belgareth
09-10-2004, 09:59 AM
Last night we had
several people over, we grilled shrimp and drank beer on the back deck. They were all from the school, students, and
all about my girlfriend's age. In total there were 6 girls and three guys including me and the other guys were
firmly attached to their dates.
All of them are post grad science students so much of the conversation was shop
talk. Towards about 9:30 or so, it started getting a little cool so Jessica was snuggled up under one arm. Another
girl somehow ended up snuggled under the other arm. Another un-attached girl jokingly complained about being left
out and cold. With some prompting from my SO she sat between my legs and used my chest for a back rest. I complained
that I couldn't drink my beer so they started serving me beer and snacks. It was all good natured play but VERY
erotic for me. The other didn't join in the group cuddle. I should mention that I was wearing Chikara and TE
again.
After everybody left and we went to bed I asked Jessica what it was all about and her answer startled me.
I'm going to try to quote her exactly.
"You haven't figured out that almost every one of my friends would like
to seduce you?"
"No, and I don't believe it."
"You should."
"Why do you say that?"
"Well, a couple of
them have told me so but I think it's mostly because of the way you handle yourself. We've all seen you working
out and know that you are a fighter but you never act like one. You're always so gentle, soft spoken and good
humored. They feel safe and protected around you."
"That's it? They want the old wolf (a nickname) to protect
them? What am I, a father figure?"
"No, no... We can all see that you like women and like to look at them but
you never leer and you always treat them like ladies. We all enjoy a man's admiration but don't want to be treated
like a piece of meat either. You're always a perfect gentleman. That may be a part of it. You stay aloof and never
persue them. I know that about drove me crazy when I was trying so hard to get your attention after we first
met."
The conversation drifted off from there but I see some important things here. While the situation was
atypical, the reasons fit my beliefs perfectly. The only thing I can add to this is that I am 47 years old and these
ladies are all between 25 and 30.
several people over, we grilled shrimp and drank beer on the back deck. They were all from the school, students, and
all about my girlfriend's age. In total there were 6 girls and three guys including me and the other guys were
firmly attached to their dates.
All of them are post grad science students so much of the conversation was shop
talk. Towards about 9:30 or so, it started getting a little cool so Jessica was snuggled up under one arm. Another
girl somehow ended up snuggled under the other arm. Another un-attached girl jokingly complained about being left
out and cold. With some prompting from my SO she sat between my legs and used my chest for a back rest. I complained
that I couldn't drink my beer so they started serving me beer and snacks. It was all good natured play but VERY
erotic for me. The other didn't join in the group cuddle. I should mention that I was wearing Chikara and TE
again.
After everybody left and we went to bed I asked Jessica what it was all about and her answer startled me.
I'm going to try to quote her exactly.
"You haven't figured out that almost every one of my friends would like
to seduce you?"
"No, and I don't believe it."
"You should."
"Why do you say that?"
"Well, a couple of
them have told me so but I think it's mostly because of the way you handle yourself. We've all seen you working
out and know that you are a fighter but you never act like one. You're always so gentle, soft spoken and good
humored. They feel safe and protected around you."
"That's it? They want the old wolf (a nickname) to protect
them? What am I, a father figure?"
"No, no... We can all see that you like women and like to look at them but
you never leer and you always treat them like ladies. We all enjoy a man's admiration but don't want to be treated
like a piece of meat either. You're always a perfect gentleman. That may be a part of it. You stay aloof and never
persue them. I know that about drove me crazy when I was trying so hard to get your attention after we first
met."
The conversation drifted off from there but I see some important things here. While the situation was
atypical, the reasons fit my beliefs perfectly. The only thing I can add to this is that I am 47 years old and these
ladies are all between 25 and 30.