View Full Version : Ultimate mix advice please!
Pheromun
02-24-2006, 04:14 PM
Hi.
Can
you guys please help me with a good potion if I give you my details?
Im 23 and on a scale of 1 to 10 (10 = very
social and 1 = very quiet)
Im about a 5.
This is what I look like. (Sorry I couldn' t put it on the Thread
because I couldnt figure out the wizzywig stuff.)
ftp://tomj99@members.iinet.net.au/IMGP128
3X.JPG (ftp://tomj99@members.iinet.net.au/IMGP1283X.JPG)
I think I look good but maybe slightly intimidate the chicks a bit, but Ive tried heaps of
SOE and still get allot more out of the none?
I could wear my hair like this however and not look like such a
psycho.
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]
And try a nice 70% None / 30 % Nol
Any oppinions much appreciated!!!
Mtnjim
02-24-2006, 04:19 PM
First, you'll need to turn off the
password on your pictures!
Gegogi
02-24-2006, 05:44 PM
Or just wear a nice hat.
girlnextdoor
02-25-2006, 01:20 AM
Okay, finally was able to
see the pics. I'd go with the second. The first one is slightly weird. I wouldn't say intimidating, but it gives
you a slightly crazy edge :D Then again, it could just be my personal taste.
And I don't know if this is
unwanted advice or not, but just a woman's perspective. The reason you're intimidating women is not your
hair...it's just that you don't look friendly.
Try cracking a smile, or look like you're having fun.
Honestly, you're not bad looking, but you might find butt ugly men getting more action than you only because of
personality. Trust me, even someone like Brad Pitt wouldn't get chicks if he looked unapproachable. Hope I'm not
being too blunt here!
So pretend you're a jolly green giant or something, and put on your happy face! That with
the pheros should be a sure fire hit.
girlnextdoor
02-26-2006, 06:47 PM
For the most part women are
much simpler creatures than men think. Most women can be hooked with the three things below:
1) NEVER feel
desperate. Even if you're a good actor it slips through and women sense it. If nobody gives you time of day just
have fun by yourself for the sake of fun. That way you atleast feel good about yourself, and you won't reek of
desperation. Women find it attractive that you don't need her.
2) Always hold something back. This doesn't
mean be aloof, because that will backfire. Be open, yet look like you have a naughty little secret. You can
implement this whatever your personality. If you're a joker, tantalize a woman with your sense of humor without
putting on a full-out comedy show. If you're a serious type, a slight air of mystery works which is why brooding
types get a lot of women. Again, don't confuse this with unfriendliness and aloofness because that will lead to
disaster. Be very open and friendly.
3) Cliched as this sounds, be yourself and enjoy it. Women can sense posers
easily, so don't be something you aren't. After meeting all the typical stereotypes at bars or clubs, your
originality and uniqueness will be very refreshing.
Rule #3, combined with rules #1 and 2, will make a woman
feel like knowing you better. But being a little out of reach (just a little) will make her want to get closer. In
other words, act interested, but not like you desperately need her.
And that, my friend, is how you reel in a
woman.
belgareth
02-26-2006, 07:41 PM
Very simple and easy. Nobody
ever seems to believe it but it works. Of course, that means all those dating books and all the various advice
columns aren't needed any longer but that's a small price to pay. :LOL:
CptKipling
02-27-2006, 11:30 AM
The problem is that when guys
read or hear "just be yourself", they take that as permission to be needy and pathetic, and make no effort to be
interesting or improve themselves.
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