View Full Version : I have returned!! with a troubling question though
manchorito
04-25-2004, 10:52 AM
ALLLright...I have returned to the Phero Forums. The reason I left was the pheros didn\'t
really work that much for me, but now I realize these forums are good for all other aspects of life.
My family
got this family shrink, and we got all our problems fixed out, but I stayed with him bymyself once a week to help
out with mine. I\'m not crazy or anything, it\'s just good to have someone straighten things out.
But I have
a problem with my friends. Again... There are two of them right now that I guess I concider my best friends. They
call me and always wana hang out, but they still treat me like [censored]. We all get drunk and its fun, But when
I\'m with them I get girls like crazy. But in the end, I don\'t get a relationship with a girl, and I\'m these
guys bitch.
But I haven\'t been being honest with my shrink, cuz I am kind of ashamed because of the alcohol.
Do you think that would help being honest. What do you think I should do if you were me, stop being with these
friends or what?
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What do you think I should do if you
were me, stop being with these friends or what?
<hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\"> yes or get them to
treat you better (mones might help)but if that donĀ“t work distance yourself from them.
CJ
Elana
04-25-2004, 11:10 AM
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But I haven\'t been being honest
with my shrink, cuz I am kind of ashamed because of the alcohol. Do you think that would help being honest.
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Ummmmm...........................YES!!!!
CptKipling
04-25-2004, 11:11 AM
I would get my priorities straight.
If I had some friends who started treating me badly,
I\'d call them on it and tell them they are being wankers.
Do you really need a shrink to tell you that? Take
some responsibility for your life.
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tallmacky
04-25-2004, 11:18 AM
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, but I stayed with him
bymyself once a week to help out with mine. I\'m not crazy or anything, it\'s just good to have someone
straighten things out.
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Did this shrink-man touch in you
funny places like your plato string, and your nutty nuts, did he play Napoleon \"The Conquerer\" all over your
body? \"I shall take over your ass! I shall seize your grand teenage boy ass!\".
I say that becuase if he
did then you would be lucky enough to have something to actually be worried about and complain. How are you going to
deal with real life, you know when people kno you die, you go bald, you break up with a girl/wife, maybe you go
broke who knows. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif
....and now you are getting to hook up with
girls like crazy but now you are sad that there isn\'t a beautiful relationship which is long lasting. Do you even
want a relationship if so then stop kissing stupid drunk teenage girls at some \"cool\" kids party, and go get a
women with a bit more years on her, instead of playing \"Did you watch the OC last night?\" With dummies. You
wonder why those two guys treat you like [censored], probably because you come off acting like a weak overly
conerned bitch that will listen to what anyone says.
So if they say he Manchorito how about you buy us a
pizza \'cause you have money and junk, what do you do? I bet you run in the kitchen and dial up with your debit
card and order a fvcking pizza for them....there you go that\'s why they treat you like a ass diving bitch.
/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif Why complain though you are using them to get with girls, I would
say just like months ago you keep on repeating the same [censored] and telling us, I doubt you really want to change
but you like making confessions?
.......and discuss all of this with your shrink, not sure why a 17
year old needs a shrink, no abuse, no touching games, no major problems? Tell your shrink everything, but if he
could not help you, this board can\'t, no one can. You are hopeless, becuase your problems are the easiest ones to
have in life all you have to do is just [censored] do it, simply just do it, its like writing your name on a piece
of paper, just [censored] write your name.........bitch. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif
PS.
I doubt your shrink will care about your alcohol stuff, they hear much worse things, much worse, with people with
much worse problems. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif
Elana
04-25-2004, 11:19 AM
And all of that was for free! You don\'t need to see your shrink anymore. Just talk with Dr.
Tallmacky. You can\'t get advice any better than his.
DrSmellThis
04-25-2004, 11:33 AM
Don\'t be a bitch.
Elana
04-25-2004, 11:40 AM
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Don\'t be a bitch.
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Yeah! There is not enough room for two of them on this forum. I was here
first.
Icarus
04-25-2004, 12:01 PM
Kvak
Sexyredhead
04-25-2004, 12:25 PM
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Kvak
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My thoughts exactly.
tallmacky
04-25-2004, 02:55 PM
Manchorito, maybe its girls that are the problem, do you like boys, more than friends? Its no
big deal anyhow.
Elana
04-25-2004, 03:11 PM
Different strokes for different folks. That\'s what I always say. That will be $350.00
manchorito
04-25-2004, 04:56 PM
WHOA WHOA, no. I mean that\'s okay for others, but I\'m straight, I just have trouble with
friends. There is nothing I love more than a Woman\'s flawless figure.
tallmacky
04-25-2004, 06:15 PM
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WHOA WHOA, no. I mean
that\'s okay for others, but I\'m straight, I just have trouble with friends. There is nothing I love more than
a Woman\'s flawless figure.
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Flawless figure, maybe its that how
hard are you shooting for the perfect girl? Is it really the girls who aren\'t working or you? If these girls
offered you a long term relationship would you take it?
Do you sometimes check out your frends that happen to be
boys flawless figures, ever watch them squeeze their tight glutes, and think about slipping them a digit....or two?
Or for fun do you guys go over to eachother\'s houses and play wrestling. Take off the shirts and whip out the
baby oil for Roman wrestling? Ever feel the need to dominate fully in one of your sadistic orgy like wrestling
matches? Manch its ok this is a pheromone forum, you can tell us. If I am off base I am sorry! I have been wearing
TE/M HEAT all day and it has turned me into an animal!
tallmacky
04-25-2004, 06:21 PM
Just one other question, seriously. You ever have a sleep over at another friend\'s house,
and he doesn\'t have another bed, so you just sleep in the same bed at \"opposite ends\", but when you wake up
and you can barely open your mouth, and then realize it has been stuck shut by sticky man juice?
I have to
say that is weird but it seems to happen a lot.....some friends can act really weird, when you are not \"awake\"!
Ever happen Manch? /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif
Gossamer_2701
04-26-2004, 04:34 AM
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Elana
04-26-2004, 04:38 AM
What is funny about homosexuality? There is nothing wrong with the fact that he very well may be gay.
Pancho1188
04-26-2004, 04:50 AM
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What is funny about
homosexuality? There is nothing wrong with the fact that he very well may be gay.
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And that\'s really none of our business, is it?
Elana
04-26-2004, 04:53 AM
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What is funny about homosexuality? There is nothing wrong with the fact that
he very well may be gay.
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And that\'s really none of our
business, is it?
<hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">No it is not Pancho, as we love you just the same
as before your thing with BB.
Pancho1188
04-26-2004, 04:56 AM
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What is funny
about homosexuality? There is nothing wrong with the fact that he very well may be gay.
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And that\'s really none of our business, is it?
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BB.
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I was thinking about you the whole time, Elana...
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Icarus
04-26-2004, 07:20 AM
Dude.
I had a friend just like you in Highschool... same problems, sam reactions, etc (not
identical, you understand, but it all seems to be leading the same way)
He\'s finally come to terms with
himself and is a happy bi-sexual male now. He\'s seemingly having a blast.
Don\'t worry too much about it
all.
Bottle
04-26-2004, 10:48 AM
It starts of with that mutual respect thing...Admiring your friends is a good quality I feel...worthy
of an upstanding gentleman...nothing to be ashamed of IMHO
Elana
04-26-2004, 11:57 AM
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nothing to be ashamed of IMHO
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Nothing at all. Just look in the mirror and say to yourself \"I
am here, I am queer, get used to it\".
DrSmellThis
04-26-2004, 12:35 PM
We\'re all God\'s creatures. Loving more genders than most must be pleasing to Cupid.
Pancho1188
04-26-2004, 12:48 PM
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nothing to be ashamed of IMHO
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Nothing at all. Just look in the mirror and say to yourself \"I am here, I am queer, get used
to it\".
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The last person on earth who needs to be teased and
made fun of is the teenager who is confused about his social identity...
Seriously...
Elana
04-26-2004, 12:50 PM
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nothing to
be ashamed of IMHO
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Nothing at all. Just look in the mirror and
say to yourself \"I am here, I am queer, get used to it\".
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The last person on earth who needs to be teased and made fun of is the teenager who is confused
about his social identity...
Seriously...
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Manchorito
posts questions all of the time and NOT ONCE has he listened to a thing any of us said. It doesn\'t matter what
anyone says. He will keep acting like the shallow, spoiled brat that he is.
DrSmellThis
04-26-2004, 01:07 PM
I think everyone is totally kidding, and that it is pretty obvious, but I could be wrong. I think
people are just having fun, and that it has nothing to do with Manchorito personally. Tallmacky\'s posts are
absurd, as usual, though they contained a grain of sincere advice!
So Manch, I sincerely apologize if I
offended you. Welcome back. Keep working honestly with the counselor, stand up for yourself always, and don\'t try
to drink so much. Listen to your body. Tell and show your friends you\'re not going to be anybody\'s bitch. If
they stop calling after that, [censored] \'em. But I think most of this advice was implicit in others\'
\"tongue in cheek\" (pun intended) comments.
Elana
04-26-2004, 01:10 PM
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Tallmacky\'s posts are absurd,
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How dare you!! You feel competition because he is stinkier
and gives much better advice than you! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif
insult the great
TM...hmfffffff /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif
Pancho1188
04-26-2004, 01:19 PM
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nothing to be ashamed of IMHO
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Nothing at all. Just look in the mirror and say to yourself \"I am here,
I am queer, get used to it\".
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The last person on earth who
needs to be teased and made fun of is the teenager who is confused about his social
identity...
Seriously...
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Manchorito posts questions all of
the time and NOT ONCE has he listened to a thing any of us said. It doesn\'t matter what anyone says. He will keep
acting like the shallow, spoiled brat that he is.
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That may very
well be the truest thing ever spoken...but when is the last time anyone has taken someone else\'s advice on such
matters as relationships and social interactions? /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif
Hell, when
has a teenager ever listened to anything an adult has ever said?
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I\'ve given up asking for advice a long time ago because I
know what the answer is and I know I can\'t do it. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif
I\'ve
given up giving advice a long time ago because I know what the answer is and I know that they won\'t do it.
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Elana
04-26-2004, 01:24 PM
So then what are so you concerned about, Pancho?
You said it yourself...he isn\'t listening to a
damn thing we say. Why not have some fun? /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif
DrSmellThis
04-26-2004, 01:24 PM
Well, OK, Elana, you called me on it. But I\'m tired of everyone worshipping tallmacky. It\'s
not fair! I mean, how much talent does it take to stop wiping for three months? I could have done that too, if I
wanted to. OK, I admit it. I was just afraid. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif Damn you man of
courage!
Bottle
04-26-2004, 01:27 PM
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nothing to be ashamed of IMHO
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Nothing at all. Just look in the mirror and say to yourself \"I am here, I am queer, get used
to it\".
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The last person on earth who needs to be teased and
made fun of is the teenager who is confused about his social identity...
Seriously...
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Manchorito posts questions all of the time and NOT ONCE has he listened to
a thing any of us said. It doesn\'t matter what anyone says. He will keep acting like the shallow, spoiled brat
that he is.
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That may very well be the truest thing ever
spoken...but when is the last time anyone has taken someone else\'s advice on such matters as relationships and
social interactions? /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif
Hell, when has a teenager ever listened to
anything an adult has ever said? /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif
I\'ve given up asking for
advice a long time ago because I know what the answer is and I know I can\'t do it.
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I\'ve given up giving advice a long time ago because I know
what the answer is and I know that they won\'t do it. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif
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I took some advice...I now have a friend
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Pancho1188
04-26-2004, 01:37 PM
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So then what are so you concerned
about, Pancho?
You said it yourself...he isn\'t listening to a damn thing we say. Why not have some fun?
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I get that
it\'s all in jest, but joking about a confused teenager\'s sexuality isn\'t the way to go...
...and nobody
listens to advice, but everybody listens to insults...
...wait a second...
...if you really want to get
someone to take your advice, insult them...hmmm...
*Begin Dream Sequence*
\"Pancho, you big p*ssy!!! Quit
being a little b*tch, grow some f*cking balls, and ask that motherf*cker out!!!\"
(Cut to Pancho on the floor
crying his eyes out in the fetal position)
*End Dream Sequence*
Ummm...maybe not...
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Elana
04-26-2004, 02:08 PM
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So then what are so you concerned about, Pancho?
You said it yourself...he
isn\'t listening to a damn thing we say. Why not have some fun? /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif
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I get that it\'s all in jest, but joking about a confused
teenager\'s sexuality isn\'t the way to go...
...and nobody listens to advice, but everybody listens to
insults...
...wait a second...
...if you really want to get someone to take your advice, insult
them...hmmm...
*Begin Dream Sequence*
\"Pancho, you big p*ssy!!! Quit being a little b*tch, grow some
f*cking balls, and ask that motherf*cker out!!!\"
(Cut to Pancho on the floor crying his eyes out in the fetal
position)
*End Dream Sequence*
Ummm...maybe not... /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif
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Pancho...it really doesn\'t matter that you are gay. We
seriously don\'t care. Stop stressing about it. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif
Elana
04-26-2004, 02:15 PM
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...and nobody listens to advice, but
everybody listens to insults...
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Telling someone that it is OK to
come out of the closet is an insult? /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif
We were very supportive
of you when you took that step.
tallmacky
04-26-2004, 03:36 PM
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Hell, when has a teenager ever
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Well he is seeing an adult to talk to, a Proctologist or is that
Psychiatrist.
If Manch liked boys then he could easily get some ass, much easier then dealing with girls, I was
just asking him, and I was concerned about manch because I love him so much, he is such a sweet boy....with a sweet
ass, you shake it, givin\' me twinky fever!
Pancho I think a shrink would say you are using the defensive
mechanism of \"vicariousity\". Some of my words may have been able to make you think you were gay but they may not
have that effect on manchorito, besides the small head always beats the big head, so no matter what I say he will
still like what he is programmed to like. How many times have we had to slap disgusting child \"touchers\" on the
hand and tell them that was wrong, do they listen? Noooooooooo. Then I gots to get Tyrone the crackhead on the case!
tallmacky
04-26-2004, 03:38 PM
....AND PANCHO! What are you doing talking on other threads, get back to the memoirs, I have actually
been reading them for awhile and I expect an update soon! So does half the forum....Are you going to ask out this
girl? What decision are you going to choose? Come on, I am tired of waiting for the answer! This is worse than Ross
and Rachel. Like totallly ohhh my gawd!!!!
seriously, I love your memoir\'s, get to writing!
Elana
04-26-2004, 03:39 PM
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Hell, when has a teenager ever listened to anything an adult has ever said?
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Well he is
seeing an adult to talk to, a Proctologist or is that Psychiatrist.
If Manch liked boys then he could easily get
some ass, much easier then dealing with girls, I was just asking him, and I was concerned about manch because I love
him so much, he is such a sweet boy....with a sweet ass, you shake it, givin\' me twinky fever!
Pancho I
think a shrink would say you are using the defensive mechanism of \"vicariousity\". Some of my words may have been
able to make you think you were gay but they may not have that effect on manchorito, besides the small head always
beats the big head, so no matter what I say he will still like what he is programmed to like. How many times have we
had to slap disgusting child \"touchers\" on the hand and tell them that was wrong, do they listen? Noooooooooo.
Then I gots to get Tyrone the crackhead on the case!
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and DST
calls himself a doctor. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif Gimme a break.
Fabulous Dr. Tallmacky!
Brilliant as always.
DrSmellThis
04-26-2004, 09:02 PM
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Elana
04-27-2004, 03:57 AM
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Did you know
about the defensive mechanism of \"vicariousity\"? I think not.
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04-27-2004, 04:43 AM
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Did you know about the defensive mechanism of \"vicariousity\"? I think
not.
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I suffer from a major case of vicariousity (although
it\'d be vicariosity if it existed, I think)...yes, the guy who writes about his own stupidity day in and day out
needs to live through other people...
\"Sell crazy somewhere else...we\'re all stocked up here.\"
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As for the rest of the conversation, it made me think of a good
quote:
Greg: Hey, hey if you\'d take a second and take those little sticks out of your head, clean your out
your ears, you would see I\'m just a person who has feelings and all I have to do is do what I want to do, and all
I want to do is hold onto my bag and not listen to you!
And the only way that I would ever let go of my bag would
be if you came over here right now and tried to pry it from my dead, lifeless fingers, okay? If you can get it from
my kung-fu grip, then you can come and have it, okay? Otherwise, step off, b*tch.
I have no problem with you
telling someone that it\'s okay to feel one way or another...I just don\'t think that you should be calling
someone gay when they clearly state that they are not gay and are going through the rough teenage years...it\'s
equivalent to calling a girl that age fat, ugly, and unpopular. I mean seriously, I think we\'re setting back the
civilized world like 10 years when if someone did something stupid you called them a
\"fag\"...seriously...\"joking\" doesn\'t make it okay...and being \"a teenager who asks the same questions
over and over again without listening to anything anyone says\" still doesn\'t deserve such an attack.
Yeah, I
can take a joke now...I slept with BBB and rode off on his motorcycle into the night or whatever...nice...but maybe
I would have been a hell of a lot more offended 7 years ago when I wasn\'t so secure and confident in myself as a
man, a human being, a straight male, etc...
But, as I said in my previous posts, no one ever listens to anything
anyone says, so I\'m just wasting my breath.
*sigh*
Elana
04-27-2004, 05:14 AM
Pancho........zip it!
Stop lecturing us. We are goofing around. It is very annoying.
Pancho1188
04-27-2004, 06:02 AM
Whatever.
Icarus
04-27-2004, 06:14 AM
Kids can be cruel.
When I was at school, there was a kid called Rae.
There was a song:
\"Raeness is Gayness, and Gayness is Raeness and Raeness shows his Gayness by parading his Anus\"
I was,
unfortunately, not guilt-free in this debacle. I used to find it funny.
God only knows where Rae is now: and if
he truly was Gayness personified. To this day, I don\'t ever recall him parading his Anus.
We send them out
like arrows, somewhere, somehow, becoming rain.
Steve
Elana
04-27-2004, 06:37 AM
We had something like that happen in my school to a girl named Kate.
Kate is straight, she is
always late but she is straight
Poor Kate /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif
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