View Full Version : What should I try first???
Scmoo
03-07-2005, 10:12 PM
I just fount
the site last week and after all the posts I've read, I really wanna try something... Here is my situation...
My wife an I have been married for 15 years and I have always had a good libido, unfortunately, she hasn't.
Sex isn't so important to her.. she would like to be more sexual and we are right now in our 3rd day of taking
Horny Goat Weed. (so far nothing) I am really curious on what mones I should try. Is there one that has the most
broad spectrum of success? I have thought about Chikara or Alter Ego. I want to get something that has a pretty
decent shot at working.. Any Ideas?
my wife is 34 and I'm 36, both are healthy, I'm told by her that I'm
very attractive and she is to me also, just she has a low sex drive..
she is blonde and about 5'6 and I'm
brown hair/brown eyes..and 5'9" not sure if this is needed but I thought I'd throw it in...
what should I do?
also, anyone else have any luck with horny goat weed? if so, how long does it take to start it's stuff?:twisted:
thanks!! Scmoo
SayIamU
03-07-2005, 11:51 PM
Damiana is a good herbal
aphrodesiac I have found .....
I am verrry similar to you (married 17 years) ..found this site 3 weeks ago ..
got my Chikara spray and Scent of Eros gel packs last week ... just 2 sprays Chikara and very little dab soe has
really worked I have to admit.......
brunoc
03-08-2005, 07:04 AM
I think that good you buy the
two, but if you wanna choice one , try AE, or other products that had a huge load of -none , like the edge,
perception, NPA, because this is the phero that most usually givve a power sex libido.
The others like, rone and
non are most "wow ,this a nice guy" that are very good to atraction, if you alreasy married, i dont know that you
really need then.
Plase , correct me if i´m wrong
CptKipling
03-08-2005, 08:59 AM
Chikara or Alter
Ego
Those and/or TE might be useful in your situation.
lordcrazyd
03-08-2005, 09:33 PM
TE, or NPA i suggest TE,
i've had better luck with it.
Just umm get those crutches ready when she starts to jump your bones
belgareth
03-08-2005, 10:07 PM
I think TE and Chikara would be
a good choice for you.
belgareth is right
chikara
contains 7 human pheromones and it includes none-nol-rone and TE contains none - and the confidential ingredients
Or if you want to prove alone one, proves with AE or SOE
Scmoo
03-10-2005, 05:03 AM
Thanks for the replies..... I
wanted to mention that I would like to see something influence her to become more SEXual . if there is something
out there for that, is it the highest concentration of None that I can find that will be more likely to work?
belgareth
03-10-2005, 05:04 AM
Has your relationship always
been like that?
Scmoo
03-10-2005, 05:09 AM
Also..... We have both been taking
horny goat weed (100mg day) for 1 week today but nothing. Hasn't changed anything with me either.. All that I hear
is how horny it makes people but so far it's not doing jack. how long does it take if it's going to work at
all?? is a week too early?
Scmoo
03-10-2005, 05:13 AM
Belgareth, yes.. pretty much..
the sex is really good and she enjoys it alot once we get started... the problem is, I have to put her in the mood
all the time... she has little drive to get to the bedroom. We have been taking more about it lately and she wants
to find something to boost her libido cause like I said, she likes it, just "getting there" is the problem.
:blink:
belgareth
03-10-2005, 06:53 AM
Have you discussed it with a
doctor?
NaughtieGirl
03-10-2005, 07:03 AM
For women
with a low libido, the problem might be a hormone imbalance. Even though it is mainly a male hormone, women do need
a small amount of testosterone as well.
If they are deficient in this hormone, they might well suffer from
loss of libido. A simple bloodtest can measure this and if found deficient then a transdermal cream containing a
tiny little bit of testosterone will be prescribed.
Good luck
Naughtie
satyrboy
03-10-2005, 01:59 PM
I got into this for the same
reason(actually my wife doesn't have that low a drive, just not as high as mine)
Anyway, I've found NPA/SOE to
work quite well.
I just got some p10 today. I will give it a try and let you know how it works.
I had my
doubts in general, but the other day I was going to sleep with my wife. She had said earlier she wasn't really in
the mood. She gave me a few good night pecks, then started kissing my neck (where the NPA/SOE was) and poof, it was
like a switch.
Now, as an aside, I don't know what your relationship is like, but I've been stepping up the
romance(taking her out on dates, getting her flowers randomly, trying to be as good a husband as I can in general)
and that has some effect as well, no doubt.
MOBLEYC57
03-10-2005, 02:35 PM
Now, as an
aside, I don't know what your relationship is like, but I've been stepping up the romance(taking her out on dates,
getting her flowers randomly, trying to be as good a husband as I can in general) and that has some effect as well,
no doubt.Depending on the time into the relationship ... things can become stale/routine. Good change,
Satyrboy ... at least you're keeping an eye out, and making an attempt to air out the staleness. :cheers:
Low sex drive = bored with the same partner, a lot more than people would like to think!:run:
Scmoo
03-10-2005, 05:01 PM
yeah, we have also started to make
an effort not to let things get stale. I have been doing the same as you with the flowers, little suprises, love
notes in the pockets, etc. we love to go out and have "our time" while our daughter goes out with friends. and
things are good in the "love" dept. I know she isn't having a problem with me and attractivenes, I think that I may
try to see if there is a mone that might push her over the edge so to speak. the problem is, she says she doesn't
think about sex much but once we are together and playing around, she is full steam ahead..
maybe the
testosterone test may yeild something.. but how would the transdermal cream help put her in the mood (instead of
just after she puts it on?) I guess I am looking for something that may help elevate her desire even before we
"play"
do you guys think mones could help me on this??:lovestruc
GreekLover
03-10-2005, 05:23 PM
You need to try AE/m all the
way I have been using it for over a year now and is
the best product from smell to power of none you need to try..
Try over 6 or over 6 drops with any good perfume , I have tried that several times and if you are face to face with
the other person for more that 30 minutes sex is inevitable from ladies. I have used that and had sex in a reception
with a lady about 35 on first time we meet watching a move in the reception and drinking just one wine.
You may
try some old red wine and AE/m. stay away from food or dinners
Good luck.. GreekLover
MOBLEYC57
03-10-2005, 05:43 PM
You need to
try AE/m all the way I have been using it for over a year now and is
the best product from smell to power of none
you need to try.. Try over 6 or over 6 drops with any good perfume , I have tried that several times and if you are
face to face with the other person for more that 30 minutes sex is inevitable from ladies. I have used that and had
sex in a reception with a lady about 35 on first time we meet watching a move in the reception and drinking just one
wine.
You may try some old red wine and AE/m. stay away from food or dinners
Good luck.. GreekLover
Six drops, eh? :think: How old are you GreekL?
Thanks! :wave:
Scmoo
03-10-2005, 07:04 PM
Maybe I will check out the AE...
it 6 drops too much??:nono:
GreekLover
03-10-2005, 07:05 PM
Yes 6 sometimes less like 4
but AE drops are small not like NPA you need to try with more....
Sometimes at clubs you need like 8 to make
things work and last for a couple of hours.
:think: I am 27
Scmoo
03-10-2005, 07:08 PM
oh yeah, and why stay away from
foods? AE seems pretty reasonable price wise... I'm not as rich as you guys to be trying all different stuff.
from the looks of it, AE seems to be pretty ballanced, am I right? thanks for all of your replies, I'm learning
alot!
Scmoo
Scmoo
03-10-2005, 07:19 PM
I'll tell you a story,.... about
8 months ago, my wife went to Boston to see her sister for 3 days... She came home on a sunday, went to work on
monday but when she came home from work, I was on the computer (like now) and she came in, shut the door and came
over and started kissing me. she was soon gringing my leg. (freaking like a dog) it was out of left field and
totally not like her at all. what was a gentleman like me to do but go along right?? anyway for about 5 days we
were doing it 2-3 times a day. she would wake me up at 3am with her hand. It was awesome!!! She told me that at
work she got this feeling that she wanted sex really bad... she said she couldn't wait to get home, she needed it.
being a good husband (and Dog) I took care of the situation. for a week she wa like that but then it subsided and
we are back to normal. I don't know what happened but it was great, we really had a great time.. Can I get that
back and what do you think happened to her body to make her do that?? she wants that again too.
Scmoo
MOBLEYC57
03-10-2005, 07:35 PM
She told me that at
work she got this feeling that she wanted sex really bad... she said she couldn't wait to get home, she needed it.
being a good husband (and Dog) I took care of the situation. for a week she wa like that but then it subsided and we
are back to normal. I don't know what happened but it was great, we really had a great time.. Can I get that back
and what do you think happened to her body to make her do that?? she wants that again too.
ScmooI can't
believe I'm about to type this, but ... BUILD UP? :rant:
Guess you're gonna have to go cold turkey for about
a week or two, and start anew, Scmoo. That would be my thinking. :sick:
Anyone!? Anyone!? :think:
Scmoo
03-10-2005, 07:41 PM
ha!! a week or two??? no
problem, we "do it" about that any way.. well, I would say once maybe twice a week.. is that what you mean by build
up???
satyrboy
03-10-2005, 07:57 PM
Schmoo,
Tomorrow look at the
TGIF special. If they have the NPA/SOE deal go for it. See if you can get the SOE unscented. I think you'll be
pleased with the results. It seems to work well with my wife.
Scmoo
03-10-2005, 08:42 PM
what effects did you notice with
your wife???
culturalblonde
03-10-2005, 08:45 PM
I'm curious about build
up also. How can you have build up if you take a bath?
culturalblonde
03-10-2005, 08:55 PM
I just did a search and
read a few responses about build up, but I'm left wondering if build up is like developing an immunity to
something? Or is like when people use deodorants the stink gets stronger over time because their bodies build up a
resistance. Is that the "build up" being referred to?
belgareth
03-10-2005, 10:40 PM
After a day of wearing
pheromones, there seems to be some residual, even though you wash very well. Over time the apparent residual builds
up to levels that can affect your pheromone signature even if you don't wear any other products whatsoever. Some
people have theorized that the mones actually absorb through one or more layers of skin and later resurface.
Scmoo
03-11-2005, 05:06 AM
I am leaning toward AE for my
first try.. I have deducted that anything with high concentration of -none is best for sexual hits.. Am I right?
Also, could I cover the scent with Drakar if needed? my wife loves that calogne
NaughtieGirl
03-11-2005, 09:46 AM
Scmoo,
Hypothesis about
that week: It might have been the week in which she was ovulating. I get a much stronger sex drive around that time.
I can really tell.
About the testosterone, it stays in your system. It's like the hormone replacement therapy
they have for women after menopause. They are working on FDA aproval for a patch to make it slower released. It
does increase the overall libido of a woman who was deficient. If you google for it, you'll find it.
NaughtieGirl
esk6969
03-11-2005, 09:51 AM
Hi there! :wave: I'm in a
really similar situation, I'm 33, my wife is 30 and my drive is higher than hers. Then again, my drive is higher
than most bulls injected with steroids, but that's another story.
Not sure about Horny Goat Weed, I've heard
it can increase the amount of semen, but then, so can zinc. Never heard of any consistency in it's use as an
aphrodisiac. As for Damiana, I have tried that... very little effect. Maybe a little bit of relaxation, but
certainly no horniness.
Want to increase libido? DHEA. I can't take it too often, because when I do, I go
nuts. 25mg dosage. Everyone reacts different, but it makes me ridiculous horny, so much it's all I think about,
and can't get any work done. Not very constructive, but might help your situation if your wife is willing to take
supplements.
As far as AE, I have had almost no success with it, and I've experimented a lot, because I love
the smell. It seems to be a highly variable product, it either totally works for people, or totally doesn't. As
to your Drakkar question, I think the two would mix well, they are similar enough though I like the AE scent better,
Drakkar is very "high school" - maybe check out some more adult fragrances? Shit, even Cool Water would be a safe
bet, and less kiddy than Drakkar.
As far as what has worked for me, TE has given me some sexual hits, but it has
been inconsistent. The dosage for this product is very tricky due to the "secret ingredient", and I imagine the
same holds true for NPA as well (as it is the same product as TE, but more concentrated). See my post today
entitled "Interesting TE hit" for more information.
satyrboy
03-11-2005, 09:57 AM
Hate to sound like a broken
record, but:
http://love-scent.com/product_info.php/products_id/76
50 bucks, and you'll have a
fantastic start. I was stupid and bought stuff separately. This is a good deal and the NPA/SOE combo works very
well with my wife. Get the unsented SOE if you can.
GreekLover
03-11-2005, 12:25 PM
No get AE/m and you will see
what I mean nothing else works like it I do have
Npa/m npa/w soe/m Chikara gel perception but Nothing is so good
as AE .
With just SOE you may get more friendly but you need SEX or?
Good luck....
NaughtieGirl
03-11-2005, 02:12 PM
And the reason DHEA has that
effect is because it is a precursor of testosterone!
Naughtie
culturalblonde
03-11-2005, 06:04 PM
After a day of wearing pheromones, there seems to be some residual, even though you wash very
well. Over time the apparent residual builds up to levels that can affect your pheromone signature even if you
don't wear any other products whatsoever. Some people have theorized that the mones actually absorb through one or
more layers of skin and later resurface.
Thanks Belgareth, I knew you would come through for me
:)
belgareth
03-11-2005, 06:48 PM
You're welcome.
That
doesn't mean I completely agree with it. Biology is not my strong suit so I am keeping an open mind until I see
something more convincing than our theories.
Scmoo
03-31-2005, 06:53 PM
okay, here is what I have
noticed....... last week (friday) I got the gell packs of chikara and edge... that night, I took 1/2 pack of
chikara and rubbed it on my chest. I also put 1 drop of the edge on each side of my temple (in the hairline) I put
another 2 drops on my wrists. I hung out with my wife in the bedroom and watched tv. I'm not 100% but I think it
may have put her in a pissy mood. after about 10 minutes, she was kinda iratable and complaining about stuff. not
sure if it was the mones or what. I did notice the same thing happened 2 days later when we went out shopping. she
just seemed to be in a bad mood. Did I use too much? should I try something else??,
One interesting fact
that I forgot to relay (didn't think it was important) my wife was born with a cleft lip and pallet and has had
several surgeries to correct it. she is done and looks great but I wonder if this didn't in some way dull her
receptiveness to the mones. Sometimes I can tell myself that the Chikara is there (love the smell) but she never
acts like she notices any thing I am wearing (the chikara or edge) could she be imune?
On a side note, I put on
the same amount of each again at work and my friend seemed to be more friendly.. I noticed that when I sat next to
her, she was more open with her stance (actually sat facing me with her arms to the side and legs apart. almost like
she was subconciously inviting. She kept saying how funny I was and how I am looking much more in shape etc. then
she was complimenting me on the job I did with a display (I work at Hope Depot). she just seemed to be giving alot
more attention.
this blows, I am getting hits from all but my Wife the intended person.. sheesh.. so....
after all that, does anyone have any ideas of what to try? if anything?
-Scmoo
Michael909
04-02-2005, 02:54 AM
try
Nexcite also known as Niagara.
Its like Viagra for women.
it makes the physical act more mentle and hightens the
the feel of everything.its hard to track down but you can find it on the web, google it ,and that will be the best
way to get ahold of it.
as far as the MONES, i would try W.A.G.G. or try them both and get the fireworks going
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