Newb needs help

[cuteguy37048]

K lemme tell ya

what I'm dealing with. I have a raither big booming voice by nature. I'm not neccessarily a bad looking guy. I

live in a state that (God forbid) is obesessed with Abercrombie wearin, backstreet boy rejects (My appologies to

those that wear Abercrombie, if you're here then perhaps you could share the other side of the story).

I'm

pretty much a t-shirt and jeans guy, I wear nice jeans (like Gap, Ralph Lauren [really like those but have only one

pair], and Tommy), but I just throw a nice screen printed t-shirt on it (I'm a son of two artists so I'm very

picky). I wear a ball cap and have many and I match them many different ways. (onward to personality)

Generally

I'm very flirty with chicks and not very shy at all (I just love beautiful women in general). I usually can get

alot of chuckles and laughs. However most don't concider me bf material.

Is there anything psychological? Or

is there a pheromone that can do the job?

[slickracer]

well, i used to work at

abercrombie and fitch last year, and most of the stuff i wear are abercrombie but i dont think of my self as one of

the backstreet boy rejects.

i dont know what story you want from my side, other then, their clothes are made

out of better materials, (the way it feels when you wear them), they have a better fit then most places as they are

more taliored to one type of body, its more expensive (status) and will def make people notice. oh yeah, if you

worked there they brain wash you think you are the best!!! haha,

but anyway, i heard the word picky and

beautiful women in your post, so im wondering if you are one of those people that will go after a girl and once you

start to get close, you start makeing excuses about her that drive you away. i used to be like that... you just have

to drop your standard and bang acouple of normies (haha) to set you back in place.

[cuteguy37048]

lol. There's only one way

that works with me.

If the hair fools me then I "punch out" (military term for using the ejection seat).

:)

Nah I live in a southern state. there are either butt ugly country girls or semi-hot or hot.

I've yet to

see a gourgeous one that wasn't a stripper or a pornstar here... *look of annoyed disapointment*

[WorkingMann]

lol.

There's only one way that works with me.

If the hair fools me then I "punch out" (military term for using the

ejection seat). :)

Nah I live in a southern state. there are either butt ugly country girls or semi-hot or

hot.

I've yet to see a gourgeous one that wasn't a stripper or a pornstar here... *look of annoyed

disapointment*
You tried goin to the "big city"? :lol:
No I'm just jokin here..
What do YOU think you

need? Is it because you seem "to nice" or that you're to "he's a bit of a jerk"-kinda way?

[cuteguy37048]

Prolly "Too Nice". I have

heard the term "You're a nice guy.."

[WorkingMann]

AE gives a more rough outer

"look" or try slickracers badboymix.. AE + NPA..
Or A314 is also said to give this effect or the "Bond"

effect..
Else PI is also an alternative but be carefull here.. Some people need very little of this stuff (because

it has a high dosage) and therefore some almost Overdose (OD) on 1 drop almost..

Try reading a little about them

and decide out from the result perhaps..

[cuteguy37048]

hmm don't think I'm witty

enough to pull off the Bond effect.

AE and AE+NPA looks intresting.

Yeah the fact that PI is very concentrated

make me very leary of using it. But yeah a bad-boy appearance is prolly what I need at this point.

[bronzie]

hmm don't

think I'm witty enough to pull off the Bond effect.

AE and AE+NPA looks intresting.

Yeah the fact

that PI is very concentrated make me very leary of using it. But yeah a bad-boy appearance is prolly what I need at

this point.

pi aint that bad...i can go 2 drops without ODing

[cuteguy37048]

So what type of person are

people generally that have to watch how much PI they use?

[belgareth]

So what

type of person are people generally that have to watch how much PI they use?
I can't use PI or TE/NPA

except in very small amounts. I'm 50, caucasian, in good shape and self

confident.

[cuteguy37048]

Hmm so are we talkin about

a dot (like a touch on the dropper) or a full drop?

[Marlboro_man]

Hmm so

are we talkin about a dot (like a touch on the dropper) or a full drop?

Welcome to the party, don't be a

stranger!:welcome:

I know newbies get tired of hearing this but everyone is different and you must expirement,

especially with none (EX. NPA and PI) as it can have the most drastic effects.

Back to your original comment

"girls don't consider me boyfriend material", Is this what your trying to accomplish? If so, this may be your

problem.

[cuteguy37048]

Well I don't really have

many "opened doors" for the bf thing to happen.

I've found through long distance relationships that if I can get

the open door it's all it takes because THEY feel really bad breaking up with me.

Which is good IMO because I

know I didn't really do anything wrong. I've had some with no feelings what so ever. That's not good IMO.

[Marlboro_man]

I'm still a little

confused and that's probably because I didn't make myself too clear. Please allow me to ask the question

directly:

When meeting a woman, are you evaluating her as a girlfriend? Meaning are you specifically looking for

a girlfriend rather than someone to casually date?

[cuteguy37048]

Nope just tryin to get to

know her. Kinna takin it easy.

[Marlboro_man]

Tell us a little more about

the type of conversations you have. What kind of things might you say to someone when 1st meeting them?

[WorkingMann]

About the PI it can be

dangerous to some people but most can take 1 drop or more.. I haven't had really bad reactions yet and used 2-3

drops on different accasions..
If you just wanna have some girls "to have fun with" the bad boy apperance is a good

thing.. Perhaps try some David DeAngelo readin.. He have helped me a lot about some things.. I was a little "too

nice" about some things.. Especially at first dates/meetings I didn't wanna affend her or make her mad.. But he

changed my point of view so I get better results now..

But would say try with NPA (perhap plus AE or AE alone)

first to see the effects.. And if this works PI shouldn't be a big problem or a big worry..
But with NPA make sure

you have a good strong cover because it smells really bad...!

[belgareth]

Hmm so are

we talkin about a dot (like a touch on the dropper) or a full drop?
Less than a drop

[cuteguy37048]

Tell us

a little more about the type of conversations you have. What kind of things might you say to someone when 1st

meeting them?

Ohh geez you're askin an ADD man what types of coversations I have? Can't remember. I

have enough trouble remembering what I ate for lunch yesterday. As for what I say It really depends on different

things.

As for the whole David De Angelo thing. I tryed it, it didn't work. I kinna ended up learning from

other relationships (with older women) how to just say things.

[Marlboro_man]

Well the best I can say is

make sure to walk in your own shoes around them. Say what's on your mind and do as you want without being rude and

you won't come across as needy therefore making you much more desirable.

[cuteguy37048]

I heard that. My mom is

extreme Alpha (dominant) Woman, and I'm learning quickly you can't care too much if she's mad cuz she's too easy

to get mad. So I say what I want. Plus one of my past relationships (God bless her) she taught me to pretty much

just go ahead and say it.

[WorkingMann]

Worked good for me.. When

they can't have you they gotta have you.. :thumbsup:

[cuteguy37048]

Well I'd say I'm going in

the right direction. I've dated a model (not a famous one) and an asian chick that is mind blowingly gourgeous and

very intelligent (which I'm still friends with).

[Marlboro_man]

Well

I'd say I'm going in the right direction. I've dated a model (not a famous one) and an asian chick that is mind

blowingly gourgeous and very intelligent (which I'm still friends with).

Sounds good to me, I fail to

see where the problem is for you. Keep up the good work and don't be so hard on yourself.