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Hey
everyone,
I haven't posted since I introduced myself the other month, but I have been talking with Tallmacky
about a particular woman I'm attempting to woo.
The girl in question is a personal trainer at the gym I
attend, and I found out she also lives just down the street from me. As far as 'mones go, I generally wear 3-4
drops of AE/m. We've only had a handful of conversations, and only a few minutes at a time at that since she has
clients around the same time I'm scheduled with my personal trainer. She's always been very pleasant and upbeat,
and has initiated some of the conversations. Since I've never been around her without 'mones, I don't know if
her natural disposition has been "enhanced" by them.
She's currently on vacation with her family for the
next few weeks, and would like to use the time to get in as good of shape as I can and figure out how to maneuver
those brief conversations into something more substantive.
One other thing to note is that in our last
conversation, right before she left for her vacation, I mentioned that I hadn't seen her in a few days. She then
scrunched up her face and said "I know", as though she was disappointed about that fact. I'm probably reading to
much into that, but there it is for your perusal nonetheless.
Any thoughts?
I'm going through pretty much the
same routine as you right now with a woman I'm interested in and it's come down to this for me. Women are either
into you or they aren't. If they're into you they'll let you know. Simple as that! They will open up and invite
you in so they can get to know more about you. The women I'm interested in shows every sign of NOT being into me. I
can sit back and read a bunch of stuff into something she said or did and think to myself that maybe this means this
and that means that but the bottom line is it would be in my face if she was really interested.
Like you, I
see this woman almost daily and that won't change any time soon. That's a good position to be in cuz just because
she isn't into me right now doesn't mean she won't be sometime down the road. It could happen. It's unlikely,
but it could so I'm just cruising. Every time I see her things are a little better convo wise and we're getting to
know each other more and more. This is good no matter what happens long term and it's also a great opportunity to
test my mones out. Some mones I use seem to open her up to convo more than others so I'm keying in on those mones
to help me out. I have no expectations or fanaticizes and that's good. I'm relaxed and comfortable now whenever I
see her and that's good to. I have no idea what's going to happen next with us but as long as I stay cool she'll
get to know who I am as a person and she'll either like it or she won't. If she starts to like it she's going to
let me know and then I can start making some serious moves on her. Having no expectations puts you in a comfort zone
that women will pick up on. I like that about no expectations.
tallmacky
06-11-2004, 09:26 AM
Having no
expectations puts you in a comfort zone that women will pick up on. I like that about no
expectations.
Great post, Ash! :cool:
Thanks Tall One! I worked on it for
hours last night. Lots of re-writes and extra research to make sure I got my facts straight. Then I sent it off to
press and went to bed hoping for the best but not having any expectations about it. I'm pleased with the Threads
overall 5 Star rating. So far, so good!
Thank you very much for your reply,
Ash. I agree about not having expectations.
I think my situation differs some from yours, though, since I
see her, at most, three times a week for only a few minutes at a time. That's really not enough to get to know
someone all that expediciously, I think. I've never seen her be any less than bubbly and welcoming of the
conversations.
That's really all the time I see and
talk to my T. She's a checker at the market which is busy all the time so our convos's are short and sweet but
you'd be amazed at how far you can get. I have a close friend that is so at ease with women it hurts whenever I'm
with him and he starts chatting up some young thing. He was raised in a house full of women. 8 sisters, so he just
knows how to talk to girls. I was flying with him out on some fishing thing years ago in Alaska. We're at the
ticket counter with a huge line behind us and he's chatting up the ticket sales women. He damn near had her panties
off by the time she was done selling us round trips to Bristol Bay. He just kept asking her questions ABOUT HER.
"Where you from?", "Oh, I've been there, nice place. Do you know so and so". etc. Just easy simple Q's. She just
kept opening up more and more to him. He made her feel like a real person that he was interested in getting to know
better. She loved it. That's all it takes really. Little by little the door opens up.
I see what you mean. I'm not big
on talking about myself, so asking about her life and keeping the conversation in that direction should come pretty
naturally.
Any suggestions on what pheramones to use?
That seems to be the magic question
and there are others here much more qualified than me to answer it but here's the way I would start. Figure out
which direction your natural signature leans. Do an assessment of how people, men and women, respond to you
normally. In your daily walk through your world do people like you? Are they comfortable being around you? Not your
friends and family but strangers. Do you most always get a smile from people you come in contact with during the day
or do they treat you like S. If you get lots of good will and no ass your signature might be on the Beta side so
you would go for an NPA/PI type product. If people tend to get in your face and treat you like S all the time you
might be like me and be putting out an Alpha signature that's wayyy tooo much to deal with for the men and only
attracts women with the most aggressive genital piercings imaginable. In which case you want to dial your natural
back a bit with some WAGG, etc.
Hope that helps.
In your daily walk
through your world do people like you? Are they comfortable being around you? Not your friends and family but
strangers.
That kind of thing is hard for me to assess. I'm pretty reclusive, so don't really
interact with a whole lot of people. When I am out, people don't normally approach me, but they don't turn into
insta-jerks if I open my mouth, either.
I've been thinking of going with a pack of SOE/m gel for a first
date, and then follow it up with TE/m gel on the second to try and prevent her from shuffling me off to the "friend
zone". I'm still VERY much a neophite at this, so any criticizm is welcome.
Sexyredhead
06-12-2004, 11:27 AM
How 'bout using half or even
a third of a SOE gelpack for the first date, and then sticking with that amount for the second date if she reacts
well to it? I would start small, and work up. And a whole gelpack of TE on the second date may have you coming off
as a royal jerk.
Besides, the scent of SOE is pretty strong, at least IMO, and a whole pack would make me
pass out from the fumes unless I was in a club or something.
Great to know, Sexyreadhead, thanks.
So you don't think there's a concern that using SOE alone twice in this situation would lead her to think of me
as a friend instead of at least potential boyfriend?
Sexyredhead
06-13-2004, 05:15 AM
I think you confuse people if
you change your mix up too often. But really, IMO -mones don't have so much of an effect that they change whether a
girl that really likes you would put you in LJBF mode that quickly unless you have a massive -none OD and stink or
freak her out.
Try experimenting with the other people around you to find a good mix between now and your
date. That would be better than just waiting until the time you really want to use it to see if something actually
works, don't you think?
EXIT63
06-13-2004, 05:26 AM
I haven't posted since I
introduced myself the other month, but I have been talking with Tallmacky about a particular woman I'm attempting
to woo.
Well...There's your first mistake. Tallmacky hasn't gotten laid
since that truckload of sheep broke down in front of his house!:eek:
Elana
06-13-2004, 05:27 AM
:D :D :D :D :D :D
Best
advice.....whatever Tallmacky tells you to do.....do the opposite :D
ToBeOrNotToBe
06-13-2004, 06:01 AM
:D :D :D :D :D
:D
Best advice.....whatever Tallmacky tells you to do.....do the opposite :D
:D :rolleyes:
DZorro
06-13-2004, 06:07 AM
:D :D :D :D :D
:D
Best advice.....whatever Tallmacky tells you to do.....do the opposite :D
:D :D
DZorro,
Well...There's your first mistake. Tallmacky hasn't gotten laid since that truckload of sheep broke
down in front of his house!:eek:
Not that the Tall One needs defending but that was
one very happy group of sheep after Macky had his way with them.
Try experimenting
with the other people around you to find a good mix between now and your date. That would be better than just
waiting until the time you really want to use it to see if something actually works, don't you think?
Yeah, that makes sense. I've still got a couple weeks before she returns, which is both a blessing and a curse. I
have all that time to test the dossage, BUT I have all that time to contemplate the "what-ifs".
Well...There's your first mistake. Tallmacky hasn't gotten laid since
that truckload of sheep broke down in front of his house!:eek:
Just... ewe :p
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