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Dahlia
08-25-2008, 11:42 AM
Hi. I really need some
good advise on what phero to use. There are so much information out there that it can really boggle the mind. I am
37 years old and have a very successful carreer. Needless to say, I have not had the time to see people or to take
the time to get to know potential partners. However, I met this guy that I am very interested in, and I would like
to know if he is interested in me before I fully invest my time in getting to know him. We are both very
professional people and seems to have a lot in common. He is very hot and I assume very attrative to the opposite
sex. As for myself, I am very athletic and fit. I have been told that I am hot, gorgeous, sexy..etc. Anyway, I think
that he is attracted to me but I am not very certain. My friends tell me that I tend to intimidate men and that's
why they do not approach me. I kind of feel let down about that because I really am nice and funny. It just takes
time for people to get to know that side of me because I tend to be reserved at the beginning.
So, my dilemna is
what to use. I do not want to use very complicated scents since I am new at this. I would like something simple and
effective. I think it's time I get control over my love life and pursue this part of my life. Also, I need
something that will not affect children negatively since I live with my Sister and her two young ones.
belgareth
08-26-2008, 02:04 PM
Hi Dahlia and welcome to the
forum,
That's a pretty difficult thing to answer. You probably do intimidate some men as most men think they
should be the only aggressive or ambitious ones. My little tiny wife does that to men all the time.
Slow down
when you are around him and be a little less powerful. I know its hard to do, my wife and I have both had to learn
to do that and I have the claw marks to prove it. Smile more and ask gentle, open ended questions. Get him to talk
about personal things and pay attention. Bump into him sometimes and reach out to touch him on the arm when you are
making a point or he makes a joke. You could even go so far as to invite him to coffee, dinner, drinks, the gym etc.
Do it as part of the conversation instead of just dropping it on him. "Oh, you like Indian food? Me too! I know this
great Indiian resturant and haven't been back in ages. Care to join me sometime? It's always better when you have
company for dinner." In other words, let down the guard a bit and let him know its alright to do the same.
For
mones, I think at first you should go very easy on them. Something like SoE unscented and covered with a nice
perfume. It would be best of it were something he's never smelled on you before.
Dahlia
08-26-2008, 02:28 PM
Wonderful advice! I
am so excited about this!! I just ordered SoE and also Liquid trust. I can't wait to receive them. I am not certain
when to use them, but maybe you can help me balance the scope. Am I supposed use SoE when I am just around him? And
can I mix this with Liquid trust, or is it better to get a handle on it one at a time? Also, is there a typical
reaction I can expect from him? He is very manly, rugged, smart and highly educated. He strikes me as open but
focused. I kind of doubt he'll lose control, but that will be intense if he does.
I will definitely keep you
guys up to date on this.
Thanks...:type:
idesign
08-26-2008, 03:04 PM
Let me offer my welcome too
Dahlia.
Bel's advice is great. You should probably use SoE alone at first. It has a way of lowering social
barriers so if you wear it at work expect reactions. Socially, you might expect your "target" to warm up to you and
be comfortable and friendly very quickly. Make sure to "cover" it with a favorite scent. As you say, you don't
need to get too complicated. SoE is a "social" -mone, and not sexual, so "losing control" is not an issue. You
should wear it any time you are in contact with him if you can, in smallish amounts to start, maybe 6-12 inches on
exposed skin.
Hope this helps!
Dahlia
08-27-2008, 09:04 AM
Thanks again. Now,
what type of phero provokes sexual responses? Is that something I need to incorporate to get my guy hot and heavy
for me? I think he is very attracted to me but he is probably like myself, reserved, which is very frustrating at
times. I am so rusty at even trying to get a guy that I really like. I never had a problem getting a guy, but most
of them were for fun... this one can be different. I just need to make sure we have the chemistry to support my
endevour. My goal at this time is to see how much I can make him sweat so I can finally see if he's got it bad for
me too.:angel:
belgareth
08-27-2008, 09:36 AM
For a woman the pheromone you
are looking for is copulins. But, from the sound of it, he may already be responding to your natural copulin levels.
Try the SoE first and see what happens. I think you can order them as gel packs without spending a lot of money to
test them out.
Dahlia
08-28-2008, 08:23 AM
Thank you so much. I
appreciate your feedback. I am supposed to receive my orders tomorrow. I can't wait to see what happens! It's
funny, but people look at me and think I can get any guy I want, but the truth is I am not as secure as I look. I am
extremely catious and a little gun shy. So, as pitiful as it may sound, but I really need to get some romance
soon...:wub:
Thanks again.
terry0400-40
08-29-2008, 11:48 AM
Thank
you so much. I appreciate your feedback. I am supposed to receive my orders tomorrow. I can't wait to see what
happens! It's funny, but people look at me and think I can get any guy I want, but the truth is I am not as secure
as I look. I am extremely catious and a little gun shy. So, as pitiful as it may sound, but I really need to get
some romance soon...:wub:
Thanks again.Ahhh Romance with a capital R, yes it is the oil
that fuels the world.
And yes you need it, we all need it, even i
need it, and understandably we can thrive on the best oil, and it is only natural and intelligent that we apply some
caution in the application of our search for the good stuff, because a bad choice can have life time consequences
which may leave us bereft and broken.
So yeah a little gun shy
Hmmmm ok in my book.
With the pheromone turning more attention in
your direction i sure hope some quality romance is generated 4 U . te he :wub: Oh yeah :wub: :whip:
chicago
12-16-2008, 09:11 AM
Soe is a great choice for both
of you. But remember whats causing you to feel attraction for this guy is, He is in control. If you use mones to
make him lose control, you will lose attraction for
him.:think:
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