View Full Version : Quite an usual situation / questions.
Premizen
11-06-2005, 12:42 PM
Hi there!
I am aware that such things have already been discussed on the forums more than once. But I decided to
take advantage of the lovely members of the forums and the opportunity to have some personal advice. I hope you will
not consider the thread too bad.
Firstly, I am a 18-year-old European man (boy?). I would consider myself a 6/10
- I am about 185cm (6.05 feet?) tall, but I am not very fit - I weigh a bit too much. I am not fat, though! I am
quite good with women, too.
Now, the situation is as follows - I have noticed I am a bit more than just attracted
to a 15-year-old (might be 16) girl from my school. This is something new to me, though - I have usually dated girls
a year or few older than me. This girl is also special, because she is extremely decent - does not smoke or drink
(well, yes, she is not even allowed by the law, but most of the underaged still do), she has quite perfect grades
and is a dancer. I guess she probably has had like 1-3 boyfriends, not more. Besides, she is at least a 9/10!
So,
what I am confused with, is - how should I act? We, at first, began to communicate online. We both chatted pretty
actively and after a while we went for a walk together. We walked and talked, but I was really exhausted that day
and might have came across as a boring person, because I could not even talk much - my head was empty and all I
wanted to do was sleep. She seemed quite shy, though, and did not talk too much either. Now we still do some
chatting online, but it seems to me, that she is not eager to chat with me as much as she used to. And I am afraid
to annoy her, so I have not mailed or sent an IM to her myself, first, at the moment.
I am sure we will meet
again, soon. How should I act!? Where should we go? The biggest problem, last time, was what to talk about? She (we)
did not want to talk about school too much and I did not know what to talk or ask - she neither.
Another thing
I would like to ask - what would be the best pheromones to buy on a $200-300 budget? I go to clubs/pubs a lot, I go
to school and I would also like to know what would be good to make my teachers a bit more conciliatory (if that is
even possible at all?)? Naturally, I would like to increase the girl's (the one I wrote about) attraction towards
me.. I feel she actually is a bit attracted to me. But really - nothing much.
Truly - thank you a lot for
reading this!
Premizen
avg joe
11-06-2005, 01:15 PM
if that was my 15 year old
daughter and you were 18 you could count on my boot crashing through your teeth. i'm only half joking. find a new
girl or don't find a new girl but leave that one alone.
I think that first of all you should
quit that instant messaging. I know it's difficult - especially when you're attracted to a girl - but
relationships develop in real life, not on the Internet. Besides, you will probably have more topics to discuss if
you have not covered them yet via IM ;)
Another piece of advice would be not seeing her if you're ill /
exhausted whatever. Just arrange another meeting. What's wrong with that? After all, you want make the best
impression on her, don't you? And if she likes you, she will find some time to meet you a day or two
later.
And one more thing. Sometimes it's more important to just be together than to engage in some stupid
bla bla. If you don't have much to talk about take her to the cinema. You will both have good time and hopefully
something will click between you. But remember to choose a good movie. The scarier the better, forget gore though.
:)
Cloud9
11-06-2005, 01:20 PM
I've dated lots of girls younger
than me. dated one 16 while I was 18..dated one 16 while I was 22...As long as you have a nice clean image with
ambitous goals and manners..the parents will probably want have much of a problem with it as long as they have a
fair amount of control over the situation. You might want to try the beginners gel pack set first since it's
virtually free and see if any of those work for you. Just be sure to read the forums for the right amount to be
applied from a gel pack.
I agree..I really think instant messaging can really hinder your chances of getting
agirl..I have never had any good luck with getting women through the computer...the phone and in person is so much
better.
avg joe, do you live in some kind of
a parallel reality? 18-year-old boys dating 15-year-old girls is nothing out of ordinary in my world. And I can't
find any reason why it should be...
avg joe
11-06-2005, 01:28 PM
no parallel reality, reality
where men do not belong with girls. a 22 yr old with a 16 yr old? that's embarassing. nothing good can come of
this. if you want to see younger women fine, but let her become a woman first.
Premizen
11-06-2005, 01:28 PM
Thank you for those replies.
Quitting IMing seems like a very good advice. Avg joe - I am a decent person - I would not ever do anything, that
one could count as unethical with the girl. What is more, the difference between our ages are not that big. She is
only 2 forms below me in the school.
Thank you, Cloud9, too. But how should I act towards her, though? Cocky-funny
attitude (well, I guess I can do that, if needed.. it is not me, though) does not seem to good in this situation or
am I wrong? By the way, I have already experienced with some 'mones - TE, AE and Chikara. Pheromones work like a
charm on me. I have run out of them at the moment, though - only have a bit of TE left. I am willing to spend up to
$300 now, to restock my pheromones. That is why I am asking which ones would be wise to order. I have been thinking
of TE, SOE, Chikara, AE, NPA, A314 and I would be experimenting all possible kinds of different mixes of them. But
is there something that I missed, but should definitely buy?
Thanks again!
Cloud9
11-06-2005, 01:29 PM
who are you to judge what is best
and what is not? I don't think your the love doctor are you?
avg joe
11-06-2005, 01:34 PM
lol. hey i hear there's some
easy pickings in junior high that might be impressed that you have a drivers license, why not go that route?
have some self respect and find a woman if you are a man, leave the girls for the boys.
Cloud9
11-06-2005, 01:34 PM
best advice is to be
yourself..after all you don't want to act differently and then you find that you can't be yourself around them
later! I would definetly get AA314, because its great for adding with a little Anone like AE or TE. You can use it
by itself as well. A1 is something you don't want to wear alone..it improves mixes that you have found to work
well for you and makes them a little better. My personal list would be AE, A314, TE(clubs), A1..I'm not sure what
to think about IMPI yet even though I have it I haven't gottena chance to try it out at the club yet. So maybe
get AA314 and A1 for sure and then get what has worked best for you to add to that.
avg joe, the author of the post is
18 and his date is 15. Why don't we stick to that?
avg joe
11-06-2005, 01:38 PM
"Avg joe - I am a decent person
- I would not ever do anything, that one could count as unethical with the girl."
really? what are the
pheromones for? at 18 you should be a man, but based on trying to use pheromones to encourage physical relations
with a girl that can't even drive a car yet is very very un-manly.
Gegogi
11-06-2005, 01:40 PM
Hmm, 18-year-old boys dating
15-year-old girls was normal in my day. In fact, 15-year-old girls are usually more mature in every way than the
18-boy (or even many 21- year olds). I do recall most of the nicer 18-year girls went with older guys. Now tht I
think of it, I dated a 15 year when I was 20. Of course I'm even worse nowadays as I date women less than half my
age (but they have to be 18+!!).
Sheesh, IM is fine and allows commincation late at night or on the run when
you can't talk. Just don't use it as a subsitute for face to face interaction. Obviously she already likes you, so
don't try too hard. Be attentive but don't choke her with attention. She needs to know you're a man, and a man
with his own life. She's probably attracted to you because you are older and more confident than guys her age. So
just be yourself and don't fake stupid cocky-funny behavior.
She's young, so go easy on the 'mones.
You're already naturally infested with A-none naturally. Maybe try SOE and/or Chikara. I'd stay away from PI, NPA
and TE for now.
Premizen
11-06-2005, 01:50 PM
Well, yes, a lot of my friends
my age are dating younger girls. I have never thought of it being somewhat bad or unethical, as long as they are not
having babies or something.
I wore quite a decent amount of TE around her, which was probably wrong. She seemed
like she wanted to be near(er) to me and touch me, but on the other hand was a little scared or did not know what to
do. Going to order some 'mones in the next few days and see what would be the reaction when I wore SOE. Maybe I
should also add some AA314?
avg joe
11-06-2005, 01:52 PM
nothing wrong with an older man
younger woman dynamic, as long as the younger woman has been allowed to reach the age of consent first. i used to
fool around with 15 year old girls, when i was 12.
Cloud9
11-06-2005, 01:52 PM
did you ever get good results with
AE..because AE+AA314 is an awsome combo. AA314+TE if TE worked better for you. You can always play around with
adding some SOE to each mix or combo.
Maybe AE, TE, AA314, and SOE unscented..if you feel like its not
toomuch money.
Cloud9
11-06-2005, 01:53 PM
I don't see any problem with
dating younger women/girls as long as your not trying to have sex with her.
Premizen
11-06-2005, 02:00 PM
Well, I can say that TE +
Chikara was really awesome, but I could not try AE too much, since I only had 2 gel packs of it. AE, alone, did not
seem to work very well. When I added some of it to the TE&Chikara, it seemed to help and make people around me even
more friendly. But I will definitely be testing out AE/TE+AA314 the day the 'mones reach me. I am also very anxious
for SOE, since I have heard a lot of good things about it.
Avg joe, I really do not know what to say, except that
in my opinion in today's European culture, it is completely usual and fine for a 18-year-old to date a 15-year-old.
Yes, I do drive a car and live somewhat more independent life than she probably does, but I still live with my
parents and go to school, just like she does. Would it make more sense, if I was, for example, 17?
Premizen
11-06-2005, 02:01 PM
I don't see any
problem with dating younger women/girls as long as your not trying to have sex with her.
Exactly my point!
And I am not.
Cloud9
11-06-2005, 02:02 PM
Premizen..unless you have the
money and want to spend it..then hold off on AE and just get some TE, Chikara, some AA314, and SOE unscented.
After all you know for sure TE+Chikara works for you..AE your not too sure..so just hold off on that for another
time,,unless you just have the money and want it.
avg joe
11-06-2005, 02:08 PM
it's not your age, it's her
age. but whatever, as long as your conscience doesn't eat away at you at night, keeping you awake because you know
what you are trying to do is wrong i guess it's all good. after all, if there is grass on the field, play ball,
right?
you are at a very important stage in your emotional development at 18, the road forks left and right,
what does it matter what i think?
ask yourself why you are trying pheromones, you probably haven't even
experienced a woman yet, and here you are trying to use science to help you hook up with a 15 year old girl? seduce
her mom for crying out loud, at least you'll stand a chance of feeling like a man when you are done.
Cloud9
11-06-2005, 02:11 PM
Avg. Joe....just let it go..your
outnumbered by a lot more guys that have done the same thing and everyone else thought it was fine.
abcd2
11-06-2005, 02:40 PM
ok not like it matters but i
understand what avg joe is saying.... i mean if she like you then fine, but being both at such a young age i dont
think its the best for an 18 year old to hook up with a 15 year old girl. WHY? because at 18 your still a horny kid
and will probably take advantage of the girl, and she hasn't even had time to make a good choice for herself......
but whatever you feel is right then go with your instincts, for me personally, i wouldnt feel comfortable dating a
15 year old girl! (im 18 aswell)
avg joe
11-06-2005, 03:00 PM
Avg. Joe....just
let it go..your outnumbered by a lot more guys that have done the same thing and everyone else thought it was
fine.
lol. whatever it takes to make you feel better about it.
avg joe
11-06-2005, 03:03 PM
Exactly my
point! And I am not.
hey! he's been located! the only 18 yr old male that was not trying
to have sex.
dude, give me a break, you are still humping your mattress. spend your pheromone money on a
hooker.
Big M
11-06-2005, 03:10 PM
I would have a problem with an 18
year old dating my 15 year old daughter , Infact I would put an end to it so quick it would make both parties head
spin . First a warning , After that nothing more said on the grounds of self incrimination.
Premizen
11-06-2005, 03:20 PM
I partly do understand your
concerns. But you are definitely over-reacting.
If you do not like what you are seeing (reading), I am really
sorry. But could you just close your eyes and let other people answer my questions as all of this really is totally
off-topic.
Please face it - when you were around my age - didn't you (or at least your friends) really date girls
2 (she is just turning 16) years younger than you? Was it so terrible?
I appreaciate your concerns of all kinds,
but this has really gone a bit too far, has it not? I am a student, a dependant and a very young person, just like
she is.
EDIT: What perfume would you suggest for a young man for a cold winter?
Cloud9
11-06-2005, 03:40 PM
This isn't a place to judge
others. Just leave the poor guy alone, me, gegogi, and all the other guys that have been in the same situation. Give
him pheromone advice or none at all please.
I think APC is a great cover scent and you can use any cologne
with it. It's hard to say which cologne is best since there are soo many. Best thing you can do is let a bunch of
girls or women help you pick out a cologne. I always get advice from women on what cologne to buy, because I could
care less if men like it.
avg joe
11-06-2005, 03:51 PM
lol. you don't need pheromones,
you need rohypnol.
Premizen
11-06-2005, 03:57 PM
lol. you don't
need pheromones, you need rohypnol.
I take it as a serious insult and would not like to see any more of
your comments in my thread.
avg joe
11-06-2005, 04:05 PM
i'd prefer not to see any
pedophiles in the world. what are you going to do?
Gegogi
11-06-2005, 04:52 PM
The age of consent varys
considerably from country to country and even from state to state in the USA. A few years ago it was 14 in Hawaii
and they recently increased it to 16. We have one of the highest teenage pregnancy rates in the USA, I believe only
second to Mississippi. So a hoe lotta guys breakin' da law! When I was in junior high lots of 12-14 year olds were
humpin' like rabbits. It's pretty hard to stop people from having sex. It wasn't that long ago human life
expectancy was only about 40 years and people normally got married by their mid-teens. My grandparents were married
at the age of 9 and 10 in Korea (arranged marriage) and had 10 kids.
Sheesh, a 18 year old dating a 15 year
is not a pedophile. I don't know what country this is, in many places 15 is the age of consent. Moreover, in some
countries you are not legally a man until 19. Most of the world is not as puritanical the rather self righteous
USA.
avg joe
11-06-2005, 05:16 PM
great, move to kentucky and
marry your sister i don't give a shit. my 15 year old girl fooling around with 15 year old boys = fact of life, 18
year old men fooling around with my 15 year old girl = me releasing stress via forced personal moral reflection and
if that doesn't do the trick i will enhance it with several dabs of testosterone.
belgareth
11-06-2005, 05:26 PM
if that was my
15 year old daughter and you were 18 you could count on my boot crashing through your teeth. i'm only half joking.
find a new girl or don't find a new girl but leave that one alone.
As a father of three daughter, I'm
going to agree with avg joe. Go find somebody a bit closer to your own age. I'd take your head off too.
oscar
11-06-2005, 05:36 PM
The morality debate on this thread
is hereby closed.
The poster's email address indicates that he is in a country where the age of consent is
14.
Whether you like it or not, if what he's proposing isn't illegal then he shouldn't be subjected to judgement
on this forum.
Oscar :)
Moderator
Love-Scent Forums
CptKipling
11-07-2005, 04:16 PM
My advice (without considering
any moral implications deliberately)? Don't focus on any one girl ever. If you like her, fine, but don't let that
be because she has shown you a slight sign of interest and you are limiting your attention and reality to her. There
are THOUSANDS of women out there, it makes no economic sense time-wise or effort-wise. If something ends up
happening then great for you, but don't hold out on the slim hope that pushing it will get you anywhere.
Premizen
11-07-2005, 09:40 PM
My advice
(without considering any moral implications deliberately)? Don't focus on any one girl ever. If you like her, fine,
but don't let that be because she has shown you a slight sign of interest and you are limiting your attention and
reality to her. There are THOUSANDS of women out there, it makes no economic sense time-wise or effort-wise. If
something ends up happening then great for you, but don't hold out on the slim hope that pushing it will get you
anywhere.
Yes, that is definitely the best possible advice.
CptKipling
11-08-2005, 03:28 PM
Good :)
Keep us updated on
your journey.
Premizen
11-08-2005, 04:02 PM
Well, the situation is as
follows. I like flirting, so I am flirty to many girls, all the time (as I am not committed). I still do feel some
special attraction towards that one specific girl. That definitely does not mean I have limited my attention and
reality to her.
Anyhow.. I have not met or talked to the girl during the last days (not once after I created this
thread), only exchanged a few words on IM (on her initiative, btw). The reason is that I know that I am going to
order a bunch of pheromones in the next 1-2 days, so I want to go out with her (to some cafe or a place like that as
not a real date, but just to talk and have some nice time) right after I have received the pheromones. And NOT meet
her before. That is because I feel like I would be doing way better having the pheromones on.. like I would make a
great impact. And I really have to say that the pheromones have ALWAYS helped me - I am getting hits in general, but
also I have made a great impact on my specific "targets" with 'mones on!
Is this the correct way to think? That I
probably shoult not communicate with her right now (as I am almost completely out of 'mones - only a like 1/4
bottle of TE left) and then suddenly ask her out and in the cafe having a nice combo of 'mones on?
[sorry for my
quite an amateurish use of English language]
Also, I have made a list of 'mones I really do want to buy and use
them to test out all the possible combos myself and see what is the best of the best. It exceeds my budget a bit,
though. I could handle it, but I would better leave something out. So what would you definitely leave out of that
list and why (If some of you has the time and feels like replying to such thing and explaining)?
1 x
Androstadienone
1 x Alter Ego for Men
1 x Edge UNSCENTED for Men
1 x Androstenone Pheromone
Concentrate for men
1 x Alpha A314 (New Formula) for men
1 x Chikara Cologne for men
1 x Impi
Cologne for Men
1 x New Pheromone Additive for Men
1 x Scent of Eros UNSCENTED
Too bad every one of
them is a part of some really nice combo (at least as I have heard). I am feeling really bad having to cross
something out of the list, because the ONE might be THE ONE.. the one that is actually the best for me,
lol.
Damn.. I really love experimenting.. and even more I love the results.. they always seem to be whether good
or even better, lol..
---
EDIT: If you wanted to make a somewhat shy girl talk a lot (to feel good and find you
trustworthy and talk with joy), think of you as a really nice person and not only as a (good) friend, want you to be
close to her, want to be with you (again and as soon as possible).. - what (combo of) pheromones would you
wear?
Lol.. this is generally what would be perfect for the beginning. Pretty much asked, I guess.. :lol:
CptKipling
11-08-2005, 04:08 PM
You could remove APC and just
use a nice scent instead, or you could get NPA instead of NPA and TE and make some TE out of some of your
NPA.
Premizen
11-08-2005, 04:14 PM
You could
remove APC and just use a nice scent instead, or you could get NPA instead of NPA and TE and make some TE out
of some of your NPA.
Ohh, yes.. this is some good (and REALLY quick) advice! I will leave out at least the
TE.
What do you think about the behaviour and my way of thinking (the thing about not meeting her without 'mones)?
Btw, I edited my previous post and added another stupid and "cliche" question.
jollysnowdevil
11-09-2005, 12:06 AM
1 x
Androstadienone
1 x Alter Ego for Men
1 x Edge UNSCENTED for Men
1 x Androstenone Pheromone Concentrate for
men
1 x Alpha A314 (New Formula) for men
1 x Chikara Cologne for men
1 x Impi Cologne for Men
1 x New Pheromone
Additive for Men
1 x Scent of Eros UNSCENTED
EDIT: If you wanted to make a somewhat shy girl talk a lot (to
feel good and find you trustworthy and talk with joy), think of you as a really nice person and not only as a (good)
friend, want you to be close to her, want to be with you (again and as soon as possible).. - what (combo of)
pheromones would you wear?
Lol.. this is generally what would be perfect for the beginning. Pretty much asked, I
guess.. :lol:
to answer your question to make the shy girl speak more than without a doubt SOE all
the way. Soe should be top of your list. sorry missed a line in your post. normally id say ae for what you desire
from this girl. given her young age soe would be best to open her up and let things unfold. seems to me like even
small amounts of none can make young women withdraw as they dont know what to make of it yet.
few notes on
your list. i agree cut out the APC is basically a scent. AE is worn by many as a standalone. i know many have
reported using it in mixes but works rather well out of the bottle.
i take it you are rather young yet so
i would advise against npa as you may put out a large amount of none naturally.so it could be a potential waste of
money. of course pick one either npa or te. id say if you have no experience with regards to how much none you can
wear definately pick up the te. at least with te you can always use heavy amounts if thats what you need. until you
know its better to go with the notion of applying more te than trying to apply a fraction of a drop npa. id
reccomend save some money on a bottle pick up some te gels. once you know how much you need to wear to get the
results than either get the te bottle or npa.
what products do you own and what have you used already?
id start with soe, ae, te and maybe chikara. than look into a314, npa, a1 then impi.
id say its key to
pick a couple products at first play with them and then work others into your arsenal. tooo many new products at
once makes for confusion and ultimately takes more time to get results. (kid in a candy store effect)
Premizen
11-09-2005, 08:18 AM
Thank you for the nice advice.
I have already used TE and Chikara. So I can probably handle the none.
I have also used some gel packs of SOE and
AE, but could not experiment them too much, since I only had like 2 of each. About opening up a shy girl, though -
what would you mix with the SOE? Could it possibly be AA314?
Going to order in a few hours, I guess.
Premizen
11-09-2005, 10:06 AM
Alright - no need for
suggestions what to buy anymore - I just ordered the following products:
1 x Alter Ego for Men $49.95
1
x Edge UNSCENTED for Men $29.95
1 x Androstadienone
- Strength: Full $79.95
1 x
Androstenone Pheromone Concentrate for men
- Size: 1 oz. $39.95
1 x Alpha A314 (New Formula) for men
$69.95
1 x Chikara Cologne for men $59.95
1 x Impi Cologne for Men $39.95
1 x New Pheromone
Additive for Men
- Size: Large (10 ml) $49.95
1 x Scent of Eros UNSCENTED $49.95
Some of you
might call me stupid, but I truly am an enthusiast and 'mones have made my life only better. And I am 100%
positive that as I find new suitable mixes and combos for myself, it will only grow better and better.
I would
still appreaciate you to suggest some good mixes and combos, though!
Quoting one of my own previous
posts:
If you wanted to make a somewhat shy girl talk a lot (to feel good and find you trustworthy and talk
with joy), think of you as a really nice person and not only as a (good) friend, want you to be close to her, want
to be with you (again and as soon as possible).. - what (combo of) pheromones would you wear?
Lol.. this is
generally what would be perfect for the beginning. Pretty much asked, I guess..
EDIT: Also - am I doing
right by not communicating (almost not at all) to the one specific girl I am attracted to, without pheromones
(before I receive them..)?
It seems to me I am.. but maybe she is hoping for me to talk to her..?
On the other
hand, it could be a nice surprise to her, if I would one day soon ask her out after some time not communicating..
and then I would act myself, be fresh and vacationed and be wearing a nice combo of pheromones (like SOE + A1 or
something.. suggestions?).. heh, quite rambling, is it not?:D
Cloud9
11-09-2005, 10:44 AM
A few possible combos:
2 drops
[NPA+APC] 2-3 drops
4 dabs [TE+APC] 3 drops
2 dabs [TE+Chikara] 1 spray
2-3 drops [AE+AA314+APC] 2-3 drops, 2-3
drops (MY FAVORITE!):wub:
3-4 dabs [TE+AA314+APC] 2-3 drops, 2-3 drops
1 spray [IMPI+A1] 1-2 drops
I'm not
an expert on SOE, because I never really liked it that much. IMPI is still pretty new and most say 1 spray is
enough. Ofcourse these dosages are just averages of what the optimal dosages generally are for people. It may be
that you need more or less of some of these..especially ones that are High in Anone. You can add A1 to pretty much
any of these mixes to enhance them. I'd probably save A1 for when you know you are going to be around women you
possibly want to attract since it's so expensive.
Good luck:thumbsup:
I take it as a
serious insult and would not like to see any more of your comments in my thread.
don't take any
insults from a stupid internet thread as something to be taken seriously.
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