Silcat
02-03-2005, 07:20 AM
This is more of a sex/gender discussion than a pheromone so i hesitated to put this on the mones discussion thread,
if i made a mistake, delete it or move it at will :)
I've been reading posts in this site for months now, i
even ordered some pheromones, encouraged by the hit reports many have experienced. By now i still haven't tested it
properly or frequently to talk about personal experiences but the reports here have made wonder about many things,
as any heterosexual youngster i'm curious about females, and obviously, eager for affection and sexual contact. I
think i have a good insight on how a man's mind works in what sex concerns, but the women are still blury to me, i
mean, overall they are from the early teens thought to be more contained about sexuality, i would risk saying being
hardly repressed (at least compared to men) in a way sex is almost inmoral to be tought or iniciated by them, so,
for them, giving up to the impulses has to come up with a more guilt feeling (i guess), perhaps that helps to
accelerate the heart rate even more and contributes to the excitement, but who really knows? women who talk
overtally about this are rare, i know, i'm a web surfer to the bone.
An added reason why i find hit reports so
overwhelming, by chemistry of pheromones we can just make a woman break trough a introverted character and fear of
getting labeled and release her sexual animal upon us? Like i said, i think i have an idea of how men work, when i
look at myself looking at females it's a lust more like predatory behaviour, and i get guilt feelings for it, and
i'm a man!
I've read so many times that women seek safety and stability and lasting relations, but sex is just
so visceral how the hell does someone gets to feel stable and safe during intercourse??? I've also the impression
they crave that so many times mentioned alpha manliness, the coolest guy, the power, the status, wich is obviously
radically different to us men, who don't give a damm about a women's position among their peers. I also tought
about this intrinsic way of women evaluating men as kind of sleasiness, like, you know, "selling" their affection
and attention AND adulation for the "pack leader" the one with no emotional problems, filled with confidence and his
ego. Maybe it sounds bitter, maybe.
With men it's easy to learn because we post like crazy on the net and all we
got to do is to read a couple hundreds of posts to get a an idea, it's with women that material gets difficult to
find, so whoever you are, if you please just put your impression of the female mind it might help me, i know i'm ot
being too precise in speech, i'm kind of in a depression pit righ now, not very focused.
if i made a mistake, delete it or move it at will :)
I've been reading posts in this site for months now, i
even ordered some pheromones, encouraged by the hit reports many have experienced. By now i still haven't tested it
properly or frequently to talk about personal experiences but the reports here have made wonder about many things,
as any heterosexual youngster i'm curious about females, and obviously, eager for affection and sexual contact. I
think i have a good insight on how a man's mind works in what sex concerns, but the women are still blury to me, i
mean, overall they are from the early teens thought to be more contained about sexuality, i would risk saying being
hardly repressed (at least compared to men) in a way sex is almost inmoral to be tought or iniciated by them, so,
for them, giving up to the impulses has to come up with a more guilt feeling (i guess), perhaps that helps to
accelerate the heart rate even more and contributes to the excitement, but who really knows? women who talk
overtally about this are rare, i know, i'm a web surfer to the bone.
An added reason why i find hit reports so
overwhelming, by chemistry of pheromones we can just make a woman break trough a introverted character and fear of
getting labeled and release her sexual animal upon us? Like i said, i think i have an idea of how men work, when i
look at myself looking at females it's a lust more like predatory behaviour, and i get guilt feelings for it, and
i'm a man!
I've read so many times that women seek safety and stability and lasting relations, but sex is just
so visceral how the hell does someone gets to feel stable and safe during intercourse??? I've also the impression
they crave that so many times mentioned alpha manliness, the coolest guy, the power, the status, wich is obviously
radically different to us men, who don't give a damm about a women's position among their peers. I also tought
about this intrinsic way of women evaluating men as kind of sleasiness, like, you know, "selling" their affection
and attention AND adulation for the "pack leader" the one with no emotional problems, filled with confidence and his
ego. Maybe it sounds bitter, maybe.
With men it's easy to learn because we post like crazy on the net and all we
got to do is to read a couple hundreds of posts to get a an idea, it's with women that material gets difficult to
find, so whoever you are, if you please just put your impression of the female mind it might help me, i know i'm ot
being too precise in speech, i'm kind of in a depression pit righ now, not very focused.