View Full Version : Appearance DOES effect!
phinmone
11-05-2004, 10:15 AM
i was at a
very interesting party where the theme was to dress in a kinky way. well i had something quite kinky and had like a
red mascara on around my eyes. it looked quite strange. but so was the party. anyways i was wearing chikara 4
sprays + 1 dab of npa. usually when i go out with this amount, i usually get some attention, but yesterday at the
party i did not get attention / approaches from girls. i would say it was due to my appearance. this has been
discussed quite often too, and i have been aware of this fact that your outward appearance affects the success with
women. and you should approach women instead of waiting them to talk to you. but yesterday i really realized how
important the right appearance is. or maybe the right appearance that fits your personal picture of what suites
you.
phinmone
TRock
11-05-2004, 10:23 AM
appearance does matter, i think
it's wishful thinking when people say it doesn't. sometimes people can't handle the truth.
Holmes
11-05-2004, 10:39 AM
appearance does
matter, i think it's wishful thinking when people say it doesn't. sometimes people can't handle the
truth.
Amen to that.
Well, if mones made you score while
dressed like a drag queen, you couldn't even leave home when dressed normally :D
Yoel
Women may not be as swayed by looks,
but they are certainly pickier about them.
TRock
11-05-2004, 10:52 AM
in case anybody gets discourage,
that doesn't mean you life is over if you're not good looking tho. if your looks aren't all there, you just have
to work alittle harder to attract women. you have to accept who you are and love yourself still b/c if you can't
love yourself, how would somebody else be able to love you.
whatever pretty boy. No, just
kidding :)
Pancho1188
11-05-2004, 12:07 PM
Come on, guys...we all know
that real beauty is on the ins-----:lol: Man, I almost got that out without laughing, too... :rofl:
SweetBrenda thinks I'm a sexy b*tch, so that's good enough for me... :thumbsup:
Mascara...well...you
might've attracted a different kind of crowd...just not the one you were with...
Watcher
11-05-2004, 01:14 PM
mascara you could have gone for
the goth / crossdressing crowd (fab five queer eye for the straight guy types lol) or rocky horror picture show
lol.
That said looks (and a good looking body help) but yes just another thing women are picky
about.
Have to get used to it.
bigdog
11-05-2004, 02:01 PM
Appearance defintiely makes a
difference. I have not been getting many hits lately mones or no mones. I attribute much of it to the fact I've
been a workout slouch. Confidence, positivity, smiles, and eye contact are huge too.
After I've worked out
a couple months I get much more attention. Along with having a better physique I have more confidence and I'm much
more positive. Women can sense this and approach me often. Mones are the icing on the cake.
phinmone
11-06-2004, 03:38 AM
mascara you could
have gone for the goth / crossdressing crowd
read: kinky party = S/M bondage! so i think the mascara
was NOT overdressed.
You were crossdressed anyway, I
would have gone for something ultra-alpha, since the S/M background allowed you to do that :D
Yoel
pherohero
11-06-2004, 09:14 AM
in case anybody
gets discourage, that doesn't mean you life is over if you're not good looking tho. if your looks aren't all
there, you just have to work alittle harder to attract women. you have to accept who you are and love yourself still
b/c if you can't love yourself, how would somebody else be able to love you.
This may be going off
the original topic, but it sounds like you don't realize how much one can improve one's own appearance. In fact,
it's a lot easier for men than it is for women. Most of us here are probably scrawny ectomorphs [don't bash me if
you're an exception]. Just cycling in some creatine, eating a high-protein diet, and regularly visiting a gym can
work wonders.
a.k.a.
11-06-2004, 09:21 AM
I don’t know how to interpret this,
but I went to a Halloween party wearing Pheros, a Ronald Reagan mask, and a black suit that I picked up at a thrift
store. I thought it looked pretty creepy, but I seemed to hit it off pretty well.
Watcher
11-06-2004, 01:43 PM
Join the club and work out heck im
big and muscle all over after 5 years of heavy workouts and not just weights but cycling running etc.
Im not
overly big ie creatine gym junky but i am solid and weight about 100kg 230 pounds. And it makes a difference add
some well place subtle pheromones and a few other things like good dressing etc and im regulary laid.
Friendly1
11-06-2004, 03:54 PM
If you are going to do
anything, learn to do it well. I've lived by that philosophy most of my life, except where my clothes were
concerned. When I finally started applying it to my wardrobe, a whole new world opened up for me.
Women will
automatically assess a man by the way he is dressed. That doesn't mean they are all on the prowl all the time. It
just means they assess people very quickly, and the way you take care of yourself (fat or fit), the way you dress
(coordinated or like a slob) and the clothes you wear (expensive or cheap) all speak volumes about you to others who
know that language.
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