is chicken soup with huge, juicy chunks of meat
and the other choice is a greenish, slimy looking split pea and ham... spraying pheros onto the split pea and ham
will not make any difference. People will still overwhelmingly go for the chicken soup. Most people don\'t want
to hear this because it saddens them when they come to the realization that, in our world, yes looks are very
important.
Pheros may make a difference between whether a date ends the night with a kiss or invites you up
to their place for the night. Point is, you still have to get yourself in the door using conventional interpersonal
tactics. Becoming phychologically reliant or disappointed in something that\'s not intrinsic to yourself is what
the phero manufacterers want. It\'s like the local drug dealer getting you hooked, knowing you\'re gonna be
coming back over and over.
jimhoff
12-12-2003, 06:57 PM
but I
prefer split pea soup over chicken noodle... /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif
Biohazard
12-12-2003, 08:05 PM
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but I prefer split pea soup over chicken noodle...
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I know
you\'re joking. But here\'s a better example.
You know the story where pheros were sprayed onto one
chair in a dental office waiting room, and all the ladies consistently went for that chair? I don\'t know the
details, but my bet is that the chairs looked comparable. Let\'s say one looked less comfy, or had a really
conspicuous stain (maybe something brown) or looked really dingy. Spray pheros on the less visually-appealing
chair... will the ladies still go for it when a softer, cleaner looking chair is available? Doubt it.
Best analogy I can think of to emphasize the importance of visual cues in human sexual behavior and mate
selection. Higher brain > primitive brain.
Very interested in any dissenting perspectives.
SwingerMD
12-12-2003, 10:06 PM
Jimhoff,
For PI/m start out with 1-2 drops instead of dabs. Upturn the bottle and let one drop fall out (the
included plastic drop mech. tends to put out more than what you would get from using a dropper, but that\'s what
I\'ve been using) put one drop behind each ear. No reaction? The next day go up another drop and so on. . . . .
First let\'s see if you get a rxn either good or bad then work from there to get an amount that works for
you.
As for SOE the total amount you are using sounds about right. Just remember that sexual hits are very rare
when using SOE. I use it as a relaxer and a mood setter. It\'s very good at making people feel at ease talking
to you. In fact with all the interesting things that people say when I wear this, I feel like a psychiatrist
/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif . Anyhow with this in mind it is still your job to steer the
conversation to flirting etc . . . . Yes, you still have to work at it but, I have found out how open my targets are
to my advances. Hell, some of the things I so corny but they still eat it up.
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jimhoff
12-12-2003, 11:48 PM
thanks
swinger. that was a really good answer. I will try that. Should I do this every day or alternate days? Should I
mix it with SOE or just start with PI?
Sagacious1420
12-13-2003, 02:51 AM
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I think your expectations are too high... possibly
because you\'ve read too many hit stories on here that are likely big exaggerations.
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Like someone claiming that they get mad hits from wearing 10 drops of
PI/m.......aaaaaannnnnnnnndddddddd no one commenting that you stink to high heaven?
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Take another look at JVK\'s work maybe. Nol can cause a
hormonal response that could eventually lead to a sexual response, but it takes quite a bit of time
and it\'s not necessarily a conscious process. There seems to be some merit to the argument of
\"comparable attractivess\".
Biohazard
12-13-2003, 11:15 AM
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I think your expectations are too high... possibly because you\'ve read too
many hit stories on here that are likely big exaggerations.
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Like someone claiming that they get mad hits from wearing 10 drops of
PI/m.......aaaaaannnnnnnnndddddddd no one commenting that you stink to high heaven?
/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif
Take another look at JVK\'s work maybe. Nol can cause a
hormonal response that could eventually lead to a sexual response, but it takes quite a bit of time
and it\'s not necessarily a conscious process. There seems to be some merit to the argument of
\"comparable attractivess\".
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My hits were always the
\"subtle\" type (using anywhere between 2-10 drops, lately I\'ve been on the conservative end), which is what
I\'ve been claiming the whole time on this board. You can run a search on my handful of posts, and you\'ll see
they are nowhere near the other stories about \"girls wandering aimlessly, etc.\" I\'ve quite often interjected
myself about the possibility that the positive interactions with the ladies is entirely intrinsic to myself and
completely unrelated to synthetic chemicals on my skin.
If positive effects are subtle, then it follows any
negative effects would be as well, meaning no one has ever come out and said \"Damn, you stink!\" At the same
time, no one has ever come out and said, \"let\'s go to the bathroom and have sex right now!\" This is
consistent with the stance that pheros aren\'t magic potions. Someone once said that an OD response doesn\'t
mean a girl running away or outright saying that I stink, but rather it just means she\'ll not be able to detect
that I\'m the source of the pheros and therefore her behavior towards me specifically are not affected in any way.
Again, isn\'t this consistent with the concept that pheros don\'t elicit dramatic [negative] responses?
Another poster had a great analogy recently, about the arbitrary 85% threshold to get a \"hit.\" Pheros
give you +10-15%, which means you still need to account for the other 65-70% on your own. In order of importance:
(1) Physical attractiveness, (2) Money/power, (3) Charm. 2 and 3 can change places, but 1 is solidly in that
position. Again, still consistent with the stance that pheros aren\'t magic potions.
If you hold the
position that pheros have DRAMATIC impacts on human behavior, then I can see why you\'d be afraid of the OD, or
say that high amounts of pheros will automatically lead to only one type of response... as if the science of human
behavior was all robotic and textbook like.
I may check out more of JVK\'s work. But what you said about
-nol requiring some time to work is consistent with the REAL stories of female roommates sometimes acquiring
synchronized menstrual cycles after living together for an extended period of time. Again, this would support the
stance that the effect of pheros are subtle.
Interesting discussion.
Holmes
12-13-2003, 11:51 AM
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Interesting discussion.
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Indeed!
If someone doesn\'t find you attractive without the pheros,
chances are they won\'t find you that much more attractive with \'em.
Holmes
Elana
12-13-2003, 12:25 PM
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Interesting discussion.
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Indeed!
If someone doesn\'t find you attractive without the pheros, chances are they
won\'t find you that much more attractive with \'em.
Holmes
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yup
franki
12-13-2003, 12:28 PM
Maybe if
they already met you this is true, but if they don\'t know you I can see how they suddenly could be a lot more
attracted... Not a 180 turn, but still.. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif
jimhoff
12-13-2003, 01:28 PM
The
thing that I am confused about is all of the hit stories on here that claim that people have noticed others
immediately respond to the mones (ie. double takes, hanging around, touching, etc...) I have seen none of that, and
I consider myself to be above average looking.
J
Pancho1188
12-13-2003, 02:07 PM
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I think your expectations are too high... possibly
because you\'ve read too many hit stories on here that are likely big exaggerations. Pheros won\'t make you
into an instant stud. The harsh reality is that if a guy who\'s more attractive than you walks into the gym, I
don\'t care if you\'ve got on the most potent mix of pheros known to man, you essentially become irrelevent in
the ladies\' eyes. If an average Jane is working the scene at a bar and has on her PPA or copulins or whatever...
if a blonde bombshell walks in, the same will happen (the effect is more dramatic with men since they\'re more
dependent on visual stimulation than women).
You have to get yourself into the mindset that pheros aren\'t
hypnotic agents. My perspective is that, given the choice between two comparably looking people, this is where
pheros can make a difference. It\'s like spraying pheros onto one of two comparably tasty-looking soup
containers. But let\'s say one is chicken soup with huge, juicy chunks of meat and the other choice is a
greenish, slimy looking split pea and ham... spraying pheros onto the split pea and ham will not make any
difference. People will still overwhelmingly go for the chicken soup. Most people don\'t want to hear this
because it saddens them when they come to the realization that, in our world, yes looks are very important.
Pheros may make a difference between whether a date ends the night with a kiss or invites you up to their place
for the night. Point is, you still have to get yourself in the door using conventional interpersonal tactics.
Becoming phychologically reliant or disappointed in something that\'s not intrinsic to yourself is what the phero
manufacterers want. It\'s like the local drug dealer getting you hooked, knowing you\'re gonna be coming back
over and over.
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Let\'s not forget the theory that
attractive people also produce more/better -mones, so in theory you\'re competing with their looks AND their
mones. If they\'re that attractive, they have a good chance of winning that battle.
Sagacious1420
12-13-2003, 05:50 PM
Hey BH-
Sorry dude, that wasn\'t a dig, more like a friendly ribbing like I might do w/ one of my buddies.
/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif I agree that pheros are just part of the total package. I try to
guard against attributing too much to pheros, whether positive or negative. I like Franki\'s analogy about pheros
being like a fishing lure. Sometimes you can spend the whole day \"fishing\" and not get a single bite, other
days it\'s like the fish are practically jumping into the boat...all w/ the same lure. There have been
rare occasions that I\'ve seen dramatic results. On those off times that I\'ve experienced truly
dramatic hits from women, I believe that it has more to do w/ the type of woman and how much I\'m on my game...in
addition to the influence of the pheros. There have also been times that, despite encountering a very receptive
woman, was looking good and was wearing a proven phero mix, I\'ve still managed to screw it up.
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I\'ve found that even an OD can have variable results. Most
times it seems to yield either an \"indifference OD\" or a \"social hook-up\" expereince. On a few occasions,
I\'ve seen a whole room full of ppl become very aggressive, which Sacogoo might attribute to an excess of alcohol
and bad karaoke. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif
jvkohl
12-13-2003, 06:39 PM
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Take another look at JVK\'s work maybe. Nol can
cause a hormonal response that could eventually lead to a sexual response, but it takes quite a bit of time and
it\'s not necessarily a conscious process. There seems to be some merit to the argument of \"comparable
attractivess\".
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In men the hormone (testosterone) response can
occur in as little as 15 minutes. The testosterone (T) response is preceded by a luteinizing hormone response (LH),
which is preceded by a change in the gonadotropin releasing hormone (GnRH)pulse frequency. A fraction of the GnRH
molecule acts directly as a neurotransmitter in rats. Pheromones could thus have direct and immediate effects on
neurotrasmission linked to behavioral change-before change shows up in levels of LH or in T. Same way with the
effect of pheromones on estrogen (E)levels, and on mood in women. This gets a bit technical, but I didn\'t want
anyone to think that there is no immediate response. There may be an immediate response that depends on proximity
and what she\'s been condtioned to respond to.
jimhoff
12-13-2003, 07:03 PM
So... I
should wear the mones when I am around rats... /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif
/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif Just kidding
Biohazard
12-13-2003, 07:55 PM
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Let\'s not forget the theory that attractive
people also produce more/better -mones, so in theory you\'re competing with their looks AND their mones. If
they\'re that attractive, they have a good chance of winning that battle.
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But physical attractiveness is purely anatomical architecture -- facial symmetry, eye shape,
jaw/cheek shape, distance between the hairline and the eye brows, length of legs, muscle tone, waist:hip ratio, etc.
I don\'t see how it\'s in any way related to one\'s biochemistry. It\'s almost like saying that the guy
who made the cover of Men\'s Fitness magazine automatically must have a fast metabolism, ya know?
However,
it\'s a well-proven scientific phenomenon that men who are more physically active do indeed have higher serum
testosterone levels. Meaning, a fat guy who whips himself into shape will demonstrate measurable changes in
hormonal constituency. Which means, as he becomes more physically attractive, his chemical (pheros?) signature may
change. This is where you may find the correlation between looks and more pheros. I can tell you that when I was a
scrawny 17 y/o no girls noticed me. Six yrs later, add 40 pounds of muscle and an attitude, now I\'m getting
looks and the respect. I add in the pheros to give me a little edge, but I don\'t by that it\'ll make or break
me. Could it be that I\'m also naturally secreting more pheros as a result of nurture? Something to ponder.
Sagoo, no offense taken. Even if you were butting heads with me, it wouldn\'t matter cuz I\'m fascinated
with the science of pheros. Not much is documented in controlled settings, which means I have to rely more on human
testimonials (all perspectives) from people like yourself. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif
MysteriousMan
12-14-2003, 02:18 AM
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But physical attractiveness is purely anatomical
architecture -- facial symmetry, eye shape, jaw/cheek shape, distance between the hairline and the eye brows, length
of legs, muscle tone, waist:hip ratio, etc. I don\'t see how it\'s in any way related to one\'s biochemistry.
It\'s almost like saying that the guy who made the cover of Men\'s Fitness magazine automatically must have a
fast metabolism, ya know?
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I just wanted to add an aspect of
physical attractiveness that you don\'t cover.
I remember a girl I found very attractive and medium charming -
when she was sitting or standing. Then I saw how she was moving - and she turned to a big \"NO!\" sign for me.
Suddenly she has been very unattractive to me.
This also works the other way. A few girls at the gym that I would
classify as medium attractive move in a very harmonical way, you see a smooth flow of movements, you notice that
they hear the music. I am not at all talking about some form of erotic dancing. More something that expresses self
conciousness, self esteem and fun to express yourself.
When I see this, I find this girls very attractive.
I
have the impression that inner harmony, the ability to express music and self consciousness become physically
visible.
So if you agree that this is also physical attractiveness, physical attractiveness is more than purely
anatomical architecture. It is also an expression of your mind.
MysteriousMan
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class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
But physical attractiveness is purely anatomical architecture -- facial
symmetry, eye shape, jaw/cheek shape, distance between the hairline and the eye brows, length of legs, muscle tone,
waist:hip ratio, etc. I don\'t see how it\'s in any way related to one\'s biochemistry. It\'s almost like
saying that the guy who made the cover of Men\'s Fitness magazine automatically must have a fast metabolism, ya
know?
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I just wanted to add an aspect of physical
attractiveness that you don\'t cover.
I remember a girl I found very attractive and medium charming - when she
was sitting or standing. Then I saw how she was moving - and she turned to a big \"NO!\" sign for me. Suddenly she
has been very unattractive to me.
This also works the other way. A few girls at the gym that I would classify as
medium attractive move in a very harmonical way, you see a smooth flow of movements, you notice that they hear the
music. I am not at all talking about some form of erotic dancing. More something that expresses self conciousness,
self esteem and fun to express yourself.
When I see this, I find this girls very attractive.
I have the
impression that inner harmony, the ability to express music and self consciousness become physically visible.
So
if you agree that this is also physical attractiveness, physical attractiveness is more than purely anatomical
architecture. It is also an expression of your mind.
MysteriousMan
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Agree with Mr. Mystery. I find male dancers (the one who MOVE like males-- think Swayze, Gene
Kelly, Flately EXTREMELY sexy, when they move. They move with a compelling, masculine, feline (think pantheric)
grace.
I was once visiting a karate dojo. The sensai was a geeky-looking little guy, with coke-bottle glasses.
Then, he did the dragon dance.........
Wit is also exptremely sexy. So is confidence, it it is real, and isn\'t
just narcissism.
Holmes
12-14-2003, 11:36 AM
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Wit is also exptremely sexy.
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Yeah, but brevity has more soul. It\'s just funkier.
Holmes
i to have
purchased PI, SOE, & TE & have not experienced any hits postitive or otherwise. i have combined SOE w/ PI to
experiment in an office environment & well as in casual settings. I have observed zero difference. i will
increase my dosage from 2 drops to 2+ to experiment but have my doubts.
STILL HOPEFUL
Biohazard
12-17-2003, 12:14 AM
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i to have purchased PI, SOE, & TE & have
not experienced any hits postitive or otherwise. i have combined SOE w/ PI to experiment in an office environment
& well as in casual settings. I have observed zero difference. i will increase my dosage from 2 drops to 2+ to
experiment but have my doubts.
STILL HOPEFUL
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As I implied
above, pheros give you a little bit of an edge. Or as some people put it, it makes other people notice you more.
But then people still must react to your intrinsic qualities. Think of it as fishing. You put the bait out,
something bites, but you still need to reel it in.
I stress the importance of visual cues, which is mostly
physical looks. The others above have elegantly suggested there\'s also more intangibles -- style, movement,
sense of humor, etc. The pheros may get you noticed, but if your don\'t have any of the above, it just ain\'t
gonna happen for ya. Not implying anything about you personally, but here\'s an analogy. Let\'s say a girl is
wearing pheros or something that smells really, really nice. It makes my head turn to search for the source, but
the girl is disgustingly obese. I\'m just gonna ignore her.
AzMike
12-17-2003, 12:58 AM
Haven\'t been on here for just about 2 weeks. Mid-December is a busy time of year.
/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif No real hits during the past 14 days, using TESO and PPA. I had
originally poured about 40 percent of my Edge into a spray bottle, when that was exhausted in early December,
started applying TESO directly from the original bottle using dabs, instead of spraying. That didn\'t change
anything.
One thing to note: I was in a rush to meet someone for carpooling to a Xmas party on the 13th, and
after I left my place, realized I had forgotten to put any mones on. First time this had happened since Oct 1.
There were over 150 people there. No one there, including the women, seemed to treat me any less good than when I
had a mone application on. I may have had some residual mones from the previous day\'s application, but I did
shower thoroughly before going to this party.
AzMike
FerroMone
12-23-2003, 02:07 AM
Well as
for SOE it gives me some inconsistent results. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesnt. There are probably thousands
of contributing factors for pheromone success. Such as the age of the girl, hormonal status, humidity, temperature,
etc.
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