Epyon3359
02-04-2007, 08:39 PM
A hit! (Or was it ACTUALLY a hit?)
Ok, as the story goes…
Two days ago I was at work, didn’t
have any plans for the weekend yet. My friend Hiroshi shows up with this girl that I had never met. As soon as I saw
her, I thought to myself “Damn, wow she’s hot!” We exchange greetings and I go on to ask Hiroshi what he has planned
for that evening. He tells me that they were waiting for one other girl, and then were going to go out to eat, and I
could join them if I’d like. I decided to go, and that made four of us, two guys and two girls. During the evening,
Hiroshi brings up the topic about me liking cars. He further mentions that I have this steering wheel for my PS2
that I play racing games with. The Japanese girl (who is sooo hot) gets all giddy giddy, and starts going on about
how that is so cool and she wants to play. Hiroshi took the other girl to the station so that left the cute girl and
I alone. While he’s away, she’s quick to start talking to me more about cars. Long story short, the three of us end
up back at my place playing that game before she has to catch her train. When we take her to the station, I tell her
that Hiroshi has my number in case she wants to get together again. She tells me that she works tomorrow (which was
yesterday; and her job is really close to my place) which I took as a hint that she wants me to come visit her at
work.
I went to visit her at work yesterday with a hint of Chikara.
When she wasn’t busy, we talked about if she had plans that night. We decided to meet at six. I told her I’d wait
for her on the first floor by the escalator. After she got off work, I was downstairs checking my e-mail on my cell
phone and she comes running down the escalator, yells “John!” and waves her hand. Immediately she starts touching me
on the arm, and when we are leaving, it feels like she wants to wrap her arm around mine. We walk close on the way
back to my place, and the plan was that I would show her some pictures from the Tokyo Auto Salon 2007, and then we
would go visit my friend (who is in the car business). She keeps telling me that she doesn’t know about cars but
wants to learn because she thinks they are so cool after watching “Wild Speed” (The Japanese title for Fast and
Furious). We go to my friends company, talk with him and some other friends I have there for 30/45 minutes and
return back to my place. As we head back to my place, she’s going on about how it was so cool, and I am too… We end
up back at my place, and she tells me that her mother will pick her up at 8:30. We watch a little bit of TV on my
couch and she looks through my cd folder. 8:30 comes around and we walk to the spot where she will meet her mother.
She tells me that she has a bit of a cold, and I turn to her, pull her hood over her head and zip up her jacket. She
stands there and lets me. At the time, she looked like a cute little Eskimo… lol We start to talk about
relationship, and if she likes anyone and she asks if I like anyone. She further mentions that she thinks it would
be a good thing if I had a girl to take with me to different car events and to talk more about cars with. Basically,
someone with the same hobby as mine. While we were waiting, I often look over to this cute little Eskimo and think
about how pretty she is/how much fun I have with her/how great the evening was. I felt like I could have kissed her
right then and there. I felt like she would have let me kiss her; but there was something that was holding me back.
(Keep reading)
Throughout the evening, I was really surprised how
comfortable she is around me. I was also surprised at how comfortable I am around her. We will definitely go out
again…but there’s still a problem. I’m 25 and this girl is only 17. (I know, sometimes it feels like I’m robbing
from the cradle) I talked to my friend (in the car business, who we visited that night) and asked him what he
thought about it. He told me it’s very common in Japan… that younger girls often go out with older guys. But she’s
ONLY 17; not legal age yet. Not saying we’re going to do anything, but we’re really comfortable together, so it
seems like we may only get closer. There’s another problem too. I’m going to be moving to Tokyo in April, so MAYBE
the relationship will be short-lived (But Sawara is only about 2 1/2 hours from Tokyo, so we can still meet). I do
have the opportunity to stay where I’m at, but it seems like over the last couple of months, I’ve wanted to be in
Tokyo (because it’s easier to meet women and there’s a lot more to do) and it would be kind of silly to stay where
I’m at because of a girl. Now I’m starting to have second thoughts about moving. Not only about her, but because of
the friends that I have here. (But I can make friends anywhere…)
Maybe Bruce can help me out with the age thing since he’s lived in Japan and is married to a Japanese
girl. Any ideas anyone?
BTW, I don’t think it happened because of
the Chikara, but I guess that helped too… J
Ok, as the story goes…
Two days ago I was at work, didn’t
have any plans for the weekend yet. My friend Hiroshi shows up with this girl that I had never met. As soon as I saw
her, I thought to myself “Damn, wow she’s hot!” We exchange greetings and I go on to ask Hiroshi what he has planned
for that evening. He tells me that they were waiting for one other girl, and then were going to go out to eat, and I
could join them if I’d like. I decided to go, and that made four of us, two guys and two girls. During the evening,
Hiroshi brings up the topic about me liking cars. He further mentions that I have this steering wheel for my PS2
that I play racing games with. The Japanese girl (who is sooo hot) gets all giddy giddy, and starts going on about
how that is so cool and she wants to play. Hiroshi took the other girl to the station so that left the cute girl and
I alone. While he’s away, she’s quick to start talking to me more about cars. Long story short, the three of us end
up back at my place playing that game before she has to catch her train. When we take her to the station, I tell her
that Hiroshi has my number in case she wants to get together again. She tells me that she works tomorrow (which was
yesterday; and her job is really close to my place) which I took as a hint that she wants me to come visit her at
work.
I went to visit her at work yesterday with a hint of Chikara.
When she wasn’t busy, we talked about if she had plans that night. We decided to meet at six. I told her I’d wait
for her on the first floor by the escalator. After she got off work, I was downstairs checking my e-mail on my cell
phone and she comes running down the escalator, yells “John!” and waves her hand. Immediately she starts touching me
on the arm, and when we are leaving, it feels like she wants to wrap her arm around mine. We walk close on the way
back to my place, and the plan was that I would show her some pictures from the Tokyo Auto Salon 2007, and then we
would go visit my friend (who is in the car business). She keeps telling me that she doesn’t know about cars but
wants to learn because she thinks they are so cool after watching “Wild Speed” (The Japanese title for Fast and
Furious). We go to my friends company, talk with him and some other friends I have there for 30/45 minutes and
return back to my place. As we head back to my place, she’s going on about how it was so cool, and I am too… We end
up back at my place, and she tells me that her mother will pick her up at 8:30. We watch a little bit of TV on my
couch and she looks through my cd folder. 8:30 comes around and we walk to the spot where she will meet her mother.
She tells me that she has a bit of a cold, and I turn to her, pull her hood over her head and zip up her jacket. She
stands there and lets me. At the time, she looked like a cute little Eskimo… lol We start to talk about
relationship, and if she likes anyone and she asks if I like anyone. She further mentions that she thinks it would
be a good thing if I had a girl to take with me to different car events and to talk more about cars with. Basically,
someone with the same hobby as mine. While we were waiting, I often look over to this cute little Eskimo and think
about how pretty she is/how much fun I have with her/how great the evening was. I felt like I could have kissed her
right then and there. I felt like she would have let me kiss her; but there was something that was holding me back.
(Keep reading)
Throughout the evening, I was really surprised how
comfortable she is around me. I was also surprised at how comfortable I am around her. We will definitely go out
again…but there’s still a problem. I’m 25 and this girl is only 17. (I know, sometimes it feels like I’m robbing
from the cradle) I talked to my friend (in the car business, who we visited that night) and asked him what he
thought about it. He told me it’s very common in Japan… that younger girls often go out with older guys. But she’s
ONLY 17; not legal age yet. Not saying we’re going to do anything, but we’re really comfortable together, so it
seems like we may only get closer. There’s another problem too. I’m going to be moving to Tokyo in April, so MAYBE
the relationship will be short-lived (But Sawara is only about 2 1/2 hours from Tokyo, so we can still meet). I do
have the opportunity to stay where I’m at, but it seems like over the last couple of months, I’ve wanted to be in
Tokyo (because it’s easier to meet women and there’s a lot more to do) and it would be kind of silly to stay where
I’m at because of a girl. Now I’m starting to have second thoughts about moving. Not only about her, but because of
the friends that I have here. (But I can make friends anywhere…)
Maybe Bruce can help me out with the age thing since he’s lived in Japan and is married to a Japanese
girl. Any ideas anyone?
BTW, I don’t think it happened because of
the Chikara, but I guess that helped too… J