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jago25_99
12-15-2008, 09:10 AM
1) I can walk
into a bar and recognise 'mones. But I can't yet tell which ones are which because I haven't smelt them all
separately.
They still work though. But nobody else knows, notices, relises or comments.
Doesn't anyone else get
this these days?
2) I do see positive effects. Even a whole room effected to my presence. Especially with 'none
(the alpha/aggressive one). But I can't convert this to results. In fact, it seems to cause problems, driving a
wedge of falseness/incongrument personality between other people's personality, and my personality.
Soon I began
to not like 'none, because to follow it up would require acting in a way I have been taught is wrong from
childhood.
So I tried Chikara. This seemed better. It took longer wearing to have an effect. The effect was more
modest. But still, an odd feeling was had from myself feeling like I'm not acting myself quite.
3) When I was
a teenager there were 2 moments in my life when I had a hot flush and attraction to a girl. The key thing is, I
could feel my armpits sweating but not reason to be doing so to cool down. What I'm saying is that I could
feel my body kicking out pheromones. And at that point I didn't know the things existed (12 years ago).
Now, furthermore, I have never seen this happen again, and I'd really like to know why. Why is my body not
producing pheromones like they did before? I'm in good health.
Am I scared to fall in love after rejection?
As we get older does chemical attraction become less often because it takes more to impress us?
Or, is it that
now I'm older, I expect more of myself. Why aren't I ruling the world by now? It's ok to be nothing when
you're a kid but an adult not feeling worthy will castrate themselves. We end up with who we feel are at our level.
I have a self view of myself that matches some friends, but why do those friends seem to have hotter girlfriends?
Comments?
chicago
12-15-2008, 11:59 AM
Go out and start talking to lots
of women. Be your self, talk to women as if you were talking to your family
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jago25_99
12-15-2008, 12:21 PM
My point was that Phero's
don't currently help me do this
chicago
12-15-2008, 01:13 PM
I understand. To over come your
problem with approaching women, you must approach 100's of women. Try it, the results are amazing. Chikara is real
good choice to start with.
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belgareth
12-15-2008, 02:01 PM
My
point was that Phero's don't currently help me do this
Pheromones are not going to help you talk to
women! The right ones are going to help make them more receptive but you need to make the effort to approach them.
As I grew more attuned to watching the women around me I noticed that I did get hits but it took me a long time to
notice it. Others notice the hits right away and I am sure that many of them are imaginary hits or ones they got
without mones at all. Start with Chikara or SoE and start talking to people and seeing where it leads but do not
expect miracles from mones as they do not happen very often, if at all.
idesign
12-15-2008, 06:08 PM
Completely agree. Do a lot of
reading here and adjust expectations with what you learn. The balance between yourself and your -Mones are heavily
weighted toward yourself. Any internal issues you have socially will show up in spades and override any chemical
you put on your skin.
terry0400-40
12-16-2008, 01:53 AM
The subject
regarding ones own body and the production of natural pheromones is a most interesting and complex subject i
think.
There has been times when i have perspired when i have been nervous, worried, have
had a workout, or because of the reaction of hot humid weather.
There was a case here in the
news nearly a year ago where a young girl was raped by a male person, and the discription the witness gave of the
offender was that his body odour was very offensive and he stunk real bad.
Well he was
eventually caught and the really good news is that it was not me.
But i have certainly
noticed on the occasions that i have been feeling over sexed and in the need of desperate sexual gratification then
i start and perspire and man it has a strong stink that is not associated with any other type of activity.
I can only assume that my sexual feelings must cause a rapid production rate of natural
androstenone.
Also i have noticed that when i am in this state of magnified lust for the
flesh of female i usually have excellent luck in attracting a willing partner, even more so than when not
aroused.
Mind you when i am in the described state i do not have any hesitancies in
approaching an unknown female.
I was feeling this way one day and as i was walking past a
blond at a bus stop i stopped and told her that she was looking at me with those come on eyes, and i felt like
jumping on top of her was my exact words.
She proceeded to tell me that she was of a
specific religious denomination and that i had no chance.
One week later as i passed her
at the same place she stopped me and told me that she had been thinking about what i had said and that she would
like to be my friend.
So i recon pheromone power is good, but a man should be true to
himself and have the balls to follow through with his own style of plain unrehearsed natural action at the time of
his greatest need for sexual fullfilment.
When ya hot u are hot, and when you aint hot for
it then pretending does not get you anywhere, well not unless there is a load in the chamber te he.
DrSmellThis
12-16-2008, 06:58 PM
* Jago, you may be worrying
too much, but I'll try to address some of your concerns.
* It's important to match your -mones to your
personality; strengths, and weaknesses. That avoids the incongruency. But this takes time and experience, through
careful experimentation.
For example, I am preferring not to send out the extreme -none signature these days, as
it seems to take away some of my natural abilities (fostering trust, flirting, giving the sex vibe at just the right
time, etc.). Just because you apply mones doesn't necessarily mean you will IMPROVE your natural signature. You
have to to use them correctly and carefully for that to happen, unless you get lucky.
When I wear -none,
sometimes women seem to want me to be macho and aggressive with them, but that isn't my style (I'm not afraid to
act or be assertive, but I avoid aggressive, certain bedroom situations notwithstanding.), even though they are
showing interest.
I'm more passionate, emotional, and touchy feely, and I try to mix in some gentleness in to
balance it. Because I am also quite capable of over-the-top lust, which gets me in trouble already if I don't
control it just right. I'll mix in some dominance if the timing is right, and can give off an "alpha vibe" as
necessary (seeking always to be "top dog" seems like a stupid, immature ego game to me by now). Whatever -mones I do
or do not wear, I cannot let them interfere with that personal style. Since my style has some subtleness, dynamics,
and multiple facets to it, I don't want to just "paint over the canvas with loud colors", or wear too much
in the way of -mones
The safest approach to enhancing pheromonal attraction, IMO, is to foster your own
natural pheromone signature first (I've written extensively on this topic), and see what you have going for you
already. Then you will always be congruent. I am currently in that process myself. However, a lot of people are
petrified of that strategy, mistakenly believing that excessive soap bathing makes you more attractive.
terry0400-40
12-16-2008, 07:30 PM
Yes some folks
are somewhat sweat phobic and will go and have a good soap scrub at the appearance of a little
perspiration.
They probably have the notion that any slight
perspiration is a turn off for the opposite sex.
I used to get a bit peeved off when ya
meet a girl and she insists on washing her parts before becoming involved in lovemaking, especially when they are
nicely lubricated and ready for action and all of a sudden she is off to the bathroom for a quick splash and wipe, I
appreciate the parts unwashed, as the natural juice is a good a cleaner as anything.
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