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08-31-2004, 10:34 PM
A gesture is a
gesture
Body language is a discipline about non-verbal behavior, there are more and more followers of it all
over the world. Among them there are respected scientists who attach less and less significance to words and places
the emphasis in communication on the role of body language. Reportedly this way it is possible to tell much more and
even to learn much more information about the partner. Gestures, body language and intonation affect the
communication at a proportion of more than 90%. Words as such prove to be insufficient in a successful
communication. It seems to be simple, but despite this fact there are still a great number of inapprehensive men.
They don’t pay attention to the women’s behavior, swallow every word they say, and muck up the opportunity of
further developing their acquaintances. But women’s gestures are univocal! The experts of non-verbal behavior can
only distinguish two types of women’s behavior. One carries the information that the woman does not feel like having
sex. The other one means that she does. So women exploit body language and launch such codes that men have a very
difficult job to tell what they are thinking of in fact. It would be so palpable to tell everything using words.
I’ll try to help you avoid misunderstandings: I’ve put together a guide with the help of which beginners and
“advanced users” are able to decode the behavior of every attractive woman.
1. She pushes her fingers through
her hair
Clean and neat hair is as important for a woman as acceptable height, wide shoulders and biceps for a
man. The woman who grooms her hair with high care expresses that she is full of energy and feels like doing certain
family-friendly activities. Those that are familiar with body language claim that when a woman is regulating her
hair she tries to call men’s attention upon herself. If she repeats this activity three times within a minute you
can be sure that she would really love to be conquered. The way she touches her hair is also very important. It
tells you information about her temperament. If she does it slowly you have encountered a cunning expert of the art
of love. Quick, nervy movements disclose impatience or embarrassment.
2. She touches the edge of the glass
with her fingers
Freudian psychologists interpret it as a sexual sign. This theory is supported by the women
themselves, who claim that they deliberately pet the glass, in order to call the chosen man’s attention upon
themselves. When you enter a bar and see a full-bosomed blonde touching and caressing her martini glass so that it’d
scream, do not think that she is expressing her musicality this way. Don’t ask her whether she is playing the latest
hit of Iglesias. This question would not be appropriate. Instead of asking stupid questions, notice the way she is
playing the “musical instrument”. Elegant, caressing movement is a sign of intrinsic calmness, self-control and
waiting, so sit by her. Her beating a rhythm on the glass with her nails is a sign of impatience or a broad hint of
SOS, which she’s sending to her boyfriend, who is fighting for another Bailey’s at the bar.
3. She leans on
her elbow
According to Aristotle a woman’s hand tells us the most information. According to experts of body
language women disclose what they think of us with their gestures. If she leans on her hand with her chin and her
eyes seem to be thinking, it’s not always the sign of her being impressed by your appearance. Generally the woman
tries to answer her own question this way: “Does this guy deserve me?” You do know the answer, but the lady needs
time. If you want to help her make the only right decision, be politely determinate and determinately polite. Flash
your sense of humor as well.
4. She sits back with her arms crossed together
This is the worst possible
that you can encounter in a bar or disco, when you’re out hunting. This gesture is the evidence of the fact that
you’ve had the worst impression of all on the woman and she doesn’t trust you at all. Nothing helps here, neither
refined jokes, nor nice, muscular body. The best method at the beginning of the fight for her grace is to ask her
what she’s drinking at the moment. Don’t buy her a drink for a start because this way she’s going to think that
“this guy has no fantasy at all”.
5. She wets her lips
If a woman wets her lips quite frequently, it’s
absolutely a sexual sign, unless she has herpes. According to anthropologists women give us to understand that they
wouldn’t mind us putting something between their wet lips. Hope you know what.
6. She delves in her
nose
You’re wrong if you think that this is a sign of her sexual appetite. Scientist have been arguing for
years about the meaning of this gesture. According to one group of scientists the lady is underbred. On the other
hand the other group thinks the finger in the nose symbolizes the gross hairs of the thighs and lap.
7. She
lashes her eye-lashes
According to famous experts of the topic and authors of cheap romantic stories the fast
movement of the eye-lashes is the sign of women who like to conquer men of their own accord. Besides they are
emancipated, who like to take over the duty of initiation. They aren’t waiting for your jokes and wide smile. They
undertake to initiate. The only problem with such ladies is that not all of them will enjoy herself in the role of
the doped out game. But if you don’t mind losing the role of the hunter, swallow the bait.
8. She lets her
legs swing
Researchers of body language emphasize that when a woman frequently crosses her legs or let them
swing, is also a sexually charged movement. The strongest of all these movements is when she opens her legs without
meaning it. It’s a classical Freudian opening symbol. (You must remember Sharon Stone opening her legs in such a
beautiful way in Basic Instinct.) A contrary sign to this is when she puts her legs together. You have to interpret
her choosing of shoes in a similar way. It is very important which pair of shoes she chooses to wear the given day.
The more open the shoes are the more willing she is to “open”.
9. She dances with her hands
Having gauged
the woman’s face and body most men concentrates on her hands. This is the most natural and normal thing to do –
well-groomed long fingers, well-painted nails are significant erotic signs. However, the way the woman herself
thinks of her hands is also very important. If she stares at them for a very long time, it may imply that something
angers her (perhaps you?). if she beats the rhythm on the table or the bar means a similar state of mind. You think
she’s a wild cat, but you’re wrong. She’s thinking about a way how she could get rid of you.
10. She bites her
lips
When a woman is biting your lips, do not interrupt her – everything’s alright. But if she’s biting hers,
you may assume that she’s nervous. Why? Perhaps you are staring at her too quizzing.
+1 Finally
From the
paragraphs above you can see that each and every movement and gesture of a woman carry sexual meaning for a healthy
man.
Feel her soul
You look at the woman and you don’t have the least idea what she wants from you. If
you notice one of the hereunder mentioned ways of behavior, it means that there’s one thing that she wants from you,
closer acquaintance, or even maybe sex.
She leers at you, laughs loudly, ogles, wets her lips, knobs her breasts
or hip, listens to you very carefully, walks proudly, waves her hip, her style is eye-catching, crosses her legs and
then puts them back, hides her face, pushes her fingers through her hair, enters your private area, touches herself
(smoothes out her stocking or plays with the button of her blouse), touches the object of her interest, exaggerates
her make-up or perfume, dresses up too elegant, whispers or tries to create an intimate environment some other way,
stares at you too intensively, gauges you with her eyes and tries to stay tête--tête with you.
gesture
Body language is a discipline about non-verbal behavior, there are more and more followers of it all
over the world. Among them there are respected scientists who attach less and less significance to words and places
the emphasis in communication on the role of body language. Reportedly this way it is possible to tell much more and
even to learn much more information about the partner. Gestures, body language and intonation affect the
communication at a proportion of more than 90%. Words as such prove to be insufficient in a successful
communication. It seems to be simple, but despite this fact there are still a great number of inapprehensive men.
They don’t pay attention to the women’s behavior, swallow every word they say, and muck up the opportunity of
further developing their acquaintances. But women’s gestures are univocal! The experts of non-verbal behavior can
only distinguish two types of women’s behavior. One carries the information that the woman does not feel like having
sex. The other one means that she does. So women exploit body language and launch such codes that men have a very
difficult job to tell what they are thinking of in fact. It would be so palpable to tell everything using words.
I’ll try to help you avoid misunderstandings: I’ve put together a guide with the help of which beginners and
“advanced users” are able to decode the behavior of every attractive woman.
1. She pushes her fingers through
her hair
Clean and neat hair is as important for a woman as acceptable height, wide shoulders and biceps for a
man. The woman who grooms her hair with high care expresses that she is full of energy and feels like doing certain
family-friendly activities. Those that are familiar with body language claim that when a woman is regulating her
hair she tries to call men’s attention upon herself. If she repeats this activity three times within a minute you
can be sure that she would really love to be conquered. The way she touches her hair is also very important. It
tells you information about her temperament. If she does it slowly you have encountered a cunning expert of the art
of love. Quick, nervy movements disclose impatience or embarrassment.
2. She touches the edge of the glass
with her fingers
Freudian psychologists interpret it as a sexual sign. This theory is supported by the women
themselves, who claim that they deliberately pet the glass, in order to call the chosen man’s attention upon
themselves. When you enter a bar and see a full-bosomed blonde touching and caressing her martini glass so that it’d
scream, do not think that she is expressing her musicality this way. Don’t ask her whether she is playing the latest
hit of Iglesias. This question would not be appropriate. Instead of asking stupid questions, notice the way she is
playing the “musical instrument”. Elegant, caressing movement is a sign of intrinsic calmness, self-control and
waiting, so sit by her. Her beating a rhythm on the glass with her nails is a sign of impatience or a broad hint of
SOS, which she’s sending to her boyfriend, who is fighting for another Bailey’s at the bar.
3. She leans on
her elbow
According to Aristotle a woman’s hand tells us the most information. According to experts of body
language women disclose what they think of us with their gestures. If she leans on her hand with her chin and her
eyes seem to be thinking, it’s not always the sign of her being impressed by your appearance. Generally the woman
tries to answer her own question this way: “Does this guy deserve me?” You do know the answer, but the lady needs
time. If you want to help her make the only right decision, be politely determinate and determinately polite. Flash
your sense of humor as well.
4. She sits back with her arms crossed together
This is the worst possible
that you can encounter in a bar or disco, when you’re out hunting. This gesture is the evidence of the fact that
you’ve had the worst impression of all on the woman and she doesn’t trust you at all. Nothing helps here, neither
refined jokes, nor nice, muscular body. The best method at the beginning of the fight for her grace is to ask her
what she’s drinking at the moment. Don’t buy her a drink for a start because this way she’s going to think that
“this guy has no fantasy at all”.
5. She wets her lips
If a woman wets her lips quite frequently, it’s
absolutely a sexual sign, unless she has herpes. According to anthropologists women give us to understand that they
wouldn’t mind us putting something between their wet lips. Hope you know what.
6. She delves in her
nose
You’re wrong if you think that this is a sign of her sexual appetite. Scientist have been arguing for
years about the meaning of this gesture. According to one group of scientists the lady is underbred. On the other
hand the other group thinks the finger in the nose symbolizes the gross hairs of the thighs and lap.
7. She
lashes her eye-lashes
According to famous experts of the topic and authors of cheap romantic stories the fast
movement of the eye-lashes is the sign of women who like to conquer men of their own accord. Besides they are
emancipated, who like to take over the duty of initiation. They aren’t waiting for your jokes and wide smile. They
undertake to initiate. The only problem with such ladies is that not all of them will enjoy herself in the role of
the doped out game. But if you don’t mind losing the role of the hunter, swallow the bait.
8. She lets her
legs swing
Researchers of body language emphasize that when a woman frequently crosses her legs or let them
swing, is also a sexually charged movement. The strongest of all these movements is when she opens her legs without
meaning it. It’s a classical Freudian opening symbol. (You must remember Sharon Stone opening her legs in such a
beautiful way in Basic Instinct.) A contrary sign to this is when she puts her legs together. You have to interpret
her choosing of shoes in a similar way. It is very important which pair of shoes she chooses to wear the given day.
The more open the shoes are the more willing she is to “open”.
9. She dances with her hands
Having gauged
the woman’s face and body most men concentrates on her hands. This is the most natural and normal thing to do –
well-groomed long fingers, well-painted nails are significant erotic signs. However, the way the woman herself
thinks of her hands is also very important. If she stares at them for a very long time, it may imply that something
angers her (perhaps you?). if she beats the rhythm on the table or the bar means a similar state of mind. You think
she’s a wild cat, but you’re wrong. She’s thinking about a way how she could get rid of you.
10. She bites her
lips
When a woman is biting your lips, do not interrupt her – everything’s alright. But if she’s biting hers,
you may assume that she’s nervous. Why? Perhaps you are staring at her too quizzing.
+1 Finally
From the
paragraphs above you can see that each and every movement and gesture of a woman carry sexual meaning for a healthy
man.
Feel her soul
You look at the woman and you don’t have the least idea what she wants from you. If
you notice one of the hereunder mentioned ways of behavior, it means that there’s one thing that she wants from you,
closer acquaintance, or even maybe sex.
She leers at you, laughs loudly, ogles, wets her lips, knobs her breasts
or hip, listens to you very carefully, walks proudly, waves her hip, her style is eye-catching, crosses her legs and
then puts them back, hides her face, pushes her fingers through her hair, enters your private area, touches herself
(smoothes out her stocking or plays with the button of her blouse), touches the object of her interest, exaggerates
her make-up or perfume, dresses up too elegant, whispers or tries to create an intimate environment some other way,
stares at you too intensively, gauges you with her eyes and tries to stay tête--tête with you.