Bowbuilder
09-18-2009, 01:28 PM
Hi all,
This is
my first post. I'm a 44 yr.old straight male, 6' 240 lbs. I've always had alot of guys at work asking my advice,
my opinion, even inviting me to their homes for cookouts. Our company CEO seeks me out every day just to shake
hands, and even though I'm just a worker he frequently has lunch with me.I've always gotten alot of respect from
other males.
All of my past girlfriends, at some point, said that I was initially very intimidating, but was really
a kind, loving guy.
I applied 1/2 gel pack of Chikara (really don't like the smell ) and covered with Stetson. My
boss is female,47 yrs., and she's been there for 2 months.She's always been flirty, alot of touching, smiling but
nothing overly sexual.
This was my first day with Chikara.
Around noon time she asked me if I had slept well. I
said " no, I made a few mistakes". Her and another woman laughed. Then the other woman picked up a small mirror and
suggested that I put it on the floor so they could both see up my pants leg.
But then my boss stated " theres
nothing up there to see anyway". We all laughed but about 1/2 hour later I made a comment about how nice it was to
be a man and the boss looked at me and laughed " I haven't seen a real man since I've been here".
I made a
stupid remark that I would be happy to show her one but she kept walking as if it didn't register.
About 20 min.
later she came by and apologised. It really didn't bother me in the least but i've never been accused of being
anything but 100% male. The real kicker was at the end of the day when she asked me if I was related to one of
the other guys in the plant. This guy is openly gay. I respect him for being honest about who he is, but we don't
look or dress or act anything alike.
So I'm kinda confused about her comments. It seems as if she was thinking
about me differently but not in the way I wanted.
Any suggestions?
This is
my first post. I'm a 44 yr.old straight male, 6' 240 lbs. I've always had alot of guys at work asking my advice,
my opinion, even inviting me to their homes for cookouts. Our company CEO seeks me out every day just to shake
hands, and even though I'm just a worker he frequently has lunch with me.I've always gotten alot of respect from
other males.
All of my past girlfriends, at some point, said that I was initially very intimidating, but was really
a kind, loving guy.
I applied 1/2 gel pack of Chikara (really don't like the smell ) and covered with Stetson. My
boss is female,47 yrs., and she's been there for 2 months.She's always been flirty, alot of touching, smiling but
nothing overly sexual.
This was my first day with Chikara.
Around noon time she asked me if I had slept well. I
said " no, I made a few mistakes". Her and another woman laughed. Then the other woman picked up a small mirror and
suggested that I put it on the floor so they could both see up my pants leg.
But then my boss stated " theres
nothing up there to see anyway". We all laughed but about 1/2 hour later I made a comment about how nice it was to
be a man and the boss looked at me and laughed " I haven't seen a real man since I've been here".
I made a
stupid remark that I would be happy to show her one but she kept walking as if it didn't register.
About 20 min.
later she came by and apologised. It really didn't bother me in the least but i've never been accused of being
anything but 100% male. The real kicker was at the end of the day when she asked me if I was related to one of
the other guys in the plant. This guy is openly gay. I respect him for being honest about who he is, but we don't
look or dress or act anything alike.
So I'm kinda confused about her comments. It seems as if she was thinking
about me differently but not in the way I wanted.
Any suggestions?