Ultimate mix advice please!

[Pheromun]

Hi.
Can

you guys please help me with a good potion if I give you my details?
Im 23 and on a scale of 1 to 10 (10 = very

social and 1 = very quiet)
Im about a 5.
This is what I look like. (Sorry I couldn' t put it on the Thread

because I couldnt figure out the wizzywig stuff.)


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I think I look good but maybe slightly intimidate the chicks a bit, but Ive tried heaps of

SOE and still get allot more out of the none?

I could wear my hair like this however and not look like such a

psycho.
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And try a nice 70% None / 30 % Nol

Any oppinions much appreciated!!!

[Mtnjim]

First, you'll need to turn off the

password on your pictures!

[Gegogi]

Or just wear a nice hat.

[girlnextdoor]

Okay, finally was able to

see the pics. I'd go with the second. The first one is slightly weird. I wouldn't say intimidating, but it gives

you a slightly crazy edge :D Then again, it could just be my personal taste.

And I don't know if this is

unwanted advice or not, but just a woman's perspective. The reason you're intimidating women is not your

hair...it's just that you don't look friendly.

Try cracking a smile, or look like you're having fun.

Honestly, you're not bad looking, but you might find butt ugly men getting more action than you only because of

personality. Trust me, even someone like Brad Pitt wouldn't get chicks if he looked unapproachable. Hope I'm not

being too blunt here!

So pretend you're a jolly green giant or something, and put on your happy face! That with

the pheros should be a sure fire hit.

[girlnextdoor]

For the most part women are

much simpler creatures than men think. Most women can be hooked with the three things below:

1) NEVER feel

desperate. Even if you're a good actor it slips through and women sense it. If nobody gives you time of day just

have fun by yourself for the sake of fun. That way you atleast feel good about yourself, and you won't reek of

desperation. Women find it attractive that you don't need her.

2) Always hold something back. This doesn't

mean be aloof, because that will backfire. Be open, yet look like you have a naughty little secret. You can

implement this whatever your personality. If you're a joker, tantalize a woman with your sense of humor without

putting on a full-out comedy show. If you're a serious type, a slight air of mystery works which is why brooding

types get a lot of women. Again, don't confuse this with unfriendliness and aloofness because that will lead to

disaster. Be very open and friendly.

3) Cliched as this sounds, be yourself and enjoy it. Women can sense posers

easily, so don't be something you aren't. After meeting all the typical stereotypes at bars or clubs, your

originality and uniqueness will be very refreshing.

Rule #3, combined with rules #1 and 2, will make a woman

feel like knowing you better. But being a little out of reach (just a little) will make her want to get closer. In

other words, act interested, but not like you desperately need her.

And that, my friend, is how you reel in a

woman.

[belgareth]

Very simple and easy. Nobody

ever seems to believe it but it works. Of course, that means all those dating books and all the various advice

columns aren't needed any longer but that's a small price to pay. :LOL:

[CptKipling]

The problem is that when guys

read or hear "just be yourself", they take that as permission to be needy and pathetic, and make no effort to be

interesting or improve themselves.