View Full Version : Any "hits" you've followed through on
abcd2
11-01-2005, 08:34 PM
all these "hits" threads are focused on what happened while the "hit" took place, and then later
considered it to be an actual hit(regardless of it were mones or not). SO out of curiousity, did you guys/girls
follow through to make "hit" into something much more ....
like did it become your first intimate experience.... a
start to a relationship etc
(still havent bought pheromones lol im such a cheap ass)
belgareth
11-01-2005, 09:06 PM
I've wondered that myself. You
hear a lot about getting phone numbers, dirty dancing and such but that isn't what it's all about, is it?
For
myself, I am in a relationship I am quite happy with. Mones are and have been used for business and as an
interesting diversion.
Gegogi
11-01-2005, 09:59 PM
I
for one enjoy a good tease and, in turn, love to tease and flirt. It's not a matter of notches on my gunstock but a
very pleasant diversion and communication form. I like people, especially women! You can't and wouldn't want to
follow through on dad burn every opportunity. You'd get sick of it and never get any work done. I actually consider
my professional life more important than gettin' nookie.
However, since using 'mones a couple years ago
I've followed through on several "hits" that resulted in more intimate relationships. Two of them were big mistakes
as the women were married (they were hot but that made me stupid). Trouble is I'm normally picky and don't desire
to explore 90% of the encounters past a casual friendship. Plus I'm not looking to get remarried or shacked up and
plan to enjoy my freedom while I can. Most of all I enjoy the social and profesional "edge" 'mones impart to my
life. It makes focusing on what I do best a little easier.
DUKE3100
11-02-2005, 11:22 AM
I think a big reason why a lot
of people report hits and leave it at that is because that is all a mone is going to help you with. The rest is up
to you...they will give you an edge during a conversation or open a door for you but thats all...they are not
magic.
belgareth
11-02-2005, 11:28 AM
You're probably right. I think
where he is heading is the question of how many people get beyond hits to successfully fulfilling whatever purpose
they use the mones for. It seems rather pointless for those who are looking for sex to buy mones, collect phone
numbers and leave it at that.
jollysnowdevil
11-02-2005, 12:36 PM
i've had several good
relationships due to mones. eventually they weren't what i was looking for and i moved on. i had one woman actually
propose to me after 6 months but i am not ready to be married.
mones to give you the edge. after that it is
really all who you are that makes the difference. the continued use of mones will give you that reputation of a
certain "charm". in the end it is really a matter of what you're looking for. i've run into ex's from years back
who instantly seemed to fall back in love with me again.
for me business comes first. i have plenty of time to
fall in love and get married. for now i am more content with enjoying life and setting up my future so that when i
do find the right person i wont have to struggle. mostly i use mones for my career and social purposes.
the
biggest reason people dont report too much after the intial hit is quite simply the longer term hits are far less
subtle. for instance at work wearing mones everyday i used to get a ton of hits when i first started from coworkers.
now if i skip a day a hit is more like somebody saying "are you ok you dont seem yourself today". nothing has
changed i just didnt put mones on. the visible effects of mones with friends, family, lovers, coworkers , andybody
who is around you a considerable amount of time diminish after a while. this is not to say the mones arent working
it is just the fact that these people have grown accustomed to your signature and have accepted it as being you.
with these people unless you take long breaks or largely vary your formulas you wont get those blatant hits. if you
want to see those strong sudden reactions from those close you need to add variety and constantly switch it up.
me for one i've found ratios that work best for me so i don't vary too much. i've grown accustomed to the
reactions that mones bring me and take them as ordinary reactions now. od reactions are now "hits" where sudden
dihls or excessive flirting i take as normal everyday life. in a sense i have become one "super being" with my
mones. they have become molded into my personality..who i am. even without mones i still carry myself as though im
wearing mones. although strangers perception may be different of me on moneless days i am still the same person. i
guess what i am trying to say is by using mones i permanently enhanced my personality and changed my mindframe a
bit.
abcd2
11-02-2005, 02:44 PM
see if i got any obvious sexual
hit id go as far i could with that given opportunity.... So i think hits are pointless because anyone can get a hit
at anytime but its the matter of taking advantage of the situation..... At my young age(not that young, just young
compared to all you experienced users :lol: ), i still wouldnt mind being in a relationship at all because i want to
experience what its like. Then the intimacy part comes eventually.
DUKE3100
11-02-2005, 03:34 PM
see if i got any
obvious sexual hit id go as far i could with that given opportunity.... So i think hits are pointless because anyone
can get a hit at anytime but its the matter of taking advantage of the situation..... At my young age(not that
young, just young compared to all you experienced users :lol: ), i still wouldnt mind being in a relationship at all
because i want to experience what its like. Then the intimacy part comes eventually.
Well if you want to
be in a relationship you will have to fully take advantage of the hits that you get then right? Go get em tiger!
Seriously though....with the mones you get more obvious overt hits....given the right circumstances and dose its
kinda similar to being a magnet or famous.
abcd2
11-02-2005, 04:40 PM
^ i already get good vibes with
women... recently more girls seem to check me out more! i never used to notice this until i read the body language
stuff and get into who is interested and who isnt. But the ones that look at me are the ones that dont talk, and
occasionally some do open up and start conversations etc... I think I have a great sense of humour and i think im
pretty sexy to myself lol (Ive improved in my self-esteem and condfidence)... But i tend to drift away from women
and never see them for a long period of time. I just need some extra edge, because im well aware that pheromones
wont do jack shit unless some effort is made...
thanks for the feedback guys. And i hope noone takes offense
to what ive said because my question is "Have you ever taken a hit and converted it into something more" which
doesnt mean that you should always have you always gone after your "HIT"....
Cloud9
11-02-2005, 05:37 PM
For myself, I am in a
relationship I am quite happy with. Mones are and have been used for business and as an interesting
diversion.
I think AA314 and A1 are probably the the best products/mones for relationships, because they
help keep a strong bond, add comfort, and relieve tension..Its good I think to add a little Anone too to keep things
spicy in a relationship or marriage.
belgareth
11-02-2005, 06:15 PM
I think AA314 and
A1 are probably the the best products/mones for relationships, because they help keep a strong bond, add comfort,
and relieve tension..Its good I think to add a little Anone too to keep things spicy in a relationship or
marriage.
have you ever been in a long term relationship?
chicago
11-02-2005, 06:31 PM
2 Out Of 10 Hits , I Hit A Home
Run With Chicks. Mones Help Alot, But, You Gotta Know How To Communicate And Lead The Girls To A Home
Run.
________
Nexium settlement information (http://www.classactionsettlements.org/lawsuit/nexium/)
Gegogi
11-02-2005, 06:39 PM
"I think AA314 and A1 are probably the the best products/mones for relationships, because they
help keep a strong bond, add comfort, and relieve tension..Its good I think to add a little Anone too to keep things
spicy in a relationship or marriage.
It doesn't work that way very long. She'll eventually get used to
your pheromones and they will have far less impact than they did at first. In my experience, the pheromone
"honeymoon" lasts one or two months tops. It's completely up to the couple to form intimate bonds and keep things
hot 'n nasty. Pouring a little NPA and A-1 on your wang won't cut it very long. You gotta to the grunt work the
old fashion way.
Usually the only thing spicy in an extended relationship, e.g., 15 year marriage, might be
the foods you consume! :frustrate
Cloud9
11-02-2005, 06:54 PM
I think they work for long periods
of time, its just your partner gets used to realizing "this is your pheromone signature". It's certainly still
working, just not consciously as obvious on down the road. I think A1 and AA314 help with creating a stronger bond
and help decrease the amount of fights..especially with A1.
Gegogi
11-02-2005, 08:01 PM
Mr. Cloud writes, "I think
they work for long periods of time, its just your partner gets used to realizing "this is your pheromone
signature".
Yeah, that's basically what I said: "She'll eventually get used to your pheromones and
they will have far less impact than they did at first. I didn't say they didn't work. They just don't work nearly
as well. A fart in a hurricane still sthinks but does it matter when 150 MPH are nippin' at your shit?
Nevertheless, no amount of pheromones can stop a trains-wreck from happening. I certainly got screamed at plenty by
my last GF although fully loaded with SOE and A-1.
Cloud9
11-02-2005, 08:04 PM
can't imagine what the screaming
would have been like without SOE and A1.
belgareth
11-02-2005, 08:54 PM
Gegogi,
As usual you make
my point at least as well as I could have. The mones help but are only a small fraction of the whole picture. All
the other things, who you are, how you behave, your honesty and integrity, your ability to work together, how you
treat your other half and a million other things make up a real relationship. Anybody foolish enough to believe
mones are more than a small piece of the picture is in for a lot of disappointment. My SO, Wood Elf, made the point
on the forum a while back. She was already attracted to me before she ever got close enough to detect the mones.
Sure, the mones helped once she got close but it was other things that attracted her and has kept us together for
two years now.
Gegogi
11-02-2005, 09:22 PM
That's right, Belgareth, only a
tiny piece of the puzzle of human relations! Too bad the other 95% is so dad burn complicated!
Incidentally,
the screaming ensued both in person and over wires (err, wireless) and seemed equally mean. I guess I need to
install a pheromone emitter on her cellphone! I'm not good at confrontations with women. It seems if you fight back
even a little you wound them terribly, so I usually just take it and try to smooth things over. They usually feel
gulity afterwards.
belgareth
11-02-2005, 09:33 PM
My first wife taught me an
important lesson: You can't win! Don't bother to try, its a waste of time and energy. Instead, my approach is
refusing to be bothered and refusing to budge until the screaming stops and reasonable talk happens. It's hard to
practice because I have a pretty good temper of my own but once you master it you can really accomplish a lot. You
can't imagine how many times I've answered threats with "Ok, that's fine. Whatever you want to do." Or answered
demands with a flat "No!" Once a person gets the idea that you refuse all demands and answer all threats with an
utter lack of concern, they are much easier to deal with.
When you can have a rational dialog any problem
can be resolved. Every time you fulfill a demand or respond to screaming or bend to threats you dig yourself deeper
into a hole, you give them a lever to use against you. But you have to be ready to lose everything by taking a stand
and most people aren't willing to take that risk. Funny thing is that I have not once been called on it to see if I
was really willing to lose everything. Maybe that's a good thing.
Cloud9
11-02-2005, 11:14 PM
have you ever been in a
long term relationship? yeah, I was engaged with the woman I wanted to spend the rest of my life with for 2
years...she had psychological issues..depression was one of them and not being happy with herself was the other big
one...she ended up distancing herself from me emotionally over several months to the point where she didn't love me
anymore and left. I didn't know as much about pheromones back then and had just started using AE/m then. In fact I
believe when we first met to go out I was using only APC at the time...she loved the smell of it and was always
smelling my neck and then started getting turned on.
belgareth
11-03-2005, 05:45 AM
That explains a lot:cheers:
Without trying to belittle you, a couple of years of dating isn't all that long of a relationship.
Even if
pheromones were able to do all you seem to think they can for a relationship, there's no way you could make
pheromones an important part of your daily persona while living in the same household for any length of time. Not
when you wake up in the morning to the person, they see you when you are fresh from the shower and after a day of
work or a couple hours at the gym. Sooner or later it would fall apart.
Instead, try cultivating a personality
that is good to be around, somebody another person can like and respect for who you are day in and day out. Use
kindness, consideration, careful thought and good humor to deal with the daily ins and outs of a long term
relationship. Learn to curb your tongue when you get angry or frustrated and to view the world as 'us' or 'we'.
Even then, don't count on it to last forever because the odds are that it won't. And when it does come apart
accept that it has and act like a civilized human being towards the other person, no matter how they act towards
you.
Cloud9
11-03-2005, 11:04 AM
I'm going to have a pheromone
dispersal canister implanted in my butt that puts out pheromones at 12 hour intervals 24/7. Just change out the
canisters every 30 days. That should solve the problem of those times your not wearing pheromones or they get
washed off. Before implantation::think: After implantation::blink:
tounge
11-03-2005, 12:00 PM
Dude, do yourself a favor. Put away
the keyboard, and resist the urge to post so damn much. And then, go back and STUDY what the old timers have posted
for YOURS (and others) long term benefit.
belgareth
11-03-2005, 03:55 PM
Dude, do yourself
a favor. Put away the keyboard, and resist the urge to post so damn much. And then, go back and STUDY what the old
timers have posted for YOURS (and others) long term benefit.
Some of the best, most concise advise I've
seen on the forum. :box:
MOBLEYC57
11-03-2005, 05:17 PM
Learn to
curb your tongue when you get angry or frustrated and to view the world as 'us' or 'we'.
Tis
in my TOP 5 of what not to do's! :thumbsup: Once it slips past your lips, you can neeeeeever take it back, and a
million "I'm sorry's" can never fix it! :sick:
belgareth
11-03-2005, 06:21 PM
I can think of a time or two
where I would have gladly had my tongue removed after I said something stupid or hurtful.
jollysnowdevil
11-03-2005, 06:48 PM
I can
think of a time or two where I would have gladly had my tongue removed after I said something stupid or
hurtful.
i once asked a pregnant customer when she was expecting turns out she wasn't pregnant. totally
blew that sale.
tim929
11-03-2005, 06:52 PM
belgareth...if you can only think
of a time or two I am in awe and envy of you...I do it all the time.
As for hits that I have capitalized on...I
have only managed to do that a couple of times so far.One of the annoying realities of pheromones in public is that
in many cases,the bedroom of my appartment is inconviniently located where I am not or,the time required to properly
cultivate a hit is in short supply.
The time and the place and the circumstances of the hit make a huge
difference in weather or not you can realy do anything about it.But flirting and teasing is a blast and its
educational too.Taking the opportunity to hone the skills of inter-gender communication...or,build your "game" can
be very helpful in future interactions.And its a great way to learn what works and what doesnt.And if by happy
chance you stumble uppon something that works well that gets women smiling and laughing,its a big ego booster too.
Pheromones are a great way to help pry open the door and get someone talking and opened up.
originaly posted
by belgareth
My first wife taught me an important lesson: You can't win! Don't bother to try, its a
waste of time and energy. Instead, my approach is refusing to be bothered and refusing to budge until the screaming
stops and reasonable talk happens. It's hard to practice because I have a pretty good temper of my own but once you
master it you can really accomplish a lot. You can't imagine how many times I've answered threats with "Ok,
that's fine. Whatever you want to do." Or answered demands with a flat "No!" Once a person gets the idea that you
refuse all demands and answer all threats with an utter lack of concern, they are much easier to deal with.
Many times women respect that approach as a sign of strength and commitment to principals.I have met
many women who thrive on the drama of a good dissagreement or argument but ulltimatly loose respect for a man
because...well...lets face it...trying to argue with a woman is like trying to tell the sun not to rise in the
east.So as a result,men eventualy end up caving in.Standing up and saying "NO" or simply not giving in to threats
tends to let the other person know that you will not be swayed by poorly considered logic delivered in a harsh
tone.Strangely,the same tactic applies quite well to men and children as well..."Go ahead and hold your breath till
you turn blue and die...it wont bother me a bit." And by God we have tried it and always failed for some reason.
belgareth
11-03-2005, 10:17 PM
There's nothing to be in awe
of, most of what I know now, or think I know, came as a sudden bright flash of insight after making the same stupid
mistake a couple dozen times. The biggest single advantage of middle age is having had the opportunity to screw up
more times than those younger than myself. Hopefully, I was smart enough to learn from some of those mistakes. If
you want an honest statement, I think Gegogi has more skills and is better at articulating those simple truths.
A few successes is better than none and should eventually lead to more successes. Good luck with it.
It's
been my experience that even when I really piss a person off, standing up for my beliefs usually earns their respect
if nothing else. Most people are reluctant to go up against me a second time in a battle of wills and that saves me
a lot of trouble. I got tired of wondering or worrying about what others think of me. It really doesn't matter
anyhow so why waste time on it? Sorry if that sounds arrogant, it isn't meant to be. It's just the most productive
and happy way I've found to live.
a.k.a.
11-05-2005, 02:41 PM
Following through on hits is a
limited approach IMO. What do you do if the woman you find most attractive doesn’t show any signs of a “hit”? Add
more pheromones? Try different products?
I use hits as a gague of how the pheromones are working. If I’m
getting a good number of hits and no signs of OD, I take this as a green light to follow through on my desires.
This isn’t to say that pheromones are nothing more than a confidence builder. It’s just that every woman has her own
way of responding to an attractive guy. Some women are more expressive than others.
The first time I got
lucky with pheromones I wandered around the supermarket for about ten minutes, passing by the same girl several
times, looking for some sign of attraction. But she didn’t even glance my way. Finally I thought “f*** it” and just
struck up a conversation with her. Her face lit up in a smile almost immediately and, after a few minutes, she
seemed completely absorbed with me.
That was a pretty obvious hit, but it would have never happened if I hadn’t
created the opportunity for it.
Sometimes you see just the opposite effect. I’ve had women give me a big
blushing smile, then I try striking up a conversation with them and they start giving me “back off” signals.
avg joe
11-05-2005, 03:00 PM
[QUOTE=a.k.a.]
The first
time I got lucky with pheromones I wandered around the supermarket for about ten minutes, passing by the same girl
several times, looking for some sign of attraction. But she didn’t even glance my way. Finally I thought “f*** it”
and just struck up a conversation with her. Her face lit up in a smile almost immediately and, after a few minutes,
she seemed completely absorbed with me.
That was a pretty obvious hit, but it would have never happened if I
hadn’t created the opportunity for it.
QUOTE]
when i first read the walked past her several times part i
thought, oh no here we go again. good on you for actually talking to her. it's amazing what that can do.
Gegogi
11-05-2005, 05:07 PM
Neighborhood supermarkets are
great pickup joints. The funny thing is, it probably would have worked just as well without 'mones. Man must first
initiate and then woman responds. It's been that way for eons. Usually only hookers come-on to a man in a public
place.
avg joe
11-05-2005, 05:35 PM
It's been that
way for eons. Usually only hookers come-on to a man in a public place.
not that there is anything wrong
with that, lol.
tim929
11-06-2005, 01:24 PM
Aproach plays a huge roll in what
sort of interactions you are going to have.If a woman looks you in the eye,smiles at you or whatever and you are not
ready to exploit that contact,then your going to be very dissapointed.I innitiate contact with women on a regular
baisis and sometimes its a hit and sometimes its a miss...but pheromones just wont...no mater how hard I have wanted
them to...get a woman to spontainiously take her panties off and throw them at me.
Now in high school the
results might be alittle different just because girls get kinda strange and wound up...but as for adults in
public...no.
Neighborhood
supermarkets are great pickup joints. The funny thing is, it probably would have worked just as well without
'mones. Man must first initiate and then woman responds. It's been that way for eons. Usually only hookers come-on
to a man in a public place.
Must have some nice markets where you are Gegogi. Around here all I get
are old ladies in babushkas or young Hispanics with a bunch of squirming kids in tow (and in no mood to
socialize)...
Singles (women) are very, very rare.
Cloud9
11-06-2005, 01:56 PM
supermarkets near college campuses
are much much better!
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