I love this stuff

[watcher27944]

Hello all, just

looking for advice, I am going out tonight to a place i go about twice a week.
There ia a bar tender there that I

want to try to impress, she already knowes me and she has flirted with me a little, tonight will be a slow night so

I can get a lot of het att., So what to wear LOL, I have AE, TE, SOE, CHK. so what do I use to get her to want to

know me.
Any fast answer would be helpful,,,.
thank you

[Friendly1]

Bartenders, waitresses, sales

girls, and women in general will flirt with men who are potential customers in order to help close a sale. That

makes it really hard to figure out when she wants to see how far you'll go and when she really just wants to sell

you a drink or whatever.

So, that is not to discourage you. There are guys who get dates or whatever from

bartenders, sales girls, etc. every day. You just have to understand that you are probably not the only guy who is

interested in her.

The trick is to raise her interest in you. The pheromones can help do that (which is why

you're using them), but any bar situation is a tough sell.

You'll have better luck if A) you are young or B)

she is close to your age.

I usually recommend a strong dose of Androstenone in a bar situation (lots of guys,

lots of smoke), but if you already have a rapport with her, maybe something like Chikara or Perception would work

better.

Since you have Chikara, that is what I would recommend.

[phersurf]

Trying to "impress" a woman is

the death nell in her becomming attracted to you.

Women can smell (not in the pheremone way) a guy that is

looking for approval from her a mile away. Men that are seeking approval from a woman come off as looking weak and

will only succeed in putting you in the LJBF catagory in her mind.

I've spent my entire life trying to

impress women, with only moderate success. In the last few months, when I talk to women, I've acted like I don't

care and bust their chops in a freindly way (better known as "cocky and funny") and the difference is astounding!

[phersurf]

Sorry about the non-pheremone

post, but I read that word "impress" and it sent shivers of horror down my spine.

[belgareth]

Sorry about the

non-pheremone post, but I read that word "impress" and it sent shivers of horror down my spine.
Don't

worry, it was relevent. The nature of this forum is the science of attraction.

[a.k.a.]

I usually

recommend a strong dose of Androstenone in a bar situation

Ditto. But since you don't have PI or RM,

I'd go for a dab of AE on the wrists and a spray of TE on the chest.

[watcher27944]

Thank you all for your

advice, the place was a lot more busy then I expected so I did not get much time to talk to her, but I`ll try again.

When I said I wanted to impress her I ment get her att.
Maybe I`ll be lucky next time,I don`t give up easy.


Thanks again for the advice

[top_dawwgs]

use chikara and perception

but try not to OD.

[blkgost]

The trick

is to raise her interest in you.

A line straight from the love doctor himself DocLove lol. I love

his stuff really made a difference in my life.

[DCW]

I wore some AE at a club last week

and a young girl asked me to dance..twice.
She gave me that look with lots of body language.
I think she was

ready for the taking but I held back becasue i didn't feel the need to close the deal..this week things might be

different.


DCW

[blkgost]

Dude when opportunity knocks, you

open the door, you don't say come back later....