Is it safe to say [Archive] - Love-Scent Pheromones Forum

Ash

09-27-2003, 10:10 PM

No doubt this is probably a question that will get DUH\'s for an answer, but is it safe to say that the most outrageous hits are in settings where alcohol is a contributing factor? I bring it up because I have never seen it addressed specifically on the Forum before. Lots of discussion about office flirting hits but it seems like it\'s always a bar or club where the crotch gets grabbed. And what about women using mones in club settings? Do they get groped and fondled like some of the guys? If so, is that a desired effect? What type of response are women hoping to get when they where mones? I wouldn\'t think that overtly sexual advances would go over all that well. Hmmm...depends on how good looking the guy that\'s being overtly sexual is?

Ash

CJ01

09-28-2003, 01:15 AM

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And what about women using mones in club settings? Do they get groped and fondled like some of the guys? If so, is that a desired effect?

<hr /></blockquote> NO. Not unless she´s a hooker.

EXIT63

09-28-2003, 05:11 AM

Here\'s 2 foolproof wats to get a woman into bed:

1. Learn the words to Achey Breaky Heart.

2. Get um drunk! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Whitehall

09-29-2003, 07:33 AM

A key to women\'s sexuality is inhibition. Women have to be more careful in with whom and when they have sex. Hence, their inhibitory mechanisms are rather stronger than in men (in general).

One of the reasons why alcohol is so popular is that it both reduces inhibitions and clouds judgment. Women who feel the urge to have sex will go to bars to drink - that makes it easier for them to overcome the internal barriers.

A little alcohol also makes it easier for a woman to respond to pheromones actively. So you are right - alcohol seems to release the proactive sexual urges in women while it doesn\'t seem to do much with the more purely passive. IE, a slightly drunk woman exposed to mones is more likely to do something sexual rather than just accept something being done to her.

I think that\'s a significant observation you\'ve made there Ash.

MysteriousMan

09-29-2003, 07:44 AM

Ash,

In a recent posting (\"http://www.server2.love-scent.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=UBB5&Number=92395&Forum=Al l_Forums&Words=2513&Match=Username&Searchpage=1&Li mit=25&Old=allposts&Main=92204&Search=true#Post923 95\") I tried to explain this behaviour.

MysteriousMan

Mtnjim

09-29-2003, 09:45 AM

\"Lots of discussion about office flirting hits but it seems like it\'s always a bar or club where the crotch gets grabbed.\"

Women go to the office to work, they go to the bar/club to meet men! It\'s the setting and what is appropriate. (among other things)

Elana

09-30-2003, 04:10 AM

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. And what about women using mones in club settings? Do they get groped and fondled like some of the guys? If so, is that a desired effect? What type of response are women hoping to get when they where mones?

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If a guy that I didn\'t know grabbed, groped or fondled me, he would be missing several fingers and would be very wet from the drink I threw in his face.

Icarus

09-30-2003, 04:53 AM

It happens with such alarming regularity that there\'s a club for it now. The Wet and Suitably Disabled Semi-Fingerless Ex-Ass Gropers\' Society. (or WASDSFEAG for short)

They have a forum, quite similar to ours, in which Elana is similarly lauded.

To answer your question (in a manner that merely agrees with all previous answers); certain places and situations have rules and regulations \'bound\' up in their place in your head. Openly sexual behaviour - like the groping of someones ass - is a pretty severe \'no-no\' in most places, but due to the club setting, becomes \'possible\', and downright applaudible in certain cases (but is sometimes inexcusable)

What am I trying to say? Drink may help, but you must consider the \'horizon of expectations\' of people putting themselves in certain places and situations.

This doesn\'t mean that every girl in a bar/club/mixed-sauna(?) wants to be groped; but similarly it also doesn\'t mean that the adorable doe-eyed intern in your office doesn\'t want to be dragged into the stationary cupboard and ravaged.

Or not. I can\'t decide. I only ever worked in an office once.

Steeve

Elana

09-30-2003, 04:57 AM

Oh Ssssssst....I am sorry about your middle finger. Your ring looks good worn on your thumb like that.

Icarus

09-30-2003, 05:16 AM

S\'not the same.

In my defence, I was merely adjusting your barstool - there was no need to get.... bitey.

Kari

09-30-2003, 07:35 AM

If he grabbed, groped or fondled me, he might have to get his nose reset.

The neanderthal approach is not impressive. Let\'s see a little finesse.

Whitehall

09-30-2003, 10:11 AM

Let\'s get the biology clear - women have at least two sexual modes - proactive and receptive. She can also be disinterested or hostile about sexual contact.

In \"proactive\", she is actively eliciting sexual interaction with a male. None seems to encourage this state when she is ovulating or otherwise in a state of sexual interest. Here\' she gropes the guy, or at least wiggles her butt or tosses her hair.

In \"receptive\", she is passive and accepts the male\'s interests. Copulins might encourage this state with known partners. She\'ll let things happen but doesn\'t actively encourage sex.

For a woman to be increasedly receptive to unknown males groping her in a sexual manner requires a pretty low level of self-definition and is NOT a typical reaction with or without mones.

That\'s why I find that hits involve proactive behavior from the female targets. AFTER she has started things and made clear her interest, THEN you can begin to touch her, but only AFTER she sends the right signals.

Ash

09-30-2003, 06:33 PM

It\'s interesting (for me at least) to think that in a club type setting and with a little alcohol to break down inhibitions, some women act out and act on their sexual response to mones. It leads me to believe that in a non club/alcohol environment women are having the same feelings and just not responding to them in the same way, or not responding at all. Being exposed to mones in an office setting for long periods of time could possibly create some very frustrated women and maybe even increase vibrator and dildo sales. Hmmm...makes me wonder just what kind of unseen effect I\'m actually having as my mone cloud descends upon those I encounter during the day.

OK, so no groping allowed. That clears that up; not that I\'m a groper or that I was contemplating a good grope next time I hit the clubs. I\'m still wondering about the response women are trying to get though. Guy\'s are all for a good grope or neck licking as the case may be. For me, shallow fellow that I am, the more overtly sexual the advance by the woman, the better. But what are women after with mones. I can see why a woman that is a bit shy or just a little self conscious about her looks might want to use mones to get things opened up a bit, that\'s why I use them, but what about the 10/10 woman that hasn\'t ever needed any extra help. Are mones used to elevate the energy of the encounter?
Ash

Elana

10-01-2003, 05:46 AM

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but what about the 10/10 woman that hasn\'t ever needed any extra help. Are mones used to elevate the energy of the encounter?

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I don\'t use them often, but I have found that they seem to make younger/shy men less intimidated and bolder around me. I also use TE/w and NPA/w for fun alone time reasons. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif

Sagacious1420

10-01-2003, 08:32 AM

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but what about the 10/10 woman that hasn\'t ever needed any extra help. Are mones used to elevate the energy of the encounter?

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I don\'t use them often, but I have found that they seem to make younger/shy men less intimidated and bolder around me. I also use TE/w and NPA/w for fun alone time reasons. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif

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I would imagine that you intimdate the vast majority of men that you encounter, so I can see how mones could be quite useful for a woman such as yourself...at least those times that you are actually interested in being approached by men. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif

As far as your \"alone time\" goes...do you really need any extra help? That is, I doubt that motivation is a problem for you...is it to boost the intesity of your \"satisfaction\"? /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Elana

10-01-2003, 10:13 AM

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As far as your \"alone time\" goes...do you really need any extra help? That is, I doubt that motivation is a problem for you...is it to boost the intesity of your \"satisfaction\"?

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Do men need porn to get horny? NO! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif
It\'s just fun to drive yourself a little over the edge once in a while. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif

Ash

10-01-2003, 11:49 AM

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I don\'t use them often, but I have found that they seem to make younger/shy men less intimidated and bolder around me. I also use TE/w and NPA/w for fun alone time reasons.

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That one didn\'t even enter my mind. Thanks for the insight!

Ash