View Full Version : Making an impression
kdeeig
04-10-2007, 09:06 PM
I
hope no one minds but I've been lurking for a few days, hoping to learn something new.
I have a non-date with someone I simply adore the first week of May and so I'm going to
experiment some. I made my first order, after reading up all weekend...and [very bravely?] decided to order a small
bottle of EW.
I also ordered some Boudoir from eBay...so we'll see
what sorts of reactions this might elicit when it comes.
I'm pretty
regularly hit on but I very rarely ever find myself attracted to anyone enough to even let them try to get closer.
Not to mention having been hung up on this same one guy for almost two years now...and never even getting my hand
held. It's a long story, but yes he's definitely attracted, no he's not married or otherwise involved, and no he
isn't gay...lol. He's simply very career driven and uh...well it's hard to explain really.
We're going to a concert together that first week of May and it will be the first time
we've been together since last September [we do communicate almost daily by either email or phone and have for over
a year now]...so I'd really like to make an impression, if you know what I mean.
I suppose I have time to order and try other products if anyone has any red hot advice
they're just dying to give?
I'd love some help.
chirimoya
04-12-2007, 08:39 PM
Sounds like the EoW should
only help. You may want to experiment with it before your date so you get a handle on it. Remember to let it dry
down about 15 minutes, then cover it with fragrance. Don't be alarmed at how funky it smells at first when you
first put it on; it's the same on everyone at first...STRONG.
kdeeig
04-13-2007, 08:05 AM
My first test day was
yesterday and I really diluted the EW with the Boudoir, 1 drop EW/5 of Boudoir. I had no problems. The only "hit" I
can sort of say I had was a guy at a mixer I went to, who after requesting to meet me promised not to sue my casino
for copy right infringement, because he "liked" me and gave me his permission to keep using the event tag line in my
advertising that caused the issue in the first place. LOL.
Other than that I was stuck with a lot of women for
most of the mixer...and like I said before, I'm sort of impervious to most males anyway...unless they're
completely so alpha that I can't possibly ignore them.
This morning I got brave and used 1 drop EW straight up
out of the bottle and am waiting to cover it up. I have another mixer in another city tonight so we'll see how that
goes. Like I said, I have time to experiment and try additional stuff-if you have any suggestions? The "non-date"
isn't until May 4th.
kdeeig
04-15-2007, 12:16 AM
Okay, the Friday night mixer was even more boring than Thursday's was. No one even
offered to sue me as an excuse to meet me ::sigh::
I went with a gay co-worker who insisted we leave the mixer
and head straight for the mall to shop a great sale. There he forced me to try on tons of shoes that I didn't want
or need and still bought them anyway.
Today I put the EW on straight, one drop split between my wrists, another
shared between cleavage and behind the ears, covered it up with Chanel No. 5.
Tonight I had dinner with a few
friends and my Rabbi, who has always had a thing for me and flirts anyway. So who can tell? I mean, isn't the point
to get "wanted hits"?
I don't think I'm noticing anything out of the usual here yet...19 days to the official
non-date... advice anyone??
sugarspice
04-15-2007, 04:00 PM
Well if the guy has always liked you, he will like you even if you stink. What ever sound, sight, or smell he felt
when he fell for you is the only thing you need to trigger his like again.
I've noticed that the guys who are
scent oriented have totally never been my type. Usually alot older and appear to care less about superficial
looks.
The ones I use to attract liked personality and looks. I could smell like apples, raisins or BO and
they'd still like me.
My point is if you focus on only one sense you will miss his trigger. Lets say he's a
visual guy and you lathering the scent of vagina on you....well you'll miss the connection if you focus on the
wrong sense. But it is good to cover all your bases I agree.
I had a friend who had a habit of not wearing
underwear and putting her legs on the car dashboard releasing the most offensive odor thinking she can seduce a man.
Both guys in the car ended up like me cuz I was funny and wearing an uber short dress. M perfume was light and
complimentary. Of course later I found out they had already gotten together so this *** was on to greener pasture.
Besides if you're friends with the opposite sex, you'll know guys will want to bang anything that talks to them!
So just use you lovely lips and speak.
kdeeig
04-15-2007, 09:55 PM
Yes, we have all
the ingredients, the attraction is definitely mutual. He's older than me by, like, 16 years. He made a comment once
about coming home from Viet Nam and I said,
"Why that's the same year my daddy came back!"
I really should
learn to just shut up. The same thing that makes me a great broadcaster and publicist is probably the same thing
that gets me into trouble with the opposite sex. :::sigh:::
I know it sounds odd to have been in an emotional
relationship with some guy for almost two years and never to have had my hand held...but it's truly an odd
situation. he's very old fashioned, former law enforcement and now a politician...and I'm in media. So basically
he wants me to wait until he's out of office.
I'm just looking for something to push things along. I'm trying
to be patient. Hell, two years is plenty patient if you ask me. Emails every day, 4-6 hour phone calls, dinners
where we just stare lovesick at one another, etc...
I'm not going to make the first physical move on him. I'm
the girl and that isn't my job as far as I'm concerned. So like I said, it's good on all the levels...just
missing a physical element and I'm getting frustrated after almost two years.
Looking for the edge...if you
will?
I agree that if he likes me he will continue to. I'm just afraid he's moved me into the "only serious
relationship material" category...therefore we can't be anything. He accused me once of being an extremist and I
said,
"Well, Darlin' if the pot wants to call the kettle black, that's your issue, not mine."
I feel like a
cookie or something put on the back of the shelf, for later. I'd rather be eaten sooner, if you get my drift.
sugarspice
04-16-2007, 06:00 PM
I hear you. Same thing happen
to me. Older man too!!! One was 16 years older the other was 12. I'm starting to get tired of this waiting around
nonsense. Seems to be an older guy thing. I think they all studied from the same book of making a girl hang
around.
You should read the book Art of Seduction. Then you'll understand why you want him so much. You can
turn it around so he desires you like a burning inferno. See gist is if you make them wait make them yearn they will
not be able to control themselves and throw them on you. I think that is his plan!!! Becareful with these older men
who make you wait! Love games.
Anywho, for me, APC seems to get all the older guys attention. When I say older i
mean like 50-ish. My friend says it smells like old ladies.
BTW, older guys do not jump your bones, they have
conversation and make love. Hahaha. Blame it on the decline of testosterone. So if you want to ahem them make sure
you have a handy stash of viagra.
As for the whole sexual bit...Girl, it's not you it's HIM!!!!
Mtnjim
04-16-2007, 08:18 PM
... So if
you want to ahem them make sure you have a handy stash of viagra...
Uhmmmm! As an "older man" I've
never needed the stuff. :think:
kdeeig
04-16-2007, 09:10 PM
I'm pretty sure he doesn't need
any chemical help. He's a politician who got caught doing two girls at once about three years ago, not
seperately..we're talking the main event and the encore all at once. So, I can't imagine this is any sort of
impotency issue.
I also suffer absolutely no delusions that he doesn't have convenient distraction elsewhere,
though I'm sure it's of the out of town variety.
This is about "protecting" me...which is rediculous if you
ask me, cause I'm from Texas and I will shoot back.
He's been involved with uncovering some very serious
abuses and he gets death threats on a regular basis and has even had his truck firebombed in his driveway once.
He's retired law enforcement...so the whole Dirty Harry mentality is sort of there. What it really boils down to is
I think he thinks if anyone knew he deeply cared about someone that they might become a target, or at the very least
be used against him in some way.
The mutual attraction is already there, respect, compatibility etc.
Maybe
I'll order some APC as well...
I'm just so damn stubborn that I've dug in like a tick.
sugarspice
04-16-2007, 11:07 PM
Uhmmmm!
As an "older man" I've never needed the stuff. :think:
:) I'm just over exagerating for comedy sake.
please dont be offended.
As for the guy...well my two other guys i dealt with were all involved with others.
Sometimes they dont go there because they feel you might become too attached. I have guy friends who explain that
sometimes they dont go their right away just because they dont want to hurt you or be trapped. I always tell them
I'm against marriage and too lazy to be in a relationship. Definately makes it easier for them to pursue sex.
Anyhow wish you an awesome romantic evening full of fun and pleasure.
Oh my friend told me APC made her and
her boyfriend more excited when they saw eachother.
Mtnjim
04-17-2007, 11:38 AM
... I'm
just over exagerating for comedy sake. please dont be offended....
Once you get to know me, you'll
find that I have a "rather dry" sense of humor!:cheers:
justfabulous
04-17-2007, 12:05 PM
Keedig I order EW and LT about 2-3 weeks ago and haven't seen any results
with them either. I used the LT several times and NOTHING:rasp:! I only used the EW twice and didn't see any
changes either. As I stated before in my other post I am a very attractive girl so I get attention all the time.
However, its never the attention we want, ya know:kiss: . I do the night life scene a lot, I just haven't had time
because of school. I'm going to try the EW this weekend when I go out and see what happens. I will cover it with my
Issey Miyake perfume. If still nothing, I will return and try Cleo or PI/w.
Just an FYI I saw someone mention the "Art of Seduction" by
Robert Green well he has another book called the "48 laws of Power" which is a great
read as well. But if your looking for a "take it or leave it" book then get "Why Men LOVE
Bitches" and "Why Men MARRY Bitches" by Sherry Orgov. I am telling you these books will
save you lots of heart ache:nono: . I actually knew most of the things in the book but it to see it in writing, I
had a lot of "Ah huh" :think: moments while reading this book. It is a fun read.
I see the situation your going through with your relationship and I never
had that type of problem or dated a man that old, I'm 27yrs old however I always dated older men. My point is NEVER
EVER ask a man questions about ANYTHING regarding the relationship, especially sex. I have the opposite problem,
guys don't stick around because I just refuse to sleep with them. Not that I don't want to, its just that the more
you say no, don't call or don't ask any questions the MORE they chase and they more they are into you. PERIOD. Get
those books!
Sounds like
the EoW should only help. You may want to experiment with it before your date so you get a handle on it. Remember to
let it dry down about 15 minutes, then cover it with fragrance. Don't be alarmed at how funky it smells at first
when you first put it on; it's the same on everyone at first...STRONG.
Hi Chirimoya,
i've read a lot
about EOW and i also been using it for over a week. EOW didn't work for me at all. To me the smell was not so
bad. It smelled like vinegar or rotten grapes. i think it smelled better than other mones i got TE/w, SOE/w, and
Cleo. They were all unscented and to me they smelled worse than body odor. i couldn't even breath after i only
applied 1-2 drops:sick: . With EoW i applied 2 drops, one drop on each side of my neck and one split drop on both
wrists and waited 15 mins before i use coverscent. i followed all the instructions from all the EoW posts here but
it didn't work for me. Maybe i'm not using enough?? i have a question on the drops. Is one drop referring to
all the fluid in the whole droppler? (i doubt it as too much in the whole droppler). i hope you can give me extra
tips on EOW.
thanks!
Keedig I order EW and LT about 2-3 weeks ago and
haven't seen any results with them either. I used the LT several times and NOTHING:rasp:! I only used the EW twice
and didn't see any changes either.
:sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad:
:sad:
Me too, EOW did not work for me either. It worked so well
for so many but i couldn't figure out why it didn't work for
me???
As I stated before in my
other post I am a very attractive girl so I get attention all the time. However, its never the attention we want, ya
know:kiss: . I do the night life scene a lot, I just haven't had time because of school. I'm going to try the EW
this weekend when I go out and see what happens. I will cover it with my Issey Miyake perfume. If still nothing, I
will return and try Cleo or PI/w.
Just an FYI
I saw someone mention the "Art of Seduction" by Robert Green well he has another book called
the "48 laws of Power" which is a great read as well. But if your looking for a "take it or
leave it" book then get "Why Men LOVE Bitches" and "Why Men MARRY Bitches" by
Sherry Orgov. I am telling you these books will save you lots of heart ache:nono: . I actually knew most of the
things in the book but it to see it in writing, I had a lot of "Ah huh" :think: moments while reading this book. It
is a fun read.
I see the situation your
going through with your relationship and I never had that type of problem or dated a man that old, I'm 27yrs old
however I always dated older men. My point is NEVER EVER ask a man questions about ANYTHING regarding the
relationship, especially sex. I have the opposite problem, guys don't stick around because I just refuse to sleep
with them. Not that I don't want to, its just that the more you say no, don't call or don't ask any questions the
MORE they chase and they more they are into you. PERIOD. Get those books!
More
power to you!! You are so right on that. Even men said the more time they use to chase you the more they will
appreciate you. I got this info from Cosmo. it's a great site to visit (i think)
kdeeig
04-18-2007, 06:58 AM
Okay, well this seems to be going
off track here. I'm not interested in being a bitch, I have to do it every day at work. I'm also not interested in
getting him to marry me. I've been single for 7 years next month and I've had more than one chance to get
remarried, if that was my goal...and it definitely isn't.
All I'm interested in is getting the man to drop
some of his physical defenses, which he is somehow convinced might get me in some sort of trouble.
I'm not
asking for the moon, just to get my hand held or a nice kiss instead of just staring at each other love sick the
whole time.
I'm not trying to seduce him, because like I said before, that's not my job...and frankly we're
already there. It's not a lack of attraction or interest.
I do definitely appreciate the feedback, though.
Thanks everyone.
justfabulous
04-18-2007, 07:33 AM
Hello all!:wave: Hey Keedig, I agree with you being "fabulous & single" and just
loving yourself. I am fabulous and single as well and LOVE:cheers: every minute of it. The books I refered to you
all are more about being a "independent woman" and loving yourself no matter if you have a man or not. I know the
titles are a bit misleading but the books are so much more than
that.
You said your not "asking for the moon" well honey you should. I ask for the moon
and settle for the stars. One thing I have learned in my years of dating & relationships is that if a man REALLY
wants you, be it emotionally or physically he will make it happen! No if's, ands or buts about it. Yes I know you
said he might think your in danger if someone finds out and your not in denial about him getting his "kicks"
elsewhere but trust me when I tell you if he really wanted it to happen it would have. Look at all the love stories
dating back to Adam and Eve, Romeo & Juliet. Hey I might be wrong but these are just my thoughts. I normally don't
get into grown people business but you posted it so I replied.
This
post is really for all the ladies on this forum that are struggling in their relationship or are having "men
problems" because we all have at some point or another. I hope you find what your looking for Keedig:wub:
.
sugarspice
04-18-2007, 07:51 AM
This post is really for all the ladies on this forum
that are struggling in their relationship or are having "men problems" because we all have at some point or
another.:wub: .
Amen. If we didnt have man problems we wouldn't be here. It's
either too much or not enough of something!
Well just to make a point clear, the books on sediction was to let
you know what HE is doing. I agree chasing is the man's job. But seducing is the woman's job. Seducing is not
blantant groping, caressing, it is the art of drawing you in. Either manipulating your surrounding by using the
visual, psychological, and perhaps the invisible, like use of pheromones.
To know is to be in control. Once
someone loses control thats when you'll have a wonderful physical relationship.
justfabulous
04-18-2007, 01:05 PM
But seducing is the woman's job. Seducing is not blantant groping, caressing, it is the
art of drawing you in. Either manipulating your surrounding by using the visual, psychological, and perhaps the
invisible, like use of pheromones.
To know is to be in control. Once someone loses control thats when you'll
have a wonderful physical relationship.
I couldn't have said
it better myself. So true. :thumbsup:
kdeeig
04-20-2007, 08:01 AM
Yep, that's exactly why I'm
trying the stuff, too.
I guess what I meant by not seducing him was I'm not going to make the first physical
move in this relationship. Matter of fact I've promised him I won't. It's still hard for him and the reason we
don't see one another in person very often...I know he doesn't trust himself too far in that department. If it
were really all platonic on his end he wouldn't have any problem seeing me in person on a regular basis. Like I
said, we're basically in touch by phone or eamil every day...it's the in person thing that he's so worried
about.
He's in the process of deciding whether to run again or not...if he does I might just punch his lights
out or something, lol.
Monette
04-25-2007, 08:39 PM
The Edge + PPA should get him in
the mood. (my experience w/Edge is touchy-feely w. sexual tension/PPA-amorous & attentive) whenever I wear that even
if its to 7-11, I have men wanting to touch my hands or hold my elbows while getting to know me. :whip: I noticed
they lean in w/ deep eye contact too. I live in Florida & I am large framed like Queen Latifah, so I guess I give
off more body heat to release more of the mones.
Good Luck w the experimenting!:thumbsup:
chirimoya
04-27-2007, 07:01 AM
Hi
Chirimoya,
i've read a lot about EOW and i also been using it for over a week. EOW didn't work for me at all.
To me the smell was not so bad. It smelled like vinegar or rotten grapes. i think it smelled better than other
mones i got TE/w, SOE/w, and Cleo. They were all unscented and to me they smelled worse than body odor. i
couldn't even breath after i only applied 1-2 drops:sick: . With EoW i applied 2 drops, one drop on each side of
my neck and one split drop on both wrists and waited 15 mins before i use coverscent. i followed all the
instructions from all the EoW posts here but it didn't work for me. Maybe i'm not using enough?? i have a
question on the drops. Is one drop referring to all the fluid in the whole droppler? (i doubt it as too much in the
whole droppler). i hope you can give me extra tips on EOW.
thanks!
Hi Silv...every woman will have a
different threshold with EoW. You just have to keep experimenting until you get it. Vary the number of drops, the
application points, etc.
I find that 4+ drops is good for me (and that's one drop from the dropper, not a whole
dropper full). Sides of neck, smeared on chest, lower arms & wrist, any place that gets warm and/or is
exposed.
Also, keep in mind pheromones can't do it all. You need to step into the aura they help create. E.g.
you can't be a wallflower wearing EoW and expect men to be climbing all over you. At least this has been my
experience. Let the pheromones help you step out of your comfort zone a bit and THEN see if there's a difference in
how men perceive/treat you.
Good luck :thumbsup:
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