upsidedown
06-28-2002, 07:08 PM
I\'ve just got a few thoughts that I felt compelled to pass on after apx. two weeks of using pheromones, and trying different things.
First, I read a lot of times that people say they didn\'t get any hits with a certain product. No doubt this is true. We do live in a society where everything is so fast...instant coffee, instant photography etc. And if a person expects total strangers to throw themselves at you the minute you meet them, then no doubt the pheromones don\'t work.
But, I\'ve come to the conclusion that often the pheros DO work, but we just don\'t see the results of them immeidately. I\'ve been keeping a spreadsheet of what pheoromes I\'ve worn and where I went, and what I experienced. I discovered a situation about a week ago where I was in contact with a woman but I didn\'t think the pheromones had any effect on her. In fact, I thought I might have OD\'d that particular night. However, I was in the same situation a week later where this woman that I didn\'t think had really reacted to the pheromones actually saw me from a distance and approached me to chat. She made it a point to point out that she remembered me from the week before, and I was surprised to learn that she remembered every detail about me that she had observed from the week before. So, this tells me that I DID make enough of an impression on her for her to remember me....it\'s just that she didn\'t give me a DIHL or anything the week before. Perhaps it wasn\'t the pheromones..and this would have occured without them. Who knows...but since this kind of behavior is unusual for me...I tend to think they played a part.
So, it may be that the pheromoes do make an impact at times when we don\'t think they do, and the woman may just be too reserved to let on right away. But, they might mike enough of an impact where she\'ll remember you and approach you the next time she sees you. So, I think this is something to keep in mind if you plan to use your pheromenes around people you see more than once.
I have another observation regarding the use of none around younger women. I have been experimenting with different products in going to one restaurant and have come to see this as a \"frog in boiling water\" experiment. I eat at a restaurant farily regularly. There is a really attractive woman who works there. This woman is Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition attractive. I am also 43, she is probably 20-21. She never ever noticed me in the past. However, the day I got my first packet of pheromones, I wore a considerable amount of SoE into this restaurant. When I got there, this woman immediately smiled at me and was a bit chatty. Then during my time there, I found her several times looking at me. When I made eye contact with her, she smiled at me very sweetly.
Since then, I have gone in several more times. Each time I have tried different products when I\'ve gone into the restaurant. Each time I have added a little bit more none to the mix. Each time, I\'ve discovered that her initial reaction to me upon seeing me has been different. The big smile on initially seeing me seemed to disappear as the none dosage increased. When I discovered this at first, I sort of figured that her friendly behavior and and smiling the first time was a fluke. However, in these subsequent times, I\'ve discovered that this woman has ultimately warmed up to me after I had been there for a while...and the eye contact and smiles then came around a litte bit later. And, each visit has resulted in her getting enough courage to actually come over and start up conversations with me, with a little flirting at times.. On subsequent visits she has now gotten to where she has started touching me on the arm as well..
Now mind you, this woman easily 20 years younger than me. It is possible that she is just a friendly person and she recognizes me as a regular customer. But, I don\'t know, I somehow believe the pheromones are playing a role in all of this since she never even spoke to me or so much as noticed me in previous visits. Now, I must say that while I am 43 years old (and still single BTW), most people tell me that I can easily pass for someone in his mid to late 30\'s. So, she may not realize how much older than her I am...but perhaps with the pheromones it may not matter. I just don\'t have enough experience with this kind of thing. If I were maybe 10 to 15 years younger I would be tempted to pursue this a little further just to see if my pheros are really making a difference, or if this woman is just friendly person with people in general. But, I\'m quite hesitant to pursue flirting with her too aggressively at my age. But who knows, perhaps over time she\'ll wear me down. :-)
However, my little experience gives me some thoughts for those who talk about none scaring off younger women. Well, this younger woman seems to be getting more and more \"firendly\" with me each time she sees me, and I have been gradually turning up the dosage of none each time. This is why I call it my \"frog in the boling pot\" experiment. If I had worn heavy none the first time she saw me, I might have scared her off. But, having worn nol, she seems to have taken to me...and the friendly pheros broke the ice where she saw me as a freindly and approachable guy. Then, in subsequent meetings, I always had a little more none on me each time. I think this is why I gotten initial neutral looks from her at first rather than a big smile like I got the first time with nol only...perhaps the none kind of caught her off guard, and she felt like there was something a bit different about me that kind of hit her at first. But since she had a prior history of me being friendly and approachable, then she would eventually work her way up to approaching me with the none on and the results became more and more impressive than the time before. And finally it got to where the last time I saw her, I was wearing the full recommended dosage of none (aloing with my full SoE dosage)....but since I had established myself as an approachable guy, the none didn\'t scare her off like it might have to a young woman if I had hit her with it at first.....and she has now taken to touching me when talking to me...showing that things seem to have progressed.
So, I\'m wondering if anyboidy else has ever tried or considered this approach with younger women? Start out with nol to establish yourself as approachable, and then gradually shift your formula over time to gradually \"turn up the heat\" on the boiling pot until she gets acclamated to the none. This gradual approach might be an effective way to use none on younger women without scaring them off right at first.
One final thought about the cost. I\'ve seen a few posts from people talking about the cost of the pheromones. People want something inexpensive, or talk about how they don\'t want to spend too much. I can understand this....and I\'ve spent a considerable amount at first to try different products to see what works best for me. But, after seeing some results these past two weeks....this talk about cost made me think that Bruce could make one of those MasterCard ads with his pheros:
1 bottle of NPA $29.95
1 bottle of AE $49.95
7 SoE Gel Packs $9.95
Finding the right mix of products that works for you: PRICELESS!
First, I read a lot of times that people say they didn\'t get any hits with a certain product. No doubt this is true. We do live in a society where everything is so fast...instant coffee, instant photography etc. And if a person expects total strangers to throw themselves at you the minute you meet them, then no doubt the pheromones don\'t work.
But, I\'ve come to the conclusion that often the pheros DO work, but we just don\'t see the results of them immeidately. I\'ve been keeping a spreadsheet of what pheoromes I\'ve worn and where I went, and what I experienced. I discovered a situation about a week ago where I was in contact with a woman but I didn\'t think the pheromones had any effect on her. In fact, I thought I might have OD\'d that particular night. However, I was in the same situation a week later where this woman that I didn\'t think had really reacted to the pheromones actually saw me from a distance and approached me to chat. She made it a point to point out that she remembered me from the week before, and I was surprised to learn that she remembered every detail about me that she had observed from the week before. So, this tells me that I DID make enough of an impression on her for her to remember me....it\'s just that she didn\'t give me a DIHL or anything the week before. Perhaps it wasn\'t the pheromones..and this would have occured without them. Who knows...but since this kind of behavior is unusual for me...I tend to think they played a part.
So, it may be that the pheromoes do make an impact at times when we don\'t think they do, and the woman may just be too reserved to let on right away. But, they might mike enough of an impact where she\'ll remember you and approach you the next time she sees you. So, I think this is something to keep in mind if you plan to use your pheromenes around people you see more than once.
I have another observation regarding the use of none around younger women. I have been experimenting with different products in going to one restaurant and have come to see this as a \"frog in boiling water\" experiment. I eat at a restaurant farily regularly. There is a really attractive woman who works there. This woman is Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition attractive. I am also 43, she is probably 20-21. She never ever noticed me in the past. However, the day I got my first packet of pheromones, I wore a considerable amount of SoE into this restaurant. When I got there, this woman immediately smiled at me and was a bit chatty. Then during my time there, I found her several times looking at me. When I made eye contact with her, she smiled at me very sweetly.
Since then, I have gone in several more times. Each time I have tried different products when I\'ve gone into the restaurant. Each time I have added a little bit more none to the mix. Each time, I\'ve discovered that her initial reaction to me upon seeing me has been different. The big smile on initially seeing me seemed to disappear as the none dosage increased. When I discovered this at first, I sort of figured that her friendly behavior and and smiling the first time was a fluke. However, in these subsequent times, I\'ve discovered that this woman has ultimately warmed up to me after I had been there for a while...and the eye contact and smiles then came around a litte bit later. And, each visit has resulted in her getting enough courage to actually come over and start up conversations with me, with a little flirting at times.. On subsequent visits she has now gotten to where she has started touching me on the arm as well..
Now mind you, this woman easily 20 years younger than me. It is possible that she is just a friendly person and she recognizes me as a regular customer. But, I don\'t know, I somehow believe the pheromones are playing a role in all of this since she never even spoke to me or so much as noticed me in previous visits. Now, I must say that while I am 43 years old (and still single BTW), most people tell me that I can easily pass for someone in his mid to late 30\'s. So, she may not realize how much older than her I am...but perhaps with the pheromones it may not matter. I just don\'t have enough experience with this kind of thing. If I were maybe 10 to 15 years younger I would be tempted to pursue this a little further just to see if my pheros are really making a difference, or if this woman is just friendly person with people in general. But, I\'m quite hesitant to pursue flirting with her too aggressively at my age. But who knows, perhaps over time she\'ll wear me down. :-)
However, my little experience gives me some thoughts for those who talk about none scaring off younger women. Well, this younger woman seems to be getting more and more \"firendly\" with me each time she sees me, and I have been gradually turning up the dosage of none each time. This is why I call it my \"frog in the boling pot\" experiment. If I had worn heavy none the first time she saw me, I might have scared her off. But, having worn nol, she seems to have taken to me...and the friendly pheros broke the ice where she saw me as a freindly and approachable guy. Then, in subsequent meetings, I always had a little more none on me each time. I think this is why I gotten initial neutral looks from her at first rather than a big smile like I got the first time with nol only...perhaps the none kind of caught her off guard, and she felt like there was something a bit different about me that kind of hit her at first. But since she had a prior history of me being friendly and approachable, then she would eventually work her way up to approaching me with the none on and the results became more and more impressive than the time before. And finally it got to where the last time I saw her, I was wearing the full recommended dosage of none (aloing with my full SoE dosage)....but since I had established myself as an approachable guy, the none didn\'t scare her off like it might have to a young woman if I had hit her with it at first.....and she has now taken to touching me when talking to me...showing that things seem to have progressed.
So, I\'m wondering if anyboidy else has ever tried or considered this approach with younger women? Start out with nol to establish yourself as approachable, and then gradually shift your formula over time to gradually \"turn up the heat\" on the boiling pot until she gets acclamated to the none. This gradual approach might be an effective way to use none on younger women without scaring them off right at first.
One final thought about the cost. I\'ve seen a few posts from people talking about the cost of the pheromones. People want something inexpensive, or talk about how they don\'t want to spend too much. I can understand this....and I\'ve spent a considerable amount at first to try different products to see what works best for me. But, after seeing some results these past two weeks....this talk about cost made me think that Bruce could make one of those MasterCard ads with his pheros:
1 bottle of NPA $29.95
1 bottle of AE $49.95
7 SoE Gel Packs $9.95
Finding the right mix of products that works for you: PRICELESS!