Charlie
10-16-2005, 11:38 PM
Right
this is not realy a product discussion but it can lead to that. As you might remember you adviced me on working on
my confidence and all that preferably b4 i use and additives. I ve been reading around about body language and
confidence boosting books for sometime now so i though i ll give it a test in the weekend. I used nothing but
deodorant since i sent pherlure back for the refund...
So at the bar with my buddies a decided to take a stance
like im the one and no one else (not that much but hey). It was interesting to see the reactions first of all my
budies and the some girls around. One of the said to me basicaly wtf who do you think you are! cut it out its not
you.Some of the wemen around did that rolling eyes expression kinda like a "Pfff" reaction!
So i thought i dont
produce that much -None to pose of like an alpha-male and decided to quit it not to give but impression and
all...when a girl comes along gets between me and the guys presses her breasts nearly on my fase gives me a quick
glance in the eye and orders a drink (50 percent of the bar was empty). Im like :think: and im sure i gave the
impression of someone that didnt know what he was doing because once she got the drink left so fast i couldnt say a
word even if i wanted to. My guess is that she didnt pick up anything that i was showing i would give mones-side and
action-side. So i said quit it with the confidence thing. See i think dont do it if you cant handle it :P.
So
(because the post is getting too long) i had a very good night with the buddys i chatted up lots of girls some of
them chatted me up (w00t?) and i got a lot off looks and its the first time in my life i got a THE look, didnt back
out till the girl lowered her eyes blushing. I just kept my chest out, shoulders back, always possitioned my self in
company sugesting theres always place for a fourth. (ie in a party of three never form an isosceles triangle) and
other good methods. So my question to you.
Could it have been that i have a high level of mones but kept them "
under wraps" cause i just never acted on them?...not -none as much (i think i produce
none :P) but -rone or -nol cause it seems that when i overcome my fears/complexes or even put them aside for a while
i give the impression of a overly chaty nice guy. (Some of the girs comented on that). Can i use this experience or
with more experiments so i can pinpoint what type of mones i realy need? Based on that you what do you think i need?
(or could it be just a one time thing?)
-edit- Btw guys because english is not my native language and i m new in
this stuff i would apreciate honesty and I will not be offended whatsoever on the matter of not
Understandable or useless/dump posts (heres my complexes kicking in again
:P)
Charlie
this is not realy a product discussion but it can lead to that. As you might remember you adviced me on working on
my confidence and all that preferably b4 i use and additives. I ve been reading around about body language and
confidence boosting books for sometime now so i though i ll give it a test in the weekend. I used nothing but
deodorant since i sent pherlure back for the refund...
So at the bar with my buddies a decided to take a stance
like im the one and no one else (not that much but hey). It was interesting to see the reactions first of all my
budies and the some girls around. One of the said to me basicaly wtf who do you think you are! cut it out its not
you.Some of the wemen around did that rolling eyes expression kinda like a "Pfff" reaction!
So i thought i dont
produce that much -None to pose of like an alpha-male and decided to quit it not to give but impression and
all...when a girl comes along gets between me and the guys presses her breasts nearly on my fase gives me a quick
glance in the eye and orders a drink (50 percent of the bar was empty). Im like :think: and im sure i gave the
impression of someone that didnt know what he was doing because once she got the drink left so fast i couldnt say a
word even if i wanted to. My guess is that she didnt pick up anything that i was showing i would give mones-side and
action-side. So i said quit it with the confidence thing. See i think dont do it if you cant handle it :P.
So
(because the post is getting too long) i had a very good night with the buddys i chatted up lots of girls some of
them chatted me up (w00t?) and i got a lot off looks and its the first time in my life i got a THE look, didnt back
out till the girl lowered her eyes blushing. I just kept my chest out, shoulders back, always possitioned my self in
company sugesting theres always place for a fourth. (ie in a party of three never form an isosceles triangle) and
other good methods. So my question to you.
Could it have been that i have a high level of mones but kept them "
under wraps" cause i just never acted on them?...not -none as much (i think i produce
none :P) but -rone or -nol cause it seems that when i overcome my fears/complexes or even put them aside for a while
i give the impression of a overly chaty nice guy. (Some of the girs comented on that). Can i use this experience or
with more experiments so i can pinpoint what type of mones i realy need? Based on that you what do you think i need?
(or could it be just a one time thing?)
-edit- Btw guys because english is not my native language and i m new in
this stuff i would apreciate honesty and I will not be offended whatsoever on the matter of not
Understandable or useless/dump posts (heres my complexes kicking in again
:P)
Charlie