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I
just got some A1 (full strength) and decided to use it in a combo. I'm a bit of a lone-wolf type so I went with a
full on social mix. I went with 2 drops A1 behind the neck, about 20" of SOE, and a drop of A314 with my cologne
(DKNY) as a cover scent.
I went to a concert with a bunch of friends, mostly female, and were super talkative
with me and A LOT more touchy which is really odd (They know I'm not a touchy feely person).
I happened to see
some of them the next day and they were super cold. It was as though I didn't even exist, barely any
acknowledgement even though I greeted them...generally being ignored (Maybe they think I'm a wussy now?)
The
only theory I can come up with is that I got them high on mones and the next day they saw me was kind of like a
hangover effect. I know I was using a ton of social mones (Impossible to OD right? =p).
It was more of an
experiment for me and I don't really have romantic interest in the women I hung out with. Has anyone experienced
this type of negative reaction after-the-fact? Does this happen more often with certain mones?
Sigma
04-23-2006, 10:49 PM
I just got some A1
(full strength) and decided to use it in a combo. I'm a bit of a lone-wolf type so I went with a full on social
mix. I went with 2 drops A1 behind the neck, about 20" of SOE, and a drop of A314 with my cologne (DKNY) as a cover
scent.
I went to a concert with a bunch of friends, mostly female, and were super talkative with me and A LOT
more touchy which is really odd (They know I'm not a touchy feely person).
I happened to see some of them the
next day and they were super cold. It was as though I didn't even exist, barely any acknowledgement even though I
greeted them...generally being ignored (Maybe they think I'm a wussy now?)
The only theory I can come up with is
that I got them high on mones and the next day they saw me was kind of like a hangover effect. I know I was using a
ton of social mones (Impossible to OD right? =p).
It was more of an experiment for me and I don't really have
romantic interest in the women I hung out with. Has anyone experienced this type of negative reaction
after-the-fact? Does this happen more often with certain mones?
were you wearing any mones the following
day?
Gegogi
04-24-2006, 12:31 AM
I wears 'mones nearly day and
have never--not once--experienced a "hangover effect." Nevertheless, it takes two to tango. We don't know your
level of social skills. I used to get ignored sometimes because I wasn't outwardly expressive. Did you initiate
conversation? Project a strong body image? Were you confident, smiling, upbeat and friendly? It makes a big diff. If
you give Buddha face and act limp they return in-kind.
If you really are a lone wolf type you are naturally
threatening, unfriendly and aloof. I know because I am a lone wolf. Being a professional musicican means I spend
most of my life in practice studios, shunning human contact. However I learned long ago to project a friendly and
easy going persona in social situations. Otherwise you drive people away and dully wonder what the ruck happened.
Visionary7903
04-24-2006, 02:25 AM
What Gegogi says is great
and I completely agree with him.
However assuming you weren't wearing mones the next time you saw them, the
problem may have been a 'pheromone hangover'. I mean I have gotten reactions like that (I am a lone wolf but
trying to improve) especially if I left out the A1 out of the mix. Girls are just not as as nice to me when I leave
that one out. If you wore no mones then that would exarcebate it.
Also they might think you are a bit of a wussy
if you wore that much SOE and A1. When I wear too much 'social mones' (without any -NONE!) sometimes the respect
factor isn't there from people no matter how I act. This is especially true with people over 25. I mean I would be
invited to social events and that kind of thing easily, but I get treated like a lightweight. The social mones
sometimes make me slip under the radar completely where people are so comfortable around me that they forget common
courtesies towards me. Of course as soon as I put on a bit of -None or quite a bit of A314, they show me respect
alright lol...
Next time use a little less social mones and instead refresh the mones later in the night if you
need to.
Visionary
CptKipling
04-24-2006, 10:58 AM
Yeah being generally quiet and
on your own doesn't mean lone wolf... that just means your introverted and possibly a bit of a loner. A lone wolf
is someone like Clint Eastwood.
My guess is that the problem occurred at the concert, and I'm not talking about
the mones. It seems as though they did their job - those girls touching you was a BLATANT sign. What probably
happened was that you had your chance and you messed up (well, it would be that way if you were interested in them).
They might even think of you as a wimp for not grabbing your chance when you had it.
OR, they are
embarressed at how they remember themselves being so forward and you giving nothing back.
Forgot to add, I'm 26.
Asian-American. I am usually out with people 22-25.
I was using a toned down mix (roughly half of everything) the
next day. As I said earlier I'm not really interested in the women as most of them are taken by good friends of
mine (who were also there). About 6 females total, I know two of them are not taken.
As for myself personality
wise, I'm a lone wolf type but trying to improve (I've been reading up on body language recently, etc) and I was
joking a lot with the women that night (we were part of the concert staff and were doing all our jobs in the same
general area). It was kind of a long night so I got to sit and chat with all of them.
I met two of them the next
day, one of them (22, single) was extremely cold to me when I went up to her to say Hi...Whew! A chill ran down my
spine after I saw her reaction (even though the night before she was practically blabbing away and finding excuses
to bump into me and get my attention). I did the basic chit chat with the other girl but she seemed a little cold
and unattentive.
I think I went a little overboard with the social mones that day and should of added a little
-none to it. The single girl that I mentioned was the one that really surprised me...Maybe she was drunk on mones
but came to her senses afterwards? I still have to meet the others but I think it'll be mostly positive.
What
Visionary said about slipping under the radar--happens to me a lot. I guess I need to wear more -none.
Gegogi
04-24-2006, 02:46 PM
I can swim in 'none to no
ill-effect.
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