View Full Version : what happens when you stop?
petree
11-22-2004, 02:31 PM
ok here's
my problem. i've had plenty of nice hits using chikara + npa + soe gel packs, but i don't want to keep using them
so much. as soon as i got the package in the mail, i used all of them everyday before school, reapplied sometimes
for the night and i got some good hits. now lets say i develop a relationship that in all likelihood would not have
happened without the use of -mones.
there was this girl i knew, absolutely gorgeous and we had a little fling
over the summer that kind of fizzled out. it was great for the time, and i didnt even need to use the -mones to get
her. i want to see if i can rekindle the flame so to speak (with the help of some trusty pheromones of course). the
problem is that i dont want to use the -mones during school anymore because a) i dont get as many hits and b) using
the -mones everyday will make them run out faster. i could see this girl a lot in school, but i'm only going to
use the -mones on the weekends or after school. will it confuse her to unexplainably find me that much more
attractive only while outside of school?
Friendly1
11-22-2004, 02:40 PM
there was this
girl i knew, absolutely gorgeous and we had a little fling over the summer that kind of fizzled out. it was great
for the time, and i didnt even need to use the -mones to get her. i want to see if i can rekindle the flame so to
speak (with the help of some trusty pheromones of course). the problem is that i dont want to use the -mones during
school anymore because a) i dont get as many hits and b) using the -mones everyday will make them run out faster. i
could see this girl a lot in school, but i'm only going to use the -mones on the weekends or after school. will it
confuse her to unexplainably find me that much more attractive only while outside of school?
More likely
it will be a waste of your time and effort if you focus on one girl.
If there were really a way guys could get
that one specific girl, someone would have packaged it and sold it by now.
Oh, wait. That would be Archer
Sloan. Did anyone actually RECEIVE anything from the guy? Did they try his system? Did it work?
Surreal
11-22-2004, 02:44 PM
I am a newbie but I can give my
input.
I suggest a change in personality. While in school be serious about school and your studies. Avoid her in
school as much as possible. Dont start up lengthy conversations, tell her you need to get to class and/or work on a
project/homwork. Then after school be relaxed and have fun. hang out with her. (with mones) It may take a few
days/week for her to pick up on this personality change. Then she will understand that you became serious about
school but will also know how much fun you are outside of school.
BTW are in in highschool or college?
petree
11-22-2004, 02:59 PM
sounds like a good idea surreal,
thanks for the input. i really did a good job of relaxing and having fun with her over the summer, school just
messed things up a bit. i'm still rocking in high school. we dont actually have any classes together, so it wont
be too hard to 'avoid' her most of the time.
friendly1 - this is not the only girl i'm looking at, i'm
still working the mojo with a few others, i'll get some results up here soon
for some clarification - she is
in the 'gorgeous/popular' clique, thought by many to be the hottest girl in my class, i'm not in their
'clique', i'm more of a floater but i hang out with a lot of them so this was quite the accomplishment for me
pheromack
11-22-2004, 04:39 PM
I think just change clothes or
dress up when you see her in the weekends I think mones help or enhance what you already have, they wont make you
look any cuter or uglier, but if your wearing nice clothes , nice breath and a little mones you would have that
upper hand. Always remember to smile and look her in the eyes when you speak to her.
Rover The Dog
12-09-2004, 11:06 AM
"Oh, wait. That would be
Archer Sloan. Did anyone actually RECEIVE anything from the guy? Did they try his system? Did it
...work</SPAN>?" --If anyone could teach me how to quote id truly appreciate it.
I know this post is kinda late but yeah I received the product about two months ago. Interesting
stuff that makes sense. Its all about her subconscious. Have yet to try it in the real world though because I havent
really gotten the chance with the specific girl im after.
Friendly1
12-09-2004, 01:47 PM
"Oh, wait.
That would be Archer Sloan. Did anyone actually RECEIVE anything from the guy? Did they try his
system? Did it ...work</SPAN>?" --If anyone could teach me how to quote id truly appreciate
it.
To learn how to quote properly, click on the QUOTE button at the
lower right-hand corner of a message and look at the text carefully. You'll see two embedded codes. The first, at
the beginning of the quoted section, starts with "[ quote =...]" (I inserted a space between "[" and "q" to prevent
the forum software from messing up this message. You close the quoted section with "[ /quote]" (again, I inserted a
space).
I know this post is kinda late but yeah I received the product about two months
ago. Interesting stuff that makes sense. Its all about her subconscious. Have yet to try it in the real world though
because I havent really gotten the chance with the specific girl im after.
Well, until someone
actually tries it, we won't know how effective it is.
But thanks anyway. At least we know SOMEONE actually
received the package.
Friendly1
12-09-2004, 01:51 PM
I've also
wondered what happens when you're not around, especially in the office when the -mones have worked for your target?
Will the impression of you just fizzle over when other jealous guys :twisted: back stabs you? How do we deal
with the "after effects"?
People eventually move on. You will be remembered but the targets don't stop
their lives and wait for you to come back to them.
If a girl really wants you, she will pursue you, even if you
don't realize that is what is happening.
Just last night, I realized a woman to whom I am NOT attracted in any
way is interested in me. She came to a club I did not mention to her, was mirroring my body language (forcing me to
constantly alter my position to break any sense of rapport or harmony she might have been feeling), and asked me if
I would be going to another particular place tonight.
For my part, I tried not to make eye contact with her, but
remained as polite as I know how to be. I also told her I would not be at that club and did not say what my plans
are. She is fairly mature, so I hope she gets the message quickly.
But that's how it works. The women will
chase men in subtle ways (and sometimes not so subtle) by putting themselves in front of the men repeatedly. So,
for example, if you notice a table of women at a club or restaurant where one keeps getting up and walking past you
to go to the restroom, it may be she wants to meet you. Of course, you have to look for other signs, but that is
another example of how they show their interest.
Gegogi
12-09-2004, 05:49 PM
"But that's how it works.
The women will chase men in subtle ways (and sometimes not so subtle) by putting themselves in front of the men
repeatedly."
My ex-GF hasn't spoken to me for a month since our fierily demise, e.g., she told her
husband about our relationship. Well, I did get a few cellphones calls where she yelled at me and hung up (similar
emails as well). I'd rather not see her and thus avoid heartache and possible confrontation. However, she always
seems to be hanging around where I can see her, but ignores me. Today she walked into my classroom and sat several
feet behind me while a music performance was in progress (she's not a student in that class). I thought she wanted
to talk to me but ignored me and walked out. An hour later she was sitting just outside of my office door. I walked
towards her and called out her name. She had no reaction, looked through me, stood up and walked away when I got
within a couple feet.
Any idea what she's doing? Is she pursuing me? Demonstrating how well she can ignore
me? Showing me she still cares but needs to teach me a lesson? She won't speak a word to me. Just what does the
"silent treament" mean after a month?
She's obviously got problems, but
why do you care? Sounds like you want to get back together, but she really was never your GF, was she?
Gegogi
12-09-2004, 06:39 PM
If things weren't so
complicated, of course I'd like to keep seeing her. But she's married and I'm trying to learn from my mistakes.
Well, she was my friend and lover so I think that qualifies as a GF. We weren't going "steady" like in high school,
but we did see one another (intimately) nearly everyday for 2 months. I realize she's playing some type of weird
game. I just don't understand why or what it means. Incidentally, I've done my best to stay away from her--no
phone calls, email or AIM, but she keeps tangling herself infront of me and then gives me the cold shoulder. I have
a feeling she didn't really tell her husband about us...
Probably....good thing you didn't
send the letter
belgareth
12-09-2004, 07:16 PM
I'd stay away from her. She
sounds kind of scary.
I'd stay away from
her. She sounds kind of scary.
What I was thinking
Gegogi
12-09-2004, 08:06 PM
Yeah *sigh* she is kind of scary:
wild temper, uncontrolled impulses, wicked and sharp as a whip. Too bad she's so hot and drives me crazy.
Gegogi
12-09-2004, 09:53 PM
I'd suggest careful amounts of
friendliness and diplomacy for the guys and charm for the lady. After all, the chemicals can only enhance what's
already in abundance. Hmm, I've never thought of potential lovers as "targets." Are you from a military family?
Friendly1
12-09-2004, 10:20 PM
Any idea what
she's doing? Is she pursuing me? Demonstrating how well she can ignore me? Showing me she still cares but needs to
teach me a lesson? She won't speak a word to me. Just what does the "silent treament" mean after a month?
She cannot let go of you. She is probably feeling some very strong, mixed emotions. About all you can do is try
to look out for yourself. You are not responsible for her emotions.
My advice is to ignore her, or at least act
like you are ignoring her, no matter how badly you want to do otherwise.
My experience tells me there is a
strong chance she and you will get back together for another round of misery -- maybe several rounds of misery.
Gegogi
12-10-2004, 01:17 AM
Thanks Friendly, you're probably
right about everything. I have a bad feeling about the situation and it's good that Christmas Break will clear
campus for a month. Hopefully enough time for both of us to get a grip on reality. And, yeah, I don't need any more
worms in my can. Meanwhile I plan to eat, drink and be merry starting tomorrow! :smite:
Gegogi, how about posting some pics
of this crazy chick? We want to see what you were banging. Hey, maybe its all worth it :lol:
She's angry
with you but attracted/obssessed at the same time.
platinumfox
12-10-2004, 06:37 AM
If things
weren't so complicated, of course I'd like to keep seeing her. But she's married and I'm trying to learn from my
mistakes. Well, she was my friend and lover so I think that qualifies as a GF. We weren't going "steady" like in
high school, but we did see one another (intimately) nearly everyday for 2 months. I realize she's playing some
type of weird game. I just don't understand why or what it means. Incidentally, I've done my best to stay away
from her--no phone calls, email or AIM, but she keeps tangling herself infront of me and then gives me the cold
shoulder. I have a feeling she didn't really tell her husband about us...Sounds like you still are
infatuated with her bro.YOU NEED TO STAY AWAY FROM THIS WOMAN!Look at all the trouble she has already caused.
Friendly1
12-10-2004, 08:44 AM
Could this
be those withdrawal symptoms as in falling out of love with the hubby or you? Maybe she's trying to seek balance in
those love hormones (oxytocin etc) or some validation from the hubby or you.
I doubt she is falling in or
out of love. She just seems to be kind of mixed up. But then, I am only guessing. It's really impossible to get
a clear picture of what is going on with a person whose behavior is being described in brief messages.
Gegogi
12-10-2004, 02:15 PM
She sent me 2 blank emails this
morning, I guess to match the no-talk phone calls and ignoring me in person. I think Friendly nailed it again.
She's very mixed up because all the feelings are still whirling around in her. While we were going out she
frequently broke up with me only to call me a few hours later or the next day like nothing happened, often demanding
phone sex! My, she loves to pound her pund, something I admire in a woman. Unfortunately, I am infatuated (or worse)
but staying away and haven't contacted her for a month. It's difficult to ignore her when she hangs around my door
just to give me the cold treatment and make me feel bad...
Friendly1
12-10-2004, 03:14 PM
You definitely need to meet
someone else. Maybe change your habits, if you can. But you were right when you said Christmas break would give
you a chance to get away from her.
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