MOBLEYC57
05-02-2005, 12:10 PM
:rant: ICE BREAKER by DatingClass :rant:
A short article on one of my favourite ice
breakers.
The Hi and Bye ice breakers introduction is a more direct approach to getting to know a girl as with
this approach you start of by showing your interest in her. It's very risky, no doubt BUT it is also quick and in
the event that the conversation doesn't go the way you hope it would, it gives you an easy exit.
The below
example illustrates how the approach works:
Imagine that you are in a hotel lobby to pick up some guest when you
saw a hottie sitting on one of the lounge chairs reading a woman's magazine.
What you'd do is: walk up to her
and say, "I'm on my way out but I can't help noticing you and not come over and say hi. My name is Steve."
She says "Hi, I'm Lisa." And you say "I have to go but I would like to get to know you so, can we like exchange
email addresses?" If she says yes, get her email and leave. If she says no, then say "Hope to see you around, Lisa."
Then leave.
In such circumstances, it's wiser to ask for her email address rather than phone number. Women feel
less threaten when giving out their email addresses to stranger as oppose to phone numbers.
Some of the
situation that calls for this measure :
You are really in hurry and leaving and do not want to pass up the
chance of getting to know this hot lady. You know the risk involved but then it's either you take the risk or
she's out of your life for good. Anyway, this measure calls for a quick exit therefore the embarrassment of being
turned down is a short one only.
If you are the kind of guy who is intimidated by good looking women, you
definitely should opt for this measure. This is because this method limits interaction time. Limited interaction
time means less talking to do; definitely for guys who don't know how to have long conversation with women. Less
talking incidentally will also lead to less chance of you screwing up the interaction.
This is also a good
approach for clueless guys. By clueless, I mean guys who don't have the faintest idea of what to say or do in the
company of a girl they are interested in. This short, simple and quick method is the answer.
This technique is
meant for the encounter to be over quickly ~ short and hopefully successful!
:sick: COLOGNE NOTES
:sick:
Trying to find the right cologne to wear in the attraction arena is a subject that
many men could use some brushing up on. Picking a good cologne that not only smells right on you but also fits your
personal style takes a bit of skill and a lot of active awareness.
If you are not careful, you will spend
lots of money on colognes that simply do not mix well with your body chemistry. And even though they smell great to
you, because you are use to your own bodily odors, the scent you are sporting might be killing your chances with the
ladies before you open your mouth to initiate first contact with them.
However, if you happen to come across a
cologne that really works with your body chemistry and accentuates your own unique style, then your chances with the
ladies could dramatically improve.
So, you are probably asking yourself, "How do I begin looking for the right
cologne for me?"
Before you can answer this question, you must be ready to accept that what you think smells
good might be the wrong cologne to use unless all you are trying to do is smell good for yourself. Also, the goal
behind finding the right cologne is not always to smell great necessarily. Smelling good is nice and all, but it is
not always as effective as you might imagine.
Of course you do not want to smell bad. What you want to do is
smell unique and interesting. There is an art to choosing the right cologne and the men who master it strive to
leave women with a certain feeling rather than simply striving to smell good.
When I go looking for a new
cologne, I always take a woman with me. If she says something like, "That one smells sort of nice on you!", I know
immediately that that is not the cologne for me unless I just want something to wear around the office.
What I
am waiting for her to say is "Gee, that cologne is really interesting. I'm not sure what it is about that scent but
it has a certain appeal to it!" Because what she is really saying is that the cologne has an attractive quality and
a sense of mystery to it rather than merely saying it smells nice.
And what you are trying to do is get your
hands on cologne that attracts women to you, not merely makes you smell nice around them. It is extremely important
to understand this fundamental difference. Because if you don't figure this out, you will waste a lot of time and
money with colognes that make you smell nice like every other guy who just smells nice.
To illustrate this more
clearly, imagine the first time you cuddled with a woman who was wearing a perfume that lingered in the room, on
your pillow, or on your jacket. Even though she left ten minutes ago, her scent is still there to remind you of your
experience with her when she was around.
This is the kind of effect you want a cologne to have when trying to
attract women. Because if you are wearing the right cologne and you hug a woman and some rubs off on her, often this
can cause a woman to start thinking about you more intensely even though you are no longer in her presence. Women
know this trick very well and use it on us men all the time to keep us thinking about them even when they are not
around.
Another important key to remember is to always have more than one type of cologne to switch between.
This way if you see the same woman a lot, you will not smell predictable around her.
I have a friend who wears
the same cologne around everywhere he goes. The problem is that some women told him that his cologne smells nice and
as a result that is all he will wear. Unfortunately, none of these women are dating him.
It is because even down
to how he wears his cologne, he is predictable. By rotating between different colognes, you can play a little game
of hard to get with a woman's sense of smell. And don't underestimate a woman's sense of smell. Teasing a
woman's senses--especially her sense of smell--tells her on a whole new level that you get it.
Thoughts, ideas, concerns? :think:
'Specially from zee ladies! :POKE:
A short article on one of my favourite ice
breakers.
The Hi and Bye ice breakers introduction is a more direct approach to getting to know a girl as with
this approach you start of by showing your interest in her. It's very risky, no doubt BUT it is also quick and in
the event that the conversation doesn't go the way you hope it would, it gives you an easy exit.
The below
example illustrates how the approach works:
Imagine that you are in a hotel lobby to pick up some guest when you
saw a hottie sitting on one of the lounge chairs reading a woman's magazine.
What you'd do is: walk up to her
and say, "I'm on my way out but I can't help noticing you and not come over and say hi. My name is Steve."
She says "Hi, I'm Lisa." And you say "I have to go but I would like to get to know you so, can we like exchange
email addresses?" If she says yes, get her email and leave. If she says no, then say "Hope to see you around, Lisa."
Then leave.
In such circumstances, it's wiser to ask for her email address rather than phone number. Women feel
less threaten when giving out their email addresses to stranger as oppose to phone numbers.
Some of the
situation that calls for this measure :
You are really in hurry and leaving and do not want to pass up the
chance of getting to know this hot lady. You know the risk involved but then it's either you take the risk or
she's out of your life for good. Anyway, this measure calls for a quick exit therefore the embarrassment of being
turned down is a short one only.
If you are the kind of guy who is intimidated by good looking women, you
definitely should opt for this measure. This is because this method limits interaction time. Limited interaction
time means less talking to do; definitely for guys who don't know how to have long conversation with women. Less
talking incidentally will also lead to less chance of you screwing up the interaction.
This is also a good
approach for clueless guys. By clueless, I mean guys who don't have the faintest idea of what to say or do in the
company of a girl they are interested in. This short, simple and quick method is the answer.
This technique is
meant for the encounter to be over quickly ~ short and hopefully successful!
:sick: COLOGNE NOTES
:sick:
Trying to find the right cologne to wear in the attraction arena is a subject that
many men could use some brushing up on. Picking a good cologne that not only smells right on you but also fits your
personal style takes a bit of skill and a lot of active awareness.
If you are not careful, you will spend
lots of money on colognes that simply do not mix well with your body chemistry. And even though they smell great to
you, because you are use to your own bodily odors, the scent you are sporting might be killing your chances with the
ladies before you open your mouth to initiate first contact with them.
However, if you happen to come across a
cologne that really works with your body chemistry and accentuates your own unique style, then your chances with the
ladies could dramatically improve.
So, you are probably asking yourself, "How do I begin looking for the right
cologne for me?"
Before you can answer this question, you must be ready to accept that what you think smells
good might be the wrong cologne to use unless all you are trying to do is smell good for yourself. Also, the goal
behind finding the right cologne is not always to smell great necessarily. Smelling good is nice and all, but it is
not always as effective as you might imagine.
Of course you do not want to smell bad. What you want to do is
smell unique and interesting. There is an art to choosing the right cologne and the men who master it strive to
leave women with a certain feeling rather than simply striving to smell good.
When I go looking for a new
cologne, I always take a woman with me. If she says something like, "That one smells sort of nice on you!", I know
immediately that that is not the cologne for me unless I just want something to wear around the office.
What I
am waiting for her to say is "Gee, that cologne is really interesting. I'm not sure what it is about that scent but
it has a certain appeal to it!" Because what she is really saying is that the cologne has an attractive quality and
a sense of mystery to it rather than merely saying it smells nice.
And what you are trying to do is get your
hands on cologne that attracts women to you, not merely makes you smell nice around them. It is extremely important
to understand this fundamental difference. Because if you don't figure this out, you will waste a lot of time and
money with colognes that make you smell nice like every other guy who just smells nice.
To illustrate this more
clearly, imagine the first time you cuddled with a woman who was wearing a perfume that lingered in the room, on
your pillow, or on your jacket. Even though she left ten minutes ago, her scent is still there to remind you of your
experience with her when she was around.
This is the kind of effect you want a cologne to have when trying to
attract women. Because if you are wearing the right cologne and you hug a woman and some rubs off on her, often this
can cause a woman to start thinking about you more intensely even though you are no longer in her presence. Women
know this trick very well and use it on us men all the time to keep us thinking about them even when they are not
around.
Another important key to remember is to always have more than one type of cologne to switch between.
This way if you see the same woman a lot, you will not smell predictable around her.
I have a friend who wears
the same cologne around everywhere he goes. The problem is that some women told him that his cologne smells nice and
as a result that is all he will wear. Unfortunately, none of these women are dating him.
It is because even down
to how he wears his cologne, he is predictable. By rotating between different colognes, you can play a little game
of hard to get with a woman's sense of smell. And don't underestimate a woman's sense of smell. Teasing a
woman's senses--especially her sense of smell--tells her on a whole new level that you get it.
Thoughts, ideas, concerns? :think:
'Specially from zee ladies! :POKE: