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Fatal
11-30-2004, 06:57 PM
I don't know how sick of the newbies you are, but I'm sure it must be getting old. Anyways, here I am. And
here's the deal:
Some few specs about me and a bunch of ramble.
17 year old cacasian male, vergin, never
had a girlfriend, I'm in swimming, a lot of computer geek stuff (which I can acctauly pulloff as an advantage with
girls, ie fix their computers etc), America. Modestly saying, a lot of girls say that they find me hot sexy cute etc
etc BS BS, but I have rarely gotten any action and they never really do anything (ie acctauly come on to me for real
and follow through). Now granted I'm a senior and most of the girls that say all that crap are freshman and
sophmores. 14-16ish. And we all know how immature they can be. I have a lot of people that are friendly to me and
I'm very outgoing, but it's usualy all me. I'm always the one aprouching people, I'm always the one initiating
conversations, always asking to do things. And most of the times this is with a younger croud (1-3 years younger).
People my age seem to not really care about me and I have few friends my age, I'm assuming a lot of alpha males.
And I'm fairly possitive that I'm not one of them. I wasn't born aggressive or outgoing etc, I've had to work
hard to work on it as it didn't come naturaly. When I am around I'm assuming these Alpha males, I lose my edge, my
"charm, funnyness, outgoingness" for some reason. And I feel a lack of respect from these guys for no reason. From
reading a lot of these posts, I have an idea that maybe it's the fact that I'm lacking some of these 'mones and
that by using some of these, I'd get more of an accepting environment and whatnot from it. I'm not saying it's
all the 'mones, but by the looks of it and the results of some of the posters, this may helpout a lot. Now on to
the main focus. Ladies. As a lot of people have showed great results by getting hits and the deer looks and very
sexual effects from females. My sexual experiences are almost nothing. I am fully ready and accepting, but nobody
seems to bite the bait. I mean I'm 17 and I've done nother, not even had a fake 5th grade girlfriend. Exscuse me
from bringing in usless pathetic details of my into this, I am not trying to gain apathy, but mearly fill anyone
who's interested in my situation to detail.
Again I appolagize for my unusual messy post but let me try and
get the important wants and helps out.
I am looking for a 'mone solution that I really won't have to mess
around with, just use vary dossage and see results. I would love to mess around with abunch of formulas and mixes
and ratios, but for now I don't need a perfection mix, I jsut need soemthing that should help me out. This is
mainly due to the fact that I have limited money and can't really spend more than about $75 on this stuff.
Main goal of mones: verysexual hits of younger girls 15-25(range), cacasian if it's important, and boost of my
alpha male appearnce to get the peers more my age to open up to me etc. This is very demanding, but is basicly just
a general statment.
So basicly I just need some advice in general or in the mones department. Also if anybody
knows how I can get free samples of some of these products or have extras, pleas let me know before I spend $30-60
on something that may not be good for me. So bassicly just help me out, maybe you guys can pitch in and we can make
this an experiment of some sorts.
-Andrew
DeMoKiLL
11-30-2004, 07:22 PM
Well, just remember, it is
possible for a computer geek to get an extremely hot girl. I can admit I am a computer geek, but after listening to
deangelo, I just changed myself, I changed the way I think and I act completely. I became confident, not really
caring how my results with women are. I also changed the way I walk (with sort of a confident, im too sexy for you
look;-) ) and I have been getting a lot of looks from hot girls recently. Another thing you need to remember is, you
always have to be in power, if a girl slams you about something then slam her back twice as hard but do it in a
funny way. If a guy puts you down in front of a girl, don't take that, put him back down to a point where he
doesn't want to say anything bad about you anymore (but don't make him pissed off at you). Its all about
confidence, mones just add the edge that helps break the ice, the rest is up to you.
I think you will be fine over the
long haul. Don't worry about it.
I suggest you go with NPA and Chikara. NPA and TE (edge) are the same
thing, although edge is more diluted, which leads to a more application possiblities. Do you want to do
1,2,3,4....8 dabs, or do you even want to do dabs? 1,2,3,4..6 sprays? It all leads to people sometimes have
trouble learning to use edge. That is why I recommend NPA, where the choices are basically 1,2 or 3 dabs or drops.
In some instances, even 1 dab is too much, and in that case the more dilute TE is a better option, but more likely
you will be okay with NPA.
As far as samples, order the Chikara and Edge gel packets. I think wednesday
sometimes they give out samples at only the S&H cost. You can also buy them to without having to throw down a lot
of money, and see how it works out. Each gel packet gives you 1-3 applications, dependng on how much you
use.
I think Chikara may be on sale right now, not sure. But if its at full price, just wait until it goes
on sale. There are actually a lot of sales, so if you can afford to two items at full price (about 100 bucks), just
wait and something will come up.
belgareth
11-30-2004, 07:30 PM
First, you sound like a great
candidate for the beginner's pack. It's only $25 plus shipping. Maybe ad to that some AE gel packs. Start slow
with the TE and see what happens.
We actually like newbies but feel they should do some studying here as well.
There's a lot to learn but you can figure most of it out between ordering and recieving your order.
Good luck
Surreal
11-30-2004, 07:41 PM
:welcome:
Whats up bro?
I too geek out all the time.... I dont any problem telling a nice girl I am a geek. (not a dork) Infact I tell
them mostly because I am looking for a geek girlfreind aswell. (i am 22) I just love girls that play first person
shooters!!!!
Do you have a car? If not get job, bite the bullet and get your parents (anyone) to get your ass to
work. : ) Save up, get some wheels.
Most importantly....be yourself.... thats the trick to winning life.
(girls too :whip: )
I think you should look for a girl for a lone term relationship. i.e. a few months 6-18.
Approach those nice girls you would never even think to approach. After I got out of school I bumpted into a lot of
girls that said they thought I was nice/cute. Boy o Boy only if I would of known!!!:frustrate Be nice.... befriend
EVERYONE!!!!!!! That cute girl that everyone thinks she gets A's because she is better than everyone else. ITS not
the CASE!!! She is just smart. Smart girls make better lovers. (opinion here) They are more pleasent and have less
of a chance goin PHYSCO during a breakup.:rant:
TO the pheros....................
I have tremendous results
with AE (Alter-Ego).:wub: It has 3 of the well know pheros. Over all it is well balenced. It works with your target
age group. It is cheap too. I hear chikara is great, have not tried it yet. I will tell you what, if you buy AE and
dont like it I wil buy if off you! (I really like it :) )
Make sure you read the forums up and down. Most the
information here is not exagerated and honest. :thumbsup:
-SURREAL-
Fatal
11-30-2004, 07:46 PM
Hmmm I was thinking to just try AE
after all of the great things I've heard about it. The only think I'm worried about is all the seperate ones that
you have to add together to make them work, and I'm not quite sure on which ones would work with each other and
whatnot. Kind of like how people know how to mix colognes from bassnotes.
Also what are goo places to try
these out before I start using them in my prime area of school. I am in high school and that is the main place that
I will use it. Also any suggestions on how I may use it/apply (as in to my body) as to get the best affect from a
school environment, as it differs a lot from work/clubs/bars.
Anything you can suggest would be VERY much
appreciated, anything at all. I don't care be it good or bad. Also I feel stupid and ignorant for asking this last
one, but where should I learn how to do these mixes and how the diiferent ratios of mones will affect diiferent
things like 5:2 none:nol will enhance friendlyness as opposed to a 3:4 would be heavy sexual. (BS ratios, but you
get the idea.)
Thank you very much again, and the more variaty of opinions would be the best.
belgareth
11-30-2004, 07:48 PM
Don't start off mixing. Go
with one of the solid products and see how it works. Go ahead and try it at school just start of with a couple dabs
and work your way up. Don't OD and you'll be fine.
Fatal
11-30-2004, 07:51 PM
That's what I was leaning towards
honestly. I have neither the money or knowledge to start doing that kind of thing.
Friendly1
11-30-2004, 09:38 PM
17 year old cacasian male, vergin, never had a girlfriend, I'm in swimming, a lot of computer geek stuff (which
I can acctauly pulloff as an advantage with girls, ie fix their computers etc), America. Modestly saying, a lot of
girls say that they find me hot sexy cute etc etc BS BS, but I have rarely gotten any action and they never really
do anything (ie acctauly come on to me for real and follow through). Now granted I'm a senior and most of the girls
that say all that crap are freshman and sophmores. 14-16ish. And we all know how immature they can be. I have a lot
of people that are friendly to me and I'm very outgoing, but it's usualy all me. I'm always the one aprouching
people, I'm always the one initiating conversations, always asking to do things. And most of the times this is with
a younger croud (1-3 years younger). People my age seem to not really care about me and I have few friends my age,
I'm assuming a lot of alpha males. And I'm fairly possitive that I'm not one of
them.
Dude, you are more Alpha than you think.
It's not like you have to spend your life associating only with people who were born in the same year as you.
That's crazy talk (as a friend of mine would say).
Alphas
lead. Others follow. Alphas do. Others would like to. You can be Alpha and still be a virgin. You're under no
obligation to go out and have sex by any particular age.
When I am around I'm assuming these Alpha males, I lose my edge, my "charm, funnyness, outgoingness" for
some reason.
Because you are young and immature and
have convinced yourself these guys are better than you.
Actually, girls 1-2 years younger than you are at likely to be at least as mature as you, if not more
so.
And I feel a lack of respect from these guys for
no reason. From reading a lot of these posts, I have an idea that maybe it's the fact that I'm lacking some of
these 'mones and that by using some of these, I'd get more of an accepting environment and whatnot from
it.
Nope. Your lack of self-confidence is why they
don't respect you.
I mean I'm 17 and I've done
nother, not even had a fake 5th grade girlfriend. Exscuse me from bringing in usless pathetic details of my into
this, I am not trying to gain apathy, but mearly fill anyone who's interested in my situation to
detail.
Girls are attracted to guys who are happy
doing their own thing. To the younger girls, you seem to be that kind of guy. There is no reason why you can't
have a girlfriend who is 1-2 years younger than you.
In
fact, in about 30 years, unless you are happily married to a woman who has managed to tame your fantasies and keep
her sweet-tempered nature, you'll be all but obsessing with younger women anyway.
I am looking for a
'mone solution that I really won't have to mess around with, just use vary dossage and see results.
I
would suggest WAGG or Chikara. You probably don't need the Androstenone-heavy products.
You need to take
yourself seriously. You'll get there before you know it, and the pheromones may or may not help you.
Relax,
trust yourself, and learn to read body language. That will give you an immense advantage over those guys who so
intimidate you.
Fatal
11-30-2004, 10:28 PM
Well I can see your point about
the Alpha male business. And I do have to say I am more of a leader for the most part, and I would like to state
that i'm not obsessed about getting laid, but some sort of sensual intamiacy would be nice here sometime soon. And
while I agree with you about the part about there being nothing wrong with hanging around different ages, it's the
fact that that's almost all I do. It's either 2 or three years younger, I almost never do anything with anyone,
male of female my age or older. I mean I would like to bond with some people that can do the same things as me
(drive, R movies, parents letting their daughters do things alone with a guy my age, etc)I know this is a wee little
off topic of 'mones, but maybe somebody has been there and done that already. Also I do seem to have less
confidence around older people my age, but it's usualy only with males that I know, or seem to be more suscessful.
Seems like that is just a matter of confidence issues with myself, but that aside.
Indigo
12-01-2004, 01:15 AM
Actually Chikara is on sale for
60$ and you can get the free gel packs ( only today ).
That way you can start with a well balanced standalone
product, and also try what TE gel does for you ( if you want to use TE, start with very littel. Even one small
fingertip full was an OD for me ).
Fatal
12-04-2004, 12:23 PM
Alright well I purchased some
Alter Ego, and a tester size of Acqua Di Gio because I have not yet smelled it, but have heard tremendous things
about it. A quick question though, would these two work well together? I'm pretty sure I've heard they do.
Felstorm
12-04-2004, 04:12 PM
I don't know how sick of the newbies you are, but I'm sure it must be getting old. Anyways, here I am. And
here's the deal:
I never get sick of newbies. The only stupid question is the one that goes unasked.
Some few specs about me and a bunch of ramble.
17 year old cacasian male, vergin, never had a
girlfriend, I'm in swimming, a lot of computer geek stuff (which I can acctauly pulloff as an advantage with girls,
ie fix their computers etc),
Blah blah blah.
Excuse excuse excuse.
Would you like some cheese
to go with that whine?
Pheromones aren't going to do a whole lot for you if you don't stop making excuses for
your failure. Failure sucks. But don't let it paralyze you.
Keep in mind you are only 17. You have MANY many
years of girl chasing ahead of you. Some of the guys on this board are in their 30's and 40's and still have women
chasing them. Also, you will retain your attractiveness WELL into later life because of the fact that men don't
need to rely on looks to hook up with hot women.
Again I appolagize for my unusual messy post but let
me try and get the important wants and helps out.
No. Apologise for whining, and promise you'll stop
doing it and change who you are into something better.
I am looking for a 'mone solution that I
really won't have to mess around with.
Okay. I want you to do two things before buying a bottle of
pheromones.
One. I want you to commit yourself to the following mantra.
I am a man. I make no excuses
for what I like or want. I love hot women. Hot women love me and want to tear off my clothes.
I want you to
sit down with a notebook and write this ten times a day for 30 days. Everytime you catch yourself talking smack to
yourself. I want you to recite it to yourself out loud ten times.
Eventually you'll begin to believe it. And
so will other people, too.
Two. Work out. Go to the gym. Up your protien intake, get some muscles on your
frame if you are skinny, if you are chubby shed that weight.
This will not only make you look better, but will
boost your own self confidence.
Best part. I won't cost you much, if anything.
Fatal
12-04-2004, 08:47 PM
I get you're point, but it was
hardly whining. I was mearly just trying to give some background infromation. Not excuses, I have no need for
excuses; only solutions.
I started workingout about a year ago, and I'm swimming this year so it's helping.
And you're right, it does boost up the confidance and sex appeal. So i'm on the slender side, kinda too skinny.
But I'm working on that. But I don't think that's the fact, I think it's just because i'm too much of a pussy
around intimidating people. But the thing is I don't want to be an egotistical dickhead though. And thanks for the
advice.
Felstorm
12-04-2004, 09:08 PM
But I don't think
that's the fact, I think it's just because i'm too much of a pussy around intimidating people.
This is
the kinda stuff I'm talking about.
Sit down right now and write out your anti-pussy behaviour mantra.
You keep telling yourself you are a pussy, and you'll keep behavng that way. You gotta change how you think
first.
Fatal
12-04-2004, 09:22 PM
I am a man, I am not a pussy. I
make no excuses for what I like or want. I do what/who I want. I love hot women. Hot women love me and want to tear
off my clothes.
Red Stripe
12-04-2004, 09:42 PM
Ahem, doesen't sound like he
was whining to me.. And if I recall from reading your thread, youre not exactly the guy to be giving advice about
picking up girls, Felstorm. :think:
Andrew, I feel ya. I'll just say this - Its easier to make good friends
with someone first through 1 on 1 personal friendship than in a group, where other factors are coming into play.
Work on getting to know people, and them getting to know you, outside the group and you will be more respected when
everyone is together.
To answer your question though, I'd go with SOE in light doses. Try the gel packs, a
good way to sample things with minimal investment.
starboy
12-28-2004, 01:16 AM
so how's it been working since
then? get your 'mones yet? I think I was sorta where you are before. so much is about additude. felstorm was right
about being a man. if someone else doesn't think so. who gives a crap? they suck! not you. if a girl doesn't like
you, who gives a crap? even still, pay attention, that person making fun of you may unwittingly give you a heads up
on some way to make yourself better. you don't have to change for anyone, but it's useful to know what other
people think.it give you power, control. keep working at it!
a.k.a.
12-28-2004, 08:57 AM
Alright well I
purchased some Alter Ego, and a tester size of Acqua Di Gio because I have not yet smelled it, but have heard
tremendous things about it. A quick question though, would these two work well together? I'm pretty sure I've
heard they do.
Interesting.
After reading your initial post, my first thought was “Alter
Ego”. It’s easy to use, and I have a feeling this blend will work well with your personality type.
Start out
small. One drop/day for the first couple of days. Two drops for a couple of more days & etc... until you find your
ideal dosage.
The most obvious reaction should be more respect from guys your age and more friendliness
from girls. As your confidence builds you should notice more attraction and responsiveness from females.
TE & NPA are good products, famous for provoking extreme sexual responses. But the down side is occasional
territorial pissing contests from other alpha types. Another down side is that it takes time to figure out the right
proportion of cologne to pheromones.
Wait until you’ve grown comfortable with Alter Ego before trying
this out. (TE + Alter Ego is a great combo, by the way.)
Alter Ego doesn’t require cologne. You CAN
use cologne if you want, but this will require slightly increasing your pheromone dosage. I recommend trying AE on
its own before trying it with your cologne.
Good luck!
a.k.a.
12-28-2004, 09:13 AM
PS Don’t worry about being a
virgin. Sex can be a very powerful addiction at your age. You could find yourself doing crazy, self destructive
things — sacrificing everything, including your self respect — for just a little piece of A.
At least
this was my experience at 17.
I’m not the least bit prudish, and I don’t come from any religious/ethical
perspective. I’m just warning you that it took me 4 years of celibacy to figure out that sex is not the meaning of
life & getting laid is not the true measure of my manhood.
Fatal
12-29-2004, 04:33 PM
Well acctualy I've only worn them
once or twice. One was at a basketball game with big crowds, and nothing really concrete about them. And the other
times were just around the house for christmass and stuff. I really havn't had the chance to experiment with them
with school being out and no where to really test 'em. But next week school will be back and that will be my main
testing center. And the combo of AE and Gio smells really nice, so even if nothing becomes of it, I still got a
great smelling combo ;) I'll be sure to keep you guys updated next week though.
eric_pelletier_tw
12-29-2004, 04:50 PM
ok i didnt read other
posts :P... Ok you say you whant too be more alpha then go -none try free gelpacks for a first :) 10$ shiping isnt
much ... you get TE (none) SoE scented & SoE uncented . Get like 3-4 sets : method 1 : start low work your way up
... method 2 : start high then go low,OD twice to make shure, then try half,then 1/4 more & 1/4 less & poke around
... :) i use method 1 : takes longer to attain results ...
CptKipling
12-29-2004, 06:05 PM
Oh
just read somthing: virgin? GET SOME! FAST! (litle piece of advice from a 27yo... )
Bad advice.
Fatal,
don't worry about it.
Friendly1
12-29-2004, 09:09 PM
Bad advice.
Fatal, don't worry about it.
I agree with CptKipling. No reason why your first time shouldn't be
special. Do it right, even if you're sure you're not with Miss Right.
Fatal
12-30-2004, 10:13 AM
Oh man, guys don't worry about me
and sex, I'm not making a big deal of it so don't fret with that. I was just meaning I don't get enough action
period, sexual or otherwise. But I'm working on that ;)
Yes along with my full bottle of AE, I did order the
free samples, and they were supposed to be shipped the 20th... ah well, any day now.
Also what I'm looking for
is respect. I get no respect at all, I'm a senior and get treated as if I was a sophmore. I look kinda younger than
my age, but still. Anything that helps with that?
Thanks guys :)
Fatal
01-01-2005, 02:05 PM
Allright, well I just went out to
a girls house for new years. It was the only thing to do and it was really freaking lame. She was like 15 and her
friends had to have been like 14? This was unbeknownst to me as I was figureing there were going to be a lot of
older girls maybe at least 16. But there was only like three of them. So it was really really stupid, and they were
all reading cosmopolitan or some stupid crap. ANYWAYS.
This was my first real test of mones. I wore about 3
drops of ae chest, below bellybutton, and wrists. Also wore about three small small dabs of Aqua di Gio. So i was
pretty yummy smelling. So I get there and make a lame long story short, the only thing I got was about halfway
through I went to the bathroom and applied about 2 more srops of AE on wrist and neck. I came out and the first
thing one of them said was "omg you smell so good smell him" and that's it. Nothing more than that, no more
sniffing, no getting really close, no flirrting, no dihl notta at all. I did not sense anything different from other
girls, they didn't really seem like they were affected even more chatty like. etc etc. I was expecting you know a
bigger crowd with more matured girls that you know, didn't think sex was icky and perverted and bad. Ah
well.
So basicly in conclusion I don't think mones have a big effect on young girls say <15 which is a good
thing I s'pose. I hope to really try them out on monday when I go back to my school with people I know(I only knew
one of them so that might be something). There will be guys and people my age, so hopefully I'll have better
results there.
Friendly1
01-01-2005, 10:07 PM
...So I get there
and make a lame long story short, the only thing I got was about halfway through I went to the bathroom and applied
about 2 more srops of AE on wrist and neck. I came out and the first thing one of them said was "omg you smell so
good smell him" and that's it....
Dude, that was a MAJOR hit considering how young these girls are.
...I did not sense anything different from other girls, they didn't really seem like they were affected
even more chatty like. etc etc...
Not to put too fine a point on it, but you don't sound very experienced
to me.
So basicly in conclusion I don't think mones have a big effect on young girls say <15 which is a
good thing I s'pose.
Well, I have to disagree with you. Keep in mind that I am a 45-year-old man and I
have as little to do with teenagers (outside my family) as I can. So, on those RARE occasions when I find myself
surrounded by AND interacting with teenage girls, I do find that many of them get turned on, tongue-tied, and
nervous.
While the pheromones are only part of my picture, I am sure they are a big part of it.
The less
experienced a girl is, the more likely she is to SAY NOTHING, DO NOTHING, and HOLD HERSELF BACK when she is aroused
or at least very attracted by a specific guy, especially one who is older than her.
In a teenage girl's eyes,
the older you are, the more experienced you are, the more dangerous you are, and the less she trusts you (and
herself, if she finds herself attracted to you).
When I was 18, 14-year-old girls flirted with me all the time.
Some of them just outright came on to me. I didn't stop noticing hits from teenage girls until I was in my 20s, in
college, and dealing with women closer to my age.
BIONIC MAN
01-01-2005, 10:43 PM
I don't know how sick of the newbies you are, but I'm sure it must be getting old. Anyways, here I am. And
here's the deal:
Some few specs about me and a bunch of ramble.
17 year old cacasian male, vergin, never had a
girlfriend, I'm in swimming, a lot of computer geek stuff (which I can acctauly pulloff as an advantage with girls,
ie fix their computers etc), America. Modestly saying, a lot of girls say that they find me hot sexy cute etc etc BS
BS, but I have rarely gotten any action and they never really do anything (ie acctauly come on to me for real and
follow through). Now granted I'm a senior and most of the girls that say all that crap are freshman and sophmores.
14-16ish. And we all know how immature they can be. I have a lot of people that are friendly to me and I'm very
outgoing, but it's usualy all me. I'm always the one aprouching people, I'm always the one initiating
conversations, always asking to do things. And most of the times this is with a younger croud (1-3 years younger).
People my age seem to not really care about me and I have few friends my age, I'm assuming a lot of alpha males.
And I'm fairly possitive that I'm not one of them. I wasn't born aggressive or outgoing etc, I've had to work
hard to work on it as it didn't come naturaly. When I am around I'm assuming these Alpha males, I lose my edge, my
"charm, funnyness, outgoingness" for some reason. And I feel a lack of respect from these guys for no reason. From
reading a lot of these posts, I have an idea that maybe it's the fact that I'm lacking some of these 'mones and
that by using some of these, I'd get more of an accepting environment and whatnot from it. I'm not saying it's
all the 'mones, but by the looks of it and the results of some of the posters, this may helpout a lot. Now on to
the main focus. Ladies. As a lot of people have showed great results by getting hits and the deer looks and very
sexual effects from females. My sexual experiences are almost nothing. I am fully ready and accepting, but nobody
seems to bite the bait. I mean I'm 17 and I've done nother, not even had a fake 5th grade girlfriend. Exscuse me
from bringing in usless pathetic details of my into this, I am not trying to gain apathy, but mearly fill anyone
who's interested in my situation to detail.
Again I appolagize for my unusual messy post but let me try and get
the important wants and helps out.
I am looking for a 'mone solution that I really won't have to mess around
with, just use vary dossage and see results. I would love to mess around with abunch of formulas and mixes and
ratios, but for now I don't need a perfection mix, I jsut need soemthing that should help me out. This is mainly
due to the fact that I have limited money and can't really spend more than about $75 on this stuff.
Main goal
of mones: verysexual hits of younger girls 15-25(range), cacasian if it's important, and boost of my alpha male
appearnce to get the peers more my age to open up to me etc. This is very demanding, but is basicly just a general
statment.
So basicly I just need some advice in general or in the mones department. Also if anybody knows how I
can get free samples of some of these products or have extras, pleas let me know before I spend $30-60 on something
that may not be good for me. So bassicly just help me out, maybe you guys can pitch in and we can make this an
experiment of some sorts.
-Andrew
listen andy i feel standalone scent of eros is your
best beat with apc in your pocket for after the fire is lite . becoming mildly cocky and funny will lead to more
encounters. :type:
Fatal
01-01-2005, 11:43 PM
Well I usualy have girls say that
I smell good, so I gusse I didn't attribute that to the mone's rather just the scent. And you are correct, I am
not very experienced. Only starting last year I began getting anywhere with girls. I've gone on a few dates, but
nothing real. I'm sorry but this little teenboper bullshit is pissing me off. I'm tired of these imature girls
playing their stupid games with me. I want people, not that there's anything wrong with having younger friends, but
at my age the maturity gap is large.
Yes, and friendly, when you were that age, how many girls more your age
1 or 2 year give or take or older did you get compraed to the young ones? I know the power of being an older guy
compared to the girls, and it's the only thing I've got working for me. It's really werid though, last year I got
more action from the senior girls than my grade. Honestly, I jsut think it's the kids in my school in my grade.
Tomorow's the big day though, school testing time. AE & Aqua >=]
Btw, Happy New Year everyone!
Friendly1
01-02-2005, 01:11 AM
...I'm sorry but
this little teenboper bullshit is pissing me off. I'm tired of these imature girls playing their stupid games with
me....
It never really stops. It just gets more intricate and sophisticated. Now, knowing a lot of
people who have been happily married for many years, I can tell you that it seems to subside, but women normally do
whatever they can to manipulate men. That is as natural as guys beating their chests and yelling at the top of
their lungs to demonstrate their strength.
...I want people, not that there's anything wrong with having
younger friends, but at my age the maturity gap is large.
At your age (said above to be 17), you will find
that maturity varies greatly. Some 14 year old girls will be about right for you, some 20 year old girls would be
good for you, but most will seem like an awkward match. Think of Goldilocks and the Three Bears. You're going to
find a lot of porridge that is too hot or too cold.
It becomes a winnowing process as both you and the girls
gain experience and confidence. They will probably gain it faster than you (and I am not speaking about sexual
experience but all kinds of experience).
Yes, and friendly, when you were that age, how many girls more
your age 1 or 2 year give or take or older did you get compraed to the young ones?
I chose to remain a
virgin until I was 25 (and engaged to the girl I married). I didn't "get" anyone, although plenty of girls (older
and younger) gave me opportunities.
Age didn't seem to matter. When I was 21, I dated a girl who was 24 and
divorced. I could have had her, but I wasn't ready. I wanted something serious, and she was not looking for
that.
Anyway, I'm not saying those girls were right for you. I'm trying to say that you're going to keep
feeling like you're missing the mark, if you have a typical teenage experience.
In retrospect, I understand now
that my deliberately holding back was part of what made me attractive to so many women. I was a challenge to them,
and must have seemed both very confident and very shy. Confident because I was this crazy, outgoing guy who wasn't
afraid to do or say anything in public, shy because I agonized over whether to pursue opportunities (and usually
chose NOT to because the girls didn't meet my uppity standards).
Ironically, when I finally made my choice, I
chose badly.
Fatal
01-03-2005, 11:44 PM
Thank you for the wise advice. And
I'm sorry about your last line, hope things work out in your favor, whatever they may be.
PS I will do a
writeup about my mones and school experiences in a day or two.
Friendly1
01-03-2005, 11:58 PM
Thank you for the
wise advice. And I'm sorry about your last line, hope things work out in your favor, whatever they may be.
PS
I will do a writeup about my mones and school experiences in a day or two.
Heh. Don't worry about me.
That relationship ended a long time ago. I have had several more since then. But I'm still looking for Miss
Right.
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