View Full Version : need help...over a month and still nothing...
ttocs12321
03-29-2005, 04:43 PM
ok, ive been using chikara, npa, and soe for over a month now and im still not getting any hits at all
of any kind...ive been looking around for all the signs (hair twiring, smiles, etc.) havent noticed
ANYTHING,
nothing, zero, zip, zilch, notta...ive tryed pretty much every reasonable combo between the 3 products...i dont know
what to do next:think: im getting ready to give up on mones.:frustrate:rant: anyone have any suggestions?
Thanks...
chicago
03-29-2005, 05:17 PM
i use chikara and the egde combo
and get great results almost everytime.
1 spray chikara
1 spray the edge
and try to stay(5-10 feet) near
your target at least 5 min.
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ttocs12321
03-29-2005, 05:24 PM
maybe ill try something else
like the edge, but its hard to put out money for something being i already spent a fair amount and havent gotten
anything...:POKE:
belgareth
03-29-2005, 05:56 PM
Why don't you start over with
a single product and be methodical about it? All you are doing so far is a hit and miss. You may hit one day but
you'll have a better chance of seeing results.
Gegogi
03-29-2005, 07:05 PM
Pheromones are like a microphone:
they can only enhance or amplify your attributes if you step up to the mic and speak. If you bathe a deadman in NPA
and SOE you won't get any hits either. If you want to see results, get a woman in your personal space, apply a
little charm and engage her in pleasant conversation for a few minutes. As the pheromones take effect, she'll begin
to let down her guard and open up to you. Of course, pheromones aren't a magic pill. They can't create attraction.
They can only enhance what is already there. You create the attraction. In other words, you have to still do the
grunt work: look good, smell sweat, be charming and witty, project self-confidence and initiate
conversations.
If you have difficulty meeting women, join a church singles group, take a dance class
(ballroom not ballet!) or bust a nut at a young republican meeting. In other words, find a group that shares common
interests with you and socialize. Shared interests make meeting people much easier than trolling around town soaked
in NPA...
Pancho1188
03-29-2005, 07:27 PM
NPA and TE are the same thing
(TE is diluted), by the way...
I think it's a common misconception that if you put this stuff on, women will
start acting goofy. I've never had women sit there and drool over me or give me weird body language because I was
wearing -mones. Now, I don't have the EQ of someone like Friendly or the very descriptive posters on this forum,
so maybe I'm missing something. However, when I'm wearing -mones and talking to people, I find it amazing how
different people can act sometimes. I've seen people I wouldn't think would be so talkative suddenly start joking
around with me like I was their best friend. I've had women flirt with me a little when I talk about my love life
(or lack thereof) and look at me in that way only women can when you're talking about some lovey-dovey stuff.
Maybe you haven't noticed your interactions change, but maybe that's what you should be focusing on. Like G
said, you should step up and ball...then see how -mones work their magic.
ttocs12321
03-29-2005, 07:53 PM
Why don't
you start over with a single product and be methodical about it? All you are doing so far is a hit and miss. You may
hit one day but you'll have a better chance of seeing results. i have just used 1 product before trying
with different dosages.
and what you other 2 are saying...i understand its not some miricale thing, i know i
have to work for the girl, im not dum but in all the threads it says how girls will smile at them and twirl there
hair and such...ive never seen any of that...i was at a party last weekend, me and a girl were sitting right next to
each other, had my arm around her (wrist right under her nose) we hooked up and everything but we had before when i
wasnt wearing mones and she didnt act any different this time when i had them on...:think:...i dont need to step up
my game, trust me, i always go stright up to girls and talk to them, i know how to act and stuff i know its not
that...and im not seeing any different interactions with people either...
Icehawk
03-29-2005, 09:05 PM
Are you even noticing any
reactions on yourself or your close friends around you? If not than 1. You live in the twilight zone or 2. Too
oblivious to notice. Either way try one product at a time with minimalist approach. And pay attention to your body.
Can you even smell the mones? Conversions? Body hygene? Are you an alpha, beta, delta? Hits from mones usually occur
on a bell curve and most newbies put way too much on causing low to no hits.
Friendly1
03-29-2005, 10:52 PM
:think:...i
dont need to step up my game, trust me, i always go stright up to girls and talk to them, i know how to act and
stuff i know its not that...and im not seeing any different interactions with people either...
So, what is
it you expect the pheromones to do for you that you aren't already doing for yourself?
NaughtieGirl
03-30-2005, 12:44 PM
You
know, I think these guys are right. I did the same thing. I'm a newbie as well. I got all enthusiastic about the
whole endeavor, ordered a bunch of stuff, and then I was putting it on haphazardly. A little method to the madness
but not much at all. The results were all over the place. Good/bad/indifferent/from the wrong people, you name it.
And then when I did get a good result I couldn't for the life of me remember exactly what I had put on that
morning.
So for the past 2 days I have stuck with Primal for women. It is just -nols and a hint of C's. The
results have been consistent and nice. Friendly, talkative reaction with a hint of tendrness. I really like that
product and now I can build on it by adding one more thing for this situation and another thing for another
situation.
ttocs12321
03-30-2005, 12:57 PM
So, what is
it you expect the pheromones to do for you that you aren't already doing for yourself?
all you people
are talking to me like im retarted and doing what i shouldent be...trust me, im not stupid, i read around for hrs
and days before i even recieved my mones...
get more attention, have them more outgoing...at this point i dont
care what the reactions is, i just want something...and thanks for the help ICEHAWK,1. if you think im stupid and
using to much then you could have been nice and tell me how much to use...by minamalist you approach you mean to go
sit next to them and do nothing, they will think your gay or something, your not going to pick up a girl by not
playing your part, by you saying that its basically telling me the mones will do the whole job which is exactly the
opposite of what everyone else is saying...if YOU read by above post i said how i have tryed just 1 product in small
to lage amounts, and i dont live in the twilight zone and im not to oblivious to notice so stfu...im looking for
help here not smartass comments.
Pancho1188
03-30-2005, 01:14 PM
all you
people are talking to me like im retarted and doing what i shouldent be...trust me, im not stupid, i read around for
hrs and days before i even recieved my mones...
get more attention, have them more outgoing...at this point i dont
care what the reactions is, i just want something...and thanks for the help ICEHAWK,1. if you think im stupid and
using to much then you could have been nice and tell me how much to use...by minamalist you approach you mean to go
sit next to them and do nothing, they will think your gay or something, your not going to pick up a girl by not
playing your part, by you saying that its basically telling me the mones will do the whole job which is exactly the
opposite of what everyone else is saying...if YOU read by above post i said how i have tryed just 1 product in small
to lage amounts, and i dont live in the twilight zone and im not to oblivious to notice so stfu...im looking for
help here not smartass comments.
I think you're just taking what we're saying the wrong way.
What
Friendly is saying is that if you already get women, and you're using -mones to get women, then what more do you
expect? Married people use them to get their spoused to be more frisky, and single people use them to attract
attention or make it easier to move along in the courting process. I'd say that you're one of the cases of a guy
that already gets a lot of women and the interactions don't change...your frequency just increases. There are
cases of men who see no overall change in intensity or reactions, they are just successful more often when they
attempt. In other words, you wouldn't be able to notice a difference in behavior, but you'd be successful in
situations where you might not have been otherwise. I've seen it happen where the reaction from one person was
normal for anyone but you know would've been different otherwise (as in you could've sworn the person was not in
the mood to do that but did, anyway). I had one time where my boss shrugged me off one time when I know he normally
wouldn't have because I was wearing -mones that threw off his reaction.
What Icehawk is saying by the
minimalist approach is to use as little as possible. Buildup has been known to occur, so you could be ODing by even
using regular amounts every day for a long period of time. We can't always be specific because an OD for some is
too little for others. I usually go with 4 drops of TE (that's probably the equivalent of like just a dab of
NPA...you can look it up on the -mone calculator), 3-6" of SOE, and 1-2 sprays of Chikara (individually; not at the
same time). When together, I use 1 spray of Chikara and 3" of SOE or 1 spray of Chikara and 2 drops of TE.
Sometimes I go nuts and do 1 spray, one drop, and 4". It all depends on how I'm feeling. It doesn't work every
time, but I notice when people get talkative when I wouldn't expect them to.
Holmes
03-30-2005, 01:21 PM
What Friendly is
saying is that if you already get women, and you're using -mones to get women, then what more do you expect?
More women. Of course.
Can'tFocus
03-30-2005, 01:33 PM
Perhaps everyones got the
flu'?
looks like they're working on you right now.
belgareth
03-30-2005, 01:40 PM
all you
people are talking to me like im retarted and doing what i shouldent be...trust me, im not stupid, i read around for
hrs and days before i even recieved my mones...
get more attention, have them more outgoing...at this point i dont
care what the reactions is, i just want something...and thanks for the help ICEHAWK,1. if you think im stupid and
using to much then you could have been nice and tell me how much to use...by minamalist you approach you mean to go
sit next to them and do nothing, they will think your gay or something, your not going to pick up a girl by not
playing your part, by you saying that its basically telling me the mones will do the whole job which is exactly the
opposite of what everyone else is saying...if YOU read by above post i said how i have tryed just 1 product in small
to lage amounts, and i dont live in the twilight zone and im not to oblivious to notice so stfu...im looking for
help here not smartass comments.
TTOCS12321:
That answer was inappropriate! Icehawk's answer was to
the point and made perfect sense, he was giving you good advice. We are perfectly willing to help and advise you but
are not magicians. We cannot see what you are doing and only have your very subjective and often non-responsive
answers to work with. An attitude problem on top of it will not help.
You want help and advice, fine. Want to be
rude to members of this forum? You'll be gone.
CptKipling
03-30-2005, 01:46 PM
ttocs12321,
Can you outline
for us just how exactly you tested the products on their own (in detail)? Really you should have been seeing some
results from individual products before wandering into mixing.
ttocs12321
03-30-2005, 02:08 PM
BELGERATH-to me, he was being
cocky "can you even smell the mones?" "too oblivious" "live in the twilight zone" im sorry but that doesnt help,
maybe theres something im missing idk, i dont have an attitude problem but when someone talks to me like im retarted
im not just going to stand there and take it, sorry of we dont see eye to eye...and im not so sure what he meant by
"body hygene"...ill leave it at that
PANCHO-thanks for the last post
CPTKIPLING-yes i can, i cant give you exact
dates or anything but i can tell you what i have tryed. Chikara-ive tryed 1 spray to 3 sprays...SOE-ive tryed
3"-15"...NPA-havent used much, trying get it right with 1 of the others first, the few times i have used it, i used
1-2 dabs...NOTE that i have tryed each of the above in various palces, all in 1 spot sometimes, spread out
others...With combinations ive tryed 3" of SOE with 1 dab of NPA...also tryed 1 spray of Chikara with about 5" of
SOE...
AND about build up, every night i when i take a shower i make sure to scub the places i use the mones
extremely well, so i dont think im suffering from build up...
belgareth
03-30-2005, 02:15 PM
BELGERATH-to
me, he was being cocky "can you even smell the mones?" "too oblivious" "live in the twilight zone" im sorry but that
doesnt help, maybe theres something im missing idk, i dont have an attitude problem but when someone talks to me
like im retarted im not just going to stand there and take it, sorry of we dont see eye to eye...and im not so sure
what he meant by "body hygene"...ill leave it at that
If you have read as much as you claim you will
know that a certain percentage of people cannot smell mones. You should also understand that there is a strong
relationship between synthetic mones and personal hygene. Also, a number of people saying the same things as you
have completely overlooked even the most obvious of signs until they were pointed out, that could be called
oblivious, couldn't it? Icehawk is a good observer and his questions were relevent even if you didn't understand
them.
My warning stands and I don't care whether you see eye to eye with me or not. Watch your attitude on this
forum.
CptKipling
03-30-2005, 02:15 PM
Over how many days did you test
each product?
ttocs12321
03-30-2005, 02:21 PM
CPTKIPLING-Chikara ive done
with 1, 2, and 3 sprays atleast 3 trys each...SOE ive used 3", 6" ive used about 3 times each and everything over
that ive only done once or twice...
CptKipling
03-30-2005, 02:40 PM
CPTKIPLING-Chikara ive done with 1, 2, and 3 sprays atleast 3 trys each...SOE ive used 3", 6"
ive used about 3 times each and everything over that ive only done once or twice...
There's your problem,
you need more persistance!
Look up the common dosages for each product (in the Product Guide if you can't find
them on the forum), and stick with those for at least a week (or a week's worth of applications). After that you
should have some understading of your unique relationship with your pheromones.
Gegogi
03-30-2005, 02:42 PM
Ttocs, I think everyone gave you
the best help possible advice in light of the information in your original post. In other words, the obvious
pitfalls were presented since you were not very detailed or specific in your initial post. Nobody treated you as if
you were stupid (although your spelling and sentence structure sometimes made you appear a bit short). Icehawk's
advice is a good place to start if you have the time and patience to experiment.
Incidentally, it's easy to
confuse cocky and forthcoming in written words. I'd give them the benefit of the doubt.
ttocs12321
03-30-2005, 03:41 PM
CPTKIPLING-ill try that, i
had just figured that after trying what was recomended 2 or 3 times and that not working to try something else...but
ill continue with the exact same amount for a week and see if it makes any difference.
GEGOGI-thanks for being one
of the understanding ones.
TDizzle
03-30-2005, 04:02 PM
Just get out there and start a
convo with you target, everyone knows how to do that right? Talk for like 5-10 minutes get her number when u bout to
leave and get out of there. For me pheromones just enhance the conversation and what you say and makes them really
interested, chatty, flirty, and more attracted. If you dont know how to attract a girl through conversations/flirt
and you are between 15-25 years old tell me and ill start a thread. peace
-Tdizzle
ttocs12321
03-30-2005, 04:06 PM
TDIZZLE-i feel im pretty good
with things like that but im always open to advice. If you wish to open a thread on it then go ahead it will be
appreciated.
ttocs12321:
Don't forget the
other side of the equation. It's not only you, it's the people you are trying to approach as well, and it's
possible they are having a bad day/week/month and not really "ready" to react. People can be "down" for days.
Someone who doesn't react today may be in a different mood tomorrow. (Fretting over taxes, job, car repairs, who
knows?) It may take multiple "meetings" or encounters with you before they are ready to interact (ie they are
checking you out). Some people jump right in, others need to wait. There are few certainties when dealing with
poeple. I wore SOE for about two weeks before I started noticing anyone reacting. I had seen this one woman about
five times during that 2-week period and she did a "chatty" style reaction after about three encounters (had no
reactions on the first two encounters as far as I could tell), and was a total "cold fish" on the fourth meeting
(turned out she was very preoccupied with a work project), so reactions are hard to predict and can vary even with
the same person. And what works for one may not work at all on another...
"Nothing's ever easy..." -Kevin
Sorbo's character on Andromeda TV series.
a.k.a.
03-30-2005, 07:25 PM
Chikara-ive tryed
1 spray to 3 sprays...SOE-ive tryed 3"-15"...NPA-havent used much, trying get it right with 1 of the others first,
the few times i have used it, i used 1-2 dabs...NOTE that i have tryed each of the above in various palces, all in 1
spot sometimes, spread out others...With combinations ive tryed 3" of SOE with 1 dab of NPA...also tryed 1 spray of
Chikara with about 5" of SOE...
I’m glad you posted this because it gives me some indication of
where you’re at.
Chikara gives me very few noticeable hits. Other guys have reported outstanding
results, but it doesn’t seem to do anything for my sex appeal. Not even when I wear it for my girlfriend.
What
I do notice is that people are much friendlier, and appear more trusting and respectful. It also makes me feel calm
and centered. Which is why I wear it to work quite often.
Sometimes, after work, I add a small dab of TE (a
dosage that amounts to about 1/4 drop of NPA) and notice that the effects of TE are greatly enhanced. I get lots of
smiles and flirtatious behavior from women.
I always wear one spray because 2-3 sprays don’t seem to improve the
results. Four or more sprays elicit weird, mothering type reactions from women.
SOE is a very erotic product
for me. Once again, many guys have reported just the opposite; so just read this as one person’s experience and see
if you can relate to any of it.
I typically wear about 9 inches. One swipe on either side of my neck and a
smaller swipe between my wrists.
Results aren’t so obvious when I’m walking past women or sitting quietly by
myself. There have been a few times when women just come up and start talking to me, but most of the times the magic
happens when I initiate the conversation. Women seem to exhibit an instant mood lift and the more time we spend
together they happier they get. Sometimes to the point of being giddy. They exhibit a lot of kino (touching my arms
and shoulders while they talk) and enjoy being close to me. They talk a lot, often revealing intimate details about
their lives with little or no prompting. They seem almost not to want to let me go when it’s time to wrap things up.
NPA is the one that seems to give the most noticeable (although not necessarily most erotic) results
for most guys that report on this forum. Lots of smiles. Lots of blatant flirtation. And some direct come ons.
On the other hand there are also many reports of nervous females and guys that want to pick a fight with you. NPA is
easy to overdose on, so you have to put some effort into getting the right dosage for your body type and
personality.
Some guys do well with several drops, but even a single drop is too much for me. I can only
wear it when it’s mixed with cologne. At 5 parts cologne and 1 part NPA, I get best results with 2 small dabs.
Another issue is that, on its own, it smells really, really bad. You have to take care to pick a cologne that blends
well so that the stink doesn’t seep through or the pheromones don’t get drowned out.
As far as combos
go... SOE and Chikara don’t seem to do anything for each other. I’ve already mentioned that Chikara can greatly
enhance the effects of NPA. SOE + NPA can create a very hot mix if you get the proportions right. Many guys swear by
7parts SOE: 3parts NPA, but I prefer 19 parts SOE : 1 part NPA. If you’re going to experiment it’s best to start
with a small ratio of NPA because you can easily add more later.
There are three ways you can go:
First way is to simply return the pheromones and get your money back. You could always try weight training, dance
classes, starting a rock band or whatever. There’s always something you can do to improve your social life.
Second way is to go back to SOE. Look for the subtler cues that I mentioned above.
Third way is to mix up a
SMALL batch of NPA + cologne. Be systematic. Start out with a ridiculously small dose. Next day add a little more.
Next day a little more... Until you start seeing results. Be sure to "test" in places where there are lots of girls
that don't know you. Then experiment with combos. (Either Chikara + NPA or SOE plus NPA). Once again, start out
with a ridiculously small dose and be systematic.
And don’t forget to have fun.
ttocs12321
03-30-2005, 07:42 PM
thanks alot A.K.A...whats the
best thing to use to mix mones and to do it accuratly? because the way you say with NPA...theres no way to really
calculate how much your getting just by dabbing. also what do you put your "mixtures" into? thanks...
a.k.a.
03-30-2005, 07:50 PM
I use small glass bottles (sizes 3 -
10 ml) and glass droppers that I’ve found at health food stores, occult stores that deal in aromatherapy, and
COSTCO (if you’re ready to buy bulk).
silksand
03-30-2005, 08:08 PM
You can also find glass-lined
atomizers in 1/4 and 1/3 oz sizes at 2 for a dollar at some dollar stores; the The Dollar Tree is where I found a
bunch of them. The staff probably won't know what they are, much less where they are, but try looking next to the
ladies' hair accessories.
noodlesnspam
03-30-2005, 08:35 PM
ttoc, in case no one
mentioned it in this thread, the agegroup of your targets matter too, the suggested npa/te stuff by some of the
folks in this forum might not be your best choice if your target crowd is young like 25 and below and depending on
your age, if youre 25 and below, id stay away from none heavy products like npa, thats for older age groups who
produce less natural none.
p.s. can anyone explain what the alpha, beta, delta stuff is? i did a search and
nothing conclusive came up.
Pancho1188
03-30-2005, 09:23 PM
Alpha is an aggressive,
masculine man.
Beta is a "nice guy". Polite, respectful, but slightly passive.
I've heard of delta, omega,
etc...but those terms are out of my expertise. I think in some cases they're made up by certain people, debated
upon either their existence or their meaning, or just not as well-known.
Gegogi
03-30-2005, 10:14 PM
And then there is the alpha-beta
man, sort of a social chameleon. Often these men are in positions of power and authority at work and, subsequently,
kick major ass all day. When they go home they turn into a wuss as their woman whips them into submission (& they
enjoy it). Frustrated low status alpha males are often seen on "Cops" being arrested for domestic violence and
resisting arrest and/or assaulting police officers.
I must say most alpha males I've known have been
surprisingly short in the brains department and, save barroom fights and chest beating, don't go far in life. I bet
they would get laid a lot more when Neanderthal roamed Earth. Of course, if a Neanderthal has brains, look out!
There was also a time (maybe
still...) when "Alpha, Beta, etc." were also called "Type A personality, Type B," etc. Terminology changes,
sometimes it seems as often as the weather...
Gegogi
03-31-2005, 06:10 PM
"There was also a time
(maybe still...) when "Alpha, Beta, etc." were also called "Type A personality, Type B," etc. Terminology changes,
sometimes it seems as often as the weather...
Isn't it the same thing but merely expressed in
another language? "Alpha" is the Greek symbol for our letter "A" whereas "Beta" = "B".
Pancho1188
04-01-2005, 11:31 AM
There was also a
time (maybe still...) when "Alpha, Beta, etc." were also called "Type A personality, Type B," etc. Terminology
changes, sometimes it seems as often as the weather...
I don't think that's the same thing. I'm a Type
A personality, but I'd consider myself a Beta...I don't think anyone on the forum would argue the latter.
TDizzle
04-01-2005, 11:38 AM
but if you wear none and you are
a beta personality what are the effects?
Pancho1188
04-01-2005, 11:42 AM
More respect.
CptKipling
04-01-2005, 12:21 PM
But if you continue to ACT like
an uber beta the results will be reduced in impact.
I don't think
that's the same thing. I'm a Type A personality, but I'd consider myself a Beta...I don't think anyone on the
forum would argue the latter.
I'm going from a granted fading memory... but I think they essentially
related to similar behavior patterns. "Alpha" males are more on the dominating/leader side, and Type A personalities
were agressive ("dominating"). It may be a way of differentiating similar but somewhat different
personality/behavior types, with one group of researchers using one set of terms, and another group the other. Not
sure. And like most things in life, I'm sure people can be a mix of things. Not just Type A or Type B or whatever,
but maybe "mostly" A and a "bit" B, etc.
(I was involved in the field of Social and Personal Psychology thru
grad school, and I remember a lot of infighting and nit-picking between "rival" interpretations. And the fact that
this week's set-nearly-in-stone claims about whatever were out the window the next week... Which is one reason I
dropped out of that field. Too confusing, and too much "politics"...)
Pancho1188
04-01-2005, 06:38 PM
I'm going from a
granted fading memory... but I think they essentially related to similar behavior patterns. "Alpha" males are more
on the dominating/leader side, and Type A personalities were agressive ("dominating"). It may be a way of
differentiating similar but somewhat different personality/behavior types, with one group of researchers using one
set of terms, and another group the other. Not sure. And like most things in life, I'm sure people can be a mix of
things. Not just Type A or Type B or whatever, but maybe "mostly" A and a "bit" B, etc.
(I was involved in the
field of Social and Personal Psychology thru grad school, and I remember a lot of infighting and nit-picking between
"rival" interpretations. And the fact that this week's set-nearly-in-stone claims about whatever were out the
window the next week... Which is one reason I dropped out of that field. Too confusing, and too much
"politics"...)
Very true.
Watcher
04-02-2005, 01:40 AM
Heres an idea - if you get to the
point of sayin stuff if lol - find a crowded shopping centre and go over OD - ie 20 dabs of NPA , 20 swipes of SOE -
something loud - see what happens.
At the very least youll clear a space around you (at least then youll know
the mones are having some sort of impact)
With youre doses so far have you tried mixing with a lot of
people
Or using 6-8 dabs of NPA - 6-8 drops of AE - sometimes to be effective you need to use a slight bit
more
But mones arent everything - if youre overweight - obese it might get people chatty but it wont ge you
laid - attractive women mostly like attractive guys in sexual terms - so if you are go do some exercise and lose
that flab then youll get more attention with or without mones
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