Shoe
12-28-2002, 08:38 PM
Been having good success with DD Lite..... tonight I had a first date with a \"perfect 10\" who I\'ve been pursuing for a little while now. It went very well, in light of my goal for a long term relationship.
But I could use some advice from those of you who have been \"around the block\" as far as relationships are concerned. I am soooo new to this... in fact this was my first date ever. This girl has all three qualities that I have always been deeply attracted to (and until now admired from afar). First she is a \"people\" person, non-exclusive and friendly to everyone. Second she knows how to have fun. Third she has an incredible sense of style. So going into this date I\'m thinking this is great, this is the type of person I could spend the rest of my life with. The thing is, after we began interacting, I just wasn\'t feeling that deep attraction I felt in our previous brief encounters. Later I realize that it\'s because these three things are the cornerstones in my own personality... we were so much \"on the same page\" it really stole my thunder.... it was like talking to myself. These things that I value so deeply didn\'t seem exciting anymore.
I also have a casual friend who couldn\'t care less about these things... but interacting with her I feel so alive and so much like myself.
So maybe I\'ve been confused this whole time about what I really want.... obviously it\'s just a first date but does anyone think things could get more exciting in the future? Frankly I was kind of bored /ubbthreads/images/icons/smile.gif
But I could use some advice from those of you who have been \"around the block\" as far as relationships are concerned. I am soooo new to this... in fact this was my first date ever. This girl has all three qualities that I have always been deeply attracted to (and until now admired from afar). First she is a \"people\" person, non-exclusive and friendly to everyone. Second she knows how to have fun. Third she has an incredible sense of style. So going into this date I\'m thinking this is great, this is the type of person I could spend the rest of my life with. The thing is, after we began interacting, I just wasn\'t feeling that deep attraction I felt in our previous brief encounters. Later I realize that it\'s because these three things are the cornerstones in my own personality... we were so much \"on the same page\" it really stole my thunder.... it was like talking to myself. These things that I value so deeply didn\'t seem exciting anymore.
I also have a casual friend who couldn\'t care less about these things... but interacting with her I feel so alive and so much like myself.
So maybe I\'ve been confused this whole time about what I really want.... obviously it\'s just a first date but does anyone think things could get more exciting in the future? Frankly I was kind of bored /ubbthreads/images/icons/smile.gif