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CuriousNewb
12-04-2006, 06:28 PM
Hi All!
I just placed my first order today. I ordered the Oxytocin product and the SOE
gel packs. I was going to get the beginner pack but it didn't meet my needs.
You see - I have a boy child, and
he and I just always fight! :( I love him like crazy, and he love me, and for all of that - fight fight fight is
what we do. This is somewhat because of problems his dad and I had early in his childhood - and so it has been
taxing to try to heal the relationship.... needless to say, my understanding of Oxytocin, along with the commentary
here make me think that Liquid Trust just might help. That, plus that I have some business settings I need to be in
where trust would go a long way... I'm really hoping that I see meaningful results! Has anyone else used LT in
this way? Anything to report??
As to more "traditional" uses - there is a gentleman of my acquaintance that I
hope might find SOE appealing... ;) But since this is also in the same business setting, I'm wondering if SOE
mixes well with LT?
Hope to hear from you gals, and guys!
CuriousNewb
CuriousNewb
12-05-2006, 08:23 AM
Wow! :( No replies at all???
I thought surely there would be some response. Is this in the wrong forum?
:(
belgareth
12-05-2006, 09:25 AM
No, it is in the right forum.
It's just an unusual request that I don't think anybody has had much experience with. There has been some
discussion about pheromones around kids in general but nothing conclusive. Your breaking new ground. I wear mones
around my kids and grandkids but haven't seen any real reactions from them. Their friends are another subject and I
usually avoid being around my kids' friends when wearing mones. How old is your son and what kinds of problems?
Just fighting and defiance?
I imagine SOE and LT would be a good combination but I strongly suggest learning to
use each one seperately. You'll get more and better results in the long run if you learn how each works
individually first. SoE would be my choice as a starter because its effects are pretty well known.
CuriousNewb
12-05-2006, 11:40 AM
No, it is
in the right forum. It's just an unusual request that I don't think anybody has had much experience with. There
has been some discussion about pheromones around kids in general but nothing conclusive. Your breaking new ground. I
wear mones around my kids and grandkids but haven't seen any real reactions from them. Their friends are another
subject and I usually avoid being around my kids' friends when wearing mones.
Why?
How old is
your son and what kinds of problems? Just fighting and defiance?
He's a tween, and I've read that the
kinds of problems I'm having are kinda typical for the age group. Defiance is one problem, and then there's the
contrariness. I say "Son, the sky appears to be blue." He says "Not to me! It looks green to me!" And he says this
just because Mom said "blue." Sigh...
I imagine SOE and LT would be a good combination but I strongly
suggest learning to use each one seperately.
I'd prefer it too, but the problem is that I have one day
to do the business mixing - HAVE to do it... and I'd kinda hoped that at some key moment, I could dab some SOE and
do some business mixing with said gentleman, and see what comes of it. As I mentioned -its all the same
day/function. It's more important to me to have the effectiveness at the business mixing than it is to get the
guy's attention, but it would be nice to do both! :)
You'll get more and better results in the long run
if you learn how each works individually first. SoE would be my choice as a starter because its effects are pretty
well known.
Well - what are their effects as relates to business parties?
belgareth
12-05-2006, 02:11 PM
Why?
Why do I avoid my daughters' friends? They are 16, 20 and 25. I'm a little old for them and the couple
times I was around them wearing mones the reactions were noticable. They are just a bit young for my taste.
The
only reason I wear them around my kids is I don't wash them off if I've been wearing them and my kids show up.
He's a tween, and I've read that the kinds of problems I'm having are kinda typical for
the age group. Defiance is one problem, and then there's the contrariness. I say "Son, the sky appears to be blue."
He says "Not to me! It looks green to me!" And he says this just because Mom said "blue." Sigh...
:lol: Been there with all three of mine. Bill Cosby had a great idea. Raise them in a barrel and feed them through
the bunge hole. When they turn 18 you can decide whether or not to drive in the bung.
The best you can do is be
patient. They do grow out of it...eventually.
I'd prefer it too, but the problem is that I
have one day to do the business mixing - HAVE to do it... and I'd kinda hoped that at some key moment, I could dab
some SOE and do some business mixing with said gentleman, and see what comes of it. As I mentioned -its all the same
day/function. It's more important to me to have the effectiveness at the business mixing than it is to get the
guy's attention, but it would be nice to do both! :)
Well - what are their effects as relates to business
parties?
When I am going to a business function like a party I usually wear SoE because it puts out a
more friendly vibe. I'm an aggressive person by nature and anything with -none in it makes people want to argue
with me. SoE combined with a strong sense of the rediculous in my humor usually makes it easy to have fun and keep
those around me laughing. It helps to develop comradary. LT would probably enhance that.
CuriousNewb
12-05-2006, 06:38 PM
Thank you! that's very
helpful!So, you're male? I hope some ladies chime in as I imagine female response to the two products vary
significantly from men's.
belgareth
12-06-2006, 08:01 AM
Ayup, last time I checked I was
distinctly male. Please let us know how your experiments go.
CuriousNewb
01-02-2007, 10:51 PM
Well - here is a first
report. A bout of incompetence from FEDEX meant that the business trip went off w/o help from 'mones, unless my own
were doing the trick. The trip was a success, and the gentleman in question? Well, mixed responses. More friendly,
but of course that could be due to setting, but left the party early, and, without me, despite having brought me
there. :( I was miserably depressed by that turn of events and wondered if having the LT or SOE would have altered
that outcome.
When I finally got the stuff I immediately tried the LT. It smells like rubbing alcohol, which
isn't bad but isn't good either. My son responded instantly - very clingy. Some part of me worries about how
emotional he seemed to be after 3 days. Overall, I think it is positive, but I'm watching it.
Perhaps
because I'm naturally pretty, I don't have anyway of gauging the reaction of men who I don't know. Men stopping
and staring, or calling me out or whatever, isn't actually a rare occurance - on days when I'm feeling outgoing
and cheerful I can expect at least one exaggerated male response for every city block I walk, and on other days, it
still happens, just not as much. So my only real way to tell a change is in the men I know. Are they more
talkative? Kinder? do they seem to stand closer, or stay around longer? So far the answer seems to be yes, mostly
with SOE, with a much weaker effect from LT, which seems to need someone to already be up close. OTOH, LT seems to
make ME more gentle and emotional, and that in turn generates positive responses.
I also got the sampler - with
The Edge for Women and Perception for women. I can't tell any difference btwn TE and SOE, in terms of the men in
my immediate environment - none who are romantic interests and only one of whom ever can be, and I still prefer to
use in conjunction with LT.
More next post...CN
CuriousNewb
01-02-2007, 11:06 PM
Perception stinks. I very
nearly gagged and rushed to cover the stench with a covering scent. But no amount of cover made ME feel comfortable.
I was convinced that I was going to be ill and was glad I didn't have many social engagements the day I tried it.
Unless someone tells me that they get men who are admiring from afar to actually "come hither" with that
stuff... I'm avoiding it like the plague.
My next opportunity to see the gentleman I have my eye on isn't
until late February. :( But by then I hope to have a good regiment...CN
Marlboro_man
01-03-2007, 08:40 PM
Congrats on seeing some
results! Keep up the good work and remember to keep using them seperately for a while to really narrow them down.
My guess would be that you will see more flirtatious friendly responses from TE as compared to people just being
nice with soe.
:cheers:
koolking1
01-04-2007, 06:14 PM
would be to
use "Pheros", my girlfriend has worn it at her office and it tends to make those around her calmer, fragrance is
similar to "Spark" perfume. SOE and LT are other good choices for that calmness aspect. I know it's tough raising
children as a single parent and I can only parrot what's been said, "they do eventually grow out of it". But,
laughing here, how long's that gonna take (lesser than a girl probably)? I also suspect that the more fresh air
and exercise he gets, the easier it will be to get along with him.
I try very hard not to wear the stronger
mones around children, it really does have an effect on them.
Good luck with the guy, can't help you much
there. Pity the forum women seemed to have vanished. They tend to come onboard in waves and then vanish forever.
There have been some very prolific female posters on here in the past.
CuriousNewb
02-03-2007, 10:23 PM
OK - I tried Perception
again. For some reason - I didn't object to the smell as much this time, and covered it comfortably. NO effect on
anyone but my son...who became noticably depressed. :( Fortunately, suspecting that the pheromone might have been
to blame, I sprayed the Liquid Trust on, and he settled down. I'm happy to know that it (LT) at least has the
desired effect, but I can't seem to get any other respect....
CN
Redeye
02-05-2007, 05:45 PM
I'm around, just been busy.
I haven't tried Perception yet, so can't comment on it, but will do at some point.
I find PI/w seems to
work on everyone though, if that helps - making people more relaxed and friendly. Wouldn't be without it now.
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