camusflage
07-31-2004, 02:25 PM
I finally got a chance to try out Chikara in a club, and was I ever impressed. I didn't know in the
morning I'd be going out, and I was laying low, so I put on only two dabs of PPA/m.
While at work, I found
out that there was going to be a salsa concert last night. Some of the name players from several bands were getting
together for a one night "all star band" thing. Needless to say, that was all it took to convince me to go out. I
danced with a dozen or so ladies during the evening, but three of them really stuck out.
Prior to arriving, I
assessed the arsenal I had with me. Chikara and unscented SOE. I applied four inches of SOE to my neck and four
sprays of Chikara--Three to the neck and one to the back of the hands.
From 8-9 there was an intermediate+
lesson. Most of the folks there I'd already met and known for some time, so there was nothing too interesting to
report there.
From 9-11 there was some DJ dancing, which was where things got interesting. The first one that
stuck out was a lady I'd met and danced with once before, in her 40's. We danced a salsa, and then a merengue came
on. She gave me a BIG hug, and went to wander off. I asked if she wanted to merengue also, and she said yes. We
danced two more songs, and at the end, she gave me another big hug. We talked periodically through the evening and
danced another couple of dances, each ended with a hug (something I only saw her do with one other guy, one whom she
knew quite well).
The second hit was also during the DJ, with a black gal in her 30's. I was standing in the
back corner of the floor, and saw her moving along to a merengue. I asked if she wanted to dance, and she literally
dragged me out to the dance floor. She kept A LOT of eye contact with me, looking at me quite intently. We did two
merengues and a salsa. At the end of the salsa, I was the recipient of a breast-mashing hug (and considering these
were likely DD's, that's saying something!). When the band was playing later, and I asked her to dance a salsa,
after it was done, she put her arm around me and told me her name, and then kissed me on the neck!
The third
hit was the winner of the night. I was sitting on a table-type thing in the back of the floor, listening to the band
jam on and on for their last number. Two gals in their early 20's had been flittering around my area for most of
the evening. I was a little on the tired side, and I was really enjoying the band, so I didn't ask them to dance. I
saw them dancing with each other towards the end of the number, and it seemed the shorter of the two, the one that
had brushed up against me a couple of times, knew what she was doing out there.
Once the band was done, the
DJ came on. The first song was a merengue. I asked her if she wanted to dance, and after a moment's consideration,
she said "Sure." After about thirty seconds of "polite" dancing, she proceeded to plaster herself against me. Even
though the floor was crowded, I managed to see an open spot about fifteen feet away. I led her through some
travelling moves to get over there, where we had a bit more room. As the second merengue came on, she leaned in
close enough I could feel her lips on my ear lobes(breaking eye contact for the first time in five minutes) and said
"I don't know all these twists and turns, but I'm still having fun." As we were dancing, the flirtatiousness of it
kept ratcheting up, from a basic separation to one with two measures of holding hands behind the head followed by
slowly sliding down the body. One time, rather than cupping fingers on a separation, I intertwined mine in hers,
which earned me a really big smile from her. Several times, she kept her left arm UNDER my right one, preventing me
from doing anything but dancing with her against me. After the second song ended, a bachata came on. Bachata is a
REALLY weak dance for me, but she asked if I wanted to dance anyway. Even though we only did the basic step, she
stayed glued to me with eyes locked and a big smile on her face. After that song, she hugged me, said she comes to
this club most Fridays, and then kissed me on the lips. Even though this was my first time there, I think I'll be
making a habit of going, band or not. The class before dancing is sure to always be interesting (I've taken lessone
with the instructor before), and there were LOADS of ladies to dance with.
Guys, I can't say it enough.
Going out dancing is one of THE best ways of meeting ladies.. Around here, there are places with free lessons
thursday through sunday, so you can get started with no cost at all. Once you get the hang of it, nothing can
describe the feeling you get when you can confidently walk in and know you'll be able to impress most of the women
with your dancing. Besides, where else can you go to touch a complete stranger without even having to say a word,
simply extending your hand to her with a twinkle in your eye? Besides that, it's been my experience that ladies
who can move it on the floor are above average at the horizontal mambo also. ;)
morning I'd be going out, and I was laying low, so I put on only two dabs of PPA/m.
While at work, I found
out that there was going to be a salsa concert last night. Some of the name players from several bands were getting
together for a one night "all star band" thing. Needless to say, that was all it took to convince me to go out. I
danced with a dozen or so ladies during the evening, but three of them really stuck out.
Prior to arriving, I
assessed the arsenal I had with me. Chikara and unscented SOE. I applied four inches of SOE to my neck and four
sprays of Chikara--Three to the neck and one to the back of the hands.
From 8-9 there was an intermediate+
lesson. Most of the folks there I'd already met and known for some time, so there was nothing too interesting to
report there.
From 9-11 there was some DJ dancing, which was where things got interesting. The first one that
stuck out was a lady I'd met and danced with once before, in her 40's. We danced a salsa, and then a merengue came
on. She gave me a BIG hug, and went to wander off. I asked if she wanted to merengue also, and she said yes. We
danced two more songs, and at the end, she gave me another big hug. We talked periodically through the evening and
danced another couple of dances, each ended with a hug (something I only saw her do with one other guy, one whom she
knew quite well).
The second hit was also during the DJ, with a black gal in her 30's. I was standing in the
back corner of the floor, and saw her moving along to a merengue. I asked if she wanted to dance, and she literally
dragged me out to the dance floor. She kept A LOT of eye contact with me, looking at me quite intently. We did two
merengues and a salsa. At the end of the salsa, I was the recipient of a breast-mashing hug (and considering these
were likely DD's, that's saying something!). When the band was playing later, and I asked her to dance a salsa,
after it was done, she put her arm around me and told me her name, and then kissed me on the neck!
The third
hit was the winner of the night. I was sitting on a table-type thing in the back of the floor, listening to the band
jam on and on for their last number. Two gals in their early 20's had been flittering around my area for most of
the evening. I was a little on the tired side, and I was really enjoying the band, so I didn't ask them to dance. I
saw them dancing with each other towards the end of the number, and it seemed the shorter of the two, the one that
had brushed up against me a couple of times, knew what she was doing out there.
Once the band was done, the
DJ came on. The first song was a merengue. I asked her if she wanted to dance, and after a moment's consideration,
she said "Sure." After about thirty seconds of "polite" dancing, she proceeded to plaster herself against me. Even
though the floor was crowded, I managed to see an open spot about fifteen feet away. I led her through some
travelling moves to get over there, where we had a bit more room. As the second merengue came on, she leaned in
close enough I could feel her lips on my ear lobes(breaking eye contact for the first time in five minutes) and said
"I don't know all these twists and turns, but I'm still having fun." As we were dancing, the flirtatiousness of it
kept ratcheting up, from a basic separation to one with two measures of holding hands behind the head followed by
slowly sliding down the body. One time, rather than cupping fingers on a separation, I intertwined mine in hers,
which earned me a really big smile from her. Several times, she kept her left arm UNDER my right one, preventing me
from doing anything but dancing with her against me. After the second song ended, a bachata came on. Bachata is a
REALLY weak dance for me, but she asked if I wanted to dance anyway. Even though we only did the basic step, she
stayed glued to me with eyes locked and a big smile on her face. After that song, she hugged me, said she comes to
this club most Fridays, and then kissed me on the lips. Even though this was my first time there, I think I'll be
making a habit of going, band or not. The class before dancing is sure to always be interesting (I've taken lessone
with the instructor before), and there were LOADS of ladies to dance with.
Guys, I can't say it enough.
Going out dancing is one of THE best ways of meeting ladies.. Around here, there are places with free lessons
thursday through sunday, so you can get started with no cost at all. Once you get the hang of it, nothing can
describe the feeling you get when you can confidently walk in and know you'll be able to impress most of the women
with your dancing. Besides, where else can you go to touch a complete stranger without even having to say a word,
simply extending your hand to her with a twinkle in your eye? Besides that, it's been my experience that ladies
who can move it on the floor are above average at the horizontal mambo also. ;)