View Full Version : Petchouli Oil and Mones
koolking1
07-06-2004, 06:05 AM
My girlfriend
Sue has always made her own scent consisting of Petchouli oil and other items. She stopped making it after "Pheros"
was introduced here but that has since run out and she's back to using either "Spark" or her old standby Petchouli
mix. She has been stopped on the street in the past by other women who felt a need to comment on her petchouli
scent, they compliment her, ask her what it is, and are surprised when she tells them she makes it herself and they
often suggest she sell it. We toyed with that idea but found out, as DST and Bruce know, that coming up with the
bottle is a difficult proposition. I had done some internet research and determined that Petchouli is a scent much
loved by many women and a sexual attractant to women. So, why do women wear it and not men? Is it too feminine?
This past long weekend I decided to experiment a bit. We partied pretty hard this weekend with several sexual
partners (5 different women for me in 5 days, we started last Thurs night). I used my now standard mix of equal
parts AE/m and Chikara - mixed well and applied to my whole upper torso (6 sprays Chikara, 6 drops AE/m). I then
layed on top of that, but just on my wrist/lower arm, a good dab of Sue's petchouli mix. I asked each women what
they thought and they all liked it immensley. So, I plan to experiment more with this but am still wondering if it
is "too feminine" for a man to wear. Anybody have any thoughts/ideas? Thanks!
Bruce
07-06-2004, 07:49 AM
I used to wear patchouli a lot in
the 70s. I think when I smell it now, I remember those times, but I always associate it with being a hippie; not
feminie at all, just kind of strong, unwashed, primal mud or something. Maybe I just used too much. We briefly had
a product called (forget the name at the moment) which smelled a lot of patchouli. I liked it, but nobody else
seemed to.
Last point on the topic: I know Doc will disagree with me on this, but the new product Arrouser
smells like patchouli to me somehow even though there is none in the mixture. When customers write in looking for
something that smells like patchouli, I always recommend Arrouser.
Bruce
koolking1
07-06-2004, 09:02 AM
Right, it is the old
"hippie" scent and it does bring back memories, often fond ones, of the "good ole days". I did just get back from
the Vet's, female mid 50s Dr, and she was very nice and wanted to chat with me a bit even though it was busy there
today. I'll keep this up for a while and see what happens.
BassMan
07-06-2004, 10:56 AM
am still
wondering if it is "too feminine" for a man to wear. Anybody have any thoughts/ideas? Thanks!
Sorry, i've
GOT to say the obvious...
five women in five days and you're wondering if it's too feminine for you to wear
:thumbsup:
koolking1
07-06-2004, 10:59 AM
laughing here, point taken.
I guess what I should be saying "is it too feminine for a guy to wear when he's out and about"? We both are beat
today. And, thank God for Viagra.
sikdogg
07-06-2004, 12:22 PM
... We partied
pretty hard this weekend with several sexual partners (5 different women for me in 5 days, we started last Thurs
night). ...
Damn... all you swingers rule!!!
koolking1
07-06-2004, 12:58 PM
not without the right woman
we don't!!!!
DrSmellThis
07-06-2004, 01:01 PM
Patchouli is truly unisex,
equally valuable and effective for men and women. It blends great with pheromones, and is right up there with
sandalwood at the top of the E oils for that. Thee is quite a bit of it in Pheros.
Holmes
07-06-2004, 01:25 PM
Thee is quite a
bit of it in Pheros.
Guildenstern or Rosencrance? :think:
Bruce
07-06-2004, 01:26 PM
not without the
right woman we don't!!!!
Yeah, what does your "gf" think about all this?
B
koolking1
07-06-2004, 02:03 PM
she's pretty much ok with
it, certainly not always though, her being bisexual helps a lot.
burgerama1960
07-06-2004, 04:03 PM
koolking1 is the man! You
must be in really good condition to handle all that playing around. You must let all of us in on your secret to
success.
koolking1
07-06-2004, 04:17 PM
Actually I could be in
better shape. I was walking 5 miles a day but have been lazy the past two weeks (vacation and partying). The
secret to my success is very simple, you just need to have a wife/girlfriend who will swing with you. There's tons
of couples doing this and it can be a lot of fun. However, I would not recommend it for young couples although
there seem to be a lot of them doing it. It requires a certain amount of maturity. I do enjoy using pheromones in
this type of situation and they do work, and well.
Red Stripe
07-06-2004, 06:19 PM
So are you the lure or is your
gf? Or do you go to special places where its already taken for granted that you "swing"? You said you hook up with
couples...does that mean you have sex with both or just trade partners for the night? Also, after using viagra, are
your experiences noticably less pleasurable when you do not use it? Sorry for all the questions...Intrigued and a
bit frightened at the same time.
koolking1
07-06-2004, 06:37 PM
We belong to a pay website
that's dedicated to swingers and meet people there. The fact that my girlfriend is attractive for her age helps
immensley. But, we're both the lure in the final scheme of things. We tend to meet couples that have a bisexual
wife/GF and in our general age bracket (50s). We usually have sex with all 4 people in the bed, the woman usually
spend some time together, the guys rarely even touch (not so many bi-guys and women don't usually like to see that
anyways). I've haven't used Viagra much and still have one dose left from the "ask your Dr about Viagra freebie".
I hear they cost $12 each and are usually not covered by health insurance. The orgasm has varied for me while
using Viagra, from fairly intense to just regular. I don't use it for that reason though. It does let one stay
hard for up to several hours but not if you orgasm. Women sometimes get annoyed with men who use it as it can
become damn near impossible for them to have an orgasm while using it.
koolking1
07-06-2004, 06:51 PM
I didn't mean to end that
just yet: I don't think non-Viagra orgasms are any lesser of an event, they just often come sooner, especially if
the woman is hot to me in some way. You shouldn't feel frightened at all about asking these questions and there is
plenty of info on the web about it. If you want to explore the site we use just PM me and I'll tell you the URL.
Gegogi
07-06-2004, 07:14 PM
Hey, this thread took a left
turn! I remember patchouli oil well. We used it to cover up the smell of pakalolo. Earth daddys used it to cover up
their BO. It almost lasts forever. Someone spilt patchouli on an old leather jacket of mine and it smelled like
patchouli for over 10 years. It's a rare scent in 2004 outside of natural food stores and crystal strokin'
hangouts. It will certainly cover any phero--if you can stand it--even EW.
koolking1
07-06-2004, 07:47 PM
Well, this is Sue, the g/f. I
find patchouli a bit overwhelming, but, guys, women do seem attracted to it, for whatever reason... perhaps the good
old days. I "inherited" many outfits from an old hippie friend of mine, and they still "smell like Celia" to me.
Now mine do, too.
I myself mix patchouli with Chanel #5 and Shalimar and ylang ylang--to sweeten it a bit.
I just mix until it smells right. And, when it smells right, it smells like Nantucket summer by the ocean to me.
My own connotations.
Bill put it on this weekend, as he reports, and I couldn't smell it on him because I'm
so saturated with it myself! (LOL!_) I told him, when I analyzed it intellectually, that he might run the risk of
smelling like a gay actor. What do you all think?
InternationalPlayboy
07-06-2004, 08:14 PM
From Magical
AromatherapyThe Power of Scent, by Scott
Cunningham:
PATCHOULY
(Pogostemom patchouli)
PART USED:dried
leaves, essential oil
PLANET: Saturn
ELEMENT: Earth
MAGICAL INFLUENCES: Sex, Physical energy,
Money
Pity the poor downtrodden patchouly. This aroma took a real dip in popularity after the psychedelic
'60s, when adulterated patchouly was used to mask the odor of marijuana smoke. To this day, many people dislike
patchouly. Genuine patchouly essential oil has a deep, rich scent. It accurately captures the earthy, musky
sweetness of the dried plant.
The scent of patchouly is useful in arousing sexual desire and has been
celebrated as such for well over a century. With proper visualization, it releases anexity regarding sex and
prepares its user for an enjoyable experience.
To get yourself going in the morning, smell patchouly oil for
a few seconds. It quickly starts you up.
I'm probably not the only one who's dug up rich, humus-filled dirt
and noted that its scent often closely resembles patchouly. Due to this curious connection, patchouly is also used
to manifest needed money. Put a few drops of the dark oil onto a cotton ball. Inhale and
visualize.
Well, the description is a little on the mystical side, but still an interesting
description. It was this book that first gave me an interest in playing with aromatherapy. I gave a few recopes out
of it in the perfume thread and often use a patchouli/ginger/cedar/vetivert/jojoba oil mixture on my paper money.
The other notes wear off but it seems the patchouli seems to grow in strength after a few days.
I think
patchouli is a unisex scent, but I do think "hippie" myself if I smell someone wearing too much. I sometimes put a
couple of dabs of the oil I mix on myself though.
Red Stripe
07-06-2004, 10:13 PM
We belong to
a pay website that's dedicated to swingers and meet people there. The fact that my girlfriend is attractive for her
age helps immensley. But, we're both the lure in the final scheme of things. We tend to meet couples that have a
bisexual wife/GF and in our general age bracket (50s). We usually have sex with all 4 people in the bed, the woman
usually spend some time together, the guys rarely even touch (not so many bi-guys and women don't usually like to
see that anyways). I've haven't used Viagra much and still have one dose left from the "ask your Dr about Viagra
freebie". I hear they cost $12 each and are usually not covered by health insurance. The orgasm has varied for me
while using Viagra, from fairly intense to just regular. I don't use it for that reason though. It does let one
stay hard for up to several hours but not if you orgasm. Women sometimes get annoyed with men who use it as it can
become damn near impossible for them to have an orgasm while using it.
Thanks. Satisfied all my
curiosities. Never know if you don't ask, as they say. :)
Sorry for throwing this thread for a loop, its back
on track again though I see. http://66.45.239.227/forum/images/smilies/ls/thumbsup.gif
koolking1
07-07-2004, 05:29 AM
yes, back on track!!! I'm
still looking for it and not finding it but someone published a list of natural oils and a sort of percentage scheme
of what oils are best for attracting other people. I can't remember the exact percentage but Petchouli was, if I
recall correctly, something like "90% strong female attractant". You can buy the stuff wholesale in Indonesia but
Sue finds it at small "hippie" or "new age" stores. I wouldn't know if Bruce has an interest, but it might be
appreciated/profitable if he started stocking and selling some of the more popular essential oils for forum members
(and anyone else for that matter) so they can make their own perfumes with the pheromones and the oils from one
preferred source.
And, thank God for
Viagra.
take Dostinex 30 minutes before taking Viagra/Cialis, and you become Sex God, ROX!!! try it.....
but I prefer Cialis which has longer effect (24 hours) than Viagra (only 5 hours).
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07-09-2004, 06:47 PM
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koolking1
07-09-2004, 06:52 PM
well, at 53 and with mildly
high blood pressure, I think I'll pass.
sikdogg
07-09-2004, 07:32 PM
Here's a place that sells
generic Cabergoline (Dostinex) for much cheaper...
http://www.shoprxonline.com/dostinex/
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