ikslavok
04-13-2009, 06:53 AM
I was gonna keep this to myself, but I’ve seen so many others share personal
experiences here, and have gleaned so much from them, that I felt I should do so as well. I’m a total newbie, by
the way, and haven’t used ‘mones much at all.
My wife and I have been in a state of partial separation for awhile
now. We both stopped drinking and getting high a few months ago, and this forced us to face the fact that our
relationship of 3.5 years was a real mess. I want us to work things out, and do not want to see other women.
Period.
Somewhere along
the way she has indicated that she is no longer attracted to me. This led me to cozy-up to the idea of pheromones
to help us connect better and, yes, have sex as well. We see eachother only on weekends.
Without getting too detailed, I tried ½ gel-pack of
Perception Friday night, along with Liquid Trust. When I first put on the Perception in the car, I got one hell of
a buzz and felt good and carefree. And she and I did seem to be more open and relaxed with each other that evening.
So, I then tried a full Perception gel-pack Saturday, and felt very side-tracked and kind of tense. My chest felt
heavy and I was not really happy or upbeat at all. I tried to kinda tamp down those feelings and was able to make
it thru the night without acting like a jerk, but she had to notice I was being strange.
And by the way, the LT didn’t do shit. Or at least
it didn’t seem to do what I wanted it to, and that is to help us to relax and connect better. And it kinda had an
unpleasant comedown after a little bit.
I didn’t use anything on Sunday and we sorta had a nice day. It was a happy Easter and we focused
on our kid and it was more or less lighthearted.
Now, I’m well aware that mones are no substitute for a meaningful
relationship, for self-improvement. Also, I have noticed that ‘none doesn’t work for me. In testing different
things on myself, ‘none made me tense and kinda pissy, and I couldn’t think straight at all. In a strange way.
Now, I’m not an alpha male. I never will be and am fine with that. I’m not a pansy either. Somewhere in between.
My wife’s former significant relationship was with a guy who most certainly was not alpha—a few notches lower than
me in that respect. So that’s the kinda dude she’s into, and that’s good news for me.
I think the best thing, probably the only thing,
that ‘mones can do for me is to break the ice, lighten the mood, create an atmosphere of more openness and trust,
and lower the tension. I’ve already shown myself that ‘none just doesn’t work well with my chemistry. It makes me
more tense, and that’s the opposite of what I need.
I think this weekend I am going to try to use an androstenol-only
product. I will test it on myself first to make sure it does what I want it to do. Even if it only lightens my
mood and has no effect on her, that will help a helluva lot with things between us. If I seem healthy, and calm,
and upbeat, then she will really enjoy being around me more and we will both have a nicer time
together.
As for her
saying she’s not attracted to me, she made it very clear that it was for emotional/trust, etc., reasons and not for
physical ones. So that’s a relief.
I will report back after this coming weekend and let you know how it went.
experiences here, and have gleaned so much from them, that I felt I should do so as well. I’m a total newbie, by
the way, and haven’t used ‘mones much at all.
My wife and I have been in a state of partial separation for awhile
now. We both stopped drinking and getting high a few months ago, and this forced us to face the fact that our
relationship of 3.5 years was a real mess. I want us to work things out, and do not want to see other women.
Period.
Somewhere along
the way she has indicated that she is no longer attracted to me. This led me to cozy-up to the idea of pheromones
to help us connect better and, yes, have sex as well. We see eachother only on weekends.
Without getting too detailed, I tried ½ gel-pack of
Perception Friday night, along with Liquid Trust. When I first put on the Perception in the car, I got one hell of
a buzz and felt good and carefree. And she and I did seem to be more open and relaxed with each other that evening.
So, I then tried a full Perception gel-pack Saturday, and felt very side-tracked and kind of tense. My chest felt
heavy and I was not really happy or upbeat at all. I tried to kinda tamp down those feelings and was able to make
it thru the night without acting like a jerk, but she had to notice I was being strange.
And by the way, the LT didn’t do shit. Or at least
it didn’t seem to do what I wanted it to, and that is to help us to relax and connect better. And it kinda had an
unpleasant comedown after a little bit.
I didn’t use anything on Sunday and we sorta had a nice day. It was a happy Easter and we focused
on our kid and it was more or less lighthearted.
Now, I’m well aware that mones are no substitute for a meaningful
relationship, for self-improvement. Also, I have noticed that ‘none doesn’t work for me. In testing different
things on myself, ‘none made me tense and kinda pissy, and I couldn’t think straight at all. In a strange way.
Now, I’m not an alpha male. I never will be and am fine with that. I’m not a pansy either. Somewhere in between.
My wife’s former significant relationship was with a guy who most certainly was not alpha—a few notches lower than
me in that respect. So that’s the kinda dude she’s into, and that’s good news for me.
I think the best thing, probably the only thing,
that ‘mones can do for me is to break the ice, lighten the mood, create an atmosphere of more openness and trust,
and lower the tension. I’ve already shown myself that ‘none just doesn’t work well with my chemistry. It makes me
more tense, and that’s the opposite of what I need.
I think this weekend I am going to try to use an androstenol-only
product. I will test it on myself first to make sure it does what I want it to do. Even if it only lightens my
mood and has no effect on her, that will help a helluva lot with things between us. If I seem healthy, and calm,
and upbeat, then she will really enjoy being around me more and we will both have a nicer time
together.
As for her
saying she’s not attracted to me, she made it very clear that it was for emotional/trust, etc., reasons and not for
physical ones. So that’s a relief.
I will report back after this coming weekend and let you know how it went.