where da ladies at?

[girlnextdoor]

Just

wondering. Are there not many ladies using pheros?

[Gegogi]

I'm kind of a girlie man and I

use 'mones. Seriously this forum isn't as woman friendly as it could be. Most topics are extremely male oriented

to the point of being a boy's club. Back in the day there used to be lots of women onboard but they were run off by

constant stupid remarks from young men. I for one really miss the female perspective on these forums. I hope you

stay.

[CrystalMoon]

I'm here, and I'm staying put - I do not scare easily. Trust me on that one.

I'm just taking time

to read and digest everything I can at the moment, and was holding off from posting until I had a better idea of

what's what, but hiya! ^_^

Call me Ail (real name) and it's nice to meet you both.

I have a very specific

reason for getting into this whole world, and once as I said I have read AND re-read all the info (and that is a

LOT) on this site, I will post to get some help from the very knowledgeable people here.

I think NaughtieGirl

seems like a lovely person, and she knows her stuff, so I'm hoping she makes an appearance sometime soon.

Ail

:-)

[belgareth]

There are a few women around

but a lot of them were chased off, as Gegogi says. I think NAughtie will be around a while and Silksand pops in

fairly often to read. She's pretty knowledgeable too. Wood Elf comes around some too. With a little luck maybe you

can get them to offer some advice.

I, for one, am happy to see any women who come to visit. Over the years I've

picked up a lot of useful information from them.

[CrystalMoon]

Thank you, Belgareth.

Wood Elf I believe is your Fiancee, is that correct?

When I say I have been reading, I have been READING!

^_~

Everything I can find here in fact - especially some fantastic perfume and oil recipes, and pheromone

mixes.

I have a veritable arsenal of Pheromones purchased now from Love-Scent, and I now just need to work out

the best plan of action, so to speak.

Lovely to meet you, and Greetings from a VERY snowy Scotland!

Ail :-)

[belgareth]

Thank you,

Belgareth. Wood Elf I believe is your Fiancee, is that correct?

When I say I have been reading, I have been

READING! ^_~

Everything I can find here in fact - especially some fantastic perfume and oil recipes, and

pheromone mixes.

I have a veritable arsenal of Pheromones purchased now from Love-Scent, and I now just need to

work out the best plan of action, so to speak.

Lovely to meet you, and Greetings from a VERY snowy Scotland!



Ail :-)
Wife, actually. We got married December 31.

Keep reading and check some of the old archives

too. Sexyredhead, Davincikitti, Elana and a few others left a lot of good information in old posts.

Not just to

you but to all the women who come to visit, Welcome to the forum

[NaughtieGirl]

Hi Ail, Hi GirlNextDoor!

:welcome:

I'm thrilled to see some ladies! Let's get a conversation going!

[countesszero]

Hi Everyone,

Hi

GirlNextDoor and Welcome to the forum.
I'm still here too. I lurk more then I post now days. My time is limited

because of my still new job and added responsiblilities. I'm still using my witches brew and it is still working

like a charm.
I use it 5 days a week and will cut back over the weekend if I'm not going out. I love using

pheromones and think love scent is the best site around to get the mones you need.

The Countess
Peace Out.

[CrystalMoon]

Unfortunately, I

start teaching in ten minutes, but hopefully, time differences allowing, we can get something going later?

I am

really keen for you to advise me on what to use for my "mission"

Hehe..yeah..that is I guess what it is - a

mission. ^________^

I have purchased virtually every one of the most popular products that are in the store

(payday was a very fun day..) including EW, which I am fascinated by, and which I do not find as repulsive as many

appear to - and I have a VERY good sense of smell, and have been dabbling behind closed doors to give myelf a feel

for the products first.

Talk later!

Ail :-)

[NZ_Lioness]

Hey I'm a chick and i'm

here! I'm a newbie and have gotten lots of really good advice from people like naughtie, countess and bruce. These

guys are legends! I was just thinking yesterday how the forum's really slowed down cos there hasn't been many new

postings, which was a bit disappointing. hopefully this will get things going again!

[girlnextdoor]

Count on it!!

Like

crystal moon, I don't scare easily. If any guy tries to kick me out he'll have to wrestle me first :rasp:

But

anyway, I'm GLAAAAAD there are women here. It gives me hope that we can get this forum moving again. If I have to

post 25 messages a day all by myself to kick this place alive, then by god I will.

[girlnextdoor]

I'm kind of

a girlie man and I use 'mones. Seriously this forum isn't as woman friendly as it could be. Most topics are

extremely male oriented to the point of being a boy's club. Back in the day there used to be lots of women onboard

but they were run off by constant stupid remarks from young men. I for one really miss the female perspective on

these forums. I hope you stay.

I love girle men who are confident in their girliness! Or should I say

maleness?? :think:

Now come here so I can pinch your cute little cheeks....

[girlnextdoor]

Thank

you, Belgareth. Wood Elf I believe is your Fiancee, is that correct?

When I say I have been reading, I have been

READING! ^_~

Everything I can find here in fact - especially some fantastic perfume and oil recipes, and

pheromone mixes.

I have a veritable arsenal of Pheromones purchased now from Love-Scent, and I now just need to

work out the best plan of action, so to speak.

Lovely to meet you, and Greetings from a VERY snowy

Scotland!

Ail :-)


Hi there Ail, from Scotland! Land of Gerard Butler, mmmmmmm :wub:. I love love

love Scotland for some reason, that's one of the top places on my travel wishlist.


It is nice to see other

newbies here. I was wondering if I was stuck hanging out in the boys lounge. Not that it's a bad place to be, but a

female perspective is nice now and then!

Hope we can share phero tricks and experiences. I myself just bought a

ton of stuff as well, and I am still trying to figure where to start experimenting. Maybe all us newbies can try out

the same formulas at the same time and post simultaneous results here. That should sure be an interesting

project!

And you're not the only one reading.....I just caught up on Belgareth's engagement announcements and

other stuff in the old forums. It's all a fun read.

By the way, a belated congratulations Belgareth! How is

married life treating you? :thumbsup:

[girlnextdoor]

Hi Ail, Hi GirlNextDoor! :welcome:

I'm thrilled to see some ladies! Let's get a

conversation going!


Yay...let's get cracking ladies!

But can I say a big hello to NaughtieGirl,

Silksand, and CountessZero? I've been diligently reading all the past posts and look at y'all like the elders of

this tribe. I would love to see you ladies around here often.

So pass your wisdom down to us, women!

[girlnextdoor]

Hey I'm

a chick and i'm here! I'm a newbie and have gotten lots of really good advice from people like naughtie, countess

and bruce. These guys are legends! I was just thinking yesterday how the forum's really slowed down cos there

hasn't been many new postings, which was a bit disappointing. hopefully this will get things going

again!


Hi NZ_Lioness. Wow, I'm a little surprised at all the women crawling out of the woodwork (not

counting Geogi and Belgareth of course, lol). I expected maybe one response at most but this is really

exciting.

Do post here often! If nobody else responds atleast I will, although I'm a newbie myself so I probably

won't be much help.

[girlnextdoor]

There are

a few women around but a lot of them were chased off, as Gegogi says. I think NAughtie will be around a while and

Silksand pops in fairly often to read. She's pretty knowledgeable too. Wood Elf comes around some too. With a

little luck maybe you can get them to offer some advice.

I, for one, am happy to see any women who come to

visit. Over the years I've picked up a lot of useful information from them.


Maybe this is none of my

business, but can I ask what exactly was the incident that chased the ladies away? If you don't want to say that's

ok.

I have to get something off my chest and confess I've been a lurker since 2002. I would drop in every couple

months or so to check on the latest phero news, and maybe check out latest hit stories. I remember the old posters

like CJ01, Sexyredhead, Whitehall and others, and more often times than not lurked here because it was a fun

place.

I only recently took that step to purchase pheros, hence my more active involvement of late. And though I

kinda noticed less participation from old timers over the years, I had no idea they completely disappeared.

It

makes me sad yet curious. I couldn't find anything definite in the archives to explain the disappearances, except

for cryptic references of them being chased off.

[Gegogi]

Girlnextdoor murmurs,

"Now come here so I can pinch your cute little cheeks...."
Please do. Which ones?

She also

questions, "what exactly was the incident that chased the ladies away?"
Once upon a time--a couple years

ago--there were lots of active women on this forum. There were also plenty of college age male geeks all full of

themselves after reading David D's pickup and male empowerment techniques. Most were upset over poor relations

with women, felt women had too much power in relationships, felt entitled to getting laid but were denied and, most

of all, were angry at women. When a well meaning female dared to offer advice, advice usually well founded, they

flamed her and unleased their frustration over the fairer gender. So most of the women eventually stopped posting.



Most of these guys are gone, either faded away (probably pleasuring themselves with porn right now) or banned. I

did enjoy a few good debates with several of them, debates which drove a few batty as they were unable to back down

or admit they were wrong.

[belgareth]

By the

way, a belated congratulations Belgareth! How is married life treating you? :thumbsup:
Thank you. It's

treating me well so long as I remember the ever important "Yes dear, whatever you say dear" :box:

She lived

here for a while before we got married so most of the serious issues had already been worked through. Once she

figured out that direct confrontation was the worst way of dealing with me life got easier for both of us. Having

two fiercely independent people under one roof is always interesting and can generate a lot of funny incidents.



I was going to answer your question about driving women away but Gegogi covered most of it. When somebody asks you

a question, you answer it and they proceed to tell you all the reasons why you don't know what you are talking

about, in generally rude and demeaning terms, it can be a little frustrating. There were a few other things but that

was one of the big contributors.

There was a small problem of some unpleasantness coming through private

messages as well. If any of you start getting unprovoked offensive PMs from any forum member, let me or any other

moderator know. I guarantee they will stop.

You'll probably get a few jackass comments here and there but I

hope all the ladies keep in mind that there are a lot of guys here that will be glad for your knowledge and input.

[girlnextdoor]

Please do.

Which ones?


Lol.....horny little man, aren't you? You'll have to find someone else to, uh, tend to

your other cheeks.

Thanks for the 'backstory' on all the stuff, it makes a lot of sense now. If anyone

dares to terrorize the ladies here they'll have to go through me first :twisted:. I guarantee to be as much of a

pain in the butt.

[girlnextdoor]

Thank you.

It's treating me well so long as I remember the ever important "Yes dear, whatever you say dear" :box:

She

lived here for a while before we got married so most of the serious issues had already been worked through. Once she

figured out that direct confrontation was the worst way of dealing with me life got easier for both of us. Having

two fiercely independent people under one roof is always interesting and can generate a lot of funny incidents.



I was going to answer your question about driving women away but Gegogi covered most of it. When somebody asks you

a question, you answer it and they proceed to tell you all the reasons why you don't know what you are talking

about, in generally rude and demeaning terms, it can be a little frustrating. There were a few other things but that

was one of the big contributors.

There was a small problem of some unpleasantness coming through private

messages as well. If any of you start getting unprovoked offensive PMs from any forum member, let me or any other

moderator know. I guarantee they will stop.

You'll probably get a few jackass comments here and there but I

hope all the ladies keep in mind that there are a lot of guys here that will be glad for your knowledge and

input.

Smart man, I see you've got the "yes, dear" thing down pat. I love independent people, they're

funny. The fights can be interesting, but the making up even more so ;)

So far the men here have been complete

gentlemen, so it'll take more than a few jackasses to shake us off.

If nothing else, men will be men, and we

women know some of them can be knuckleheads at times :D

[belgareth]

She fights, I don't. You have

to keep in mind that Wood Elf is fairly young and a redhead. I'm older and raised three daughters, it gives you a

certain perspective on attitudes. The more angry she gets the quieter I get and that sends her right up the wall.

Ever try to have an argument with a wall? It can be frustrating! :) She's learned that the best way to approach me

is calmly and I'll listen.

[girlnextdoor]

She

fights, I don't. You have to keep in mind that Wood Elf is fairly young and a redhead. I'm older and raised three

daughters, it gives you a certain perspective on attitudes. The more angry she gets the quieter I get and that sends

her right up the wall. Ever try to have an argument with a wall? It can be frustrating! :) She's learned that the

best way to approach me is calmly and I'll listen.

LOL! Being a wall myself, I totally sympathize with

angry people throwing themselves at walls. Not fun :D
But atleast Wood Elf is fiery. Try a relationship with 2

walls, and you'll start missing angry people bouncing off you.

[belgareth]

Fiery she certainly is! I think

that since I mentioned this thread to her last night I'm going to leave it at that. I still have to sleep sometimes

and my good health could be at stake here.

[jb2006]

I'm a newbie lady and love to

read all the posts on here, but I do wish there were more ladies posting new stuff. I have been using pheros for

just over two weeks. I have had what i think our results with my newbie kit, so I ordered PI/w,PCC, and SOE gel

packs. I'm so excited for them to come.

I went to bruch on sunday with 6 of my girlfriends, i quickly looked at

the piano player and caught him giving me this huge smile. Dam to bad I'm married. However I'm sure it must have

been the mones.

[MOBLEYC57]

Sorry, I

could no longer resist ... Check the ladies room!:run:

[CrystalMoon]

I need to work on

co-ordinating this better time-wise..

I seem to be here when most others are asleep!

I have, ladies, found the

absolute ACE in the hole when it comes to fragrances.

Last week I was given a bottle of Vivienne Westwood's

"Boudoir" and to say it is potent stuff, would be like saying that Britney Spears should be the next President of

the US!

Wow...it smells like..sex..

Seriously. That is exactly what it smells like.

My "friend" (more about

that later, as I need help, ladies!) went on and on about how good it was the other night, and I was in a pub and

asked by three different guys what perfume I was wearing, as they thought it was gorgeous.

Better yet - it

TOTALLY covers the smell of EW, as does Aquolina's Pink Sugar - another Man-Magnet, I have discovered. I now need

to try them both out in public, whilst wearing 'mones at the same time.

I believe Boudoir is now discontinued,

but it is readily available online, it seems.

It's just..wow.

GET SOME..and you know..GET some. LOL!

:)

Ail :-)

[jb2006]

Well that Boudoir sounds like

good stuff. I need to get me some so I can get me some :LOL:

I'm still having trouble with some assistance

from the mones to get my husband more excited. He has a very low sex drive, and I don't! They seem to be working

on strangers, as I see men checking me out more and smiling at me. I'm hoping my new order will help me out

more.

[NaughtieGirl]

Well that

Boudoir sounds like good stuff. I need to get me some so I can get me some :LOL:

I'm still having trouble with

some assistance from the mones to get my husband more excited. He has a very low sex drive, and I don't! They seem

to be working on strangers, as I see men checking me out more and smiling at me. I'm hoping my new order will help

me out more.

Yes, I have found the exact same thing. Pheromones work ALOT better on strangers than on

spouses.

[jb2006]

Last Spring somebody told me that

the reason why some couples don't have sex as much as they should, was because they get used to each other's

pheros.

I'm not sure what to think about this person's statement. However it stuck in my head and

encouraged me to look online, and thats when I found love-scent.com.

Any thoughts on this, could it be

possible?

[NaughtieGirl]

Last Spring

somebody told me that the reason why some couples don't have sex as much as they should, was because they get used

to each other's pheros.

I'm not sure what to think about this person's statement. However it stuck in my

head and encouraged me to look online, and thats when I found love-scent.com.

Any thoughts on this, could it be

possible?

I personally don't think that getting used to each other's pheromone signature causes a loss

of interest in each other. I think it's time and life that get in the way.

What I do believe is that 2 people

who have been together for a while already have a well-established perception of each other. Like a preconceived

notion - if you will - based on their experiences and life with each other. Whereas strangers have an open mind and

pick up more easily on the pheromone signature that we are wearing at a given moment.

The challenge then

becomes to break through that "existing image barrier" and to do so without OD-ing on the mones.

PS Now I'm off

to Google for "Boudoir"! :angel:

[countesszero]

Yes, I

have found the exact same thing. Pheromones work ALOT better on strangers than on spouses.

NaughtieGirl,

I'm not too sure about that. My husband has been giving me alot of DIHL lately. It's been so obvious that I've

had to stop and ask him why he's staring at me that way. Oh and the sex is better than ever. Maybe it's because of

the mones I put on our bed linen and pillows (that really works).

I have to admit that I do tweek my Witches

Brew alot so that I wont get build up. Sometimes I put more on and sometimes alot less. I get the best response from

him when I OD though.

The Countess
Peace Out

[countesszero]

I almost forgot. We've

only been married 8 months. But we've been together for 7 years. Out of the 7 years I've worn pheromones for 2 of

them.

[girlnextdoor]

NaughtieGirl, I'm not too sure about that. My husband has been giving me alot of DIHL lately.

It's been so obvious that I've had to stop and ask him why he's staring at me that way. Oh and the sex is better

than ever. Maybe it's because of the mones I put on our bed linen and pillows (that really works).

I have to

admit that I do tweek my Witches Brew alot so that I wont get build up. Sometimes I put more on and sometimes alot

less. I get the best response from him when I OD though.

The Countess
Peace Out

I see....so in

other words those familiar with your signature should be "shocked" with a new one through an OD? Hence the

responses?

[koolking1]

no one remembered

FTR (she was my favorite woman on here): Full Tilt RedHead!!! She was definitely a female mones guru, damn smart,

and not at all shy.

I'm not sure if it's familiarity that's a problem. My experience is that some very

few women react strongly and wildly to mones but that most have little or no response to them unless you can get in

pretty close. So, my assumption would be the same for men, no?

I'm sure I've said this before on here

but I'll reiterate it. Last night I was watching 20/20 (a USA news show) and it was about "secrets", why we

keep/share/spill the beans kinda stuff. This female psychartrist (I'm a good speller usually but this one always

gets me) had a quiz and one of the questions was "should you share your fantasies with your mate?" Her answer was

"no", "you might make them feel jealous or badly". I strongly disagree. How else will they know what really drives

you sexually nuts? So, I say it again, find out what it is that really turns him on and try to make it happen (I do

realize that some fantasies shouldn't be played out but I think most of them can be to at least some extent). And,

his fantasy may just turn out to be your fantasy too, one never knows unless you discuss it!!!!!!

[countesszero]

I

see....so in other words those familiar with your signature should be "shocked" with a new one through an OD? Hence

the responses?
I couldnt have said it better. It's a shock to their system. I believe that you OD when

you use the same thing over and over again. Everyone gets used to your mone signature. If you add something new or

increase the amount that you use, then it makes them take notice. And you get awesome responses from them.

My

brew as well as the other mones I use are heavy nol with touches of none and rone so it makes everyone friendlier

and sexually more free. I try to avoid none OD's though because it makes me feel aggressive as well as those around

me.