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Im not using mones on this
person since it's far to late for them to even make a difference.
Ok in a nutshell I believe one of my co
workers likes me. I didnt really pay much attention to her signals for a long time, but recently I have and started
payin more attention to her. So this is brand new week and i'm gonna try and mix things up a bit.
This
week im trying to avoid/ignore her and just do my own thing. Now im trying to figure out if this will get me
anywhere. My goal is to get her to start flirting even more with me, hell or even chase me & to drive her nuts
etc.
Question is will it work and how long you think I could actully keep this up for. To long and id assume
interest would be lost correct?
pheromack
11-22-2004, 04:51 PM
I dont think that will work.
what I do recommend since ive been in this situation before , is flirt with her a little, joke around and then based
on the feedback she gives you decide, because if you aviod and ignore her any more she may think you just dont have
any interest in her and leave you alone.but do what i said and you should have great results.
Friendly1
11-22-2004, 07:52 PM
Im not using mones
on this person since it's far to late for them to even make a difference.
You might be surprised.
Ok in a nutshell I believe one of my co workers likes me. I didnt really pay much attention to her signals
for a long time, but recently I have and started payin more attention to her. So this is brand new week and i'm
gonna try and mix things up a bit.
Change yourself and be patient. If you have been unobtainable to her
and she is still acting interested, the ball is in your court. So, cranking up the volume probably won't hurt.
This week im trying to avoid/ignore her and just do my own thing. Now im trying to figure out if this will
get me anywhere. My goal is to get her to start flirting even more with me, hell or even chase me & to drive her
nuts etc.
If it were me, I would put myself in her path but not to have any direct interaction with her.
I would wear strong pheromone applications. If you don't normally dress a notch above the office standard, that
would probably give her an excuse to start talking to you.
If your goal is to get her to make some sort of move,
about all you can expect at first is for her to start a conversation. If she is interested enough, she'll try to
talk to you about anything just to get you to talk back to her.
If you really want to pursue it, then each time
she moves forward, you need to respond, drop off a little (to test her resolve -- sometimes women just like mess
with men in the office, like men often just like to mess with the women -- people are strange, that way).
If you
can hook her, unless she turns out to be totally aggressive, you'll need to reel her in slowly until she feels like
you're worth going for. Once one of you makes a move, it will be all over the office in a matter of hours.
Surreal
11-22-2004, 08:02 PM
Just ask her to hang out with
you and your friends. All go to a bar or pool hall.
"well if you change your mind we go here every thursday
night around 10." , that is a good reponse if she says no. (of course tailor it to your situation)
With that
approach she will know it is just a casual freind thing and she should not be intimidated.
CptKipling
11-23-2004, 09:57 AM
I dont think
that will work. what I do recommend since ive been in this situation before , is flirt with her a little, joke
around and then based on the feedback she gives you decide, because if you aviod and ignore her any more she may
think you just dont have any interest in her and leave you alone.but do what i said and you should have great
results.
Gold.
Skyy, dangle some attention in front of her and then pull it away to see how she
responds. If she grabs for it, then your in ;)
Gold.
Skyy, dangle some attention in front of her and then pull it away to see how she responds. If she grabs for it,
then your in ;)
Today I had the intention of just going to chit chat for about 5 mins but I got stuck
chatting with her for 35-40 so I guess thats good.
CptKipling
11-23-2004, 04:08 PM
Should be, as long as you
don't lay it on too thick. :thumbsup:
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