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**DONOTDELETE**
07-30-2002, 10:11 AM
I\'m hoping someone can help me choose a product for my situation:

Husband and I have been together 8 years, no kids, but busy. I would like a product to get him interested sexually more often. Does anyone have a recommendation for me? Thanks!!

MaxiMog
07-30-2002, 10:41 AM
PCC and/or PI/w will probably do the trick. Very soon, there will also be a new AE version for females. And as AE is very good, this new version will probably be great, too.

Watcher
07-30-2002, 11:42 AM
It may contain couplins or just be more nol heavy. Bruce any details on content yet or secret ingredients. Im sure Mr stone is monitoring the forum for ideas on what works along with his own testing. Intelligent company that one.

EXIT63
07-30-2002, 04:55 PM
Wear really tight pants.

**DONOTDELETE**
07-30-2002, 09:53 PM
\"Wear really tight pants. \"
-EXIT63\"

That will do it, or a microskirt (Don\'t worry about how you look in it because I\'m sure he won\'t mind). Or belly dance for him (these are real sugguestions by the way there are belly dancing women take specifically to spice up their marriage) and adding a little PPC can\'t hurt. Lure him in. Men are easy. A gyrating backside never seems to fail. Try it. I think it will work.

-The Bat

CptKipling
07-31-2002, 06:00 AM
Hmmm............mental images! <drools>

Bruce
07-31-2002, 07:00 AM
Hi,
I have been married about the same amount of time and you do tend to hit some doldrums. We have a couple kids, which probably makes it worse, though mom is less likely to be thinking about sex with a couple of toddlers hanging on her all day.

One big factor is the natural progression of hormones and lidbido. Men typically are losing libido between the ages of 20 and 30 while women are gaining. Health, stress level, and schedule are factors too.

My wife and I are both regular workout freaks and are probably the only married couple we have met since we got to the US that does not have somebody with a wt problem in it. Staying in shape is a major aphrodisiac both for the person getting pumped up and the person oogling the new bod, so go for that if at all possible.

As you can tell from the other posts, clothing is a major aphrodisiac and that is probably especially true in marriages.

RE the new Alter Ego for women: There is NO copulins in it, but forum members will have the opportunity to get a little bottle of a very nasty copulin concentrate we are testing for free with a bottle of AE, so that might be the way to go. Someone mentioned here getting dad to use a little aNONE to help the libido cause. Well, there is a tad of that in the new women\'s AE (just as there is in the women\'s NPA and Edge) to achieve that effect.

Cheers,
Bruce

**DONOTDELETE**
07-31-2002, 07:17 AM
All good advice!

I guess I should have given more info....my husband is 40 and I\'m 35. We both work out regularly and are in very good shape....no problem there. As we\'ve gotten older, his interest has seemed to wan while mine has gotten more intense. He has had some issues with failing to maintain an erection, so I suspect he\'s become self conscious. I\'ve been gentle about this....

Anyway, I\'ve ordered the PCC, we\'ll see if it works!

Whitehall
07-31-2002, 09:40 AM
Let\'s trade spouses! /ubbthreads/images/icons/wink.gif

**DONOTDELETE**
08-14-2002, 07:41 PM
Lesa, I\'d love to hear what results you had with the PCC.This is maybe elementary/chiche, but visual seems really important as does variety. Sometimes it\'s fun to role play a little, including dress up, e.g., dress like a hooker...or do stockings and garters and a string of pearls, or tight t shirt no bra, cut off jeans really short ... Something completely out of character, whatever that would be for you.If you can find his porn stash and see what he\'s been jerking off to, you\'re that much further ahead of the game. Wait till he\'s not around, then watch and learn ... suggest \"new\" things (ideas you get from his porn that maybe he\'s afraid you wouldn\'t do) - tell him you had this weird dream about the two of you and this and that happened. Tell this while you\'re lying with your head on his shoulder and you can feel his heart beat. You\'ll know you\'ve hit pay dirt when his heart jumps and starts pumping harder. Talk about sex and watch his reactions, then go in the direction of what he responds to physically. Sometimes they won\'t tell you what they really want because they think you\'ll be shocked, so it\'s better if you\'re in contact enough to feel his pulse rate. If he will talk to you about his deepest darkest desires sometimes you really will be shocked but keep your cool so he\'ll keep talking to you - you\'ll get over it in time and if you act those things out for him, fulfill some fantasies, you\'ll be amply rewarded.If he doesn\'t have a porn stash and you\'re positive he doesn\'t use porn for self-stimulation, could be it\'s time to watch a movie together.Also just could be his testosterone\'s low, not that he\'s bored or wanting something he\'s afraid to tell you about. Yohimbe from the health food store helps. Have him get a blood test and talk to his doctor. Also - nobody told me this and it hit me like a ton of bricks, so I\'m telling you - if you think your interest is intense now, wait till 40 hits you. OH MY GOD. It\'s way worse than when you\'re a teenager. 24/7 so horny it\'s painful. I thought I was losing my mind until I started talking to women older than me ... who just chuckled knowingly ... it\'s like what teenaged guys must feel like. Can be very miserable if you have no outlet.Hope this helps. Please let me know about the PCC. Thanks and best of luck to you.

Watcher
08-14-2002, 07:48 PM
As a male PCC being worn by a girl lights my brain up very intensly feels like a tingly feeling all over my head very hard to keep a straight face and the tongue must be kept away in the mouth at these times (hard to keep up however.)

www.ecorp.com.au (\"http://www.ecorp.com.au\")

**DONOTDELETE**
08-14-2002, 08:22 PM
Yeah, but does it give you a hard on?

Watcher
08-14-2002, 08:38 PM
Depends on wether it is just a fleeting whiff or if a girl is in the room for quite some time yeah it starts coming on ( a good time to concentrate and focus on a really big turn off ie an image of a naked guy - Im definelty not gay and dont find men attractive at all so the above mentioned helps to keep by hormones in check - also at the moment im using PCC myself so im beginning to get used to having it sitting under my nose large amoutns 24 hours a day which means its getting easier to control my reactions to it -sort of desensitation but i can still react if i want to - conscious control just as i have with androgens is occouring.)

www.ecorp.com.au (\"http://www.ecorp.com.au\")

**DONOTDELETE**
08-14-2002, 08:58 PM
So, Watcher, it seems like the PCC really turns you on. How the effect of EW compare? Similar but stronger, or not the same?

Watcher
08-14-2002, 09:04 PM
EW whats that mean - everyday women im supposing ok i would say stronger. ok thats it PCC works better on me than a normal women. Neutralized if using PCC myself, just some tests im carrying out very useful for weights workout. How about you truth II how are youre PCC testings going. I still reckon that AE beign worn on women are more effective on me however thats right the mens version none heavy Alter ego.

**DONOTDELETE**
08-14-2002, 09:33 PM
I meant Essence of Woman, the new copulin concentrate. I thought you got it?

I actually don\'t have PCC. Since some you like PCC, I may get it and something else from Stone Labs, so Bruce can throw in the EW as well.

Whitehall
08-15-2002, 06:31 AM
Ms. Red,

If you do a search, you should find my song of praise to the 40ish y/o woman. It reflects a man\'s view of the views you expressed.


\"Should me a woman who knows what time it is!\"

- The Music Man

**DONOTDELETE**
08-15-2002, 07:20 AM
I\'d love to see it - sounds like it might brighten my day - but I can\'t find it. What should I search on?

Whitehall
08-15-2002, 08:33 AM
See if this gets you there....

http://www.server2.love-scent.com/ubbthreads/showthreaded.php?Cat=&Board=UBB4&Number=16714&Sear ch=true&Forum=UBB4&Words=40&Match=Entire%20Phrase& Searchpage=0&Limit=100&Old=allposts&Main=16712 (\"http://www.server2.love-scent.com/ubbthreads/showthreaded.php?Cat=&Board=UBB4&Number=16714&Sear ch=true&Forum=UBB4&Words=40&Match=Entire%20Phrase& Searchpage=0&Limit=100&Old=allposts&Main=16712\")