Watcher
07-31-2002, 12:33 PM
Ok well i had a female forum member write to me to get some advise via the personal message system.
It was how would a girl ask me out.
Heres my thoughts
Be direct just come straight out and ask me to coffee a movie or some other low key situation so that we can get to know each other. (havent had this happen before)
The usuall line of attack women take with me is to sit in the background and make comments like ooh hes sexy, ive been called action man and similar things. (muscles here) that actually gives me the shits because when i go to make a move they very quickly find reason to run. So like i said to this forum member - dont bullshit if you only want attention im not giving it because i have limited time in life and to much to concentrate on getting myself through without being wasted.
Be honest dont be indirect to much with what ifs (most guys get pissed off and think women are just wasting their time - that is why women never get the good trustable committed men bacause these women spend so much time procrastinating and not doing.)
Thats it the day i get asked out by a chick i think i will colour my hair blue and run naked thruogh the centre of the city. Although that wont happen so i will have to keep making the moves and wasting time on dead end women who are just users or the alternative do as i do now and ignore all those that (knowing NLP and body language and female nature helps because within a few minutes i can determine if she is a
* attention whore
*attention seeker (a lesser type of above)
*uncommitted to doing anything
*ego stroker / on a power trip
*Being encouraged by some dickhead male to play mind games so that it makes this other guy look good when i either ignore her on make a move and they can have (fun) at my expense
*Is genuine
ANother point ive noticed is that couples usually an attractive female or a couple in love real bad all over each other etc exhabisionist. They sit near me his all over her her attention is elsewhere (usually me) and they carry on and on. I make a point of moving and making sure they get the point.
SHe usually gets upsets argues with him and i get the pleasure of [censored] that little mind game up.
It was how would a girl ask me out.
Heres my thoughts
Be direct just come straight out and ask me to coffee a movie or some other low key situation so that we can get to know each other. (havent had this happen before)
The usuall line of attack women take with me is to sit in the background and make comments like ooh hes sexy, ive been called action man and similar things. (muscles here) that actually gives me the shits because when i go to make a move they very quickly find reason to run. So like i said to this forum member - dont bullshit if you only want attention im not giving it because i have limited time in life and to much to concentrate on getting myself through without being wasted.
Be honest dont be indirect to much with what ifs (most guys get pissed off and think women are just wasting their time - that is why women never get the good trustable committed men bacause these women spend so much time procrastinating and not doing.)
Thats it the day i get asked out by a chick i think i will colour my hair blue and run naked thruogh the centre of the city. Although that wont happen so i will have to keep making the moves and wasting time on dead end women who are just users or the alternative do as i do now and ignore all those that (knowing NLP and body language and female nature helps because within a few minutes i can determine if she is a
* attention whore
*attention seeker (a lesser type of above)
*uncommitted to doing anything
*ego stroker / on a power trip
*Being encouraged by some dickhead male to play mind games so that it makes this other guy look good when i either ignore her on make a move and they can have (fun) at my expense
*Is genuine
ANother point ive noticed is that couples usually an attractive female or a couple in love real bad all over each other etc exhabisionist. They sit near me his all over her her attention is elsewhere (usually me) and they carry on and on. I make a point of moving and making sure they get the point.
SHe usually gets upsets argues with him and i get the pleasure of [censored] that little mind game up.