View Full Version : EXTREMELY interesting article about men, bars, and "scoring"
camusflage
11-07-2004, 07:57 PM
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,2087-1347701,00.html
A
research group studied behavior of men in bars. After secretly watching and recording behavior for a half hour, they
followed up with the men to gauge their relative success.
"The average of 13 glances at women for successful
men compared with six for the “wallflowers”. Gestures among the successful also included jokingly punching their
male friends, tapping them on the shoulder or elbowing them in the ribs."
"They also made an average of 19
“space maximisation” moves — such as expansive gestures or resting their arms on seats adjacent to the ones on which
they were sitting; the men who flopped made just 10 of these gestures. In addition, the lothario group were more
likely to stand or sit with their legs wide apart and hands on hips."
"The giveaway sign of a man not about
to “score” is his crossed arms and drooped shoulders. He is also the one likely to be prodded or slapped by the
friend who will later leave him at the bar as he chats up a woman."
eric_pelletier_tw
11-10-2004, 10:41 PM
very interesting but
that's all know stuff [for me at least] 80% to90% of your conversation is in the nonverbal ... & where still
animals so girls still mate the same way see any lions picking on the master lion ? why do you think kids keep
picking on others...
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to think of it,i should be picking :) hehe
Knuuttipukki
11-11-2004, 01:27 AM
That propably
explains why some ppl are more successful when they are drunk. Booze makes ppl somewhat more aggressive and makes
them to forget their usual social standing. Few years ago I read about a man who just wanted to test what happens if
he acts more aggressively (read: like jerk) at the bar. He definately got more girls around him.
Watcher
11-11-2004, 03:26 AM
of course some Anone in youre
pheromones helps to - not to much that is where perception is helpful though 25% more anone might do the
trick.
Adding chikara helps boost it a slight bit more (at least the gel dual application with perception on
in my limited testing)
But yes the body language etc, glances, touches is more prominent in guys that get
more.
AdrianInOcala
12-01-2004, 09:33 PM
If they could just find a
way to keep married guys from cruising the bars for women, and bottle it....
:smite:
PHP 87
12-01-2004, 10:31 PM
A-None heavy products tend to make
me edgy and anti-social for some reason.
Watcher
12-01-2004, 10:43 PM
Hence the idea of singles bars -
keep married men at home and allow just the singles to ge together you might stand a chance
But human nature
as it is.
Gegogi
12-02-2004, 12:23 AM
Ultimately, aren't we all single
deep inside? Marriage is pretty dad burn artificial when you're runnin' through a jungle or a single's bar.
camusflage
12-06-2004, 01:01 PM
If they
could just find a way to keep married guys from cruising the bars for women, and bottle it....
Maybe if
more women were faithful and true it wouldn't happen so much.
MOBLEYC57
12-06-2004, 04:32 PM
Maybe if more
women were faithful and true it wouldn't happen so much.OR if they stop taking things for granted, put
forth the effort to keep looking good (no, not getting your hair and nails done), annnnnd continued taking care of
business ... a man wouldn't have the strength to cruise. :thumbsup: But this war verbage has been going on for
years, yes?
Had Eve let Adam be, we'd all be okay. But nooooooo, she had to lean against that tree butt assed
naked, waving that damn apple! What real man could resist that!? :frustrate
P.S. Married women cruise bars,
too. :drunk:
Elvis
12-07-2004, 04:09 AM
Ultimately, aren't
we all single deep inside? Marriage is pretty dad burn artificial when you're runnin' through a jungle or a
single's bar.
Amen Gegogi. Orthodox monogamous marriages in Christendom are lies fed to us by a society
which tries to repress and control the masses by whatever means possible. This is one example. Human beings are by
nature, polyamorous.
Variety is the spice of life. This applies to everything...including interest in the
opposite sex. Why do so many marriages fail? Because they're f/ bored man!
Imagine if you ate tripe for your
dinner every day for 40 years!
Our desire to spread our seed and our ability in terms of willpower to resist the
opposite sex are so vastly unbalanced as to render marriage nothing more than a joke, an unfunny one at that. Humans
should accept this and move on to develop as a species, instead of conforming to prescribed rituals from our
forefathers.
I'm not saying a man and a woman should not co-habitate to bring up a child, of course...they
must for that child's stability. However, there would be less pain in the world if we could accept this about human
nature and embraced it, found a way to accomodate it whilst getting rid of our petty jealousies.
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