bivonic
06-15-2003, 10:14 PM
You get to talking to him. At some point during your conversation he says something that really embarrasses you & you blush, turn your head away & cover your mouth at the very least. Let\'s say you are talking about Father\'s Day & I ask you if you talked to your Dad today & your response is, \"actually him & my mum came in earlier today with my sister, it was the only way I could see him.\" My response was, \"Is your sister older or younger?\" You explain she\'s younger, you would like her.\" I respond, \"Why do you say that??\" And you reply, \"She\'s much prettier then me.\" Without hesitation, I look you straight in the eyes & I say, \"That\'s impossible.\" To which you blush, turn your head away & cover your mouth with your left hand yet remain speechless. My response to your behavior is, \"Excellent - I made you blush, sorry to embarrass you like that.\" with a big grin on my face as I walk away.
My question is simple & I think there are two answers. If you recount that episode with two different kinds of guys I am assuming your non-verbal behavior would be different. I\'m guessing if it was someone you were physically & socially attracted to, it would not be out of the ordinary for you to react similarly. Conversely if the same \"script was read\" with someone whom you had already mentally \"tagged\" as unsuitable you would have been more confident & less easily embarrassed & perhaps let me go with a fake giggle & maybe a head nod.
I know this seems overly analytical but that\'s who I am, I\'m just looking for some honest opinions. The truth of the matter is she is a \'substitute\' waitress that works maybe once every month or two that I have built incredible rapport with, but unfortunately she has a boyfriend. I am only making this post in order to better understand women.
My question is simple & I think there are two answers. If you recount that episode with two different kinds of guys I am assuming your non-verbal behavior would be different. I\'m guessing if it was someone you were physically & socially attracted to, it would not be out of the ordinary for you to react similarly. Conversely if the same \"script was read\" with someone whom you had already mentally \"tagged\" as unsuitable you would have been more confident & less easily embarrassed & perhaps let me go with a fake giggle & maybe a head nod.
I know this seems overly analytical but that\'s who I am, I\'m just looking for some honest opinions. The truth of the matter is she is a \'substitute\' waitress that works maybe once every month or two that I have built incredible rapport with, but unfortunately she has a boyfriend. I am only making this post in order to better understand women.